T3Amo:
btw why are you pretending to be a Nigerian. Its clearly obvious that you are not by your comments and your username is a dead giveaway.. Mandu94/Mandela 94.

?, I am 150% Nigerian, who am I pretending to?

mikron:
tell that woman who sees nothing good in us. how can she generalize all naija people as bad?

This is to everyone. LOVE NOT HATE. Work together not fight.

mikron:
see what i mean? u keep generalizing, why would u keep saying all naija men are bad? beats me. there are more nigerian medical Doctors and other professionals in South Africa than any African country i can remember, are u telling me all these men are bad? professionals? cos u paint a poor and pathetic picture of some few bad Nigerians selling drugs and doing some sundry jobs in ur country refusing or deliberately or should i say ignorantly looking at the larger picture. u should stop this hateful talks, and for ur information my country is not poor. so stop saying things like the bolded in ur comment

This is stupid now. Why do black people fight each other. Africa is one.

all4naija:
Me too!I laugh at your silliness, girl!

Whilst deep down knowing you hate yourself. lol

all4naija:
I was embarrassed when I read the first part of the post and most embarrassed when I saw where he mentioned Ghanaians. Jeez! Those dirty charcoal Charlies!

You see, you hate your colour (black is socio-political not a shade). I advise you to read comprehensively regarding the roots of your racial inferiority complex.

all4naija:

Zulu, Please, don't you quote me again if you don't want to respect my gender as I do to you! Township xenophobe and bucket poo system user!

Do not compare him to a pregnant woman, woman, man, human or monkey.
Allnaja, you are so deluded, you call people 'primitive'. You are so lame and backwards. You have a colonial mindset from centuries ago. You are greatly suffering from feelings of inadequacy, so you come on Nairaland too seem somewhat superior. Get a life mate!

Allnaja, are you okay. How is life. Are u suicidal?

LOOOOL, Im a young female.

I laugh at you.

haul:
don't hate the phrase,accept such phrase are true

Lol is that an argument. You have no comeback. No valid reasoning.

ezemoses:


nigga between you and her, you are the filthy idiot. She has every right to think you are female because you don't behave like a man, a civilized one for that matter. Mr primitive

Don't associate HIM with any gender, I will be ashamed if he was a female.

khiaa:


She is a biracial female, a product of a green card marriage and hates her Nigerian side because her Nigerian father dumped her and her big fat grossed out white mother after receiving his green card. I can say that I can't blame him considering this little monster he created. Nigerian men let this be a lesson to you to always be aware of what happens to the green card babies you leave behind.

Im confused..

all4naija:
Oh!!! You hate to hear the truth. There's nothing that made sense in what she wrote. You primitive person!

lol, ofcourse

codeafrica:
nigerians are human dinosaurs.an uncivilized lot of backward-thinking humans. i laugh when i see statements such as "our level of civilization is beyond the african continent" because it is only nigerians who do everything within their power to run away from their "civilized" country to live in other countries all over the world.
where in africa do people still believe that taking a human head to a smelly witch doctor in the forest will make you rich?
and u still think ur way ahead in terms of civilization?juju and voodoo practice is your idea of "civilization"?

No one is above another. WHY DO BLACKS HATE AND ENVY ANOTHER. DOES IT HAVE TO DO WITH INFERIORITY COMPLEX.

This thread is ridiculous. You are perpetuating your inferiority complex.

codeafrica:
are nigerians really this stup!d or is it just a fallacy paraded around by people?your "rich" country is hell on earth the reason why getting visa to another country is a "testimony" in nigerian churches.

Never generalise, it is the individual.

lefulefu:

E tire me oooo
So south african women for nairaland dey complain say nigerian men dey disturb dem so how dat one wan take affect the elections? .

what do you mean

CRAZE

LMFAO

all4naija:
Seriously, you didn't make any sense with that statement?!

Because I know how you feel. You are pretending.

all4naija:

You failed completely to make sense in this post and I know you can never make sense again till the end of the world - by consciously holding on to your primitive life down under the continent.

I still remember very well where I say you can not use what I say here to judge me outside of the forum. That is very correct. This is a forum for goodness sake. There are different sections meant for trivialities like the comedy section, romance,etc and the views presented there cannot be used to define people's life. What is so difficult in that for you to understand? I am not going to spend my precious time replying your senseless posts. Not until you can stop exposing your peanuts and bosoms in the public all in the name of culture I am not going to take you serious as the South African you are. Please... As the Brits would say - burger off! I still prefer the American way of saying it - f**K off, you f**king f**K! Ha!!!

Gina, please don't reply. And its not burger off. its BUGGER off, Mr wannabe!

Deep down, I know you are touched in some way. I just hope one day you love yourself.

all4naija:
Can I remind you of something, my petty lady(did you say ordinary 20 years? - that is old lady's age to me )? You are no longer making any headway by resorting to shameful or cheap talks is very revealing in this very post. Bwahaha... I am not laughing with you but laughing at you. I hope you still have little grey matter to distinguish between the nuances of that statement.

Keep talking about your age here as if that matters to me and tone down on proving you wrong. That seems to be a heavy punishment for you, PETTY LADY! Hahaha...


You've really made a fool of you in this argument.Take heart - it gonna be Okay!

Are you a Primitive Paedophile? Am I too old for your taste. Is your friend Jimmy Savile?

all4naija:
Can I remind you of something, my petty lady(did you say ordinary 20 years? - that is old lady's age to me )? You are no longer making any headway by resorting to shameful or cheap talks is very revealing in this very post. Bwahaha... I am not laughing with you but laughing at you. I hope you still have little grey matter to distinguish between the nuances of that statement.

Keep talking about your age here as if that matters to me and tone down on proving you wrong. That seems to be a heavy punishment for you, PETTY LADY! Hahaha...


You've really made a fool of you in this argument.Take heart - it gonna be Okay!

Epic fail. You are clearly hurt.

all4naija:

I haven't seen that yet. Not until you can prove it you remain incapable to exhibit intelligence. Hahaha...

I have always loved myself more than anything. That jab(line)is meant for lads, I call them rats(like GinaKing,etc), not me!

Haha. Im going good luck, you wasted my time. Because you are ignorant and have too much ego. Just understand everyone, look at the previous posts. Im just an ordinary 20 yr old girl, and this is a 23/4 year old guy who hates that he is African. And MOST of all he thinks he is BETTER than others, loool. Live in your deluded bubble. FOOLS no one. Especially not me.

Chow

chibic:
married men shoud write their letter to alll these gigolos used as toy-boys who sleep with their wives when they are away on a business trip...

I remember listening to chaz B(RIP) on a programm about people who sleeps with married men/women and some of these toy-boys where texting saying " we are just helping oga do his job when he's not around"..looool

READ MY LAST POST

all4naija:

For a preamble, bwahaha...., you are my junior by three to four years and I want to see you more reasonable as such - not by showing how primitive you are in your posts. Hahaha...

Thank you for making mockery of yourself by clapping in earnest to your failure. It is very refreshing to see how you gradually dwindle in your unintelligent nature regarding the nitty-gritty of this discussion, which is centered around African primitiveness which most of them are unwilling to leave.

Why do I need to ask for you views when you are very forward to take side with those who stand for backward life in Africa in this thread. I am smart enough to see where you are headed in this whole argument. Nevertheless, culture evolves and I don't know why you refuse to accept that. Jeez! What is the matter? Religion and traditional ideologies, as you mentioned, are byproducts of culture and when they aren't changed for the contemporary that is when they become problems. That is what the case is for Africans including you. I am not going to let this continue in my father's country when I know the people can be useful to the world in moving humanity forward. The issues need to be addressed from a civilized perspective which you disagree with me in absolute opposite view. Funnily enough, you keep intentionally referring to my personality in the way you deem best and trivialaize the whole discussion with it. Please, learn to be smart by embracing civilized culture and that is the only way you can help Africa.

I repeat, I am older than you and using age to drive your points is not going to help you here. You have failed woefully to exhibit intelligence as a civilized human being. I think I am enjoying this. Hahaha...

We all know that you sadly lost the debate. You talk Gibberish in English. Nice skill.

I wish you the very best in loving yourself.

bukatyne:
Funny thread.

A woman cheats and the man faces the culprit; his wife

A man cheats and the woman blames everything and anything apart from the culprit; her husband.

When will the married men write their own letter?

So that it will be balanced and We have all the views?

Not in my life, I will chuck the man in the bin. Some African women deal with the crap some men do, for Economic and traditional/ cultural reasons. EMPOWERMENT TO ALL WOMEN

all4naija:

This is not about my personality it is about moving forward. This is one of the reason Africans aren't seen as smart. You keep going about irrelevant thing in this discussion rather than to address what have been tabled before us as the problems. In this case, the primitiveness that is hindering Africans from progressing, their attitude toward culture and what it entails in the real sense of it.

To be passionate about change wouldn't mean anything until you are able to turn it(passion) into something meaningful as I am trying to make you see so that the change can come. The problem is that your primitive nature is talking hold of your ability to do that and be useful to humanity which is now a problem from the way you want as to have it accepted here. If you want to do something for Nigeria in particular and save Africa in general you would have to admit there are problems which need to be addresses - not from a barbaric standpoint as you are trying to do in your posts. I don't know why you are refusing to accept that is the right way to go. It is not a good thing in a civilized society to shun important change. I am dumbstruck you like in UK(a civilized society) with such brutish mentality.

If you are going to make a change(not just by building schools where savagery is taught) but practically involving the people to get organized and live a civilized life. Over 60% of Nigerians are literate but their cultural beliefs are driving most of their reasoning. Can you imagine a situation where the white man is still seen as the enemy who holds the nation from progressing by most of them? You still haven't come to term with what I am trying to let you see about what makes the West to progress and advance while contributing much to the development of humanity. It's has to do with getting organized and living a civilized life. The few are really involve with inventions, innovations and creativity that run the modern world but the former recipes I mentioned earlier is what helped to carry others along. It is like a four wheeler shuttling a cracked road(society is not always perfect). That you will have to address first before doing anything else. African culture is too archaic for my liking and must be left to where it belong in the museum or cultural festivals!

If you must know, I love myself more than anything else. You don't have to use my other posts to judge my views on this matter. It is very unintelligent of you to do that!

Thank you.

Can I clap, finally. If you were as intelligent as you believe you are. Why didn't you ask for my view. You instinctively assumed my opinion. I agree with many of the things you say.
Religion, culture, traditional ideologies are hard things to change as they have been indoctrinated into society for centuries. However the way you go about it will deter many from even listen to you. Funnily myself I am not even religious. But I know that when you want change you cannot just change it overnight, you have to go about it in a way, familiar to that of the culture. With which then, we can build on. (I am 20 btw, and the way I used to think (about 17 yrs old), was like you).

Thankyou

all4naija:

Mind you, the pretentious part doesn't hold water why I let you see the reason the word psychology systematically has to do with study of minds and their functions. I am really interested in the term to be defined and explained in your prior post- what you mean by REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY in a nutshell, which, you never did before for clarity sake. Now that you have done that I would completely make you see why you look very uncivilized and uncompromisingly deter to face modernity by your biased view to my previous post. Indeed, it exposes the very nature you use to describe my post. That doesn't augur well for what you want the forum users to see. However, there is nothing wrong in advocating for progress as did only primitive human beings would see it as challenge to their backward life they live and that I am not going to be a part of. This exposes you to the reason why you need to make the change I have argued for in the light of the truth of this debate. My stand is clear and it is to make sure Africans are seen equally on the same civilized foot as the West to contribute to moving humanity forward. I don't see what is so difficult to understand in that. I don't know why you see it as a big challenge to the painful savagery Africans are known for. The refusal is the worst and that is what you hold on to in this very discussion.

You don't pretend to be civilized as you presumptuously want me to believe. A civilized human being shuns all forms of barbarism like I am doing here. It is very revealing I am way too civilized to come down to your primitive level that is not helping the dark continent to progress. You really hate to hear the truth. That is your problem not mine. I would do my best to let you see that in my subsequent posts.

On the final note, culture evolves and you don't have to use it as an excuse to embrace barbarism all in the name of having an identity. That is the most silly way to view culture and it is very shameful of you though.

If you have seen my previous posts you will be more self aware of what you choose to delve on. You dismiss the integral parts of my argument, and choose to emphasise on trivial matters. The fact remains, I am not Primitive, which seems to be your favourite word.
In fact you are deflecting the attention off yourself. You stated
"That doesn't augur well for what you want the forum users to see. However, there is nothing wrong in advocating for progress as did only primitive human beings would see it as challenge to their backward life they live and that I am not going to be a part of. This exposes you to the reason why you need to make the change I have argued for in the light of the truth of this debate. My stand is clear and it is to make sure Africans are seen equally on the same civilized foot as the West to contribute to moving humanity forward. I don't see what is so difficult to understand in that. I don't know why you see it as a big challenge to the painful savagery Africans are known for. The refusal is the worst and that is what you hold on to in this very discussion."

Dont you get it, you are assuming something about me that is the opposite. I don't need to explain myself. Fair enough I said reverse psychology, because Im not Primitive but you are saying I am, to try and manipulate me into defending something that I do not believe in ( saying that I don't want change and some people are not 'backwards') so that you can have an argument to fight . Plus also you projected your inner insecurities. (You are the type who tries ever so hard to distance yourself from your race, because of self hatred, thats my argument, I never said everything is fine in Africa, nor is it anywhere). I don't know what your argument is. Can you state, what I am defending, what we disagree on?. Because you are lost in all your pretentious facade.

chibic:
I guese truth is bitter!

Everthing I said there is the truth. Do you have to pretend as if you don't notice what is happening in this world? Or atleast Nigeria?.ma lot of married women cheat these days and they should stop making noise about men cheating. A lot of them cheated on their hubbies in the early stage of their marriage. I'm not making this up, its the truth!! Some do it with their ex, some do it with their colleagues. The bottomline is that they cheat too and they will cry when their hubbies returns the favour..especially when they don't look attractive anymore...looooooool

ADDING TO THAT HOWEVER- The reasons as to why men (in general) cheat MORE, is much more complex. I would state why women (in general) cheat less but then cheating is bad anyway. Men feel as though the have LESS to lose because SOCIETY and UPBRINGING especially in places like Nigeria, deem women as second class citizens. Society stigmatises women who cheat e.g "slut", "LovePeddler" and 'women need to marry' before they get "old and ugly".

Whereas boys (not proper decent men), if they sleep with as many girls possible it is seen as 'COOL'!!! I believe if boys are brought up in a manner MORE SIMILAR TO THAT OF GIRLS, will see cheating as being more grave.

Thankyou