chibic:
abi o!..they do not cheat yet, they ranked NO 1 in world's most adulterous wives...the single girls nko?..5 boyfriends at the same time all in the name of test driving. Honestly, they do not cheat!!..looooool

ADDING TO THAT HOWEVER- The reasons as to why men (in general) cheat MORE, is much more complex. I would state why women (in general) cheat less but then cheating is bad anyway. Men feel as though the have LESS to lose because SOCIETY and UPBRINGING especially in places like Nigeria, deem women as second class citizens. Society stigmatises women who cheat e.g "slut", "LovePeddler" and 'women need to marry' before they get "old and ugly".

Whereas boys (not proper decent men), if they sleep with as many girls possible it is seen as 'COOL'!!! I believe if boys are brought up in a manner MORE SIMILAR TO THAT OF GIRLS, will see cheating as being more grave.

Thankyou

eightsin:


Seriously, you need to be checked. There has to be something wrong somewhere. You just opened an account here and all you've been doing is antagonize and look for trouble. I think you are a guy seeking unnecessary attention .

LOOL, is all Im going to say. Because you must be a retarded teen, not even an adult.

all4naija:
Bwahaha... This is always the problem with Africans. Whenever they are told the truth they always look for excuses to exonerate their barbaric ways. There is nothing emotional in my post but reality which you fail to see. How are you going to see the need for change when you cannot accept it in the first place? The reason you are denying the inability of Africans to progress, subliminally, is trying to praise the failure to progress and it's very disheartening. I am not going to stand and watch why most of you continue to dwindle in your primitiveness. That is why I am doing my best to explain why there is need for change. Change for the better!

Why is seeing black women by the world as primitive being the issue here? But, the issue should be how to make a change to what the world sees in them that makes them actually primitive. If they cannot change their primitive way lies the most disturbing part of the issue. This applies to the refusal to do something meaningful and stop giving flimsy excuses all the time when you are told the truth as you've done in your post. You aren't saying something new here. All that matters is making the change- that is,by getting organize and live a civilized life.

I don't know if you know what I think about Nigeria/ Africa. There is a lot of change that is needed we have some mutual agreement on that. But you aren't credible to speak because Ive seen your other posts on other threads. You don't love yourself. Start with that then change can truly happen from your heart.

I love change BUT when I SAY YOU ARE RUDE ABOUT YOUR CULTURE, I MEAN STATING THINGS that are rude about african culture, women with darker skin, south africans living in townships and other 1000s of rude things you've stated. (ANYONE CLICK ON HIS NAME TO SEE THE RUDE THINGS)

I want greater equality and higher quality education in Africa. In fact within 10 years I want to open schools in Nigeria (my lovely country),
that advocates new thinking, change, less corruption, empowerment of girls. Here in UK, there is already a lot of development and despite being born there, I will never forget where my roots are. Maybe we can collaborate to help others in the future. So please stop wasting your negative energy and turn it into something positive.

Thanks

all4naija:

What do you mean by REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY without explanation? I am a little perturbed by your understanding of the word psychology. Do you know what the word mean? It means the study of human minds and its functions(online definition). There is no where I am trying to describe you with something you are not. Your reply to my prior post explicitly proves whom you are in your prehistoric nature and I am not going to embrace human being like that in anyway.

I don't see anything that talks about open-mindedness in any of your posts. All I see is somebody who is trying hard to present some primitive culture to me using it to define everything regarding humanity moving forward. That is simply preposterous and gross ineptitude to show how much you want to remain a primitive person. Jeez! It is very annoying to say the least.

I love people but I hate those who are destroying humanity with their primitive ways and expected to be tap on the should as exemplary. Not when you haven't been able to prove what you have contributed to humanity with it. Stop showing your backward life to me here. It is not going to change anything. The only thing I can do for you is to make you see the real world, the modern world that is moving forward so that you can be a part of it not this your brutish nature you expect people to follow. Get organized and live a civilized life for once and that is the only way you can be useful to the society. You would thank me later if you made change to get organized and live a civilized life.

You are the most pretentious and Neanderthal guy on here, who hides behind language.
"Reverse psychology is a technique involving the advocacy of a belief or behavior that is opposite to the one desired, with the expectation that this approach will encourage the subject of the persuasion to do what actually is desired: the opposite of what is suggested.' My friend you described yourself when you tried to describe me, you are projecting your inner insecurities. I can judge you but you cannot do the same, because I am aware of people who think like you.

One minute pretending to be civilised then displaying your true self by being extremely rude and condescending to others and your own culture, especially your skin colour.

all4naija:

What has skin color got to do with my post? You are really a primitive human being. I wonder why the world sees you as primitive person. I am just trying to give you a hint and perhaps you might want to change from your primitiveness, which, I doubt because you are allergic to change. Change is the best way to experience progress and development. I am not going to tie myself down with bunch of archaic humans who refused to change from their savagery that is not useful to the society. What have you contributed to humanity in your primitiveness? You barbarian!

The world sees a black woman as primitive?, but here in UK, they talk about African men beating their wives. And Nigerian culture needing to change. You speak with negative emotion rather than with sensibilities.

all4naija:

What has skin color got to o with my post? You are really a primitive human being. I wonder why the world sees you as primitive person. I am just trying to give you a hint and perhaps you might want to change from your primitiveness, which, I doubt because you are allergic to change. Change is the best way to experience progress and development. I am not going to tie myself down with bunch of archaic humans who refused to change from their savagery that is not useful to the society. What have you contributed to humanity in your primitiveness? You barbarian!

OMG why are you doing REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY, YOU JUST DESCRIBED YOURSELF, IVE SEEN YOUR POSTS.

Im extremely open minded and you should stop attacking women on here. Embrace your culture. I would tell you more about yourself but I want
love no hate.

all4naija:
What's wrong with dark skin? I am not a dark skin nor do I hate it. So move on with your pathetic life.

Stop hating your colour

all4naija:
Smh... Just go and f**k yourself, you i d i o t!You are talking trash because this is not about skin color.

Face the truth and embrace yourself with love.

eightsin:


Lol. My bad! But I'd advice u start behaving like a lady that is if truly you are.

Haha I think you can't comprehend that a girl can stand up for herself.

all4naija:

Shut your smelling Zulu mouth, you dirty thing. You call me a girl and at the same time a guy. What is wrong with you?! You keep going about my personality for no good reason, you i d i o t! Why don't you face the discussion of the thread, you twerp?!

Everyone sensible discredit this self loathing man. He obviously has self hatred and wishes he weren't black. I can understand but stop
throwing abuse at every woman here.

kaythinks:
why? Do u think a man and a woman thinks the same way? My statement is based on a time tested truth . A man and a woman are not equals.

Never did I say that, I just stated society exaggerates the differences. Men and women should embrace their differences,
but the thread title is political. It implies inequality. Men and women should be treated equally.

Enough said. Thankyou

eightsin:


My brother, the fact that you don't understand doesn't mean I don't write properly.

Feel threatened You must be a joke.
Bye sir... I'm not gonna dignify your post no more.

What makes you think Im your brother. I am a girl.

Women are not treated with respect especially in cultures such as Nigeria. Look at Chimamanda Ngozi adichie on Youtube.

haul:
well,ladies that feels they can tongue-lash a guy,they can be so stupid to feel they are on par with men(this has nothing todo with africanisim mind you ). I don't just like it when lady feel they can also extort guys and go free(you can't eat your cake and have it). Obviously this are my opinions and yours are welcome but still won't change my insensitive or emotional blankness towards the female.I'm no misogynist tho.

Is that all, women are not equal to men. They are different and gender is one form of difference. Individuality is key.

However Women and Men should be treated equally, in all aspects of society.

I hate when people use ridiculous phrases to avoid explaining themselves,you can't eat your cake and have it'.

eightsin:


If only you understand, you will notice the sarcastic pidgin english used. And if you had some common sense, you will also know I wasn't trying to communicate in queens english.

Olodo forming smart.

Im afraid to say if you are implying that Im being pretentious, I cannot help the fact that I don't understand. Yes Im aware it is pidgin.
Don't feel threatened.

born2boink:
When I my girl was slim, I was cheating on with Fat girls

Now she is putting on fatness and I have been cheating with slim

It is all about Equation balance, I cannot live without cheating

Clearly you don't respect women in general.

eightsin:


Nah! You should reread

I understand, must be hard for you to write properly, remember people should understand.

eightsin:
Lol. Who ever wants to fuc.k should get it on.. no just gimme STD. That's all.

But I no even know why e dey pain.. can't humans just learn how to share

What?, Rewrite please

You are not credible. Can you build a house?, Yes I can cook. There is no justification for cheating.

Thanks 'Mr Gentleman'

chibic:
Mtcheew!!

When a married woman hits 40-plus, at that time majority of them won't look beautiful or attractive again, their husbands may lose interest and start dating hotter chicks and other men out there won't be giving them attention nor toating them..they will suddenly remember that it is time to fight or write to single ladies to leave their husbands alone. I hear you! But you forgot that in the early stagies of your marriage, a lot of you married women cheated so much on your hubbies because you were still young and attractive and men out there who didn't know you were married were toasting you every hour and your head was swelling. You thought you were the only girl in the world. And you also thought you could eat your cake and have it. Well, reality have dawned on you. Now that you are older and unnattractive, you have to go through the pains of being cheated on.
If you cheated in the early stage of your marriage like after 2,3,4,5 yrs of your marriage which, according to what I've witnessed a lot, is the period married women cheat the most, then by the time you get older and no man is looking your way again, and your hubby is old but still look fresh and good-to-go like men do, then accept your fate when he returns the same cheating favour to you. Yes, I know that it pains more at this point due to the fact that no man wants you any more..loooooool...it feels good to be a man!!!

Another woman hater.

Tydies:
Will you allow a Woman to be your PILOT? Will you allow a WOMAN to drive you from Lagos to Kano? Will you allow a Woman to be the president of your country? Hell No

Just LOL, no comment.

oloyolo:
I don't think a man and a woman should be compared they ar opposite to each other

NOT TRUE, society exaggerates the difference. Behaviour and mindset is largely environmentally influenced.

mkpakanaodogwu:
They are not.wemen are more kajad

No offence but elaborate...

I nearly choked when I saw this thread.

JiggamanGh:


And all nigerian girls dress like catholic sisters.

He that is without sin among you, cast a stone

THIS IS THE FUNNIEST THING EVERRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!, BTW IM A NIGERIAN GIRL

THIS TOPIC IS DUMB? SUPERIORITY COMPLEX STEMS FROM BLACK INFERIORITY COMPLEX.

NO ONE IS BETTER THAN ANYONE.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IF YOU ARE, GO AND HELP DYING AND STARVING PEOPLE, HELP OTHERS.

LOVE NO HATE_ PEACE!!!

skimmy39:
men cheat for the same reasons women cheat we all cheat cus we are all animals, and no animal is known to be monogamous in nature.

ADDING TO THAT HOWEVER- The reasons as to why men (in general) cheat MORE, is much more complex. I would state why women (in general) cheat less but then cheating is bad anyway. Men feel as though the have LESS to lose because SOCIETY and UPBRINGING especially in places like Nigeria, deem women as second class citizens. Society stigmatises women who cheat e.g "slut", "LovePeddler" and 'women need to marry' before they get "old and ugly".

Whereas boys (not proper decent men), if they sleep with as many girls possible it is seen as 'COOL'!!! I believe if boys are brought up in a manner MORE SIMILAR TO THAT OF GIRLS, boys who grow up to be Men, will see cheating as being more grave.

Thankyou

Define what you mean by, respect themselves? I would love to know your view.

MissyB1:
This should teach You to Glue Your legs Together.

If anyone replies to this guy, you are wasting your time. People like this need to start from the basics.

haul:
attack the message not the messenger

LOOOL,my friend. You are a victim of society and your personality, far from a gentlemen. Your notion of respect for women has totally diminished.
You are just 1 out of many who think like you. Nothing personal. But when you come on Nairaland, do not make rude comments like that,
just disgusting, no more words…

all4naija:
Seriously, she is not beautiful to me. We all perhaps know that the vote was based on politic or due to her sad background on her inferiority complex(sentiment)!

GOD HELP YOU.!!!!. You resent being black, I understand. Just remember your parents are black. And society as well as history has made you feel sad about your skin colour and background. Just because less emphasis is placed on your colour, white women perceive black men as a fetish (if you know what that mean), black men have big cocks but they won't marry you, because you are deemed too thuggish and stereotypically poor.