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OP, you are wasting time replying everyone when you could have taken a shot of yourself hours ago,to dispel this talk of being a scammer. You complained of not being able to upload videos cuz of heavy size and asked certain persons to go private on WhatsApp. Your replies to some questions were vague,at least. You became belligerent when you were asked to explain the discrepancies in your story and show pictorial proof. You ve wasted the entire day going back and forth with everyone without proving that you are for real. You are not a serious person. If you think coming here to announce that you are in need,will make everyone rush to your aid immediately, then you don't know the familylanders well. |
Mamatwiny, I am interested in that wonder drug. Please can you ask your pharmacist friend if a diabetic of about 65years can use it too,to get the same result as the cancer patient ? I wouldn't mind having his contact details too. |
Anniebamba1:Yeah, stop the Tom Brown for now. Some Tom Brown contains soybeans, and my baby is allergic to it. She breaks out in blisters in her vagina whenever she takes anything containing soybeans. Wheat has been added to our list too. Air her bum,rub Sudocrem generously and observe for some days. |
Anniebamba1:Awww... This looks very painful. I just finished treating this for my DD last week. She was reacting to her new cereal, wheat. She first had this when she was 6/7 months, when I introduced soyabean and wheat to her. I stopped it after two weeks and used Sudocrem. It dried the area and it healed very fast. Fast forward to three weeks ago,her daddy bought another wheat n honey cereal. I thought it was safe for her cuz I was sure soyabean was the only culprit. Alas, my small madam broke out in this. The blisters were even bleeding. I stopped the cereal immediately and aired her bum for hours. I used sudocrem just like the first time and she is healed again. Check your baby's diet. She might be reacting to something like mine did. My two cents. ![]() |
Who else noticed the change in Jon's hairdo? After being sentenced to the Wall,his hairstyle reverted to the old Jon Snow's free curls. He abandoned the Ned Stark's hairdo,free from duties and family ties,just as in the beginning of the show. Arya kept Ned's hairdo,together with the sigil of House Stark. She will always be Arya Stark, anywhere and everywhere. Sansa looked every inch as cold and regal as Catelyn Tully. The Stark kids came full circle. |
kenturkish:Please go back and watch that scene again. Right after Sansa 'challenged' Dany and Jon reiterated the northern support to Dany. |
Aystarz:You have a point. He showed the same distrust and restraint when Tyrion was left in charge of affairs in Meereen,after Dany flew away with Drogon in season 5. However,his beef with Jon feels different. Seems personal. I may be wrong anyway ![]() |
arantess:They arrived KL together but Greyworm took the lead,leaving Jon in the shadows as usual. Jon was meant to lead the charge. D& has emasculated Jon's character this season. Compare the Jon of Battle of the Bastards and this Jon who keeps repeating 'She is my Queen' like a broken record. |
DP84:Nope. The distrust started way before this incident. In the scene where Dany,Jon, Tyrion and others were planning the battle strategies at Winterfell, just before leaving for Kings landing, Greyworm acted really weird. Tyrion had just said Jon and Ser Davis will go by road,with the remaining northmen, Dothraki and Unsullied. As he was speaking,Jon gathered the corresponding stones to him on the battle map. Greyworm walked to Jon and removed the stone for the Unsullied and placed it back with his Queen. Jon looked at him oddly at that moment. That was the moment I noticed a hidden beef from Greyworm. Jon hadn't even told his sisters at this point, so Tyrion had no clue of Jon's true parentage. Missandei was also alive. So what was Greyworm's problem then? |
Hello @ angelusbrut. I ve noted most of your posts in the jobs section is centred around the Onitsha locale. Please I am in desperate need of a job. I reside in Onitsha so location isn't a problem for me. If you have knowledge of any vacancies,I will be eternally grateful if you hook me up. I am a graduate of Industrial Chemistry. |
zaynie:Thank God. I ve been wondering what to use for lil madam's hair especially for side edges. How I fit get am abeg? Chai! You are an elephant sha ![]() |
zaynie:Can an eight month baby use these? |
StrongWoman333:Ngwanu,go and watch it again and compare Elba with that onye iberibe. ![]() |
StrongWoman333: ![]() Shebi you have a daughter now? You will be the first to use pestle to chase her and any broke man who wants to marry her on credit. Sometimes it is safe to say it was all about the money but no parent or sibling will be happy to see their promising daughter or sister getting hooked to a broke man without shame or scruples. There are broke men who had the dignity to take care of their home. Watch Tyler Perry's Daddy's little girls ft Idris Elba and Gabrielle Union. The guy was flat out broke but he never reneged on his responsibilities to his family. That is a true man. He forfeited his dreams for his family. |
Chanbaby:Go and watch that scene again. She clearly said she was vulnerable when he made the sex move. As someone who has also lost a parent,I can relate. When you lose a dear one, especially a parent, people act out in different ways to fill that void. Some become destructive, others look for someone to cling to fill that emptiness. The monkey had no bizness making a move on her in that his stinky van,on her mum's burial day. Ha! Who does that? She was as open as a LovePeddler's ****, just waiting for the vultures to feed on. Watch all those scenes he suggested that she spends on him. The guy was fu*king manipulative. Then for the sisters and in-laws, he took a huge gamble. He displayed selfish tendencies. Forget that he believed in his work. He had the one chance to put Melissa's interests above his by buying her home back but no,he refused. What if the company had called his bluff? He put his in-laws means of livelihood at risk without giving them notice of his plans. Hian! As I said, may my daughter never meet such a devil in her entire life. |
StrongWoman333:Biko hold on! She had trust issues cuz she caught the SOB having sex in his van after telling her lies about his whereabouts. Then to find that same woman's wallet in his car! Comon! Who are we kidding? Even here in Naija,women fight their husbands for less. Just a hunch and we are already tearing pant and bra .. You keep saying she was arrogant. Nne,how? An arrogant woman will never use her inheritance for her man's wellbeing, be the sole breadwinner and put up her home for mortgage. Abi is there another definition for arrogance that I am not aware of? ![]() They killed his ego? Mtcheww... The motherfucka had no ego in the first place. Lazy arse bastard who ruined a promising young woman's life with his redundant attitude. What stopped him from getting a job while working on his project,all those years? Melissa showed true love but hers didn't end well cuz it made her into the stereotype of the mad black woman. Give her a break,please. You can't put a price tag on the years and youth wasted when she was sustaining that goat. Ayaff talk too much this evening ![]() |
Chanbaby:Baby girl, put yourself in her shoes in our yeye Nigerian patriarchal system,and I put it to you that you will react worse than she did. First of all,she moved on with that handsome guy( with no sex skills ) cuz she really believed her husband cheated on her again with the same woman she lost her womb for. That is a bitter pill to swallow,so that guy was clearly a rebound. Yes,she had anger issues but she knew and tried for more than ten years to keep her head down. They never had any issues all through those years she was the sole breadwinner. Her sisters sang like canaries all the time,telling her to leave but she stuck to him out of pride and love. So it came as no surprise when she actually snapped. Mind you,this is a woman who lost her virginity to this man.Lol@ bad luck. Thank God it wasn't a Nigerian/African setting. We would have seen a native doctor,with white chalk under his eye and hopping around with a fowl. And no,I refuse to believe she was always a bitter person. There are so many personalities in this world that it takes a whole lot to understand people and their perspectives. She was once a sweet,innocent and rich girl who just fell for the wrong man. Lastly,ruminate on this: Even in our African/Nigerian setting,do we respect men who just refuse to cater for their home? This man totally refused to support his wife,finished her inheritance and had the gall to put up her mother's home for mortgage. If na you, you no go shoot am when you see his ex's handbag in his car? ![]() |
Ilyfavoured:You sabi! This is a man that had sex with her on the day she buried her mum. Who does that? I also don't find anything wrong with what the sisters did. They were looking out for her and they were right to do so. They warned her about him 'chopping' her inheritance and he did. They tried to help them with the mortgage by using their husbands to get him a job but what did he do? He endangered them and their jobs for his selfishness. The guy is someone I will never pray for my worst enemies. May my daughter never come across such leeches and bloodsuckers. Amen. |
Ilyfavoured:Thanks. The cool water nko? Will it harm her? |
Mamas in the house,abeg help me with my questions oo. My DD is six months and she doesn't sleep. During the day,she takes naps that lasts less than 10mins,like three times. At night,that is a different story. She plays half of the night and sleeps like she does during the day. Is this normal abeg? Won't this affect her adversely? Then again,some weeks ago,my husband gave her mildly cold water to sip and since then she doesn't accept any water that isn't cool. The worst is when she sees one drinking water from the satchet. She will so much drag you and scratch you for it. Is cool water OK for her? |
StrongWoman333:Haba! This is too harsh a judgement. She lost her womb because she caught this same man cheating and acted rashly. She spent all her inheritance helping the ingrate in his yeye tests and experiments which never produced results. The ingrate never held a job to help her in the running of the house. Let's not be too quick to judge her. She always held her own even when her sisters were criticising him. She only cracked cuz she thought he was cheating again. The guy was too quick in moving on. Why didn't he fight for her as she fought for him all those years she was feeding him? Yeah,she had her faults but she was right to feel bitter. She prepped him ready for the other woman to reap the harvest. No woman can stand that. There is just a fine line between obsession and insanity. |
Rubyzz:The things mothers go through to bring new life into this world... Nne,you are blessed. You will recover sooner than you think and be around longer than your enemies wish to enjoy the pains and joys of motherhood. Kisses to LO. Team June with our drama sha.. ![]() |
rofemiguwa:OMG!! |
Ayauche:I have sent my BS tey tey na. Abeg update oo. |
StrongWoman333:You are indeed a strong woman. Your princess is an adorable cutie. Team June babies don finish work. ![]() |
enkay2016:Congrats teamie. A quick recovery to you and God's blessings on LO. |
StrongWoman333:Congratulations, mama. Please recover well. We are not in a hurry to read any BS. Mummy and baby healthy is the ultimate goal. Kisses to our princess. |
Ayauche:Yay! Assistant cappo on the beat! Congrats and welcome to our Prince Charming. |
Part 2 BS 37weeks+, I found out I will be in the east for an important reason and will most likely give birth while there,so I made all arrangements and travelled with hubby at 38 weeks+. I quickly got recommendations for a good hospital and got myself acquainted with the staff and doctors. They are very wonderful people, infact. My EDD was 06/06, so I relaxed myself for the coming two weeks,while trying to boost my blood level. But my baby had other plans of her own. On the morning of May 30th(Biafra day), I woke up and waddled to pee. After wiping,I saw blood stains. I have never bled,not even spotted at the beginning of the pregnancy, so what was this one na? I came online and threw the question to the house and some mamas advised me to go to the hospital. I and hubby rushed down,praying that we would not meet any violent group on the road. We arrived safely and I was ushered to a room to be checked. I never saw what came next. Vaginal examination is a bitch,mehn! I almost slapped the midwife in shock. She calmed me down enough to confirm that I was in labour and was 3cm dilated. She relayed it to he doctor and was advised to go home and wait till I feel strong and regular contractions, and return to them. I didn't wait to be told twice. My nyansh was already traumatized by that chooking of hand inside. Throughout that day,I was waiting expectantly for the contractions to hit hard but nothing. At about 7pm,I cajoled hubby to follow me on an excruciatingly painful climb up a hill to force labour. After we came back,I went to urinate, and saw my bloody show. I knew my efforts were not in vain. Still,there was no contractions. I settled down for the night,hoping it would begin in the morning. As I lay down to sleep,I had a wet sensation down south. I got up and wham! My water gushed down. I woke hubby up to take me to the hospital. We got there at 11:35pm. I forgot that I was gonna go through another VE. When the night shift midwife came, and led me to the table,my heart did a flip ten times. I was like who sent me to come here now. This particular midwife was extraordinarily rough. No lubrication like the first one,just straight to the business. I screamed the hospital down. My hubby burst in,thinking I was already in active labour. ![]() I was told I was only 4cm gone. Mogbe! Since morning! I spent the whole night climbing ramps and stairs, trying to hasten labour. Also went through three more VE every four hours till 9 am. A line was attached to my vein,ready for drips and whatever at anytime. Still, the whole process was dragging on slowly. The doctor told me that if by 1pm,nothing had changed,he would have to speed things up himself. Come 1pm,there was no one to attend to me. All the staff had gone to their nursing school upstairs for an exam held that day! I had to wait till 2pm when they finished before I was checked again. This time I was only 6cm gone. Ha! I was mad as hell. I told them to do what they could to hasten things up cuz I was tired. No food or water since morning. The doctor led me to the delivery room on the pretext of checking me again. That was the last coherent thought I had for the next thirty minutes. They discussed amongst themselves and came to a conclusion. Me,I was lying down waiting for them to tell me what's up. I didn't know one of the nurses had already injected something into my drip,till I looked up and saw it hanging above my head. The moment the drug hit my veins,I felt it. A coldness started from my hand and spread to my body. Me,that was having one contraction every thirty minutes, had five contractions in quick succession in six minutes. My back was being rubbed by one of the nurses and I was told how to breathe to ease the pain. The doctor told me that I would deliver very soon. I was like how? I just started having serious contractions. Within two minutes, I had the urge to poo. Everyone swung into action. They told me to push when the next contraction comes. When it hit,I pushed but I was snapping my legs shut. Come and see four nurses holding my legs down. They warned me not to try that stunt again. ![]() Next one hit again, but it wasn't enough to push the baby out. The doctor then left his position and came to my belly and started tickling my skin. The next contraction started building up immediately. When it hit, he pushed down on my belly hard while another nurse pushed from head angle. I pushed very hard and poom! My baby came out all at once. I still don't know the speed at which the doctor used to catch her from his position of pushing my belly. I looked down and saw my fair skinned princess. She came out crying and the first thing she did was to suck her slimy fingers. ![]() Placenta was attended to,I was cleaned up and moved to my ward to rest. The total amount of time,starting from when I was led to be checked by the doctor to when I was cleaned up took just approximately 30mins. Everything happened so fast that I was asking myself if I was done with delivery. And all without a single tear... I just thank God for all. I thank all the mamas on this great thread for being there for people like me. I also thank all those who sent their well wishes. I can't begin to mention one by one but you are all special. Lest I forget, I don't know how it happened or when it happened but on one of my numerous scans at 16/17weeks, the fibroids had all disappeared. This is my princess an hour after her birth Cc Rubyzz,Ayauche. BS submitted. Picture taken down. ![]() |
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B.S. Where do I begin? This journey has been a roller coaster of emotions for me. I got married last May, and the countdown to a BFP started for me. My in-laws supposedly got a divine message from a man of God that I will have fertility issues and will not conceive on time. You can just imagine the results of such prophecy on me. Thank God for my husband who dismissed them and stood by me. End of May,June and July passed but no BFP. I began to doubt my faith and believe there might be an atom of truth in what they said. August came and I almost fell into despair but my sister talked me out of it. I put on a new face and told myself to snap out of it cuz I was transferring aggression unto my hubby. When end of September came and my period hadn't come as expected,I didn't even think about it cuz many things were happening at once at that time,so it didn't occur to me that my period was late. Things settled down and I suddenly realised I was two weeks late. That has never happened before. I am like clockwork in my periods. I became nervous. What if this was a false alarm? Wasn't it too soon to get pregnant according to the prophecy? So many useless thoughts going through my head. My younger sister was also a monitoring spirit,keeping track of my cycle,all in a quest to get the first grandkid of the family. Na she push me go do test. When the result showed positive,my heart almost gave out. I just sat for hours alone, thanking God for His mercies. I told hubby and my folks... You can all imagine the rest. ... That was the last time I smiled for the next nine months.Two weeks later,I felt an urging in the spirit that all wasn't well with my baby,so I convinced hubby to go with me for a scan. When the sonographer was doing his thing on my belly,he innocently asked me what I am planning to do about my multit fibroids. I was like you say wahhh?? The doctor saw the result of the scan,spoke to me about it and gave me the pros and cons of the treatment process. I was to prepare my mind for anything. I told him my baby is here to stay. He shrugged and said let us begin. Treatment started and I was put on total bed rest. No more hopping on okada,no bending down,no anything. Just food,water and sleep. After two weeks of bed rest, I went back to the same scan center for another scan to take with me to the hospital. This time the guy was happy for me and told me all was well,but the fibroids were growing at an alarming rate. I just left that one to God and said it will end well. That was when I discovered this great thread and began to learn from other mamas here. Two days after I got the positive news from the scan and doctor, morning sickness hit me and mehn, it hit hard. I couldn't keep anything down. No food,water or drugs could stay down. I lost weight drastically in three days. My ribs and cheek bones became prominent like those Sudanese refugees. Hubby was bloody scared and wanted me to remove the baby if it was going to endanger my life. The look I gave him shut him up for good. Still, I couldn't eat. My folic acid pills lay untouched cuz I couldn't keep it down. I don't know how I managed to survive that period without going to the hospital for drip infusion. I found a taste for Sprite and that was what I lived on. Morning till night,see me pushing down Sprite down my throat. I managed till I clocked 20 weeks. That was when I had that scare in my compound(I wrote about it early January). We made plans to move out immediately. While the hunt for a new place was on,I had a serious bike accident two weeks after the first incident. Lucky for me,when I fell,I landed on my hip and instinctively used my hands to shield my belly. My right ankle was seriously battered and trust me,the pain is something else. Due to my condition, I had to manage only panadol as the pain reliever. We moved out two weeks after. Imagine me setting up my new home with one leg in serious pains. I had to beg my younger sister to leave her PPA in PH to come and help me. All my in-laws who lived thirty mins away in the same state had not given me a call since my husband told them I was pregnant. 30weeks and I was still battling morning sickness and how to eat. I was still underweight but my consolation was that every time I went for antenatal, the doctor kept reassuring me that my baby was fine and was even doing better than I was. My count down to week 40 began. I didn't trusty my body to hold out that long,so I was praying to God to help me with an easy delivery, cuz I had suffered enough. Thank God for the man I married who made things more easier for me. He was the one who did all the house cleaning every Saturday since we moved into our new home in February. God will bless him specially for that alone. 34weeks came and my most hated SIL came to live with us for logistics reasons. My stress level shot up. My PCV was very low for the first time in this pregnancy. I forced myself to eat,drink malt and milk and took my drugs but it just wasn't working. Up till two weeks ago,my PCV was still abysmally low. The doctor warned me that it didn't bode well for me for delivery, considering my history. I told him God was in control. He agreed with me. I came online one morning and saw a mama's BS, and how her delivery was so easy that it took a total of just 4hours. I began to use that as a prayer point. I wanted that testimony too,after all I had gone through. But my PCV wouldn't allow me to be great ![]() |

That niccur has some real issues. Torgo's silly pettiness, I believe, took root during Jon's first meeting with Dany at Dragonstone. That meeting, you'll remember, didn't end well for both parties, with Jon being a tad-bit insolent towards the Queen (even as much as figuratively calling her a child) and refusing to bend the knee in the end. As a loyal servant of Dany, one can forgive Greyworm for perceiving Jon as a pompous entitled twa.t who thinks himself a rival to the Unsullied captain's queen. 

simply because he was a pauper!
