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FamilyRe: A Cry For Help I Lost Everything by mandysmum: 10:53pm On Oct 26, 2019
OP, you are wasting time replying everyone when you could have taken a shot of yourself hours ago,to dispel this talk of being a scammer. You complained of not being able to upload videos cuz of heavy size and asked certain persons to go private on WhatsApp. Your replies to some questions were vague,at least. You became belligerent when you were asked to explain the discrepancies in your story and show pictorial proof. You ve wasted the entire day going back and forth with everyone without proving that you are for real.

You are not a serious person. If you think coming here to announce that you are in need,will make everyone rush to your aid immediately, then you don't know the familylanders well.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mandysmum: 9:32pm On Oct 18, 2019
Mamatwiny, I am interested in that wonder drug. Please can you ask your pharmacist friend if a diabetic of about 65years can use it too,to get the same result as the cancer patient ? I wouldn't mind having his contact details too.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mandysmum: 6:07pm On Jun 21, 2019
Anniebamba1:
Wow! I never thought of this! I'll really check out her diet. She takes only pap, buy I added Tom Brown some months ago. I'll stop it for now and see how it goes.
Thanks momma.
Yeah, stop the Tom Brown for now. Some Tom Brown contains soybeans, and my baby is allergic to it. She breaks out in blisters in her vagina whenever she takes anything containing soybeans. Wheat has been added to our list too. Air her bum,rub Sudocrem generously and observe for some days.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mandysmum: 9:31am On Jun 21, 2019
Anniebamba1:
Hello mommas, this is what I've been facing with my DD for over two months now. It started like normal diaper rash and has refused everything I've tried. I've taken her to the hospital twice and she was given medication, it didn't work. Ive used sudocream, baby tribotan, scent leave, abf, mycoten and clotriderm. I don't know what else to do. I need HELP!. If I try to air her bum, she scratches it till it bleeds and it breaks my heart to see her like that. Please mommas help me! cry cry
Awww... This looks very painful. I just finished treating this for my DD last week. She was reacting to her new cereal, wheat. She first had this when she was 6/7 months, when I introduced soyabean and wheat to her. I stopped it after two weeks and used Sudocrem. It dried the area and it healed very fast. Fast forward to three weeks ago,her daddy bought another wheat n honey cereal. I thought it was safe for her cuz I was sure soyabean was the only culprit. Alas, my small madam broke out in this. The blisters were even bleeding. I stopped the cereal immediately and aired her bum for hours. I used sudocrem just like the first time and she is healed again. Check your baby's diet. She might be reacting to something like mine did. My two cents. wink
TV/MoviesRe: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by mandysmum: 9:22am On May 20, 2019
Who else noticed the change in Jon's hairdo? After being sentenced to the Wall,his hairstyle reverted to the old Jon Snow's free curls. He abandoned the Ned Stark's hairdo,free from duties and family ties,just as in the beginning of the show. Arya kept Ned's hairdo,together with the sigil of House Stark. She will always be Arya Stark, anywhere and everywhere. Sansa looked every inch as cold and regal as Catelyn Tully. The Stark kids came full circle.
TV/MoviesRe: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by mandysmum: 4:13pm On May 15, 2019
kenturkish:
you got everything muddled up, greyworm removed the unsullied stones to signify that half of the unsullied are dead, Jon and Royce also removed half each of their armies, what that scene basically says was that half of the people that fought against the dead died.
Please go back and watch that scene again. Right after Sansa 'challenged' Dany and Jon reiterated the northern support to Dany.
TV/MoviesRe: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by mandysmum: 3:07pm On May 15, 2019
Aystarz:
Greyworm ehnhuh That niccur has some real issues. Torgo's silly pettiness, I believe, took root during Jon's first meeting with Dany at Dragonstone. That meeting, you'll remember, didn't end well for both parties, with Jon being a tad-bit insolent towards the Queen (even as much as figuratively calling her a child) and refusing to bend the knee in the end. As a loyal servant of Dany, one can forgive Greyworm for perceiving Jon as a pompous entitled twa.t who thinks himself a rival to the Unsullied captain's queen.
That guy's loyalty na like a zombie's. E no dey hear go come.
You have a point. He showed the same distrust and restraint when Tyrion was left in charge of affairs in Meereen,after Dany flew away with Drogon in season 5. However,his beef with Jon feels different. Seems personal. I may be wrong anyway grin
TV/MoviesRe: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by mandysmum:
arantess:
Just saw that scene again, you are right but eventually they went to KL together
They arrived KL together but Greyworm took the lead,leaving Jon in the shadows as usual. Jon was meant to lead the charge. D&grin has emasculated Jon's character this season. Compare the Jon of Battle of the Bastards and this Jon who keeps repeating 'She is my Queen' like a broken record.
TV/MoviesRe: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by mandysmum: 7:35am On May 15, 2019
DP84:
There is distrust between Greyworm and Jon already. I'd like to believe it started with the secret Sansa spilled to Tyrion and Tyrion to Varys. Greyworm probably knows the secret already and sees Jon as a potential usurper. He stood against Jon when Jon came to see Dany by the fireplace until Dany told him it was fine that she'd love to speak with him.

During the battle at King's Landing, Greyworm looked at Jon with intent and anger when Jon asked his soldiers to back down. Jon almost pulled through with the order until of the Lannister soldiers attacked him and he fought back.

Greyworm's action is no different from Dany's. The Lannister soldiers had surrendered and dropped their weapons. Killing an enemy that has surrendered is similar to killing a defenseless civilian. Greyworm knew this but he didn't care. He was rage and just wanted to kill as many people as he can to console himself. The Unsullied shared his and their queen's sentiments and did just that.
Nope. The distrust started way before this incident. In the scene where Dany,Jon, Tyrion and others were planning the battle strategies at Winterfell, just before leaving for Kings landing, Greyworm acted really weird. Tyrion had just said Jon and Ser Davis will go by road,with the remaining northmen, Dothraki and Unsullied. As he was speaking,Jon gathered the corresponding stones to him on the battle map. Greyworm walked to Jon and removed the stone for the Unsullied and placed it back with his Queen. Jon looked at him oddly at that moment. That was the moment I noticed a hidden beef from Greyworm.

Jon hadn't even told his sisters at this point, so Tyrion had no clue of Jon's true parentage. Missandei was also alive. So what was Greyworm's problem then?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Uiiii by mandysmum: 11:49pm On Mar 08, 2019
Hello @ angelusbrut. I ve noted most of your posts in the jobs section is centred around the Onitsha locale. Please I am in desperate need of a job. I reside in Onitsha so location isn't a problem for me. If you have knowledge of any vacancies,I will be eternally grateful if you hook me up. I am a graduate of Industrial Chemistry.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mandysmum: 8:01am On Feb 12, 2019
zaynie:
Yes they can, I intend to use it for my 3m old the moment she turns 6m because it's purely organic.


My fight mate that day grin
Thank God. I ve been wondering what to use for lil madam's hair especially for side edges. How I fit get am abeg?

Chai! You are an elephant sha grin grin
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mandysmum: 12:06am On Feb 12, 2019
zaynie:
Hi moms!

For mom of girls, for a full and beautiful hair for your princess, try using Maracruiz organics.
It works wonders. The children's set consist of a bottle of shampoo (it lathers like crazy. I mean you don't need up to capful for each wash day ó)
A bottle of rinse out conditioner.
A leave in conditioner that can untangle any knot, I mean it. Even I use it too and it just makes it so easy to comb the hair.
A jar of hair butter, to be applied on dry hair. I love using this when we need to plait our hair without washing it previously. I just apply on scalp like 3 hours earlier and the scalp will be so neat and clean ehn...
A bottle of hair growth oil that is pure magic. Muna's hair was pulled too tight at the center and it chopped. I kept applying this oil and poof I can't find the bald spot again.
So I would honestly recommend this product.
A full set is 6500# and you can order from me.
I have used it ó and seen how effective it is and I have even bought for a couple of moms which is why I decided to sell.
It's 6500# on their IG page too so no wuruwuru here.
Can an eight month baby use these?
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mandysmum: 10:57pm On Dec 02, 2018
StrongWoman333:
lol. I've seen the movie too can't even remember the story its old grin cheesy
Ngwanu,go and watch it again and compare Elba with that onye iberibe. grin grin
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mandysmum: 10:37pm On Dec 02, 2018
StrongWoman333:
grin grin grin
grin grin grin

Shebi you have a daughter now? You will be the first to use pestle to chase her and any broke man who wants to marry her on credit. Sometimes it is safe to say it was all about the money but no parent or sibling will be happy to see their promising daughter or sister getting hooked to a broke man without shame or scruples. There are broke men who had the dignity to take care of their home. Watch Tyler Perry's Daddy's little girls ft Idris Elba and Gabrielle Union. The guy was flat out broke but he never reneged on his responsibilities to his family. That is a true man. He forfeited his dreams for his family.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mandysmum: 10:23pm On Dec 02, 2018
Chanbaby:
oh no I disagree with u. it takes too to have sex why didn't she decline cos she just buried her mum. He didnt force her she took him into the room. Remember she offered to go drop him off b4 that happened. she made the mistake of mentioning the inheritance to him. he was managing his life b4 she came along. He didn't force her to buy him a car or pay for his tuition. Although he mention it knowing she could help.
Concerning her sisters and in-laws trying to help with the mortgage and him messing things up was cos he believes in his dream that why he abandoned the delivery and went for the meeting he has waiting to have for 20yrs. Then the 800million dollars my dear he knew the worth of his project so he couldn't sell it for a morsel of bread. That's selling ones birthright

My only upset with him was never trying to help her by doing minally jobs and then doing exactly everything he promised the ex-wife for his new wife.But then he still gave her 10m dollars. someone said with that amount she won't even remember his name again grin
Go and watch that scene again. She clearly said she was vulnerable when he made the sex move. As someone who has also lost a parent,I can relate. When you lose a dear one, especially a parent, people act out in different ways to fill that void. Some become destructive, others look for someone to cling to fill that emptiness. The monkey had no bizness making a move on her in that his stinky van,on her mum's burial day. Ha! Who does that? She was as open as a LovePeddler's ****, just waiting for the vultures to feed on. Watch all those scenes he suggested that she spends on him. The guy was fu*king manipulative.

Then for the sisters and in-laws, he took a huge gamble. He displayed selfish tendencies. Forget that he believed in his work. He had the one chance to put Melissa's interests above his by buying her home back but no,he refused. What if the company had called his bluff? He put his in-laws means of livelihood at risk without giving them notice of his plans. Hian!

As I said, may my daughter never meet such a devil in her entire life.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mandysmum: 10:12pm On Dec 02, 2018
StrongWoman333:
Remember she was too fast to judge her husband too because she had trust issues. She saw the Ex wallet in his car thinking the man was cheating again. She never even allowed him explain himself...yes the man had his own faults but the woman had always been arrogant without even giving the man a listening ear. If a woman really loves her husband, she should at least give him time to explain before coming to a conclusion but no she didn't she decided to involve her family, they all killed his ego and in turn made him a laughing stock undecided simply because he was a pauper!
Biko hold on!

She had trust issues cuz she caught the SOB having sex in his van after telling her lies about his whereabouts. Then to find that same woman's wallet in his car! Comon! Who are we kidding? Even here in Naija,women fight their husbands for less. Just a hunch and we are already tearing pant and bra grin..

You keep saying she was arrogant. Nne,how? An arrogant woman will never use her inheritance for her man's wellbeing, be the sole breadwinner and put up her home for mortgage. Abi is there another definition for arrogance that I am not aware of? huh

They killed his ego? Mtcheww... The motherfucka had no ego in the first place. Lazy arse bastard who ruined a promising young woman's life with his redundant attitude. What stopped him from getting a job while working on his project,all those years? Melissa showed true love but hers didn't end well cuz it made her into the stereotype of the mad black woman. Give her a break,please. You can't put a price tag on the years and youth wasted when she was sustaining that goat.

Ayaff talk too much this evening grin grin
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mandysmum: 10:02pm On Dec 02, 2018
Chanbaby:
The bolded are true.
But she moved on first with the big handsome small dick guy grin grin according to her.
Seeing a man with a girl doesn't always mean they are having an affair.
In our African setting people will easily just say the wife had bad luck. why is it that as soon as they divorced his battery research hit it big? Remember he was given a restraining order not to send anything to the company cos he bugged them for 18yrs but his ex followed up until it pulled through.
You don't have to react to people's misbehaviour cos it can cost u something very precious that u will regret. Her adverse reaction cost her womb.
A character not cubbed from the beginning will grow to be something disastrous. She has always been a bitter person remember there accidential meeting how she reacted.
We having an issue with anyone dont volunteer information. Be more discreet with u progress in life. The new wife was quick to say she was pregnant.
Baby girl, put yourself in her shoes in our yeye Nigerian patriarchal system,and I put it to you that you will react worse than she did. First of all,she moved on with that handsome guy( with no sex skills grin) cuz she really believed her husband cheated on her again with the same woman she lost her womb for. That is a bitter pill to swallow,so that guy was clearly a rebound. Yes,she had anger issues but she knew and tried for more than ten years to keep her head down. They never had any issues all through those years she was the sole breadwinner. Her sisters sang like canaries all the time,telling her to leave but she stuck to him out of pride and love. So it came as no surprise when she actually snapped. Mind you,this is a woman who lost her virginity to this man.

Lol@ bad luck. Thank God it wasn't a Nigerian/African setting. We would have seen a native doctor,with white chalk under his eye and hopping around with a fowl. And no,I refuse to believe she was always a bitter person. There are so many personalities in this world that it takes a whole lot to understand people and their perspectives. She was once a sweet,innocent and rich girl who just fell for the wrong man.

Lastly,ruminate on this: Even in our African/Nigerian setting,do we respect men who just refuse to cater for their home? This man totally refused to support his wife,finished her inheritance and had the gall to put up her mother's home for mortgage. If na you, you no go shoot am when you see his ex's handbag in his car? grin
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mandysmum: 6:06pm On Dec 02, 2018
Ilyfavoured:
Thank for this piece. Most of us will be quick to judge and condemn the lady because we have devoted husbands taking care of the home. She not only caught him cheating, they also found her wallet in his truck meaning they were in touch while she was struggling to make ends meet. Between he could have married someone else why the same lady he cheated with. Quite a number of marriages are failing now cos of them lazy arse men. No woman wants to take care of the bills alone and get cheated on
You sabi! This is a man that had sex with her on the day she buried her mum. Who does that? I also don't find anything wrong with what the sisters did. They were looking out for her and they were right to do so. They warned her about him 'chopping' her inheritance and he did. They tried to help them with the mortgage by using their husbands to get him a job but what did he do? He endangered them and their jobs for his selfishness. The guy is someone I will never pray for my worst enemies. May my daughter never come across such leeches and bloodsuckers. Amen.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mandysmum: 6:00pm On Dec 02, 2018
Ilyfavoured:
It's called sleep regression. Happens at some stages (specific weeks/months). It's normal and just a phase. It will pass.
Thanks. The cool water nko? Will it harm her?
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mandysmum: 5:27pm On Dec 02, 2018
Mamas in the house,abeg help me with my questions oo. My DD is six months and she doesn't sleep. During the day,she takes naps that lasts less than 10mins,like three times. At night,that is a different story. She plays half of the night and sleeps like she does during the day. Is this normal abeg? Won't this affect her adversely? Then again,some weeks ago,my husband gave her mildly cold water to sip and since then she doesn't accept any water that isn't cool. The worst is when she sees one drinking water from the satchet. She will so much drag you and scratch you for it. Is cool water OK for her?
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mandysmum: 5:21pm On Dec 02, 2018
StrongWoman333:
The moral of the movie is that a woman should never involve any third party in her marriage. Her Sisters and sisters husband ruined her marriage. She was never patient enough, was too proud and arrogant, refused to sort things out with the man. The man became wealthy immediately after they divorced and another woman ended up living her dream after she asked for divorce from the man. She became bitter which led to her death.

The movie is a must watch for all women wink
Haba! This is too harsh a judgement. She lost her womb because she caught this same man cheating and acted rashly. She spent all her inheritance helping the ingrate in his yeye tests and experiments which never produced results. The ingrate never held a job to help her in the running of the house. Let's not be too quick to judge her. She always held her own even when her sisters were criticising him. She only cracked cuz she thought he was cheating again. The guy was too quick in moving on. Why didn't he fight for her as she fought for him all those years she was feeding him? Yeah,she had her faults but she was right to feel bitter. She prepped him ready for the other woman to reap the harvest. No woman can stand that. There is just a fine line between obsession and insanity.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mandysmum: 5:05pm On Jul 11, 2018
Rubyzz:
MY BIRTH STORY
Pregnancy period
I conceived miraculously after 2.9yrs of ttc after so many tests, drugs, hospital visits, spending money etc. I had multiple fibroids and was told to do a surgery, i took in unexpectedly the month i was scheduled to do the surgery. The pregnancy period was very challenging for me, at 6 weeks i had high malaria from then onwards one issue or the other. MS was all day sickness for me and no remedy worked for me. i went days without food cos anything i taste must come out even water, i was being rushed to the hospital almost every week to take drip cos of extreme weakness, i could hardly stand without being supported. I lived on A.vomine every 5am bf anything enters my mouth, then i could now eat one plain eko/agidi and cold water for the day. I also took alot of youghurt.

MS lasted for 5 full months and sometimes show face until after 7 months b4 I started eating, I lost so much weight that you will see Belle but won't see who is carrying it grin grin
So thyphoid fever, fibroid degeneration, premature contractions and bleeding/spotting landed me on admission 7 times. I was told the fibroids were getting bigger and have increased to 5 so the baby might not survive. They were also located at the mouth of the cervix causing a lot of pain, I could not stand, sit or walk for 10 mins cos the weight was resting on the fibroids. I was placed on bed and pelvic rest, no work only go to the bathroom and no kpekus (that one pain dh ehen grin tongue tongue).

I was told that VB will be risky for me so at 34 weeks I should come for steroids for the baby then they will carry out cs. Hubby no gree o, see me see undecided lipsrsealed he said his stand is no cs. Na prayers sort that matter o, thank God it was not too late.

The birth
So fast forward to 39 weeks, I went in for a cs after mild drama from dh, he was looking at my pix throughout the night, ha I said to myself. This oga take it easy na, am coming back o.
I had shaved the day before and catheter was put, was cleaned in the theater and given General anasthesia in my iv line. They were praying when I went off, I could only hear my music from afar. I felt like I was in a big spiral tube spinning round and round, I saw myself going up to different places, I saw a garden with flowers, a fiery red place, an ugly giant, my head and tongue felt so swollen. I was told I was shouting Jesus and screaming 4 different times I came out of the anasthesia, they had to give me 50mg 4 times and later switched to a different drug cos I was trying to stand up from the operating table, I even kicked their tools on the table, male nurses were called in to hold me down. My family outside were already crying and praying bcs the whole hospital could hear my screams.

Meanwhile I heard my baby was brought out by 10:45am with cord around his neck, I heard his cry from another world and that was when I started coming back. From unconscious state I was saying thank you Jesus, my baby, my baby. I didn't know that he was brought to me and I prayed for him with all the drs and nurses saying amen. He was taken to my dh who also prayed for him.

Part two of the surgery began, trying to remove the fibroids. 3 were seen, two were removed but the third one was blocking the cervix and had some adhesions so he couldn't remove it. The Dr later asked me how I managed to conceive with the fibroods and adhesions. I was in the theater for almost 2 hours and everyone outside was afraid but thank God for bringing me out alive. I was taken to the recovery room and another pain started, my back was paining me seriously. I was crying and begging them to turn me.on my side but they refused bcs of the stitches, I was in so much pain and was given injections to knock me out. I woke up by 5pm and asked for my baby to pray for him again, I was asking if he is cute cheesy.

Post birth
I stayed in the hospital for 5 days after which I was discharged. I fell ill immediately after naming, from malaria to typhoid, low pcv of 24, swollen legs which started after birth, stomachaused by intestinal gut obstruction, stooling and vomiting and thrombosed heamorrhoid. Ha, na only me waka come? Was admitted for another 6 days and did a mini procedure to unclot the haemorrhoid. I could not feed my baby and he refused to take formula, when I hear him crying I will start crying too. I had to beg them to hold him beside me and I started breastfeeding while lying down. I was discharged and told to be on a strict liquid diet for 3 weeks. Still on it but am very strong now, thanks to God.

I appreciate all the Mam's here who have kept this thread alive, I learnt so much. Thank you for your prayers and encouragement. Team June like no other, thank you all. I pray for all the ttc and waddling Mama's, we shall read your testimony soon. Porting to the new born thread but will peep in here from time to time, vigilante is so real. God bless you all

Cappo Ayauche, bs submitted o
The things mothers go through to bring new life into this world... Nne,you are blessed. You will recover sooner than you think and be around longer than your enemies wish to enjoy the pains and joys of motherhood. Kisses to LO.

Team June with our drama sha.. grin grin
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mandysmum: 7:53pm On Jul 10, 2018
rofemiguwa:
Birth story

I thank God for his mercies, this pregnancy has being filled with drama.
My edd was 5 and 7 july according to scan n lmp.
Spent 2/3 of my first trimester hospitalized due to severe ms.
Half of my 2nd trimester on intermittent bed rest due to cramps
My 3rd I was already waddling by 7months.baby's head dropped early.i couldnt bend and I was as lazy as slob eh.
I was having frequent BH contractions. It became normal sef to me.
I stopped driving.uber and taxify finish my money eh!. chai!.

Fast forward to 20 june.after my ANC. I decided to finally shop and pack hospital bag incase of emergency as if I knew.
On sunday 24th june.i was on call..so I prepared went to work by 8am, while at work I was having my usual false contractions or so I thought.
So inbetween attending to my patients I will jus lie down when I could to get a little relief. I was jokingly telling my colleague 'this kain busy duty I go soon born for una for hia'. We all laughed about it.i now said I was going to as my ogas for the day off on monday cos that sunday had being stressful so I dont deliver before my time.

I closed by 830pm.hubby came to pick me.when we got home.i prepared dinner, we ate, the contractions came back.i just took a bath and told oga am going to bed early, that probably due to the stress, the BH contraction is back.

Went to bed by 10pm couldn't sleep, every 45mins this contractions will come. Ahhah! Which kain false contractions get time like this, went to the bathroom checked. No show, no mucus plug, no water.God help me oo. Went back to bed. 12am contractions every 20mins.chineke! This can't be false again na, went to the bathroom, still no show, no mucus plug, no water. I started praying 'God please I don't understand anymore, am sorry i wanted to skip work ooo, pls just let this contractions stop oo, I will go to work tomorrow' for where.i woke hubby please gimme paracetamol. He asked are u in labor I said I dont know ooooo, should we go to the hospital? I said I no.
1245am contraction becaming longer and every 5mins. I told hubby hospital ooooooo.i had pulled my pyjamas n thrown oneside I was walking to n fro the parlor praying. Oga jus grabbed one free gown threw over my head I just put one hand in , open the door started walking down stairs barefoot.Dh was lke wait ur slippers.i didnt even ans.when the contractions come.i jus pause n grab the railings.my sister carried my box.thank God I packed.

Got downstairs opened the door I climbed in, dh realise I forgot my hospital card, he asked my sister to close the car door wen I go in since i was now moving in slow motion, the contraction was every 1min n lasted 10secs longer.and den ran in to get my handbag

As I jus put on leg in, another contraction came with the urge to poo.as I pushed baby head came out.i just shouted my baby is coming oooo, next 30secs senod contraction baby body slipped out.i jus held my baby crying my baby is here ooo.my sister almosted fainted cheesy grin.she screamed out my whole neighbourhood out from their sleep.hubby ran down stairs carefully moved the other leg in the car closed the door and drove james bond to the hospital.
As God will have it all the estate security was still at their duty post by 1am.the opened the gate fast.we went to the nearest hospital.wen the gate man saw how hubby dove he ran away from the gate probably tinking it was robbers. I just told hubby lets go to my hospital pls.we raced down there.got the nurses.they came to the car cut the cord.took baby for suctioning n cleaning.
Then helped me to the labour room where I delivered the placenta and was stitched.

Tank God for his mercies.he is really a faithful God.

Team july thats how june snatched me ooooooo.

Congrats to all team july that haf delivered, those still waddling more grace. May God make it easy for all of us oooo.
OMG!! shocked shocked shocked... This BS of yours has rendered me speechless. Thank God I didn't skip unread pages as usual. You are a wonder woman.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mandysmum: 10:25am On Jun 30, 2018
Ayauche:
TEAM JUNE 2018
A team like no other, team June for supernatural delivery and excellent children.

ANNOUNCING THE BIRTH OF OUR BABIES

Portees from May
1. glamk 1/6/2018 XY
2. Anistef 9/6/2018 XY
3. arbbiegold 3/6/2018. XX

Porters to May
1. vastviola 13/5/2018 XX
2. Mumofnations. 21/5/2018 XX
3. FINA4804 27/5/2018 XX
4. Mandysmum 31/5/2018 XX
5. lessonlearned 31/5/2018 XY BS seen

June Births
6. Jessie21 1/6/2018 XY BS seen
7. rubyzz 1/6/2018. XY
8. Ladytari 1/6/2018 XX
9. Amarisa 2/6/2018 XX
10. rabola1 2/6/2018 XX
11. Emerald22 4/6/2018 XX
12. Ayauche 9/6/2018 XY BS seen
13. Mummydd 12/6/2018. XY
14. goldendollars 13/6/2018 XY BS seen
15. enkay2016 13/6/2018 XY
16. Strongwoman333 13/6/2018 XX BS seen
17. Olalayo1710 14/6/2018 XY
18. dacutebaby 14/6/2018 XY



19. DNA07 22/6/2018 XX
20. Sandypearl 23/6/2018 XY
21. JUMAYIN 30/6/2018 XY
22. Hannydimples 30/6/2018 XY
Mamas we await ur wonderful BAs and BS. May God in his infinite mercies make it easy for u all in Jesus name.

Porters from July
1. Excel16 3/6/2018 XY(twins)
2. FloraEC 14/6/2018
3. rolk 19/6/2018 XY
4. Ohferanmi 19/6/2018 XY
5. rofemiguwa 25/6/2018 XX


Please if there's any mistake or wrong input, kindly alert me before our final report tmr.
Thank u Mighty man in battle, it can only be u.
Team June am proud to be part of u, pls go through this to ensure accuracy as we await our remaining mamas.
I have sent my BS tey tey na. Abeg update oo.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mandysmum: 7:20pm On Jun 23, 2018
StrongWoman333:
BS Part 7(final episode). cheesy

They stitched me back and I was wheeled back to the labour room I saw all what they were doing after stitching ...they kept injecting different parts of my body with probably pain killers , injections, etc but I wasn't feeling anything due to the Anastasia. Surgery ended around 11pm and Anastasia started wearing off till about 3am I started feeling pain on the surgery site. My princess arrived on 13th June weighing 3.5kg. Surgery was done on wed 13th June and I was discharged on Friday 15th June. My hubby is the most supporting, loving and caring man on earth . I give God all the glory in all, I return all praise to him. I also want to appreciate all mamas on this thread I really learnt a lot. Also my team June mamas I appreciate you all. Thanks for the likes , mentions etc I really don't have the strength to start quoting every one now but I appreciate you all. I will be porting to the new born thread but will always peep here to say hi and also respond to quest ions i know answers to. By Gods grace, God will bless me again and I will be back again by year 2020 cheesy
Cc: Cappo Ayauche and Rubyzz BA and BS Submitted. smiley




Below is a picture of my snow whitey princess whenever I look at her, I shed tears of joy and also forget all the pains I passed through. Indeed, motherhood is sweet...I also use her as a point of contact for all women all over the world believing God for the fruit of the womb. Cheers smiley smiley smiley
You are indeed a strong woman. Your princess is an adorable cutie. Team June babies don finish work. grin
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mandysmum: 10:06am On Jun 14, 2018
enkay2016:
BA! BA! BA!

My prince arrived on 13th June by 5:23am,weighing 3.8kg via VD without tears..

cc: Rubbyz , Ayauche

safe delivery to the remaining June waddling mamas
Congrats teamie. A quick recovery to you and God's blessings on LO.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mandysmum: 9:54am On Jun 14, 2018
StrongWoman333:
BA my pretty princess just arrived today around 8pm through elective CS weighing 3.5kg...weak and tired BS later.

CC. Rubyzz, Ayauche. Team June
Congratulations, mama. Please recover well. We are not in a hurry to read any BS. Mummy and baby healthy is the ultimate goal. Kisses to our princess. kiss
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mandysmum: 7:45am On Jun 10, 2018
Ayauche:
BA! BA!! BA
Join me in praising God as I welcome my Prince charming today the 9th of June, 2018 @ 12:04pm weighing 2.9kg via VD. It can only be God.

Team June like no other. God bless u all.

Cappo hope u are better now.
goldendollars how are?
Strongwoman333 and Hannydimples hope u are warming up.

BS coming soonest
Yay! Assistant cappo on the beat! Congrats and welcome to our Prince Charming.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mandysmum:
Part 2 BS

37weeks+, I found out I will be in the east for an important reason and will most likely give birth while there,so I made all arrangements and travelled with hubby at 38 weeks+. I quickly got recommendations for a good hospital and got myself acquainted with the staff and doctors. They are very wonderful people, infact.

My EDD was 06/06, so I relaxed myself for the coming two weeks,while trying to boost my blood level. But my baby had other plans of her own. On the morning of May 30th(Biafra day), I woke up and waddled to pee. After wiping,I saw blood stains. I have never bled,not even spotted at the beginning of the pregnancy, so what was this one na? I came online and threw the question to the house and some mamas advised me to go to the hospital. I and hubby rushed down,praying that we would not meet any violent group on the road. We arrived safely and I was ushered to a room to be checked. I never saw what came next. Vaginal examination is a bitch,mehn! I almost slapped the midwife in shock. She calmed me down enough to confirm that I was in labour and was 3cm dilated. She relayed it to he doctor and was advised to go home and wait till I feel strong and regular contractions, and return to them. I didn't wait to be told twice. My nyansh was already traumatized by that chooking of hand inside.

Throughout that day,I was waiting expectantly for the contractions to hit hard but nothing. At about 7pm,I cajoled hubby to follow me on an excruciatingly painful climb up a hill to force labour. After we came back,I went to urinate, and saw my bloody show. I knew my efforts were not in vain. Still,there was no contractions. I settled down for the night,hoping it would begin in the morning. As I lay down to sleep,I had a wet sensation down south. I got up and wham! My water gushed down. I woke hubby up to take me to the hospital. We got there at 11:35pm. I forgot that I was gonna go through another VE. When the night shift midwife came, and led me to the table,my heart did a flip ten times. I was like who sent me to come here now. This particular midwife was extraordinarily rough. No lubrication like the first one,just straight to the business. I screamed the hospital down. My hubby burst in,thinking I was already in active labour. grin

I was told I was only 4cm gone. Mogbe! Since morning! I spent the whole night climbing ramps and stairs, trying to hasten labour. Also went through three more VE every four hours till 9 am. A line was attached to my vein,ready for drips and whatever at anytime. Still, the whole process was dragging on slowly. The doctor told me that if by 1pm,nothing had changed,he would have to speed things up himself.

Come 1pm,there was no one to attend to me. All the staff had gone to their nursing school upstairs for an exam held that day! I had to wait till 2pm when they finished before I was checked again. This time I was only 6cm gone. Ha! I was mad as hell. I told them to do what they could to hasten things up cuz I was tired. No food or water since morning. The doctor led me to the delivery room on the pretext of checking me again. That was the last coherent thought I had for the next thirty minutes.

They discussed amongst themselves and came to a conclusion. Me,I was lying down waiting for them to tell me what's up. I didn't know one of the nurses had already injected something into my drip,till I looked up and saw it hanging above my head. The moment the drug hit my veins,I felt it. A coldness started from my hand and spread to my body. Me,that was having one contraction every thirty minutes, had five contractions in quick succession in six minutes. My back was being rubbed by one of the nurses and I was told how to breathe to ease the pain. The doctor told me that I would deliver very soon. I was like how? I just started having serious contractions. Within two minutes, I had the urge to poo. Everyone swung into action. They told me to push when the next contraction comes. When it hit,I pushed but I was snapping my legs shut. Come and see four nurses holding my legs down. They warned me not to try that stunt again. grin

Next one hit again, but it wasn't enough to push the baby out. The doctor then left his position and came to my belly and started tickling my skin. The next contraction started building up immediately. When it hit, he pushed down on my belly hard while another nurse pushed from head angle. I pushed very hard and poom! My baby came out all at once. I still don't know the speed at which the doctor used to catch her from his position of pushing my belly. I looked down and saw my fair skinned princess. She came out crying and the first thing she did was to suck her slimy fingers. cheesy

Placenta was attended to,I was cleaned up and moved to my ward to rest. The total amount of time,starting from when I was led to be checked by the doctor to when I was cleaned up took just approximately 30mins. Everything happened so fast that I was asking myself if I was done with delivery. And all without a single tear...

I just thank God for all. I thank all the mamas on this great thread for being there for people like me. I also thank all those who sent their well wishes. I can't begin to mention one by one but you are all special.

Lest I forget, I don't know how it happened or when it happened but on one of my numerous scans at 16/17weeks, the fibroids had all disappeared.

This is my princess an hour after her birth

Cc Rubyzz,Ayauche. BS submitted.

Picture taken down. wink
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mandysmum:
Double post grin
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mandysmum: 2:22pm On Jun 05, 2018
B.S.

Where do I begin? This journey has been a roller coaster of emotions for me. I got married last May, and the countdown to a BFP started for me. My in-laws supposedly got a divine message from a man of God that I will have fertility issues and will not conceive on time. You can just imagine the results of such prophecy on me. Thank God for my husband who dismissed them and stood by me. End of May,June and July passed but no BFP. I began to doubt my faith and believe there might be an atom of truth in what they said. August came and I almost fell into despair but my sister talked me out of it. I put on a new face and told myself to snap out of it cuz I was transferring aggression unto my hubby.

When end of September came and my period hadn't come as expected,I didn't even think about it cuz many things were happening at once at that time,so it didn't occur to me that my period was late. Things settled down and I suddenly realised I was two weeks late. That has never happened before. I am like clockwork in my periods. I became nervous. What if this was a false alarm? Wasn't it too soon to get pregnant according to the prophecy? So many useless thoughts going through my head. My younger sister was also a monitoring spirit,keeping track of my cycle,all in a quest to get the first grandkid of the family. Na she push me go do test. When the result showed positive,my heart almost gave out. I just sat for hours alone, thanking God for His mercies. I told hubby and my folks... You can all imagine the rest. grin... That was the last time I smiled for the next nine months.

Two weeks later,I felt an urging in the spirit that all wasn't well with my baby,so I convinced hubby to go with me for a scan. When the sonographer was doing his thing on my belly,he innocently asked me what I am planning to do about my multit fibroids. I was like you say wahhh?? shocked. What fibroids? How? From where? He was confused sef. He confirmed that there were a number of fibroids with a major big one growing in the wall of my uterus. Ha! My enemies has succeeded. The guy wasn't finished. He said my baby was about to be miscarried,courtesy of the bleeding around my uterus wall. The guy typed my results, handed it to me and sent me off with words of encouragement, saying most first time pregnancies end up in miscarriages and I will still have more to come. His words fell on deaf ears. All I kept hearing was that prophecy and its implications. I got home and started crying. I called my immediate elder sis and told her(cuz she was the one who saw me in a dream at the end of July, holding a light skinned baby girl), and she emphatically told me that she didn't see me fighting fibroids or whatever but holding a baby girl,so I should clean my tears and brace for the battle ahead. Na so I carry myself go hospital the next day.

The doctor saw the result of the scan,spoke to me about it and gave me the pros and cons of the treatment process. I was to prepare my mind for anything. I told him my baby is here to stay. He shrugged and said let us begin. Treatment started and I was put on total bed rest. No more hopping on okada,no bending down,no anything. Just food,water and sleep. After two weeks of bed rest, I went back to the same scan center for another scan to take with me to the hospital. This time the guy was happy for me and told me all was well,but the fibroids were growing at an alarming rate. I just left that one to God and said it will end well. That was when I discovered this great thread and began to learn from other mamas here.

Two days after I got the positive news from the scan and doctor, morning sickness hit me and mehn, it hit hard. I couldn't keep anything down. No food,water or drugs could stay down. I lost weight drastically in three days. My ribs and cheek bones became prominent like those Sudanese refugees. Hubby was bloody scared and wanted me to remove the baby if it was going to endanger my life. The look I gave him shut him up for good. Still, I couldn't eat. My folic acid pills lay untouched cuz I couldn't keep it down. I don't know how I managed to survive that period without going to the hospital for drip infusion. I found a taste for Sprite and that was what I lived on. Morning till night,see me pushing down Sprite down my throat.

I managed till I clocked 20 weeks. That was when I had that scare in my compound(I wrote about it early January). We made plans to move out immediately. While the hunt for a new place was on,I had a serious bike accident two weeks after the first incident. Lucky for me,when I fell,I landed on my hip and instinctively used my hands to shield my belly. My right ankle was seriously battered and trust me,the pain is something else. Due to my condition, I had to manage only panadol as the pain reliever. We moved out two weeks after. Imagine me setting up my new home with one leg in serious pains. I had to beg my younger sister to leave her PPA in PH to come and help me. All my in-laws who lived thirty mins away in the same state had not given me a call since my husband told them I was pregnant.

30weeks and I was still battling morning sickness and how to eat. I was still underweight but my consolation was that every time I went for antenatal, the doctor kept reassuring me that my baby was fine and was even doing better than I was. My count down to week 40 began. I didn't trusty my body to hold out that long,so I was praying to God to help me with an easy delivery, cuz I had suffered enough. Thank God for the man I married who made things more easier for me. He was the one who did all the house cleaning every Saturday since we moved into our new home in February. God will bless him specially for that alone.

34weeks came and my most hated SIL came to live with us for logistics reasons. My stress level shot up. My PCV was very low for the first time in this pregnancy. I forced myself to eat,drink malt and milk and took my drugs but it just wasn't working. Up till two weeks ago,my PCV was still abysmally low. The doctor warned me that it didn't bode well for me for delivery, considering my history. I told him God was in control. He agreed with me.

I came online one morning and saw a mama's BS, and how her delivery was so easy that it took a total of just 4hours. I began to use that as a prayer point. I wanted that testimony too,after all I had gone through. But my PCV wouldn't allow me to be great angry

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