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Walahi God Know This Guy No get sense
Instead of you to sit her down discuss it with her
You're Disgracing Her Useless Human Being

nwanneni:
no help needed!i am just passing a message across to girls.
You think i am going to spend a dime to fix her breath?fvck no
I always know what to do.hardly do i ask for advice.
Thanks anyways

ILLarii:
This post is so selfish ,only about what women want, about their dreams ,goals etc. Men have wants ,dreams and goals but it's overlooked because women think they must be worshiped .just not fair

HolyBranches:
The players will read the Good Men part and use it to continue confusing women

HolyBranches:
The players will read the Good Men part and use it to continue confusing women

UrVillagePpl:
they is ntin like a good man,,,

stop dcivin ur self

Amakavula:
You can always forgive her nah, the past is the past. Love prevails.. but I can't advice my brother to marry such a lady.

DanDeeBoss:
Most of them say things they wouldn't do in real life... On social media, everyone is a "boss" "commando"

Biglittlelois:
Slap mother in law that was wrong, very very wrong of her, even if the husband allow her back into the house, how will things be in the home?? Some women sef smh!!!

LightQueen:
Better pikin
Some comments here just weak me..
Slapping your mother in-law is just like slapping your own mother
Spending such huge amount, she is just unreasonable.
The mother in-law is also at fault anyways

emeraldknytt:
OP, ignore the THOT on this thread. What your mother did was wrong but it doesn't make it unright. Sending her(your wife) out was far-fetched too (let alone filing a divorce). Tolerance isn't a woman's virtue alone, it is man's too (what is good for the goose is good for the gander). You will call your wife's mother or father/both to tell either/them what happened (please only offer the narrative to whichever is more approachable between them and know that your wife would have said her own side of the story). Look on the bright side, she's been helping you with your transport fare for about two months or so (she's a good woman in that regard and will make a fine mother too).

You will have to tell her parents to help speak to her and when she is ready to come as a suppliant to apologise to your mum, you'd have to plead on her behalf too (perhaps after speaking with mum not to bear any further resentment cos it is grave offence what your wife did).

Lastly, you have to tell your mum about keeping her impulse in check and not acting on it. Your wife isn't a kid neither is she one with a down syndrome. Words are more painful and implementing more than the most thunderous of slaps when used effectively. Even if a child behaves like a child, a sage will behave like a sage. Bring back your wife and you need a lot of manning up to do as well. When there is no tolerance/forbearance in marriage, it crumples like a withered leaf. God help you and help save your marriage too.

funmisticqueen:
maybe your marriage is about endurance but please don't generalise to others abeg

Ishilove:
But why will your mum slap her?? Violence begat violence. It will take a lot of self restraint not to retaliate in that kind of scenario.

mhizdebbygold:
I hate it when this topic comes up and some ignorant people will take sides with the wife....so her mum have been slapping her and she have been retaliating?..
Is she high on something?
That is a big insult no matter what. That means slapping her husband won't be a problem to her. Bia who born her sef?
If I were the husband that divorce will be immediate
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Yuceeluv:
At all, she is just trying to console herself. But people should leave her alone before she commits suicide. She is still kinda depressed.

lefulefu:
but u love wat u seeing abi?

falcon01:
lol she has no difference with An average Nigerian girl

rame18:
The hypocrisy of a Nigerian man is alarming. meanwhile, same man that has been a gigolo will go and pick virgin and marry.

Daviddson:
But people's choices always have consequences, either in the short or long run.

Daviddson:
Isn't it funny how she's only replying those advising her on how to go ahead and lose it while ignoring good advices telling abstinence till is still possible? It's well.

JasonScoolari:
Boss Lady, I've been to the London to see the Queen.

Anyway, I've been busy "Politically"
Greetings!

DanDeeBoss:
Alright

Crayn8:
when it happens it will shock you eh

DanDeeBoss:
It's not about drawing na.... Tell me something

Page420:
today wi haffi hope and pray bad mind people and dem evilest ways hear say dem wan mi dead inna di worst ways wan see mi whole body lay down ina grave buh dat a nuttin mi cyan hangle see things different from anoda angle all round time feelin like me gettin strangle haffi shute first for my life style dangle.pon di edge because anytime mi tink 'bout Gambo I full up a pain and sorrow so mi haffi ride on solo

Page420:
today wi haffi hope and pray bad mind people and dem evilest ways hear say dem wan mi dead inna di worst ways wan see mi whole body lay down ina grave buh dat a nuttin mi cyan hangle see things different from anoda angle all round time feelin like me gettin strangle haffi shute first for my life style dangle.pon di edge because anytime mi tink 'bout Gambo I full up a pain and sorrow so mi haffi ride on solo