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solidmyk:
Firstly I commend you for being open minded, but bro your situation rn is just kinda of complicated reason been that you're already in love with the lady so any of my words of advise might seem inconvenient to you, and as you know, there's this saying that'the wrong time to advice a man is when he's already fallen in love. But if you can reflect on my lil advice it will help you in the long run.

In my opinion I think the lady is just an opportunist secondly I don't support office romance same with dating a babe you both worship together in same place of worship.
My thoughts are the lady, she's observed you all these years and has realized that you're an easy kill, her assumption of you is just like a predator and it's prey and all the attributes that shows you as a prey is glaring all over you, forget she called you and all those stuff blah blah.. bro she's just looking for where to settle down after all the years of hoeing around, I would have adviced you to go along with her game but bro you're not fit.
But does that stops you in getting in touch with her nah, to confirm your suspicions, after getting in touch with her ask if she's still a virgin if not that's a big red flag, you should also ask about the number of relationship she's been into, that should give you a clue about the number of sexual partner she's had in the past if she's not a virgin.

You also said something about being an introvert and all, bro all those are just mind conditioning I was always like this in the past too.
Just know you've to break free from that lifestyle it's not gonna help, learn how to be social, go out with friends on weekends and experience how to interact with more people esp the females with your eyes in contact with theirs, that's gonna help bro I started doing this and in the long run everything became normal.
We are all wip but bro you still have a long way to go,
In the mean time make sure you don't get emotional thereby professing your love to her.
Read many redpill content as much as possible esp Ubunja's miseducations making sure all knowledge gained is not only for this issue, but instead in the long term.
Learn about women nature..
Make sure shishi no comot your hand spend for her, your time and attention guarded all times.
Lastly make sure your response to her is short and straight, she writes 7 you reply with 3 that way you'll be in frame. Hope this helps

TRP1:
One thing I love doing again is cracking/digging up the web because there’re lot of hidden infos there.
So before entering sch I came across a business stuff on one of the web (nairaland) I Dey crack then which I try to run it with my savings From my craft it was successful at first then later got scammed of some funds then i gather confidence and enter again and it was successful
While that was successful i try learning how the guys did the business stuff direct from yankee because as at then i be like middle man.

@ 1st semester break I went back to learn how these guys were able to run this stuff from oversee and not me being a middle man which failed at first attempt I tried slowly again and it was successful and from there I started making some cool cash.

i see a lot of peeps talking about business and the likes jere but you all don’t wanna sacrifice time and energy in doing things
People give up easily once the things they are doing is not fruitful.
in everything you do in life always belive there’s a light at the end of every tunnel and never give up in getting to the light area

Typing …

Emotionss:
So I recently handled a contract recently (supplying 10s of thousand of granite to a multinational company) The contract was stressful but very profitable

I was paid my balance last weekend, went to the bank on Monday, withdrew some money, packaged them in envelopes, Went to work on Tuesdays, during break period, gave Each MAN at my work place an envelope with cash inside Except Two guys that are known Snitchs And SIMPs.(always sidingng with them female staffs)

The most memorable and painful thing I witnessed was the way the two Elderly security Men reacted to this gift. One of them was literally laughing and crying at the same time. When asked what was the problem, He replied that this is the first time in his life he has been appreciated for being a MAN. The man in question is around 50-60 years of age. That statement brought out some kind of Emotions that only Men can/will understand. Took that opportunity and introduced them to the Redpill....


Thursday morning got a call from MD( My Redpill/Casanova uncle) to inquire about what happened at the site on Tuesday because apparently, he received a mail by the accountant on behalf of the women at Site who are not happy with me for excluding them (women) in my Father's Day Giveaway and as if that is not enough, I went and convince some of the male workers to join a female hating Cult group (Redpill)... So they (female staffs) are demanding I be punish for my misogynistic attitude.

After explaining what happened, Big Bros hissed and ended the call. Don't know what he told the accountant, saw her crying and being consoled by some female staffs....

Friday morning, manager (great guy) told me the accountant is threatening to resign by month/year end if no disciplinary action is taking against me. He relayed the massage to MD, MD has given a directive we start looking for Her replacement immediately...

Madam tried to play the victim manipulating card, unfortunately, it backfired on her......

Come Monday next week, I am going to buy launch for all the male staffs at my work place. I will speak to those women in the language they will understand...



Guys do yourself this favour. Have FRAME.

Emotionss:
So I recently handled a contract recently (supplying 10s of thousand of granite to a multinational company) The contract was stressful but very profitable

I was paid my balance last weekend, went to the bank on Monday, withdrew some money, packaged them in envelopes, Went to work on Tuesdays, during break period, gave Each MAN at my work place an envelope with cash inside Except Two guys that are known Snitchs And SIMPs.(always sidingng with them female staffs)

The most memorable and painful thing I witnessed was the way the two Elderly security Men reacted to this gift. One of them was literally laughing and crying at the same time. When asked what was the problem, He replied that this is the first time in his life he has been appreciated for being a MAN. The man in question is around 50-60 years of age. That statement brought out some kind of Emotions that only Men can/will understand. Took that opportunity and introduced them to the Redpill....


Thursday morning got a call from MD( My Redpill/Casanova uncle) to inquire about what happened at the site on Tuesday because apparently, he received a mail by the accountant on behalf of the women at Site who are not happy with me for excluding them (women) in my Father's Day Giveaway and as if that is not enough, I went and convince some of the male workers to join a female hating Cult group (Redpill)... So they (female staffs) are demanding I be punish for my misogynistic attitude.

After explaining what happened, Big Bros hissed and ended the call. Don't know what he told the accountant, saw her crying and being consoled by some female staffs....

Friday morning, manager (great guy) told me the accountant is threatening to resign by month/year end if no disciplinary action is taking against me. He relayed the massage to MD, MD has given a directive we start looking for Her replacement immediately...

Madam tried to play the victim manipulating card, unfortunately, it backfired on her......

Come Monday next week, I am going to buy launch for all the male staffs at my work place. I will speak to those women in the language they will understand...



Guys do yourself this favour. Have FRAME.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Females are the Original Redpillers... Females are the Original Gamers....But as Next-gen Gamers ourselves special thanks to the godfather himself Ubunja, we suggest manny 99 turning the dread game on its head by meeting and socialising with more females especially those that choose you, if you have the opportunity to meet and get into the good books of girls close to your target...All the more the better...Just remember to maintain frame and be stoic in all these manoeuvers...If you have done well,we envisage your target going crazy over your sh**t.[/color]

Oyin2212:
She's using the dread game on you.
For the guy that was asking ichidodo about the dread game, come and see how it is done properly by a female o.

Authority to OP: Maintain frame bro. Don't crack, she'll come around. If she doesn't, fine.

fergie1989:
In the last few days there have been reported cases of massive killings in Kogi State University, KSU, as cult groups wreak havoc on students.

A report puts the killings in the institution at 13 as at Monday.

The management of the institution are yet to react to the killings, but some students of the school have been venting their anger over the inability of the school’s authority to handle the issue and bring the cultists to book.

Twitter is littered with various reports by students of the institution calling for prayers over massive cult killings in KSU.

A student of the school who goes by the name, Labzy Usuff on Twitter said “They’ve been continuous killings in Kogi state University yet the management did not do anything about it.”

Another student, who simply preferred to be called by the name, Chemical Boy, lamented that that on November 1, a student was shot dead, the same day a student of the University of Benin was shot dead by cultists.

Sources in the school alleged that 10 students were killed in one day by cultists with several students resorting to prayers and calling on the public to pray for the institution.

When contacted, Police Public Relations Officer, PPRO, Kogi State Police Command, DSP William Ovye Aya, said it could not be true that about 13 people have been killed in the school, but said he would confirm and get back to PM News.

He later called to confirm the clash, saying that five students were killed at the weekend by cultists, saying it happened in a separate attacks.

Aya said the it was cases of homicide and that the police were investigating the matter.

According to him, from the look of things, the attack was cult-related as the five students killed were butchered with machetes.

https://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2019/11/04/cultists-on-loose-as-massive-killings-hit-kogi-state-university/

dumo1:
My friend sometimes you have to make sacrifices to get what you really want. Just giving up like that won't help at all..

BrainArk:
learnt Warren buffet still uses Nokia torch light phone he is my role model... billionaire gang
learnt Warren buffet still uses Nokia torch light phone he is my role model... billionaire gang

doggedfighter:
Make a move first, dear She may be waiting for you to make an attempt. Leave the excuses first and try. Stop thinking

doggedfighter:
Why wishing when you can have her?
Go for your girl !!

Phenomenal16:
..u can still go for her......since she's working already .....hu knows things might turn out fine

BrainArk:
Is that why you have to quote the op 3 times?
Do you knowsome of us are using Nokia c3? do you know how it is scrolling through each page and the kind of problem you just gave me cause you quoted the op 3 damned times??.Infact you will never get that girl in this life nor in the next life.

DaddySoftapple:
You remember the first relationship you ever got into?

It was like Disney world right?
Romeo and Juliet kind of Love, it's like getting drunk on love.

We all thought it will last forever because it's the first time in a relationship, we were young and naive and thought the movies Between Emeka ike and Genevieve were real life love.
Oh you remember that perfect love movie between Genevieve and Ramson Noah when Black arrow killed Ramson Noah?

You are the love of my life!!
The reason why am alive!!

Well reality hit us and it all went crashing down.

Well do you know the whereabouts of your first lover?

As for me, i won't lie i still look at her Instagram page sometimes o, she is married to a soldier, with two kids, happy family, she is now very happy.

So Early this year, I sent her a dm, we started talking and one day i got a phone call from her husband a week ago, asking to meet me up and that his wife have been saying great things about me.

That was the last day i stopped sending her DMS

I ran for my life

So guys where is now your first love and what happened between you two?

Based on the order of the Peaky blinders.

DaddySoftapple:
You remember the first relationship you ever got into?

It was like Disney world right?
Romeo and Juliet kind of Love, it's like getting drunk on love.

We all thought it will last forever because it's the first time in a relationship, we were young and naive and thought the movies Between Emeka ike and Genevieve were real life love.
Oh you remember that perfect love movie between Genevieve and Ramson Noah when Black arrow killed Ramson Noah?

You are the love of my life!!
The reason why am alive!!

Well reality hit us and it all went crashing down.

Well do you know the whereabouts of your first lover?

As for me, i won't lie i still look at her Instagram page sometimes o, she is married to a soldier, with two kids, happy family, she is now very happy.

So Early this year, I sent her a dm, we started talking and one day i got a phone call from her husband a week ago, asking to meet me up and that his wife have been saying great things about me.

That was the last day i stopped sending her DMS

I ran for my life

So guys where is now your first love and what happened between you two?

Based on the order of the Peaky blinders.

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies don't ever try it you'll be consider cheap and they would use you to count score.......Nigerian men don't understand the word EASY they value it when they hustle to get you.....

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies don't ever try it you'll be consider cheap and they would use you to count score.......Nigerian men don't understand the word EASY they value it when they hustle to get you.....

Phenomenal16:
I met this young man sometime ago...OK we av been together for few months now.......
I recently noticed he doesn't call often or he will say he's busy only for him not to call later.....
I feel he doesn't value the relationship again like before.....though he was talking about marriage.
And this is a guy I av come to love with my whole heart, he don't av money and I don't demand even though am a student with out any means of income

I haven't experienced heart break..... I don't want to believe what am thinking.
This thing called love is really weird......u love with all ur heart ,is as if the person doesn't appreciate u enough.
And most ppl I don't love keeps on disturbing me.....
Should I keep on Calling him?... Or should I wait for him to call me .forgive my typo

vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.

Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.

I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.

She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.

But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.

So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.

She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.

On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.

But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.

This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we

always planned the future together, gisted about aot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.

If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.

This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading

and sorry for the lengthy right up.

2dice01:
Welcome to the Single life brahh

Well when next you are in a relationship dont let her know everything about you

Women love Mystery

You already handed her your balls when she threaten to breakup the first time am sure you begged her

All those are Tests and you were failing gradually till she rusticate you outta her school(life)


Enjoy your single life
Delete her number/pics/contacts
Go on a casual date with friends and Crushes

Chop the Head of your life this December

She will come back maybe nextyear

i hope you wont give any fùck

2dice01:
Welcome to the Single life brahh

Well when next you are in a relationship dont let her know everything about you

Women love Mystery

You already handed her your balls when she threaten to breakup the first time am sure you begged her

All those are Tests and you were failing gradually till she rusticate you outta her school(life)


Enjoy your single life
Delete her number/pics/contacts
Go on a casual date with friends and Crushes

Chop the Head of your life this December

She will come back maybe nextyear

i hope you wont give any fùck