abuhusna1:

You own your life as an adult, look up to yourself and not your dad. Grow up man, don't lose a good woman because of sex. You may just ask her if she permits you to marry second wife atleast that one will supplement the sex life you are missing and I'm sure she will adjust if you tell her you are taking second wife

OP you have a good woman, if she is not cheating and sex is the only problem. My suggestion is you both should try see a sex therapist (Trust me this works). There may be some things you are not doing right in the other room or the way you approach her. Taking a second wife will only make your life hell. And remember you have kids. The solution to your problem is not divorce or second wife.

abuhusna1:

It is called humble beginning. I started like this with my wife today we got everything still counting. We all live in the uk now and got some property in naija. You just need to be with a man with a vision and support each other with prayers and hard work

This is one of the reasons some women go crazy when their husbands decide to start cheating or taking second wife when they become wealthy, even without the wife faulting in anyway . Imagine starting with someone like this and then... Meanwhile this is the kind of marriage that should last with a beautiful story...

With this your cooked up story, it means your wife was already pregnant when you knack sidechic belle. If the case was reversed, how would you feel. Get ready to deal with the war of polygamy. Body go tell you!

This is so disgusting 🤮😲😲😲😲. Almost unbelievable!

You both should be speaking to a therapist. Try to ignore the negative comments here though....
Especially those ones saying they will send their wives out bla bla bla. Guy no mind them o...

SenatePresdo:
Hahaha, it's funny you wife has the Audacity to refuse you sex because of her masturbation addiction.

That's what happens to guys that refuses to put their women on their toes.

I feel like telling you to shut up!

Problem

* Your partner loses all the attention
* You hardly ever compliment your partner as beautiful /handsome
* Unresolved disputes : normally there are times arguments comes up in marriage,when they do come up, a partner that is addicted to phone don't get tired of the malice since they have their phone to keep them entertained when you are actually supposed to be resolving the issue with your partner
* Communication suffers : if you have a phone addicted partner, you can both be in the house for hours without saying a word to each other
* You begin to beg your partner for things like holding you, hugging you or even telling you goodbye when going out cos they are always on their phone
* If your partner is addicted to tiktok,it's even worse, he/she will begin to get advice on marriage from people who are not even married and may begin to act towards whatever advice they dish out both beneficial and the ones that are not beneficial (mostly the negative ones)
* He/she may never compliment you, but go ahead to comment on posts. How annoying!
* He/she will never appreciate your hard work because they aren't seeing it, they only see their phone
* You are lucky if he or she still has time to eat
* You not only suffer during the day but also at night. once they wake up, the first thing they go to is their phone, not to check time dear, but to continue from where they stopped or to check if the comments they made has been seen or replied to.
* They see nothing wrong in it
* They come close to you only when they want sex, any other time is phone time
* They never agree they are addicted


This list is endless and I am not in anyway saying phone, internet or social media is no good. It's the addiction and/or the effects of excessive usage