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Politics › Re: Dangote Refinery Beginning Operation!!! by Mantilla(m): 10:23am On Sep 03, 2023 |
[b][/b] Ofunaofu: You mean imported fuel are being stored there
 Yes |
Crime › Re: They Burst The Left Eye, Burst Right Eye Blackaxe Vs Maphite PHOTOS by Mantilla(m): 8:14am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Smhh.. At least he has given his workplace opportunity to employee a more useful fellow |
Politics › Re: Chinese Secretly Mining Titanium Ore In Nigeria Intercepted; Ruitai Firm Shut by Mantilla(m): 8:12am On Sep 02, 2023 |
😂😂😂
They will return after settlement |
Politics › Re: Dangote Refinery Beginning Operation!!! by Mantilla(m): 8:10am On Sep 02, 2023 |
It's a storage facility for now |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Niger: Junta Cuts Off Electricity, Water Supply To French Embassy by Mantilla(m): 6:49am On Aug 29, 2023 |
Just wondering why France won't let Niger be. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: "Dying By The Dozens Every Day" - Ukraine Losses Climb - BBC by Mantilla(m): 6:47am On Aug 29, 2023 |
War is never an option. I hope my fellow Igbos will learn from this. Ukraine will be wiped out from the face of the earth if they don't stop already.
Do you understand that as soon as another president comes in as US president, he might call of the war. What happens to Ukraine then? |
Sports › Re: Own A Multi Million Dollar Betting Exchange For Africa Users!! by Mantilla(m): 8:34pm On Aug 28, 2023 |
Look for a verified influencer and pitch your ideas to him/her. |
Politics › Re: Owerri Is A Glorified Village: Pictures by Mantilla(m): 8:18pm On Aug 28, 2023 |
RIVERS1stson: What most Nigerians don’t know is that Owerri is the worst state capital in southern Nigeria.
Owerri has no reasonable infrastructure, most of the infrastructures in Owerri are dilapidated, more especially in the major areas like Orji, Akwakwuna, worldbank, etc.
There’s no meaningful job opportunities in Owerri except you are into hookups, commercial se.x hawking, yahoo yahoo, armed robbery, kidnapping, etc.
Few imo wealthy individuals would rather invest in major cities like Abuja, Lagos, PH, Onitsha and even Enugu than ever investing in Owerri.
Owerri is generally an unplanned, disjointed and a disorganized village full of dilapidated houses, rustic brown roofs, poverty, insecurity, etc, that’s why most imo indigenes are running to Abuja, Lagos, PH, Onitsha, Enugu, Awka, Asaba even Abakaliki, etc, to live but no one is running to live in Owerri.
Owerri doesn’t have any signature infrastructure, the substandard flyover built by Okorocha is not functional and has since been turned to motorpark and market.
It is time imo leaders develop Owerri and imo state in general so that imo indigenes can have a homeland to return to instead visiting home once a year and return to their base . Haven stayed in Owerri for 6 months, i agree with you. |
Politics › Re: Mahdi Shehu Discovers Illegal Gold Mining Site Owned By Ex-Governor In Zamfara by Mantilla(m): 6:34am On Aug 28, 2023 |
simpleseyi: Yes, it is the Northerners that made Yorubas to know that Igbos are operating Baby Factories all over the country. It is the Northerners that made Yorubas to know that Evan the Billionaire Kidnapper is an Igbo man. It is the Northerners that made Yorubas to know that Igbos are in prisons all over the world for drugs trafficking. It is the Northerners that made Yorubas to know that several Igbos have been beheaded in Saudi Arabia and Thailand for drugs trafficking.
It is the Northerners that made Yorubas to know that Igbos are manufacturing and selling fake drugs all over the country.
You need to do a self assessment and decide whether you need to see a psychiatrist or a psychologist Full grown empty vessel. Just see the kind of noise you are making.. |
Politics › Re: Mahdi Shehu Discovers Illegal Gold Mining Site Owned By Ex-Governor In Zamfara by Mantilla(m): 6:34am On Aug 28, 2023 |
simpleseyi: Yes, it is the Northerners that made Yorubas to know that Igbos are operating Baby Factories all over the country. It is the Northerners that made Yorubas to know that Evan the Billionaire Kidnapper is an Igbo man. It is the Northerners that made Yorubas to know that Igbos are in prisons all over the world for drugs trafficking. It is the Northerners that made Yorubas to know that several Igbos have been beheaded in Saudi Arabia and Thailand for drugs trafficking.
It is the Northerners that made Yorubas to know that Igbos are manufacturing and selling fake drugs all over the country.
You need to do a self assessment and decide whether you need to see a psychiatrist or a psychologist Full grown empty vessel. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: France Defiant, Insists Niger Military Junta Cannot Expel Its Ambassador by Mantilla(m): 3:51pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
FreeStuffsNG: France is right!
Niger coupists have lule pii . The disgrace of these coupists will teach the other impostors that they will not be tolerated. If you want power, remove uniform and go form or join a political party and canvass for votes to win an election and legitimacy in a democracy.
The moment those who jinxed Mr Obi, Mr Nnamdi Kanu, GEJ, Alhaji Atiku, Trump, Wagner etc with their bad luck of support started supporting the coupists, I knew they have been jinxed. Nobody or no organisation this unpatriotic bitter people support ever succeeds. Check my signature for free stuffs! Must you call out Mr Obi? Can't you just relax and die enjoy the AC that's cooling the whole country!! |
Health › Re: Replacement Of Lost Teeth Price by Mantilla(m): 5:40pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
Policy3: please can I have your WhatsApp line? Here is my email chimaobiemike@gmail.com message me. |
Health › Re: Replacement Of Lost Teeth Price by Mantilla(m): 9:30pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Policy3: Hello nairaland i lost my tooth by accident, please is there anyone in the house who have done any dentures or implants Is there also a dentist?.... how much will it actually cost to to replace the missing tooth Hello, am a Dental Technologist. It will cost 10k to replace a single tooth in a government own facility and can go up to 20k in a private facility and note that is the cheapest type of replacement. For more advanced replacement ie use of permanent restorations, it can go from 40 to almost 60 per tooth. |
Politics › Re: BRICS Rejects Nigeria, Invites Saudi Arabia, Iran, Ethiopia, Egypt, Argentina by Mantilla(m): 9:08pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
They understand that Nigeria will forever remain puppets in the hand's of the westerns |
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Approached A Churchy Girl Before Only To Discover She Is A Badass by Mantilla(m): 6:30am On Aug 24, 2023 |
Nice one... Nah to go find babe for church be that... Make i dust my clothes |
Romance › Re: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by Mantilla(m): 6:27am On Aug 24, 2023 |
addmole: I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.
Anyway sha, lets move on...
5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.
Omo... The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.
I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.
I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.
ANOTHER PART OF HER: My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.
There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.
We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.
I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.
I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.
Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.
i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.
Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.
She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.
What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough. That's why we have side chick's!!! Get your self a side chick!!! Look don't kill your self over this simple matter. Your happiness matters a lot too.. Just don't kukuma sex her at all. |
Literature › What Is The Best Way To Bring Your Story To Live. by Mantilla(op): 5:26pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
Hello gentlemen and ladies. Please what other ways can i bring my story to life. I write script but i don't really have the capital to shoot a movie. Are there other ways that i can easily use my computer to cast characters and have them act. |
Sports › Re: 3 Games Cut 6 Million Naira Direct. Combination Bet Won. by Mantilla(m): 3:31pm On Aug 19, 2023 |
guobe: Another 2 games destroyed 300 odds but won the combination bet. Afa abeg i lost my phone.. You fit drop your telegram link |
Sports › Re: 3 Games Cut 6 Million Naira Direct. Combination Bet Won. by Mantilla(m): 3:27pm On Aug 19, 2023 |
Theballs30: Abeg @guobe do small 10k giveaway for me na 😁 Make you drop telegram Link make i join |
Career › Re: Is Quitting A Good Idea? Opinions Will Be Appreciated by Mantilla(m): 3:01pm On Aug 19, 2023 |
Don't quit yet set up the business and be running it continue your work until you are sure you can pay your bills from the business |
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Properties › Re: How Can I Avoid Being Scammed, I'm About To Buy A House by Mantilla(m): 6:35pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Contact This guy . He will dig out the details you want. He will can even get you the Engineer that built the house... He can investigate for Africa
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Politics › Re: Justice Flora Ngozi Azinge: A SAN Is Trying To Bribe Me by Mantilla(m): 6:55am On Aug 16, 2023 |
Taylor90: A woman saved Abia election from being hijacked
Now another woman is coming out openly to call out a SAN who wants to bribe her
I think we’ve tried male Presidents and 80% of them failed
Be like we go try woman
Find one very ruthless woman wey TOTO no dey scratch try as president I support this motion with two trailer load's of rice |
Education › Re: Omolei Pelumi Ighoya: WAEC Result Of A Lagos Public Secondary School Student by Mantilla(m): 6:52am On Aug 16, 2023 |
MissLeslie: The game has changed unlike those days, when u most have one deficit of either English or mathematics. Yeah.. Fear of NECO |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Mourns Military Officers Killed In Helicopter Crash In Niger State by Mantilla(m): 6:43am On Aug 16, 2023 |
May they continue to rest on.. 😢😢😢 |
Politics › Re: Obi's Supporters Continue To Threaten Judges Families With Incendiary Posts by Mantilla(m): 6:38pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Rubbish post |
Politics › Re: Niger Coup: ‘This Is Not Our War' – Orji Kalu Warns President Tinubu (Video) by Mantilla(m): 6:03pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
After many years of trying, this man finally made sense |
Politics › Re: ‘Senate Bonanza’: Presidency Shops For Akpabio's Replacement - Leadership by Mantilla(m): 6:01pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Failed county.... Senate that is supposed to be independent of the President...
How can Senate president do his job accurately when he was appointed by the president 😂 and can be changed at will |
Politics › Re: More Ministerial Slots For South-East - South-East Senate Caucus (The Sun) by Mantilla(m): 5:58pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
He is feeding us soaked bread as promised |
Politics › Re: FG Sacks Advertising Standard Panel Over ‘All Eyes On The Judiciary’ Billboard by Mantilla(m): 5:49pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Very foolish set of people.. And here they are preparing to annihilate Niger for military coup.
Very hopeless government |