₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Equally extend that same credit to the women who foot all of the bills in their marriages as well as take care of their aging parents as a result of being married to men who cannot cater to their needs.

We must realize that there are equally female breadwinners in that country, probably more than we have yet to realize, and they too carry the family on their heads like we were made to believe for so long that only men were capable of.

Good morning, here and in most African countries, men are constitutionally, socially, emotionally, religiously required to provide for their homes. Having said that, i once work under a boss who was a woman and she earns like 50% more of my monthly take-home, her husband wasn't doing so well but it's rare ok because men are ment to provide everything.

I personally salute women who do more than is expected of them but they are few and more than 50% of them are they ones complaining in the social media about it because they believe that it's abnormal ok. Our world is such that a woman without job or any sourceof livelihood will comfortably marry but that won't be heard of a man. The first two (2) questions to every lady intending to marry are: 1. Do you love him?
2. What does he do for a living?

Stevenbright:
No! The preferable thing is getting married to them on the same day.

Good morning, this is 21st century, though getting both of them pregnant wasn't intentional ok but circumstancial; their was no way he would marry both of them because it would definitely breed problem. Furthermore, most girls prefer to be baby mamas to being a second wife which would afford them the opportunity to "roam about" with other men(the current trend now).

Kobojunkie:
So, the children are slaves for when you lot get old or what? You never visit the village to see the many old people wey children have abandoned there, abi?

It is far better for a man/woman to forego having children and instead save up for old age, than to have children whom he intends to use in his old age for his slaves.

2. How many men out there foot those bills when women are considered the breadwinners in almost half of marriages/relationships out there? Make we begin to tell ourselves truths, o'Jare!

I foot all the bills in my house, my siblings also do likewise. Today is Friday (weekend) and i know how much i spent on foodstuffs though rice, garri, yam are all in the house.

I'm in "band A" hence electricity alone takes18/20k per week and i thank God that I'm living upto my billings but most women will go to the mountaintop if the pay 50% of the bills men pay.

Please give some credits to men.

Beremx:
chai it is well o!! Happy weekend to you anyways. Regards to your family

Thank you and God bless you too.

Kobojunkie:
Hmm... You were friends with an eejit who doesn't know still that using family planning ought to have started from the moment before he began having sex. I advise you to make better friends.

He is an Igbo and the only son in the family of 6 children, hope you now understand the pressure on him?

Kobojunkie:
Nigerian men & women don't treat themselves well at all. And if he should find out that the boy was probably not his baby, he would come crying as if he were some sort of victim in all of it. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

My question has always been; why male-child preference? I will be sincere with you, female children do take care of their parents more than male children. Though you won't blame us men because bills/responsibilities ranging from school fees, food, all subscriptions etc are on us.

Beremx:
what's the update on this your friend? Did the women give birth? Did he end up marrying the two of them?

No!!! He married the one who had a baby boy ( his decision oh but both boy/girl child are from God) and the other one still receive "few crumbs" from him.

I wasn't comfortable with his decision because the one that had a baby girl have been with him for over 3 years but he ended up marrying just because of a baby boy (his decision sha).

VTJN:
he should place them on monthly allowance and also decide who to marry among them.

This happened a while ago, he married the one who had a baby boy (his decision sha) and the other one still receive stipends from him.

bigpicture001:
U are still a kid... A youngster.. u have not met ladies that have worked . Achieved, and now old but still can't find a husband... they are searching for husband more than anything on earth...

Some would rather go half rich just to find good men to marry... U are still at ur early 20s u HV not seen anything at all

Always go through ppl's moniker before you draw conclusion ok, I'm married with family, i have one moniker, I'm not a kid.

To your thread, i have been in Abj for years and works with people from various fields so i have seen both rich and poor ladies.

Go to House on the Rock (City gate, LFC Durumi etc) you will see well-to-do ladies who do not show how rich they are hence being rich to many of these ladies is not about how much money they have, reasoning differs ok, thank you.

Everybody should go and work both men and women.

The car is sweet! Benz is always ahead of "others". Anyone interested in this car " must" have other car(s).

Skooltynz:
I serve God without going to church,its all simple, to communicate with God just have a pure heart and abstain from evil you will naturally connect with God once you this.
Some of you devoted church goers still have jealousy, hatred and envy inside you,some pastors are envious of other pastors because they got more annointing ,some pastors and members are proud too because of their position.

Good day, your first sentence reads " most of these modern day churches..."

Church is not your problem hence in a bid to cast aspersion on the Church, you used "most of the modern day churches..."

sonnie10:
You can share appt with 1 or 2 people. Rome was not built in a day. Manage yourself, one year of service will not kil you.

With 33k allowance? I served when it was 6500 but things were cheaper and affordable. My little cousin who is currently serving still receive monthly financial support from us though she is purdent in managing resources.

NB: Naira purchasing power these days is nothing to write home about.

fuckJones:
politics is local, go and respect your boss

Wike will definitely be alive and regret all that he did; Wike was not an islander, Amaechi, Patience Jonathan and many others helped him but he treated them all like nothing.

I worked in PH for 3 years and i know a bit about the happening over there; Wike will surely regret what he is doing in due time, thank you.

Tochitee:
Chai! Who will buy hanky for our alhaji? Alhaji humanity should come first, why do you show so much hatred for the southern part of your state??

Why is El Rufai's actions/activities now being discuss because he dumped APC for SDP, mind you, he was governor for 8 years and Southern Kaduna suffered but he was not called out as he is being called out these days.

bewisemasses:
El Rufai is indirectly revealing himself as a part if Nigeria's problem and indirectly telling us that going forward his judgments cannot be trusted.

El Rufai is a politician and as such should not be trusted, he is indeed one of Nigerian problems.

helinues:
I have read through it and countered it with my response.

Are the Fulani herdsmen targeting people based on their faith?

UGM which operated in South East for over 2 years are of which faith?

Good morning,
Boko Haram started in a bid to propagate Islam (in fact it was a sect like so many other sects before it transformed to a violent group).
The question is: what happens to some who are not Muslim living at Potiskum Yobe state?

IPOB: i will reveal so facts here and it's left for you to decipher ok. Nnamdi Kanu is not a Christian, he is of Judaism, the emergency of Kanu ensured an increase in the adherent of Judaism in the East. Kanu have in the past threatened CAN and Pentecostals (evidence are there).

In conclusion, El Rufai is accused by Reno and many others as the murderer of Southern Kaduna, all Southern Kaduna's are Christians. Indeed, Christains are not finding it easy in the North, thank you.

Maxymilliano:
And why would Reno, who switch allegiance like a prostitute be taken serious 😳

You went too far oh!

AfahaAbia:
They want to impeach him simple and short

They can impeach him but PH will be something else if that happens. They really want to impeach him but they are being careful because it won't be an easy walk.

helinues:
This is unnecessary gaslighting

Reasonable part of Southern Kaduna is now secured

To many supporters of PBAT, El Rufai is a terrorist and evil but you have not call him out because you know his efforts toward PBAT's emergence as the president.

The same El Rufai that is evil now to some people because he defected from APC to SDP is the same person that took the bull by its horn canvassing support for PBAT in all nooks and crannies of Northern Nigeria.

I think you believe (?) that El Rufai is still working for PBAT hence your carefulness and choice of words, with time everything will unfold because our politicians are all the same.

Sonnobax15:

Y'all should rest biko...

The dude has made his choice and there's nothing anyone can and will do that will make him change his mind

The way and manner many who felt that El Rufai's defection from APC to SDP is inconsequential have been bombarding all social media space arouse my curiosity, is there something about El Rufai that we don't know? Since he has no political importance, why is his name in the lips of many people?

PBAT will always be abreast of El Rufai support before 2023 presidential election, he took the bull by its horn canvassing support for PBAT.

ScamHunter:
As long as his father backs Obi for president, he's useful. Anything else is nonsense. Nigeria needs a real leader not the clowns that have ruined things for half a century. As far as I'm concerned, Peter Obi is the closest to getting a leader.

Good morning, please don't allow any politician to deceive you; PO did absolutely well in the last presidential election and the current state of Nigeria speaks against PBAT but always "look before you leap". Thank you.

silibaba:
Stop using ibos for igbos

Ibo is the person, igbo is the language.

Where did you get the above analysis from? No genuine Igbo man/woman will spell Igbo as "ibo".

Igbo is a tribe in Nigeria, Igbo language is the language and a man/ woman from Igbo (tribe) is referred to as Igbo, hence the word "ibo" is used mostly by outsiders/foreigners, thank you.

Maj196:
Aedc just moved me to Band A from Band B. No heads up nothing

I have been in band A and it's not funny because there is no constant power supply.

Good one, God bless Abia state.

Ibb's book really exposed a whole lot though it's been argued against by those who felt that it deviated from already " known/accepted " view in the country.

FSBoperator:
I was expecting this .


Can you compare the state of insecurity in Abuja during Buhari's era to what is the case today ?

What were you expecting? Please elucidate.

FSBoperator:
From what I got from those who reside in Abuja, they say security has improved and is getting back to what it was before Buhari's era.

It's sha far safer than anywhere in the SE that's for sure

You are not here (Abj) and you are talking about here; last 2 weeks i witnessed 2 incidence at Wuse and last Saturday, a 1 chance robber was caught and burnt alive inside his golf3 at Sabon Lugbe i e after Glory Dome.

Wike is doing well but majority of Abj residents including myself still hire and pay security fees on monthly basis, thank you.

papyjaypaul:
I just remembered the story of Rotimi Williams and how the estate divided the kids till their 70s when my friend said he'll leave something for his kids. He believes parents do all the work because they want a better life for their kids. I believe everyone will be alright. Estate brings the dark side of families that you never thought of.

I believe that what Wigwe left behind is enough to take care of both his aged parents and children. If the father of late Wigwe plan to disinherit his grandchildren because of any estate, it evil and wickedness but if the daughter plan to push her grandfather away because of the estate, it will definitely breed hate and rancor.

Let them sit down and settle this.

SeraphicWind:


What was funny to me was even the announcement in Igbo language. That was why the girl laughed in the background.

Nwanne.. Orejiela!

The man said in Igbo;

"Ejidegi ka ina agagharia eyina panti na brezi, straight to prison"

Emperor Soludo... you do this one

I love dis so much. If dem no born you well as a girl, move around again without wearing pant and bra again.

Straight to Prison (No Judgement)!

Back in Onitsha then, I saw some Soludo boys moving around on law emforcement with Aka Odo (Pestle for Pounding Yam).

If these get your legs

Sorry is your name

The experience i had yesterday left much to be desired. I visited a friend at Nyanya around phase 4 and he took me to the joint opposite Eco bank. We ordered for drinks and chicken while watching Tot/Man U match.

A girl from God knows where showed up with a loose top, no bra and was shaking her chest left and right. I called her and she happily sat with us, we bought her drink and meat and told her to eat and go home, she was surprise. Hookup girls don't operate at nights alone also, some girls too loose, quite unfortunate.

EmperorCaesar:


This wasnt necessary at all

Nigeria is bigger than us all and Tinubu aint GEJ

Since no SW politician has ever come out to say shit about the North, even since Rufai started ranting, then Rufai himself should look beyond Twitter and Ignore online banter....He should only respond to political heavyweights that attack him



Again, Tinubu aint GEJ and 2027 is too far for all these

PBAT or any other winner come 2027 needs North, this is a fact that no one can deny. PBAT won 2023 because North stood by him and former governor of Kaduna state led the support.

North shouldn't have been this "powerful" but their landmass and population that they have coupled with their voting pattern. Three major factors would ensure PBAT retaining his job at Villa come 2027, they are: Inec, security operatives and the judiciary.

The masses especially in the North and other parts of the country are not finding things easy with this government.

fkelly:
this guys boldness is out of this world.

I followed the case yesterday, Kanu is learned, he was not afraid, he stood his grand. The reason why light went off during session was actually something else.