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Someone please explain the second person statement clearly, like am a 5yrs old

diogo23:
I wish that your gf is my sister i would have sent you to your early grave idiot, your gf and you are beating her , what if she become your wife you will kill her

. See dis weakling wan form hardman

EmmanuelScott1:


You even rushed to plead, and the bitch was forming bugacious attitude

Guy u beta move on, no dey looseguard.

omo the mata tire me aswear

TheboyGhost:
You get luck say no be my sister...


If you see cartel your hand go break...

Silly....!!!!


Why you go slap person daughter and sister weh you never marry self?


You just get luck ....

Boiled chicken

. A fool spotted

H0didon:
She's immature and wicked...Very!!
Truth is, what you did is bad but it has happened just once and for you to apologize and beg steady means you are truly sorry. Plus that issue now made her to announce to her family what happened. Just imagine when you guyz now marry, she'll just be telling her family everything in your home . Who knows if she has even found a higher bidder and she just wanna discharge you, afterall women are only there to gain benefits for themselves.

A drama queen left your life, instead of you to happy and celebrating, you're here complaining You don't know what God has done for you.



As our Ancestors would say "Only an !diot tries to reclaim problem that God has already taken away".

. I felt so sad, why did she had to leak our conversation with her family,

Moh247:




Stop dating immature girls

Your girl isn't emotionally matured

Just completely ignore her and focus on something else

Give her a complete 3 days silent treatment, no calls and no text

If you miss her find something to engage in and ease yourself of her thought... Give her that bold statement in silence that she isn't oxygen you can't live without


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thanks bro I appreciate

Artiiclebeast:
Your sister go come report her own slap to you.

Karma, we call it.

. My sister nva for once report her bf to me or any other member of my family, even when I do know she hit her once, she kept it silent between dem, till when their settle them selfs

doggedfighter:
If we get one dollar for each problem in romance section. Nigeria will pay her debt.




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Every second one wahala !

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I’ve been dating this girl for the past 6months now, her family knows me well, though it only once I’ve paid them a visit, and all through those period, never did I raise my hands on her, though she can be very stubborn sometimes, she always get angry gives me attitude whenever we having a minor issue, few days ago she visited my place and we had good time together, it getting late and I instructed her she should start going home considering where she lives can be very lonely and dangerous through the nite, she refuse and started trying to play some love play with me, I refuse her advances and started getting up to escort her home, she still cling to me, during those moments we were struggling I mistakenly hit her lightly, she was mad with me and angrily picked up her bag and left my place without even waiting to for me to escort her, I ran after her trying to plead with her that I didn’t meant to hit her, she ignore me completely and left, I called her countless times to apologize but she didn’t pick, I made up my mind to let her be now, i didn’t call her for a day, only for her to call me the next day and started asking me what my plans for her and saying she’s not sure if I rily love her, I was kinda sad she could be saying such things, I always treat you like a guy should treat a fiancé, I felt like scolding her a little by letting her know she’s being too dramatic lately and she shouldn’t let minor issue come between us, as our conversation was going on I never knew she put the call on Speaker and all I was saying was being heard by her Aunt and other siblings, one of them took the phone from her and started raining insults upon insults on me, telling me I’m a woman beater and she’s lost total respect for me and I should stay away from their sister, i tried explaining what happen to her elder sister she didn’t even allow me to speak, I kinda felt sad that she place our private conversation on a speaker, I’ve sent her an apology text, but still having double doubts if I should continue with the relationship knowing how her family sees me now, they sees me a rude and arrogant woman better, that’s what her elder sister called me guys please I need your advice on how to go about this, I don’t know what else to do

I send my mama 20million dis afternoon

Why bring a renown fake life Feminist to anchor a reality Tv show, a massive L for the promoter, a lesson to other reality shows

Bringing someone like TOKE MAKINWA Is big blunder by the organizers of the show, should have brought someone like Kate Hensaw or Rita Dominic

So if someone just tickle me and I laugh small, Na so I go tk bullet

Gianslayer:
[b][/b] I'm also facing the same thing with girl , and the problem is when the come to my place straight to my refrigerator or where I keep my rice .

my broda run oh, all dis gold diggers single mom nor get joy, they’re as hungry as dat low life hoe who calls herself “Datboredberry”

lkillbrokehoes:
You are a very SIMPle nigga

shut up mr man, the man is right

Wick3:
She's quite tall. My love for tall girls though...

She walks graciously as well. Maybe this was what the billionaire was crazy about, cos facially? She's just average.

But I seriously don't know why they are treating this girl like this...

Why must she be on handcuffs? she only murdered someone. It's not that serious.

. We have same thought, dem just one use d poor gal shy, wen police dey kill ppl upanda, #freechidinman#

Beebah2000:
Hehehehe
Oga Collins, I no dey support her. I no like girls way get hot temper sef

thanks dear, truly u understand a mans pain

I don’t know why am always encountering poor and hungry girls, and single mother too, At first I’ll be comfortable with them, but as times goes I get fed up with their constant billy and dependent, am the one always giving but not getting nothing in return, Na so one wen I dey folo dey do bestie one use her pikin bill me die, today she go say “babe dem pursue my pikin comot for sch because of text book” tomorrow “babe my pikin get fever I need money for checkup” next thing is “babe my pikin say e wan eat shawarma” sometimes I keep wondering if I will ever find a girl with class and not depended, self made and love me for who I am

Beebah2000:
Oga, did I judge you??
You had no choice but to lie to her, abi??
After wetin u tell her, una breakup??

. I know say you must support ur fellow woman, birds with same feathers

Ever8090:
Why do I find the whole conversation and supposed saga irritating?!...

because you nor get sense

Beebah2000:
Collins Collins
U for tell her the main reason why u wan breakup with her.
See wetin u cause for yourself
Collins, why did u lie?

I had to, I had no choice, you would do same if you were in my shoes,,wahala too much for this relationship, you don’t know the pains I had to endure so don’t judge me

Smartb0y:
Sad part is that most girls are temperamental and crazy

dis one worst

Rydermaverick:
Guy..you need to speak to that lady one one one..

impossible, she fit stab me o

Jman06:
You're just ranting all over the place like a mad dog!

In relationships, men have seen the worst from ladies and no one goes about blaming them. Ladies have broken up with hurtful messages like 'you're not my type of man", "The feelings I have for you is no more there" " I'm in love with someone else " etc. We guys simply sulk up such messages and move on. We are not even expected to express emotions in such situations, hence some guys resort to alcohol and other substances to control the hurt. Like in the matter at hand, I'm sure that if it had been the other way round, many of you would even abuse the guy and call him names for threatening the lady.

I don't know why some of you hold the believe that in romantic relationships between a guy and a lady "the guy is using the lady", hence when the guy ends the relationship he is accused of " using and dumping the lady". We know that in such relationships, the guy is the one mostly on the losing end. He loses financially, he also loses sexually and so on yet he's accused of "using and dumping the lady". Sometimes, I even wonder why the ladies being supposedly used and dumped keep going into relationships knowing that they'll be " used". It is supposed to be a mutual relationship that should normally benefit both parties, but in this part of the world, ladies benefit the most due to our archaic culture.

So, free the guy mehn! Nonsense!

A very sensible guy, I for buy you one cold beer � bro, you understand the heart of a crying man

Jman06:
And you knew that oga Collins over did just from reading the lady's emotional tantrums You already passed judgment against op even when you don't know the lady in question

I tire o, everybody wan just crucify me because I say I nor do again

This country Nawa o, everyday things dey go up, imagine one bag of pure water is now 300 naira, one satchet pure Water is 20naira, naija which one, so 10naira nor get value again, every day things just they increase, yet nobody is saying anything

saintgp:
He did not lie,he was only playing the girl all along.
Don't tell me u believe that the girl's temper was d MAIN reason why he's breaking up with her after TWO YEARS.
ANYONE WHO CAN READ BTW THE LINES OF THE "WATSAPP CHAT BTW HIM AND THE GIRL WILL KNOW OGA COLLINS OVER DO.I WON'T BE WRONG TO CONCLUDE THAT D GIRL IS IN HER LATE TWENTIES IF NOT THIRTIES.

. I nor do anything bad na

Boogyman557:
HOLLY GRAM ABOBI NO MAKE ME BLAST UR LEG WIT MY OLD KALA OOO. WAITIN DE WORRY U... NA BANI 1 DE GIVE U BANTER. WTF MAN

I nor blame u sha

BadRadio:
You saw the red flags early on but u still choose to enjoy the kitten for a little while before ditching her to the trash can?

There are ways to end relationships with certain people... u have to use the best approach depending on their personality... A hot tempered woman is most likely dramatic and a dramatic woman will almost stab you to death if you use words to end the relationship, the best thing to do is to gradually withdraw from her. Do that with ur actions not words... soon she will get the details and look for someone else.


My 2cents

I'll help u.

Stop having sex with her.

Stop calling. Stop texting.

If she calls, pick the call but listen more than u speak, dont argue with her, keep apologising if she complains about anything, keep your response short and close ended...

If she text you, reply with close ended short response.

If she wants to see u, give excuses.

Dont start conversations or ask her any questions.

Use a random Prettier ladys picture as your Dp or just drop it as a status, if she asks you who's that just tell her a friend

She'll get the hint naturally

That's it

thanks, the only reasonable advice so far

Rydermaverick:
Guy..you need to speak to that lady one one one..

I don’t want to, mk every body dey their lane

I dated this lady two years ago, while we were dating I noticed she do have a hot temper, sue breaks things especially when we’re having misunderstanding, I tried coping with her and waiting if she will change bt still she didn’t, so I texted her and told her we can no longer continue, immediately I did, she started texting me with threat msgs and curses, guys pls I nid ur advise guys

funkmrflexx:
I was dating this girl for a while actually wanted to marry her . She has some characters I couldn't live with. I gave her time to change but she didn't so I broke up with her.
So she started raining curses on Me telling me dat I'll suffer and beg for food. (this is a girl I trained in school)
Why are nigerian girls with this mentality that a relationship is a do or die

. Samething I’m passing through, everyday na my ex they send me threat say she go kill me, because I say I nor do again