In Addition to these comments. Even If I thought about getting wet from a Nigerian, the body odor and the stinky breath will kill any desire. Even all our men in the penitentiary that you think we date and have kids with have running hot water and 24 hour electricity. I'm only on this forum because it's a English speaking forum. If there are other English speaking African forums, kindly direct me to them. I do occasionally meet decent people on here. But most are just looking for Me with my 25 imaginary kids to fund their pathetic lives. Sorry, but my imaginary kids comes first.

Every Nigerian I ever met in the USA was married back home but looking were for American women to have their babies.

AkataWoman:


Oh yeah, where are black American women meeting all of these Nigerian men to get wet over

You’re banned from the US for being such lowlifes, there are only a few of you in the US. Then narrow that number down to Nigerian men within a certain dating age. Then most Nigerians live in poor black communities where they create African bubbles.

Most black Americans live in middle class America.

So how are “all of these” BA women meeting Nigerian men to get wet over? When? Where? Statistically the crossing of paths are few and far between.

See what a liar you are!

Here to meet a Nigerian man Who can’t even get a visa to the US? I’m barely on this site but from the very first post many Nigerians men were sending me messages. I’ve not entertained even one. You guys are not appealing.

The lies and delusion.

Wow! 2 Daddies for each child?! I bow to you as the Queen of Akatas, lol!! You'll have to teach me how splice sperm so I can have 2 Daddies per child. I can always use more child support for my imaginary kids! lol!! I'd never have to work again!!

AkataWoman:

Give me a break. This is not a California thing. Educated, successful black Americans are spread throughout the entire country. The problem is that immigrants like Nobody are so poor that they’re forced to live in poor neighborhood and only see one type of black.

The US Census shows that 80% of black Americans are middle class and higher socioeconomically. There are not many ghettos in the US. The majority of black Americans do not live in ghettoes.

Nigerians, on the other hand, who shit I’m public streets and have no electricity or plumbing shouldn’t be talking shit about anybody. You’re poverty is otherworldly. You’re uneducated; the majority of you are illiterate because your families can’t afford the $5/year school fees. Any group of people who have more elementary school kids selling wares on the sides of roads than in school should not be talking shit about anybody.

And for the record, black American women aren’t attracted to African men, much less chasing and bringing them around the 10 kids we have by 20 different men.

Nigerians have no right to talk about anybody.

OMG! I have never been so free until I became a conservative! I've lost most of my family, but I have never been so at Peace with myself. I no longer have the energy to be angry anymore. Conservatism has nothing to do with politics. Trump is racist, but his racism is based on blacks not doing for themselves which I think is the cause of most non black racism. Biden is an undercover racist until his senility allow a slip or two, lol!

Conservatism allows you to focus on education, job fulfillment, hobbies, travel and eventually family fulfillment if your lucky despite your background.

2buffagain:


Babe who said anything about republican or democrat?
I could care less about Trump.

I'm talking about black conservatives.
Black Conservatives will always be conservatives, no matter whether they side with the rats or the pubes on the political stage.
Trump is openly racist. Biden is undercover racist. It makes no difference. All that matters is what you build for your family and your community, not what the government will give you.

The Martin Luther King you guys talk about, was a conservative minded person.
He wanted a world where his blackness did not stop him from having the sole power to create the life we want, and the result of that struggle is the freedom BA have today. There were actual challenges those days.

Unfortunately with the fatherlessness of many BA families (due to racist police activities) and other oppressions (Jim crow, etc), the result so far has been a weakened demographic (by no fault of their own)...severely handicapped. You will never hear me say these things did not happen; they did and it sucked. But what you will always hear me say is to echo what the Spirit of God is also saying on that matter: "For how long will you continue to circle this mountain?". The years the locust and the cankerworms have eaten will be restored, IF you give yourself to self-reflection and set aside limiting beliefs of dependency and a false sense of right-to-misbehave.

In today's America, a conservative minded person is truly free and has done away with the unhelpful mind of a slave. This person believes that only they can create the life they want and that they have the sole power to do so.
This is true today. And because they also believe it, this is what manifests in their life. NOBODY gets anything in this life unless they believe it.
Many have become so comfortable with the victim mentality that they cannot even see themselves as victors and act accordingly. And then ofcourse next comes the hatred of those who look like them but DON'T act like victims because this invalidates the logic behind their chosen form of existence...Viz-a-viz the general hatred of the black conservative within the BA community.

A black conservative person does not care about skin color. We see white people as our equals, not superiors you have to constantly ask something from. If you want something now, create it. There is not a white man on earth that can stop me from achieving what I want to achieve in life. There is more than enough for everybody. We don't do scarcity mindset. No "The man" holding us back. That mindset is a relic of the past best cast aside to move forward. Which is why I think ALL black people (not just BA) need therapy.

As conservatives, Racism is wrong so we stand against it, no matter the skin color.
Degenerate behavior is wrong, so we speak against it, no matter the skin color.
Deliberate acts of stupidity are wrong, and we are sincere and non-nepotic enough to call them out for what they are, no matter the skin color.

Is that not the goal ? The world everyone says they want to live in? So let's simply live it, hold people accountable for their actions, and build forward.
We WILL NOT give you a pass to misbehave just because you are black. Never gonna happen. Grow up from this perpetual adolescence and understand that actions in life have consequences.
This general BA misbehavior is why even the creator of BLM, as soon as she collected money from the movement, it is inside a peaceful white neighbourhood she went to go and buy multiple houses. Even she knows whats up. Dem no need tell person!

MLK would be rolling in his grave today at what is going on.
Your forefathers fought for human rights.
You are here fighting for the right for a black girl to KILL another black girl, in broad daylight, while her father is there egging her on (who strangely enough BA ignore), in front of police....and expecting the police to not intervene.
How far the branches have fallen from the tree.

Now comes the question I ask every un-straight-forward BA regarding that event: if it was your daughter or family member who was about to be stabbed by that girl, what would be your stance on how it played out? DO NOT continue to hype up that event in your backward creeds until you answer that question in a straight and non-snakey manner.

Also, what is the alternative to capitalism? Socialism? I don't want to have that argument here.
But all I can say is, what is currently going on in the US with people not wanting to work because the government is giving them money, is but a taste of what happens when socialism runs rampant across the land. Hyperinflation is next, BET $300!
Socialism has been the fall of many civilizations since the beginning of time. Some people do not read, nor do they know the history of past civilizations, nor do they have a basic understanding of macro economics. They just want to open their freshly-smoked-weed-stinking mouth and join every bandwagon without thinking...because "activity".

But I that one is another thread entirely.

Why are you playing the victim? This whole thread was a set up for Black American women to come here so that MAYBE y'all would have a chance to abuse a women financially disguised as a Bash Black American women thread. Y'all thought that we would be so dehumanized by your foolish comments that we would just "Fall into Place behind a "decent" man. When that backfire and we defended our honor, y'all want to say we came here to bash Nigerians. Unbelievable!!

James4bright:


You make it seem like Nigerians are just filled with so much hate, but it's crazy you didn't look towards the path of African Americans.

You all barely like each other too. I've seen several African American men who hate black women and would never get entangled with one. I've seen African Americans discriminating Africans. We all know the fact that African Americans kill themselves all the time.

Can we blacks just kill the hate rather. Nairaland is filled with the most discriminatory set of people.

You making it look as though African Americans would never take Nigerians seriously is just another reason too why Nigerians should never give in into "Black Lives Matter" protests.


One thing you need to understand is that, we blacks have got so much hatred for one another. If you are really trying to help then you should ignore assholes.

But putting up discriminatory contexts about Nigerians would only spike hatred between us.

You are fighting for a better Nigeria? Nigeria has been around for thousands of years. How long does it take for you to get you shit together? America is only 250 years old. Black Americans have only been totally free since the 60s. The only blacks that are currently oppressed in the USA are the ones that want to be oppress.

2buffagain:


Because we have shit colonial minded military leaders who we will be dealing with and expelling within the next 4 years tops so we can build for us.
At least that's our problem. You will never and can never expel your own supposed oppressors. Meaning you will whine and bitch forever about yours. Sad.

Who cried out to you about SARS? Go and ask those people those questions.
Primarily Nigerians home and abroad joined hands to fight that said same evil leadership back home for a better future for our country.
Look at this idiot blowing smoke up her own ass like as if she is that important. What did you do? Pleeeeaase

Stop coming here to rap nonsense. You're pulling my ire.

He never had any experience with any other race of women. If he's only fucking black ghetto women that means he's never Bleep any decent women including decent black women.

PattyMike:


Madman, u sef don dey butter am up so una go meet for fuxk. Ur last 2-3 writeups nah khia khiaa full am, NOW she is an exception, NOW akatas are not all the same because u want to get in her pants to prove a point, nd tht point is "that she will fall for u when una meet cus u fine, get money for hand and bank, you're successful eh". Fuxking disgusting, if u wan nack d gal sef e go be because u actually want to do it, u lyk her personality and find her attractive enuf to fuvk not cus u have a point to prove to yourself and rest of us following your thread. Fuxking disgusting. Of cus u can claim to have no interest at all in her, but anyone who read dis thread would know its plain bullshyte. The sad thing is after fuvking her, the whole nairaland will hear, which is y she'll never let u hit it. You went from giving nice insights to drooling over khia all in one thread, seeing you drool is irritating really. But ride on mi bros nd ignore the distraction, u have talked about black american women and naija women there, we'd love to hear your experience with latinas, caucasians and asians too if you've been some.

How are you freeing your "brothers" from the clutches of an overused pussy when that overused pussy is not even chasing you in the first place? Nigerians fleeing their country are looking for dumb fuks that will freely give their money. As the OP stated so eloquently, black American women are not trying to pay to bring a broke ass nigga over here. You'll are just gonna have to wait for a mentally challenge white woman that just happens to have money to deliver you!!

fcdgrand:
brother speak the truth no apology to any "over used pussy", only truth can set men free. believe me brother your message is already freeing someone right now from that pussy cage just like UBUNJA message set me free from that b!tch that emotionally blackmail me to propose marriage to her. men stop be NICE a.k.a SIMP to women

Vasectomies are not that easy to reverse. But at least there will be one less child that will suffer from a part time cheating father.

Thastie:


Khiaa, the dumb and stupid one is you. Do you know why? With all your blabbings you don't even know that a vasectomy can be reversed. He didn't risk his life, no one has died from a vasectomy. The procedure last only for fifteen minutes.
And why are you pained over his choice, like why?

And now the double standards! Don't worry Nigerian boys and girls. Like I stated before. It'll be a cold day in hell before the majority of you will get to the USA. Nigerian scammers before you like the OP have bleeped that dream up for you.

Lol. Sorry. African American guys don't seek Nigerian ladies to marry online or offline.

That one is a closed road.

Doesn't Nigeria already look like that?

asanwafo:
That how they want Nigeria to look like. A country of no value in the name of civilization

No one needs to dispute your facts because it will be a cold day in hell if 99% of y'all will ever get to the USA. So bash all you want. We own who we are. And we still have better circumstances than most of you. When are you all going to own how useless you are when you are not scamming people?

Ok let's get back on track with my tips for Dating AA women.

PS: I am not here to bash AA women. Far from it. I gain nothing from bashing them. I am just talking about my observations from being with them and the countless "anomalies" which you will encounter and have to tolerate when dating them as a Nigerian guy. And those anomalies are plenty.

So if you don't like what I am saying, simply open your own thread to dispute the facts. Thank you.

No, Nigeria looks worse!

asanwafo:
That how they want Nigeria to look like. A country of no value in the name of civilization

Why are you worried about Nigerians in America when you haven't scammed you way there yet!!

superemmy:


You forgot to mention most Akata women are uneducated, in fact they rarely aspire or have determination to succeed. Even Cnn records Nigerians as having the highest 53% index of the most educated black race in the USA.

And the fact that Akata women are too raw, uncouth and most of the time uncivilized in their manner of speaking.

I'm sure you're lovely white woman is just an Iphone away!!

drezzyx:
kia rio be calm not everybody loves african american.
For me they are too violent,crazy and can kill at a slightest provocation.
AFRICAN AMERICAN IS A NO NO.

As long as she has running hot water and 24 hour electricity she is STILL LIVING BETTER THAN YOUR CULTURED TRAINING!

tiptoe1:


They have the highest number of "bastard child" and the woman wont even feel anything about it. Many men later got to find out the children they've been raising isn't theirs but they move on with the marriage cause they have no choice.

You see them giving birth to 5 children with four different baby daddies and depending on welfare, they are the highest set of people in USA who depends on welfare.

How about you all stay in Shitgeria and leave Black Americans alone.

I didn't see that and am going to warn him about it
You claim everything op was saying is a lie
Do you know how you can make us believe you
Give us some prove
There is a paragraph there that what he said is absolutely true have experience that with them before
Although I haven't been to USA before but at least have chatted with some of them before and they showed me their real behavior even without seeing them imagine that

I guess you're supposed to be rude because you were defending your honor. You know Nigerian women are slaves to Nigerian men. They don't dare defend themselves even when they are right if THEY don't want to get their asses beaten.

khia:


Do you see why I call you hypocrites? That poster said I was a crazy woman and I called him delusional. It's amazing how you overlooked his comment.

He can only do that if a white women actually wanted his ass. That's why he bashes black women.

Graysons:



Akata women are wild fvck fvck fvck nai full their head.
Next time give us tips on how to date white women biko.

Coming from someone that begged their way out of poverty; that is if you're even out of poverty!!

tiptoe1:


I thought you people find th word "black American"offensive and preferred to be addressed as an " African American" but I won't even call you any of that.

You're an Akata to me, a name given to a person who lacks morals, lacks education, lacks culture, ignorant and wayward.

I bet you'll be dreaming about Shaquanda when you're electricity goes out tonight in the 100 degree heat!!

drmikeadams:


I think say na only me hate all dose dere useless olosho names

So, the OP must be the king of niggers, lol!! That's all he knows how to associate with!

shadeyinka:

I think you've allowed the OP get under your skin. He's just speaking from his experience amongst the black Americans he associates with.

He didn't factor in education, neighborhood, parental and other factors. A black American who didn't complete high school, from a rough neighbourhood, having a single mum is likely going to behave as he has described.

Nairaland is a battle ground, expect no quarters. You can write a counter-thread though.

Shalom

Gee! That never happens in Nigeria, lol!!

tiptoe1:


You're right. They go through alot of things as a child like family instability , abusive parents or stories on how they got raped by their uncles. I've been told a lot of stories and I think it affected them mentally.

I won't be surprised if your friend isn't the owner of the kid.

You don't need to worry about messes in your life. The whole world know all y'all want green cards. Ain't no penis in all of Africa that damn good!!

tiptoe1:


I believe some of them are cool headed but majority are insane bro. The ratchetness in them is disgusting, always trying to be hardcore. They're always complaining about people being fake but they themselves aren't any different.

I can see people attacking you here thinking you're just typing nonsense. I just pray none of them gets into their mess

It appears you still have one brain cell left. This is about the only thing you said that makes sense!!

This brings me to my next tip: When you meet them online, NEVER EVER EVER ASK THEM FOR MONEY.

I know say hungry dey naija and everybody Don dey find where Dem go chop. But as our parent's generation used to say: Na the most patient dog go eat the fattest bone. This saying hold true in this type of relationship.

You are not the only naija boy or Ghanaian boy or Jamaican boy that is sending her DM. Una plenty.

If you ask her for money, you have lost the game. Asking her for money is clearly telling her that you are only interested in her for her money. She is trying to find love and companionship. So why don't you give her what she seeks.

Listen all you youngsters and hellcats, if a woman loves you and you tell her to jump, she will ask you how high do you want her to jump. Women are emotional creatures. They need someone to key into their emotional needs. Money is not an emotional need. Being caring is emotional. Love is emotional.

I know say you want drive Benz and enter club and buy drink for Dem Bois. That one will come later. Just show the Akata love and emotional care. When she travels to naija to see you, and you guys meet and you rock her world, when she is leaving Naija to return back to Yankee, she will feel that she is leaving a part of herself back in Nigeria. And she will do everything to reunite with you. It is after she returns back that you can now start to ask for money. She will open her purse for you.

And that's the beauty of all this! We will waste ALL your time and not give you a dime. Now who's the dumb one?

SkinnyDude:
one very old akata woman from Atlanta wey I meet for FB.. she is 62. I shock say me and this woman dey sex chat and share nude.. but whenever I ask her for money. she go vex. na em I tear race oo

That's why you should continue to keep you worthless ass in Shitgeria and wait on your savior white girl that ain't coming .

SkinnyDude:
Takesha . keisha. every thing na sha sha. I dey like their names oo

Word, I prefer my Franco Africans!!

khiaa:


This is not your website it belongs to Seun who welcomes everyone not just Nigerians. If you don't like it create your own website and let whoever you want on it.

I'm sure you visit Lipstick Alley all of the time and the ratçhed Worldstarhiphop Site was created by a Nigerian.

There's no such thing as a Nigerian Prince and if there was he sure wouldn't be on this site.If I wanted an African man he wouldn't be from Nigeria.

By All means, get a vasectomy whether you find a dumb bitch to support your ass or not!!

Next tip: Make sure you get a vasectomy. Without her knowledge. You can reverse it later if you're sure she's the one for you.

If you don't know what vasectomy is, use Google. Now, if you want to leave Nigeria and follow Akata, you must drop your native brain and adopt American brain. Akata ladies get pregnant easily. Very easily. And she's having that kid . She's not aborting it for nothing. If she could have kids for deadbeat men and put them on child support, believe me, she sure is going to have yours because you are a better catch. Please please please. Get a vasectomy. And also pay from it from your pocket or use your personal health insurance. It is cheap.

This is to protect yourself from a baby that will end up turning you into her slave for the next 18 years.

While you are paying her child support every month for the next 18 years, it is another nigga with a fat cock that will be slamming her from behind and she will be using your child support money to buy new weaves, do her nails, and buy Air Jordans for her new side dude.


Attached is my vasectomy result. No hoe is getting pregnant for me till I'm ready

That mutha fucka would be lucky to get an 80 y. o. white grandma. Lower income Black American have enough problems without importing no useless ass Nigerians like the OP. Black women are not trying to fund all y'all Iphone requests and family emergencies nor are they trying to spend thousands of dollars on Niggas that think we don't have better sense to know that y'all USE EVERY GODDAMN BODY FOR A GREEN CARD. But keep having y'all wet dreams about ratchet black America WOMEN delivering you from your shithole!! AND GOOD LUCK WITH THE WHITE ONES. No matter how ratchet you think we are we still LIVE BETTER THAN YOU!! See you on Nairaland 10 years from now Singing the same damn song!!

khiaa:


Yes, for goodness sakes use the white girls and leave black American women in peace.

She was a 26 year veteran on the force. She was the one training. She was not getting trained. Needless to say I bet the person she was training will know what a taser is from now on!

Weregonnalose:


She just joined and was on training. I bet she panicked when he started resisting.

She was not a Rookie. She was a 26 year veteran training a rookie. In this particular instance, I do feel that this was an accident, but black folks are not trying to hear that. So much bad blood has been spilt that blacks want any error in judgement to be punished and it should be. Any blacks that had run ins with police will never trust police including me. In defense to resisting arrest, many black whether they are criminal or not have fear that may not survive a police confrontation, so they run. I agree with someone that we should never resist arrest and sue the mofos if they do anything out line.

Weregonnalose:


She is a rookie. She was on training. Daunte Wright did not only ruin his life, he ruined hers. Resisting arrest always cause problems especially with inexperienced cops

As an American women, this is 100% correct. Don't come for us if you are not 100% real men!!

NaBanga:
Seun and these fake writers... Let me pretend.

I am not sure what a "caucasian" heart is, but you haven't seen the level a white woman will go to finish you in the so called Western countries. One mistake and you will quickly land in divorce court. From there you may end up on 18 years of child support and possible alimony. It doesn't matter if she took on a lover and gave him doggy style, there is very little you can do.

If you are an introvert in Nigeria, you will be an introvert in Germany or America. Western women do not "endure' marriage. Marriage is about happiness. The moment the happiness leaves be assured she will give her happiness to another man. Your heart would burst into flames if you know the things I know.

Nigerian men should stick with Nigerian women, since they are too lazy for love. Always remember money=love, no matter if the woman is Chinese, Brazilian, Australian or Scottish. If your money is not coming forward, you will end up as a doormat for your Western wife or she will give her all to another man. Once a Western woman knows her man won't behave as a husband, it's called alienation of affection. She can use it mentally to justify getting it from the front, back and side form the man of her choice with no shame or guilt.