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Romance / Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by MarjieJ57(f): 9:57pm On Apr 12, 2021
By Therapist, do you mean someone that will help him or brainwash him to like what he doesn't like?

Boss13:
You need a therapist and not a wife.
Romance / Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by MarjieJ57(f): 9:51pm On Apr 12, 2021
Blacks Everywhere are their own worst enemies.



Lostchild:


You are just too foolish to understand personality traits

If I shared something like this on quora. I will receive a lot of encouragement because white people are not as foolish as Africans like you

And foolish people like you can only be found on Nairaland.

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Romance / Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by MarjieJ57(f): 9:34pm On Apr 12, 2021
There is very little love on this side either by both blacks and whites. But at least over here, it is money that makes a difference. As long as you you keep mofos from stealing your money, you're golden.

Lostchild:


You are very right. There is no love, it is just for me to make money and immigrate to the place that suit me. Enjoy my life
Romance / Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by MarjieJ57(f): 9:27pm On Apr 12, 2021
I'm not Nigerian, I'm a Black American middle-aged female. I feel you in a lot of ways. I'm an outcast to most Black American people. I'm introvert. I have a decent job. But I can't find a "decent" man because "Decent men" only pay for Slay Queens that they cry about later. They don't invest in women that will be there for the long run. They only use decent women to support their slay queens. I been married and divorced. I never had kids because I can never find a decent Black man and I'm not attracted to white men. In fact, I feel like I am a white man. People only pursue me in order to see what they can get from me. Ultimately, I know my worth. I no longer hope to find a decent man. I look for men to have fun with when I'm on holiday. Then I get rid of them when they become a problem!! Just do you and f#uck everyone else!!

Lostchild:



The Lord Jesus
Created me the way I am. I just cannot change who I am.

I just cannot find a better half of me
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MarjieJ57(f): 7:45pm On Apr 12, 2021
luminouz:


The coming to America 2 is just comedy for me and not for serious reflection due to its blue pilled nonsense.

The bastard born rejected his place even though he passed all his crowning tests and loves his people? Why did that happen? He was clearly fit to rule but he just loved that his barber upon one kiss and fled with her to America,only for the girl to tell him they must return back to wakanda or is it thuraya or lapalapa for their wedding? WTF is all that confusion? Dude messed all his shiit up and it still doesn't make sense.

Then, the scene of the queen sending the king out of his own bedroom is nauseating. I have seen such scenes on American movies and didn't understand the basis. How dafuq would I sleep outside my own bedroom in my own house just because my wife is upset and doesn't want me around? Why can't she go and sleep outside then? Can you imagine the Alaafin of Oyo or the Oba of Benin being sent out of his own bedroom for fuq sakes? Or even that flamboyant king of Brunei who uses women as his bodyguards?

Then, it is clearly obvious that no way in hell will that crown Princess and her sisters beat Wesley snipes single handedly.

I still can't find any real life lesson from the movie, I'm sure even naija women will scorn the weakness of these men in the movie. I'm content with the comedy angle because I laughed at some things there.

As an Black American women that grew up feminist, I had several issues with this movie and only watched it because I had company over and they wanted to watch it. After watching it, it was a cute movie to watch, but nothing to write home about.

1. The now King of Zumunga or whatever tf it was lost all dignity when he had a bastard child in the USA from a One Night Stand he didn't even remember having.

2. He brings this bastard child to his kingdom in order to groom him to rule over his kingdom instead of his 2 daughters that were born out of love and raised within royalty; JUST BECAUSE His BASTARD WAS BORN WITH A PENIS.

3. The only redeeming quality of this movie was that the King's dignity was restored when he realized that having a Penis does not make you a better warrior if you have not been raised in a decent environment And he appointed one of his daughter as a future ruler.

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Romance / Re: Elon Musk Vows Too Marry Nigeria Girl.. Shey Make Anonymous Reason by MarjieJ57(f): 6:33pm On Apr 12, 2021
Was this the Elon Musk, the 4th Richest Man in the world or Elon Mush, the 4th Richest Yahoo boy in Nigerian that wrote this? The real Elon Musk current girlfriend is French Canadian and looks very feminist. If you look her up, She no look Nigerian, lol!!

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Jeon:
Elon revealed this to CNN
“Nigerian girls are the best to make a wife,” said Elon Musk during a live interview with CNN. “When I was younger, I used to crush on a Nigerian girl called Lara. Her Dad was a Lecturer at the same University my Dad was lecturing. Lara was the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. I was so madly in love with her that I promised myself to marry her when I grow up.

“Unfortunately, Lara’s Dad relocated back to Nigeria after he was given an appointment by the then Military government of General Muhammadu Buhari. It’s funny how the same Buhari is still in charge of Nigeria now. How could Nigerian people return a failed government to power in this 21st century? But that is digression.
“Last year, I tried looking for Lara so that we could reconnect, but I was sad when I got to know that she is now married with kids. She is married to a popular Nigerian politician. Lara wouldn’t even leave her husband when I advised her to divorce him so that we can start our dream life together. I have never seen such level of loyalty. Like I am the second richest man in the world and she wouldn’t marry me.

“Since Lara wouldn’t leave her husband to marry me, I have decided to start hunting for another Nigerian girl to marry. I believe before the end of the year, I would have found my choice.

Speaking about what he is looking for in a Nigeria woman, Elon said:

“I am looking for a Nigerian woman who is very respectful and homely. Please I don’t want a feminist. I don’t want problem for my life. I want a lady who will be cooking for me, a lady who will be ready to take care of our children. She wouldn’t have to go to work, I will be giving her monthly salary of 200,000 Dollar every month.


Being a Yoruba lady is an added advantage but it really doesn’t matter as long as she is 100 percent Nigerian. I don’t want Nigerian American or Nigerian British or Nigerian whatever. I want a lady who grew up in Nigeria her entire life, those ones make good wife material.”
Crime / Re: Walter Wallace Jr. Shot Ten Times By US Police Officers, Sparks Protests by MarjieJ57(f): 6:26am On Oct 28, 2020
They go to prison for the criminally insane. That's way worst than the worst penitentiary. Couple of years there and yeah; your brain is fried!!

Beautyaddy:


You are a mentally deranged and frustrated liar. It does not work that way.

Most of those who claim mental instability after killings never ever leave prison. The die in prison.

Go and seek for urgent psychiatric help before you get someone else killed.
Crime / Re: Walter Wallace Jr. Shot Ten Times By US Police Officers, Sparks Protests by MarjieJ57(f): 6:16am On Oct 28, 2020
I agree that they probably shoot to kill blacks more out of all the potential destruction of the policeman's life. But that only leads to burning down police stations and the destruction of the whole neighborhood. Don't you think all that weight on the cops mind is worse than if he would of just shot him in the leg? And the cop still gets his life destroyed.


OK2NVME:


In case you didn't read my first post let me reiterate it here.

A single shot from a gun is considered a potential lethal shot.



You shoot someone be it on the leg or anyother part of the body avoiding vital organs is still lethal as that person will surely die if not provided medical assistance .

Being a cop in the US is probably one of the most dangerous professions given that the US is filled with guns. Every police stop is a potential lethal encounter for either the cop or whoever the cop pulled over.

Cops are trained first to defend themselves and their operating manual calls for use of deadly force when they are facing an aggresively dangerous and armed suspect.

You shoot to kill once the use of authorized force has been justified and in this case it has.

Shooting to incapicate may lead to future expensive law suits that will definitely bankrupt the cop , have him fired and turn him to a destitute.

You lose your house, pension , wife,friends, career and everything you have worked for .

If I was put in those cops shoes , I will shoot to kill
Crime / Re: Walter Wallace Jr. Shot Ten Times By US Police Officers, Sparks Protests by MarjieJ57(f): 6:06am On Oct 28, 2020
Just another day of Nigerians in America minding their own business!!

LOS ANGELES -- After search warrants were executed at multiple locations across L.A. County on Thursday morning, federal prosecutors announced a 252-count indictment that accuses 80 people in the U.S. and Nigeria of participating in a "massive conspiracy to steal millions of dollars through a variety of fraud schemes."


helicoptarr:
This is exactly why Africans hardly get killed by US police:

1. We don't go out of our way to look for their trouble

2. Love and cherish our lives

3. We mostly abide by the rules and regulations of foreign countries, and if nemesis catches up with those who engage in crime, we hardly care

4. We're too busy trying to make ends meet

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Crime / Re: Walter Wallace Jr. Shot Ten Times By US Police Officers, Sparks Protests by MarjieJ57(f): 5:40am On Oct 28, 2020
Exactly; it's present day slavery. Too many Black men are deemed useless in American society. I don't believe that black women are feminist or hatbe black men; They want their black men, but feel that too many black men are more of a burden to them than their own kids!! Black women are able to get better education and jobs in America. Black women can have children and go on welfare and get tax breaks. Black men's only role in society is basically to be a sperm donor.

oyebode11:
From Lagos, to new york, to London, the hate on a black man is too much. If that guy was white would he have been shot for carrying a Kitchen Knife? Why not just use a Teaser gun to electrocute him and bring him down. It's just obvious the institution doesn't want black young people to thrive..
Crime / Re: Walter Wallace Jr. Shot Ten Times By US Police Officers, Sparks Protests by MarjieJ57(f): 4:53am On Oct 28, 2020
And this is the bottom line. But haters are going to hate!!


Nigsrdumb:


Can't see much of a difference between the way black Americans and Nigerians behave.

Infact Nigerians are a knock down copy.

Look well at your society
Crime / Re: Walter Wallace Jr. Shot Ten Times By US Police Officers, Sparks Protests by MarjieJ57(f): 4:49am On Oct 28, 2020
Because Americans are willing to die for their rights and freedom. When will Nigerians fight for their own peace and prosperity instead of stealing it from old white women?

cloud:
Sometimes,we are the cause of our problems. I've learnt never to argue with an armed person cause there's really a very thin line between life and death. It wouldn't have cost him anything to drop the knife, but the stubbornness of black Americans is on another level. Why do they always resist? Believe me, those cops will claim that they felt threatened by the knife that black man was holding even though they reacted with excessive force. Bottom line is it takes a second to pull that trigger and snuff life out of a living being, so never argue with the man holding a gun
Crime / Re: Walter Wallace Jr. Shot Ten Times By US Police Officers, Sparks Protests by MarjieJ57(f): 4:42am On Oct 28, 2020
Black men in America expect to be killed by police. Holding a weapon was his last ditched effort in saving himself. How is it that 2 cops with 2 guns each and handcuffs could not subdue a man with a steak knife. Even if he was unarmed, they would of still shot him. George Floyd was unarmed. He was choked to death on live TV WHILE HE WAS HANDCUFFED.

chiMoni37:
Why would he charge towards the police with a knife in his hand.. wcops hat was his expectations ? ☹️
Crime / Re: Walter Wallace Jr. Shot Ten Times By US Police Officers, Sparks Protests by MarjieJ57(f): 4:06am On Oct 28, 2020
CNN is not the FBI or the CIA. It's a fake ass news station.
I don't think Amnesty International takes on human rights abuse in the USA; It's just one of those agencies that syphons money from American tax payers to pay for human right abuse cases in other countries. As far as president Trump is concerned, it's probably another agency where he needs each country to pay their fair share or else the USA will bale the Bleep out!!

Kuginzi:
Why can't CNN investigate who ordered the shooting?
Why can't Amnesty international push for sanctions against the US as they have been accused of killing blacks, and send Petitions to ICC?

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Crime / Re: Walter Wallace Jr. Shot Ten Times By US Police Officers, Sparks Protests by MarjieJ57(f): 3:18am On Oct 28, 2020
If he was white and killed 10 people, they would of tased him or shot him in the leg; if they use any force at all. But since covid, blacks have been the target of murder by cops. Cops even use choke holds on black children for petty crimes like selling cigarettes or water or by just ignoring the police altogether.

nigeriainfo:
This guy is armed and to the best of my knowledge the two police officers need to protect their own life too. But they should have shot him in the leg though
Crime / Re: Walter Wallace Jr. Shot Ten Times By US Police Officers, Sparks Protests by MarjieJ57(f): 2:30am On Oct 28, 2020
So why did they further beat him after he was incapacitated. And I don't think police are legally trained to shoot until someone is incapacitated.

GamalNasser:
The mother should have handled the family domestic issues instead of calling the cops ...What did they call the cops for over a family domestic squabbles if they didn't thing their son was a threat... From the video I would say the cops did their best and had no choice but shoot and for those that wonder why American cops shoot a lot of bullets ? Its because they are trained to shoot till a target is completely neutralised and immobile , once they starts shooting they will shoot tills you can't move any of your limbs .... Families should learn when you call a cop to a family issues there is a possibility of loss of life and is the family ready for that
Romance / Planning To Travel To Lagos In February 2021 by MarjieJ57(f): 9:57pm On Oct 19, 2020
Hello Everyone

I'm a 57 y. o. African American planning to travel to Lagos in February 2021 for 10 days only if Covid doesn't keep us on lockdown until then. I had plans to meet someone there, but those plans fell through. I have already bought my tickets, and really want to try and salvage this trip. I plan to travel there alone, and I'm looking for someone to be a tour guide to take me site seeing, wining and dining and other social activities.

I am an antisocial introvert and I have very few friends. I am tired of being in my shell and I hope I can get a extrovert companion to spend time with. When I travel, I usually travel alone. I will probably just take a loss on my ticket, if I don't find someone that can take me around Lagos.

I planned to rent a Airbnb on Lekki Phase I, but for now I'm open to other suggestions.

Any one who is interested should kindly send a DM but please follow the listed criteria below please:

• Have a car for mobility
• Have a job/business or hustle (be independent) - I am willing to pay for any events we participate in. But I'm working class American, so not looking for anything too extravagant. I prefer to do things average Nigerians do. I'm not looking to big ball with all your friends and girlfriends in Nigeria and foot the bill. So, I will be scrutinizing thoroughly anyone willing to take on this assignment. I'm not coming there to be anyone's sugar mama, I still have bills to pay at home even when I'm on vacation, and I mostly live paycheck to paycheck. Sorry to be harsh on this note, but I'm only willing to do my fair share to help someone when they are helping themselves. I have travelled to other countries in Africa without fear. I'm hoping Nigeria will not disappoint me also.
• Be kind-hearted
• Be willing to be my friend, companion, exercise buddy, travel buddy, partner, date buddy, cinema buddy, etc
• Be kind to people and don't be wicked
• Teach me how to be a bit social

I just want someone to spend time with, with no bad intentions or intent to harm.

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Romance / Re: It's A Torture As An Intellectual Person To Be Surrounded By Ignorant People by MarjieJ57(f): 9:16pm On Oct 19, 2020
I don't make it a habit to insult ignorant people until they try to drag me into their ignorance. But yes, it's annoying af.

Openbusiness:
Nobody knows everything about everything, only God. No matter how intellectual you are or claim to be, there will still be areas or aspects where you are totally ignorant too. No matter how widely read or experienced we are in this world, what we don't know will always be greater than what we know.

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Romance / Re: An Average Nigerian Guy Has This Mentality by MarjieJ57(f): 9:06pm On Oct 19, 2020
I have to agree with this. Although when I was young I had plans that if married a decent man with money I would help the less fortunate. Then when no decent man came along, I decided, maybe I can help the less fortunate man by not necessarily being a sugar mama, but felt if I loved them a certain way they would help themselves.

Ultimately the only reason why MGTOW exist today is because AVERAGE-LOOKING women in America went WGTOW 50 years ago. Men are 50 years late to that party!!

Evolutionlove:


Lol grin grin grin
see what this Short bread posted and stated clearly, Yet you will still see some useless pot bellied SIMPS and slim senseless ones still rushing and begging her to accept their Proposal. Well I stopped pitying foolish and stupid people long time ago though......

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Romance / Re: An Average Nigerian Guy Has This Mentality by MarjieJ57(f): 8:52pm On Oct 19, 2020
Unless you're gay that would be wonderful. If you're not gay y'all wouldn't last a month without a women.
If women disappeared tomorrow, would men that don't have jobs today have a job tomorrow?

morohunfola78008:
:Guys needs to know that it is a man's world and it would be everything without a womanLOUD IT!! SOROSOKE!!!
Romance / Re: An Average Nigerian Guy Has This Mentality by MarjieJ57(f): 8:41pm On Oct 19, 2020
All I do is laugh at them! They pass up decent women for slay queens. Then when their money quickly runs out, they go begging to average looking women to be their sugar mamas. They expect suga mama to bail them out; or continue funding their slay queen habit. I love when they contact me, so I can cuss them all out!! And laugh even harder when they ask for respect!!

MhisTahrah:
Some of them hustle just to impress females and oppress their fellow males.And they come to nairaland to wail that women love money.
Romance / Re: Chat Between Two Lovers Every Girl Must See To Learn by MarjieJ57(f): 7:54pm On Oct 07, 2020
Why are you worried about a conversation being fake? Even if it is fake, why is it not a lesson for people to learn?

lastchild:
that chat is staged, look at the time she complained he wasted before answering her, almost the same time

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Romance / Re: I Want To Relocate To Afghanistan Because Of Their Girls by MarjieJ57(f): 6:24pm On Oct 07, 2020
Yeah, Bleep her like it's your last Bleep; because it will be, lol!!


illicit:



Alright Mr Kamoru

When u marry their girl Bleep her well o and u must use burantashi because dem don dey fvck camel Bleep donkey Bleep horse since 10 wink
Romance / Re: I Want To Relocate To Afghanistan Because Of Their Girls by MarjieJ57(f): 6:18pm On Oct 07, 2020
So let me get this straight: You rather join the army in Afghanistan to fight with people that rape, torture and kill women because you feel they have better looking women there than the women that Boko haram rape tortures and kill?

Have you ever even seen a Afghani woman, because they are more covered up than a Saudi princess.

Top 4 place I would never go in the world:

1. North Korea
2. Saudi Arabia
3. Afghanistan
4. 90% of the rest of Muslim world.

But you do you!!!!!





Emmyreal4:
bro I might not come back...am planning to nationalize and if possible join the army over there

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Romance / Re: Redpill Doesnt Say This, Pls Note... by MarjieJ57(f): 3:33pm On Oct 06, 2020
Now I'm starting to understand where you are coming from! All the Red Pill in the world isn't going to allow a broke man to ever control a woman if she's working; and most likely even if she's not working. Because yes, there are plenty of simps to go around. And a Red Pill man with money will never keep a woman because he doesn't know how to love a woman outside of giving her money. They give out of lust or obligation; or their love of lust. If or when they ever learn about love. Red Pill be damn! I'm thinking men that go MGTOW will either teach a man how to love himself in order to love someone else; or it will add fuel to THEIR narcissism.

virginprincess:
Redpill redpill redpill, nothing like redpill, all nigeria men are potential simps, grin grin grin
Romance / Re: Redpill Doesnt Say This, Pls Note... by MarjieJ57(f): 2:51pm On Oct 06, 2020
If I'm getting 50% love from my man; and most times I make more money than he does does, I'll be going Red Pill. He'll get 25% love from me. And my side piece which, still seems to be the better option in Nigerian society, will get 75%.

All jokes aside, Red Pill can go both ways. I don't know about all these heifers that don't want to work. But if a woman is working, she ain't got time for all that!!



Uzomacharles:
Nice One Bro....

I've understand that too much love makes a girl act foolishly to be honest...

50% love is all...

Don't impress them much
Romance / Re: Is This The Average Thinking Of Nigeria Ladies? (pics Included) by MarjieJ57(f): 12:10am On Oct 06, 2020
I interpret her response as being sarcastic. His questions are just as bad as her answers. If someone asked me questions like that, I'd be a smartass too. I think women are looking for men to wow them when chatting. They want a natural conversation, not job interview question. Make her laugh! Ask her how her day was. What are her plans for the evening; then take it from there.

This is what she's looking for:

1. Be original. Send her such kind of messages, she will never get from other guys.
2. Do not just say "hello" or send her a strange smile, think of a way to make her smile.
3. Enchant her with your wit. Make a witty remark, make her laugh. Show her that you can be smart, even in the message.
4. Tell her something new. If you've just heard great news that could surprise her, share your knowledge.

Read more: https://www.legit.ng/1143993-how-chat-a-girl.html

PUNAengineOIL:
There is no proof that the response was from a girl.
Even if it was, she said nothing wrong. Me too, I like money and I dislike being broke.

When a girl tell you she likes money, she is just been human. She can work and earn her own money, not bad. It is when she have that entitlement mentality towards your own money, and believes that her puna is an asset, that is when you know she is a typical hoelosho.

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Romance / Re: Is This The Average Thinking Of Nigeria Ladies? (pics Included) by MarjieJ57(f): 11:49pm On Oct 05, 2020
People that chat like this to each other have no real interest each other; or have no clue how to talk to each other. Either way both need to find someone that can give them substance.

Masonkaycares:
The way some people chat make me puke. Example

Guy: hi

Girl : hello

Guy : how are you

Girl : fine


Guy : how was your day?

Girl : fine


Guy : did you eat?


Girl : yes



People who chat like this have no sense.

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