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Romance / Re: Black Americans Are The Most Weakest, Sensitive, Cry Babies I've Ever Seen by MarjieJ57(f): 2:23am On Sep 01, 2021
The thing that is hilarious to me is how Nigerians think thy are insulting us by calling us Akata! As far as I'm concern, I can't be nothing but Akata! I don't have to suck disease infested dick or lick stanky shit asshole just to make a life for myself. As long as I have the nerve to believe my brain function is all I need to make a living for myself, I will never be a $3 Hoe!!!!!

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Romance / Re: Black Americans Are The Most Weakest, Sensitive, Cry Babies I've Ever Seen by MarjieJ57(f): 1:44am On Sep 01, 2021
No, Africans just pull fake facts out of their shitty unwiped ass!!


Magnoliaa:


These are very wild claims. Any sources for these??

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Romance / Re: Black Americans Are The Most Weakest, Sensitive, Cry Babies I've Ever Seen by MarjieJ57(f): 4:57pm On Aug 25, 2021
You think you can hurt my feeling? Bitch Please! I am American and my family has been Americans for hundreds of years. Yes, my ancestors were slaves. The beauty of slavery is knowing where you came from and making a success out of your life. Africans have never been slaves, except mentally, just like many of us, yet they live on the poorest continent on the planet. Not poor because of resources, poor because of ignorance. Ya'll don't even have sense enough to control you're own damn resources, yet you have the nerve to talk about what Black American don't do. It's the case of pointing one finger at someone else while 3 fingers are pointing back at you. That makes you triple the uselessness you think I am. I'm sure you're military ass stayed a private all your military career. My sister had a real military career. Her last assignment in the Army was working for NATO in Larissa Greece, so Bleep you private white bitch, or are you the white private bitch's house pickaninny?!

This is not a fight between black and white or I guess in your case the house nigger, because I give less than zero fuks what anybody thinks of me. I know who I am and most insults come from people I KNOW are less than me. This is a fight between Africans that educate themselves with useless degrees and think they are better than us when they make less than $10 a day with all them damn degrees. People in the penitentiary make more money than that, and most of them never finished high school. (Yes, even blacks and whites in prison have jobs!) And don't start throwing out useless statistics from the 1950s, or fake statistics of how Nigerians in the USA are doing better than blacks. Those statistics mean nothing and don't specially say what Nigerians in the USA are doing. Ultimately most of ya'll are still in Nigeria, BEGGING!

Africans think they got one up over Black Americans. I don't see any White Americans or any Europeans specifically recruiting Nigerians to bring them over to America, Europe or any other white country to replace us allegedly useless Blacks. That's why Nigerians especially inundate the whole internet bothering people looking for a way out of their uselessness. Ain't nobody in the western world got time for uselessness! Ya'll are begging every Tom, Dick or Henrietta to part with their resources, cause ya'll can't get your own. How many Black Americans are begging ya'll for useless things, yet you say we don't work?! If there are any blacks asking you for I phones, gift cards, or just straight up money they are on YOUR level!!!!! I will admit that some blacks, at least the women may have once looked to Africa because there is a shortage of black marriageable men in the US. Thank God, I got sense enough to learn the criminal element is 10 x bigger with Africans. Ultimately since women are destined to not be alone, even if she is lucky enough to get married, I will direct my resources to female friends that will take care of each other in our old age. FUK MEN!! Only about 10% are good sexually, and only when they are still young.

I see many Africans from every other country other than Nigerian here. I barely meet Nigerians. The best lovers are Africans from French colonized countries. Ultimately you have to be HIGHLY EDUCATED or a player (Yeah right, LOL!) to get here, unless you are a refugee. Most of your $5 degrees, that you beg westerners to pay for because you can't afford them, are barely above a high school diploma. In fact a bachelor degree in most counties are barely an Associate Degree here in the USA!

As long as you feel you have the right to insult me. I will insult back and never shut the fuk up. Just cause your African men treat you women like shit don't mean you have the right to insult women that don't take shit from their men. And I know maybe you are a man pretending to be a woman. Trust me, I have less respect for black men than I do black women that allow black men to treat them like shit!




MilitaryLady:
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American my foot. My friend stop deceiving yourself, you're not and can never be an American. Black Americans are low life Africans whose forefathers were fortunate to be sold as slaves to the whites and they were bundled like dogs, chained, tied and shipped naked to America during the Transatlantic slave trade that occurred 3 centuries ago. No wonder The Whites treat you as inferior humans, you motherfvckers are also used as sex slaves.
So learn to keep your mouth shut.
Dumb ass descendant of a slave

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Romance / Re: Black Americans Are The Most Weakest, Sensitive, Cry Babies I've Ever Seen by MarjieJ57(f): 3:55am On Aug 25, 2021
Exact the fuckly. And yes I don't give a Bleep how vulgar or lack of sense these Africans think I or we have. At the end of the day, I'm American. I know who the Bleep I am and I don't have to prove how good of a person I am to a people who are pots calling the kettle BLACK. You judge me when your culture of abuse of women and children doesn't even come close to civilization. If anything, uncivilized BA are a product of their uncivilized African Ancestors! And honestly, white people have never been my problem. BLACKS Inferiority complexes from everywhere are each of our problems. Every time a Yahoo boy or dare I say a "non scamming" but fake lover African contacts me, terrorizes me with their fake ass religious beliefs in order to extort money and other things from "USELESS ASS" me, I revel in the chance to cuss all them niggas out!!!

Kiasa:


I have already debunked your white supremacy garbage when I posted you those many Beautiful Black American Suburbs so your attempt to degrade Black Americans is a failure. grin grin grin

QUOTE..."Black Americans think that mere mortals
is holding them back". Oh the hypocrisy of some of you broke ass Nigerians is amazing.

These are the very same people who complain that their president is holding them back from succeeding in their own country but instead of fighting the system they run away to other countries like the little chicken heads they are and ridicule the citizens in these other countries for having the courage to fight back.

You are a disgrace to Africa. undecided

LMAO grin This broke ass third world dweller living in an impoverished failed country talking about the poverty of first world people which in comparison to how he lives looks like upper middle class. grin grin

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Romance / Re: Black Americans Are The Most Weakest, Sensitive, Cry Babies I've Ever Seen by MarjieJ57(f): 3:18am On Aug 25, 2021
Remind me of which Black country in Africa DOES NOT suffer from ABJECT POVERTY?! All you negros over there brag about how educated you are over BA, but yet ANY BA WTH A JOB makes 5000 times more income than any of you! Even a high school drop out can make more money than most of you. Hell, BA in prison make more money than most of you with your 500 degrees. You call us cry babies, yet you will whine in a heartbeat how You're BLACK and Tribal Government is keeping you down. I don't see nair one of ya'll moving forward, unless it's to beg a westerner for money and green cards. You're own black-skinned same nationality people keep you down and not one white person is coming along to emancipate you or trying to replace BA with better African blacks!!! So remind me again who the useless negroes are??

Keep Hate Alive Useless Africans!!!

kroger:


Just imagine a full grown adult talking gibberish, a white man can never and will never be my problem. How can an adult with brains think that a white man is his problem, this is another reason why the BA as whole cannot move forward and wallow in abject poverty, penury and deprivation because they spend their whole life thinking a mere Mortal is holding them back. reminds me of a quote from Tupac " they say is the white Man i should fear but its my own kind doing all the killing here"

On another Cogitation without the White man you will never know what is Civility.

Continue wallowing in impoverishment!!!!
Crime / Re: US Court Sentences Ismaila Fafunmi To 51 Months In Prison For Fraud (Photo) by MarjieJ57(f): 4:03pm On Aug 22, 2021
Freezby2020:
Am very angry, Y only 51 months. They should retry him, he deserves 51 years in Jail with very hard labor and no parole.
Is his types that have given hard working, honest and law abiding Nigerians very bad names in overseas countries, there subjecting them to unnecessary, undeserved ridicules


He received a plea bargain; meaning that he turned over the real brains of the operation for a lighter sentence.
Romance / Re: Black Americans Are The Most Weakest, Sensitive, Cry Babies I've Ever Seen by MarjieJ57(f): 6:49pm On Jul 23, 2021
As a Disabled Black American women whose worked hard all her life and refuses to have a victim mentally:

You are correct that many American Blacks have victim mentality. You can hate us all you want. But just remember when you are trying to scam Americans for money and green cards.

White people also see Nigerians that beg for money and romance scams as lazy bleeps too! So YOU'RE MENTALITY IS NO BETTER THAN OURS!





AlphaLover:


Guy u be correct man

I swear I hate black americans and do u know the funny thing? They hate us african blacks they call us sell outs

Wen was there recently i had a similar conversation wit a super in my building who was an african american she started shouting because I was calling dem out on their entitlement mentality

She started saying bad things about africans an how we come there 2 be coons to whites because our country is a wat? Wait for it.... Shit hole

U see they r racists 2 us even

Useless breed of lazy humans
Romance / Re: Black Americans Are The Most Weakest, Sensitive, Cry Babies I've Ever Seen by MarjieJ57(f): 6:47pm On Jul 23, 2021
As a Disabled Black American women whose worked hard all her life and refuses to have a victim mentally:

You are correct that many American Blacks have victim mentality. You can hate us all you want. But just remember when you are trying to scam Americans for money and green cards.

White people also don't look at Nigerians that beg and scams as lazy bleeps. So YOU ALL are no different.




AlphaLover:


Guy u be correct man

I swear I hate black americans and do u know the funny thing? They hate us african blacks they call us sell outs

Wen was there recently i had a similar conversation wit a super in my building who was an african american she started shouting because I was calling dem out on their entitlement mentality

She started saying bad things about africans an how we come there 2 be coons to whites because our country is a wat? Wait for it.... Shit hole

U see they r racists 2 us even

Useless breed of lazy humans
Romance / Re: 'My Fiancée I'm Sponsoring In UK Is Pregnant For Another Man' by MarjieJ57(f): 9:33pm On Jun 22, 2021
Redpill only exists in the minds of ALL MENT THAT PICK THE WRONG WOMAN!!! Most MEN and WOMEN have to do for themselves these days. You get NO SYMPATHY from US that have no one favoring US!! So Cry your river!!


LadyRosa:


Like I said redpill doesn't exist in Nigeria. I don't see them, so I don't believe it exists on here.

Again, we are in Africa and the culture is for you to work hard and bring the goodies home. And if you're a Christian is much worst.... It's a curse. The holy books swear for Una say Una go work like jackey...

Just embrace your woes. It won't get better.


To Adam he said, “Because you listened to your wife and ate fruit from the tree about which I commanded you, ‘You must not eat from it,’ “Cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat food from it all the days of your life. "


You see say no be today Una mumu start?
Romance / Re: Why African American Women Should Be Preferred by MarjieJ57(f): 1:00am On Jun 18, 2021
Hiccups:
I noticed consistent effort to demonize African American women by Nigerians in particular as not good enough for relationship as well as any other purpose. While everyone has the right to identify what’s best for them, Such can be achieved without stereotyping.

Yes some African American women are terrible, aggressive, rude, provocative, uncouth, controlling. Make no mistake, Hispanic, native and Caucasian Americans have their terrible aspects. From Bronx, NY to Elizabeth NJ, to FL, and CA, Hispanic American communities are not any better. with increasing psycho-stimulated happenings, Caucasians are no way different. Yet it is the AA community Nigerians seems to scrutinized more or perhaps constantly displayed this disappointing ugly negative perception.

Yes, AAW are loveable. If you're only pursuit of us is to financially abuse us; then yes, we will be Rachet. We know that black men only use us for financially abuse. As more and more White women realize that they are being being financially abused by Black Americans and Nigerians, you want to turn to Black American for Financial abuse. That's is not going to happen. If we had a choice between broke ass niggas in American and broke ass niggas in Nigerian, it's cheaper to deal with broke ass Black American men!!!!!!



Part of me want to believe could be purely down to Nigerians interactions, relationship, or better considered “transaction” with AA in obtaining a legal status in the States. Could Majority of 9ja conclusions about AA to some reasonable extent be traceable to experiences on the road this? If true, then its very unfair to AA community, as very few normal AA doing fairly ok, would get involved with such.

Before you demonise AA, always remember this:

1. AA may have ties with Africa, culturally, we are not the same. What we find unacceptable by 9ja Standards, in most cases, are acceptable by theirs.

2. Women in Southern America including AA, are very homely (by far the best you can get in US, I’ll put them ahead of any 9ja girl) compared to NY area. Again where you live in the state could shape your perception about American women, AA in particular.

3.. Always remember without the struggles of AA community, you as 9ja would stand no chance to enjoy those privileges in the States, I believe regardless of our different culture, they (AA) deserves better from Nigerians.

4. If you meet an AA woman, who at least belong to middle class and she loves you, I am very certain, personal perception about AA would change instantly. They’re the best in my books.

One reason I do advocate for Nigerians to always look out for AA women to settle with includes but not limited to:
- They’re very honest, hardly hold on to issues. Though they can react at speed of light when it comes to who they love �, trust me they let go of it easily.
- They’re not as mean and wicked as most 9ja women. If AA woman wants out of marriage, you can negotiate, share assets, still be good friends for life, she’ll still support you if she can, but most 9ja women will want to wreck you absolutely and make sure you are good for nothing or even have you dead and turn kids against you.
Romance / Re: Why Are Black American Ladies Viewed As Animals? by MarjieJ57(f): 11:59pm On Jun 16, 2021
I no longer have the energy to have pissing matches with pots or kettles. You can hate on Black Women all you want if that makes you dick hard. But here are comments from anonymous Americans on how they feel about Nigerians.


Anonymous
Answered October 25, 2017
Nigerians have worked hard to earn their reputation for being corrupt internet scammers.

The poorly written emails suggest a substandard educational system, or at least poor English teaching resources in Nigeria.

Outside of the frequent emails from unfortunate Nigerian princes, I have not had contact with many Nigerians.

The Nigerian criminal element has persuaded me to stay away from Nigeria when I visit Africa next year.

i am not familiar with any positive attributes of Nigerians.



Jeff Verkouille, Born there, live elsewhere.
Answered January 7, 2017
Originally Answered: What do Americans think about Nigeria?
Americans tend to not know much about Nigeria, and like much of Africa, what gets told in the media are negative stories and stereotypes: 419 scams with Nigerian princes asking for help looting oil wealth, and terrorist attacks like Boko Haram’s kidnapping of the Chibok girls.

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Gbenga Elutidoye, Life is a ride on a ticking clock
Answered December 21, 2016
Most Americans don’t know about Nigeria or any other country in Africa. To them, Africa is a country and the rest of the countries are like states. This is due to the fact that most Americans don’t fancy Africa as a destination of choice.

I have met a couple of people in America who knows about Nigeria but I noticed that most of them are either immigrant themselves or are African-American. I remember one day on my way to Fort Washington, my Uber driver is an American and as the policy, I guess of Uber he kept quiet while he drove. Mumbling to the music from the radio. The whole journey although less than 30 minutes became a little boring so I initiated a conversation. I asked him if he has ever been to Africa he said no and asked me where am I from originally, I told him Nigeria. He repeated, Nigeria?. I nod in affirmative and we continue the conversation mutually as buddies. I asked him if he knows anything about Nigeria and he said one of his sisters married a Ghanaian and from there got information about Nigeria. He was just talking about Boko Haram, the bombing of oil installations (Avengers) and corruption. He crowned it by saying we are nice people though.

They are less concern about Nigeria and will rather lump us together as Africa and maybe pity our ass. Most African-Americans have met with have expressed willingness to visit Nigeria but they are also wary of safety. They just believe Africa is home and you can understand their sentiment if they paint us in glittering glory. Some of them have met with Nigerians in college and will rather talk of the individuals than the country. If you want to know how Americans feel about Nigerians I will say they are indifferent - they will rather relate to you as an individual if you are cool they will feel same or ...

Generally, Americans don’t feel anything about Nigeria but maybe a little for Africa.


I am in love with a Nigerian man but how do I really know he loves me he told me that he can't live without me?
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How can he love you if he doesn’t know you?

Now; you can learn from this the easy way or the hard way.

I am not attempting to stereotype anyone or anything in the online dating world but I AM attempting to help you dodge a bullet and I’m telling you NOT to send any money to this person.

Please secure all of your data and bank/card information.

You’ll never get the time back you wasted with “potential” fraud online.

Generally speaking impoverished countries do fraud through online dating sites for a REASON. Avoid impoverished regions ALTOGETHER!!

It may not even be a man.

Catfish. Catfish. Catfish!!

Do you know anything about the concept of cat fishing?

You feel like something isn’t right because it I’SNT!!

Has your gut feeling ever failed you dear?

Energy doesn’t lie.

Give me his information and I’ll get to the bottom of it if I have to.

Time is money. Actually time is PRICELESS. Especially your own.

Is this all you deserve? RAISE YOUR STANDARDS PLEASE.


wers
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Boris Ezomo, Nigerian and proud of it.
Answered November 22, 2016
Okay I have not idea what the American think about the Nigerian, but will give you an idea what the Britons thinks about them. Lived among them so have a good idea.

First understand that not all Britons are like what I am going to describe. I have many friends among them.

The general belief is that Nigerians are scam artists. All of them. Your education or status does not matter. You are just waiting for a good opportunity to make a fast buck.

Nigerians are an immigration risk. If you give them a visa, they are staying in your country. Benefit cheats all of them.

At the airport. Drug mules.

Well you can not blame them. Nigerians had set up that image.

Then you have a few that is the colour and not the nationality that offends them.

After 24 hour on call on the trauma team at a hospital in Liverpool. Saving lives. I come out ready to go home to bed. I meet a proper English gentleman complete with a hat.

Gentleman : Excuse me.

Me: Yes sir how can I help you?

Gentleman :Britain has already done a lot for you. When are you leaving?

What the? Spend the whole night patching up his people and I get this? Did I tell you that I am mixed race. So I can image what he would had said if I was a darker shade of brown.

I got the hint.

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Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 9:08pm On Jun 08, 2021
This looks like an interesting article to read. I will take a look at it.

I probably won't be writing on this thread any longer. I know that most guys on this thread was waiting for a "Hoedown" to occur and that didn't happen, lol!! And I apologize for all the insult that I have spewed on this thread. I guess I will continue to stay mostly out of Nigerians business. Normally I don't get offended by the hate that gets spewed on here because I know it's out of ignorance and stupidity. Also responding while having a cocktail doesn't help either.

2buffagain:


Hey no worries smiley.
These things don't come up in daily discussion either because people oft times just get in their feelings and thus never actually go deep into these things.

This is a great Report I think you are in a good mindset to assimilate.
https://www.heritage.org/government-regulation/report/black-accountability-and-achievement

Keep on pushing.

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Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 9:02pm On Jun 08, 2021
I've had my run in with police both here in Washington state and in Cali and no, I never put myself in a position where they would kill me. I was in a local grocery store when I live in Cali buying groceries. I'm short 4'11" and this cop was Mexican about an inch taller than me. I'm sure racism, a Napoleon complex and a bit of misogynist behavior was taking place here. I was checking out my groceries and forgot an item. I went back to get the item when the policeman got in my face and stated someone accuse me of putting an item in my purse. I asked the fool if he wanted to check my purse and he said no. So I walked away because the cashier was waiting for me. About a month later I was waiting for a bus coming home from night college. The cop ended up in that area where the bus stop was looking for some criminal that escaped. He saw me waiting for the bus along with 20 other people and decided to harass me again. He wanted to check my drivers license to see if I had a criminal record. I guess they need to take someone to jail that night. There was no reason for him to do that, but I cooperated. When they found out I had no record. He decided to give me a ride home, so that everyone can think that I was some big bad criminal that he caught. His partner even looked at him like he was crazy.

Washington state was a bit more scary. I was in a city where 4 cops got killed by a black man. They killed the black man on the scene but cops decided to look for other family members to send to prison because allegedly the guy told family members that he was going to kill a cop one day. When they couldn't get no one to else "pay" for this crime, they started harassing random black people for minor infractions all over town. I had gotten harassed by this lone wolf because I had waited for the last day of the month to renew my tabs. They pull me over and handcuffed and put me in the police car telling me I had a warrant for my arrest. I basically had a 20 year old bench warrant from a dispute with my ex husband. He was trying to get me arrested and have my car seized because I owed a fine for a 20 year old domestic dispute. Luckily, He spent 15 minutes harassing me, then let me go.

I don't dispute that we should cooperate when cops are fucking with us. But we also know that cops will attempt to do things that they have no right to do and even exerting your rights can get you killed.

2buffagain:


I understand what you are saying and I am definitely not blind or a stranger to these occurrences. I'm a big black man living in America myself. My presence strikes fear in the hearts of police and purse-clutching white old ladies alike. grin

For example, I entered a diner with my laptop bag to eat and get some work done. There was a white cop there waiting for his dinner or something. The moment the idiot saw me he felt small, became afraid and tried to gain control of his white fear by coming to disturb me with his badge so he could feel big again. He patted me down.

Then said he needs to check what was in my bag. This is a diner where other people are coming and going without harassment. Understanding the psychology of the idiot, I smiled put the bag on a nearby table and told him to go ahead. He said I should open the bag myself (I knew what he was trying to do).

I told him "Officer, that could cause a misunderstanding because I don't want you to think I'm reaching for something and then something unfortunate happens. Let's all make it home tonight. I think it's best if you check the bag yourself if you really want to. Also don't mind if I record you while you do so".
Clear calm logic that makes sense to his primitive brain and considered his safety (his main concern), because he too does not want to get shot if I do happen to have something in the bag.

He could also see he wasn't going to get an EMOTIONAL response out of me like he wanted so he got bored and left. I asked for his name and badge number before he left and we wished each other well on our way.

I say all that to say, I'm not ignorant of living black in America, but wisdom will never fail me in my interactions with anybody here, neither can anyone stop me from continuing to succeed.

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As to blacks getting killed for crimes more, I agree it sucks and much is being changed as we move into GenZ. Understand also that white people Also get killed by police... They just don't make the news when they do because it does not boost ratings. There is a mechanism to everything.

Police training is lacking. Too many unqualified people with no liver and just a month or 2 of training are giving guns and a badge. It starts from there. Any loser can be a cop today.

And you also have to get into the wider perspective and deeper psychology here... The reason they are afraid is because the US is a gun crazy country. In Texas, they just signed a law that people don't even need background check or gun license anymore to buy gun. You can buy a Smith & Wesson along with your grocery shopping now. cheesy
That's why police in other countries like UK are more calm and seemingly heroic... Because they know it won't pass knife the other person has and they are trained martial artists. The USA is far dangerous for police and unfortunately also has less training. These issues will be addressed.

But on your part; going through this life without wisdom is a deadly thing. Work on the micro and in time the macro will shift.
But we cannot afford to keep sabotaging that macro shift by supporting degenerate behavior amongst ourselves just because the perpetrator is black. That will always set us back as it validates that "See? I told you they are all criminals that love criminals" stereotype. Publically call out black folk for misbehaving so the world knows that indeed, there is also a voice within the black community that cries out for internal accountability.

This fosters respect because the current way BA go about things, it simply comes across to other communities as juvenile whining. Hence the lack of deep allies for most things. BA just get shallow allyship from those who have the time for all that virtue signalling BS. But deep down they don't care and The other's who don't have the time for virtue signalling don't care as well because BA behavior today does not communicate to others what MLK's movement communicated back then..."We are Accountable".

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Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 4:46pm On Jun 08, 2021
It wasn't you that stated that black are less intelligent. I have read on this forum plenty of times that Nigerians truly feel they are inferior to whites. With that kind of mindset blacks will never leave poverty. Black Americans do have the arrogance to believe they are not inferior; but in the end most of us end up being that way. Even if individual blacks are able to raise themselves out of poverty they look to share their wealth with other races. Many time in the end they lose their identity.

I know I answer with simplistic thoughts; and sometime I get a thought in my head and write that thought down to the wrong question or at the wrong time, but I never really have a chance to have deep conversations with many people.

2buffagain:


That's a massive over-simplification.
Never said they are. Maybe someone else did.
There is a thing called conditioning though.

Black people, have prioritized other things besides scientific invention and discovery over the millenniums. This reduced the speed at which we could better defend ourselves against evil that came from the shores.

There is no value in looking at these things emotionally. It has nothing to do with inferiority complex either. Develop an ability to be able to take yourself and your interests out of a thing and see it as it is. You have to give props to who props is due. Few of them came on ships and subdued an entire continent. Regardless of whether it not they offended me, That's fucking gangster.

I laugh when BA try to make it seem like we were all pasifists in Africa until the big bad white devil came and brought evil to the land. That's that Wakanda fantasy. We were raiding each other's villages and taking what we wanted from each other, burning down villages and taking slaves. One of The biggest benefactors of the slave trade were the Africans that sold their conquests to white men.

In fact, slavery is still alive and well in some parts of Africa today. That is basic conquest mindset. It was the language of the world back then, and it still is now though to a less open degree the higher the Civilization.

If we could have done what white people did and if they had resources we wanted, we would have done the same. Just as well, If we were not so weak and technologically backward, we would have beat them up If they tried. But we were throwing spears while they were shooting bullets. To the victor went the spoils. Hard fact is: Stay mad or get better.

If you play video games, Civilization 6 is a good one to reference. They won the game. We didn't advance in our defense tree fast enough because we prioritized other less crucial things.

This same tendency to not prioritize the right things as a wider racial pattern is what has continued till this day. Call it what you want but if the issue isn't a lack of intelligence, It is definitely about a lack of wisdom.... Which is far worse.

Wisdom is the principal thing.

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Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 4:24pm On Jun 08, 2021
I'm not saying that anyone should get a free pass if they are a criminal. The problem that we have is that we can get killed for basically committing a misdemeanor crime while white serial murderers get treated with the utmost respect. Cops always seem to go straight to killing us as if we possess some superhuman strength. Of course if someone has a weapon, it's a cops call if he feels his life was in danger, but there was a time when cop used on only maim a person with a weapon, so we know that cop have at one time have been trained not to kill first.

2buffagain:


You're missing the whole point.
If they got arrested for being crooks, then that's what they deserve and more.
I won't side with them just "because they are nigerian". But most BA do not have the ability to think past skin when judging what is right and what is wrong. Very rarely if ever do you see BA see a black person committing crime and go "He's wrong for that. He should face the consequences of his actions". No public rebuke of black criminality. Yet you wonder why other communities see you a certain way. You cannot create a respectable community in the eyes of others if you cannot even show accountability amongst your community.

A lot of BA are unable to process cause and effect. Everything is an endless cycle of reactions based on their race card.
Then will proceed to side with criminals just because the criminal is black...not seeing how that works against them in the bigger picture.
I grew up both here in the US and back home in Nigeria so don't think I'm some foreigner talking out his ass.

I see you are reading through every post chronologically (its a big thread) but you will see that I do not afford anyone the right to misbehave, regardless of skin color or origin. It is the constant siding with degenerate behavior (and protesting the consequences of said behavior ) that annoys me with majority BA....because I know this brings us no respect!
Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 9:13pm On Jun 07, 2021
I guess my point was that people in that land were black for thousands of years compared to blacks in America only been here really less than 400 years and have been slaves most of that time. I understand that you all were colonized by the British, so you all have your own inferiority complexes. But one thing I refuse to believe is that white are smarter than blacks. I feel that black have had other priorities for their lives other than capitalism or whatever it takes to be successful in life. And there are some truly dumb people in the world; but I don't believe that blacks are dumber than whites.


2buffagain:


Lol my dear, at least do a little googling about the history of something before you start making claims like "Nigeria has been around for thousands of years".

Nigeria has only been around for 61 years now.

Nigeria is younger than the colonial minded fools that still run the area and kill who oppose them.
Their clock is running out and some are dying off already. Whatever Nigeria becomes after this brief moment in time, will be Great as the younger more forward generation takes the country into their hands.

Just this week, the ancient necrotic fool of a President, Buhari (who is so daft that he runs back to the UK for health checkups, instead of building the medical infrastructure of his country) banned Nigerians from using Twitter.

These are the fools currently in power. But the time is just around the corner that they will be unseated... The right way. And even that time comes, even I would not mind going back home.

The US has been good and easy to build in for me (despite the complaint of some), but it is not my home. Home will soon be ready.
Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 8:53pm On Jun 07, 2021
I know it is not racism that keeps us down; we are are own worse enemies.

I do feel that it is the breakdown of the black family that keeps blacks down. Black families were stronger in the 60s than they are today. Blacks cannot afford to be independent or feminist like whites can, but we are raised to be that way. Whites have the resources to be "independent" while blacks don't. We need to develop some kind of family structure and pool our resources, even if we are unable to live in a traditional family setting because of slavery and systematic racism.

Today, both blacks and white families are equally broken down and there is no loyalty between men and women. The biggest observation in my workplace is that Americans that have a history in this country of at least 50 to 100 years are all single while all immigrant in my company are married and take care of extended family. The successful blacks that I have come in contact with have made a family either a traditional marriage or people that are willing to call themselves family. But one real problem that can't be ignore is that many people are not willing to pool their resources because it's hard to find people that have everyone's best interests. It is likely you will get stuck with people that are criminal elements that will drain everyone's pooled resources.



2buffagain:


Nigeria IS worse of course.

Which is why one wonders why some of you don't even finish high school which is free to you here in the US.
It is because of the very same bad situation in Nigeria that when we come here, we kill it and take full advantage of the working infrastructure, which a lot of you here overlook and instead rather complain to thy kingdom come rather than build yourselves up.
Yes there were previous attempts like the black wallstreets, but never give up. Israel has been torn down and cast into slavery many times in history from Egypt to Germany...yet still she stands. And in fact, spurred by the tough history, was motivated to advance quite faster than other civilizations in certain things.

When you are done, ask yourself why every country in this world run by black people is a shitshow.
Or, if the USA is all you know about, why even every city run by black people (Detroit?) BECOMES a decrepit shitshow.
Don't say racism. Try harder.

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Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 8:16pm On Jun 07, 2021
You do realize that the Chinese goal is to enslave the whole world. They are basically picking up where the white man left off while smiling in your face the whole time while they are stealing the rest of your resources. The only reason that the Chinese are in Africa is to make Africans indebted to them, just like they have made the USA indebted to them. And why would you expect BA to do anything for Africa when Africa sold their strongest tribesmen into slavery for trinkets, mind you.

Bobmarie:
Ode, you no get one sense before. I don’t expect much from your empty head. The Asians (Chinese) have even done more for us than white people. Since you need answer for your empty brain. Apart from fighting for their rights in America (which has nothing to do with Africans) what have they contributed to Africa since they left 400years ago as our reps in the free world? You are a disgrace to monkeys like you all around the world!

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Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 7:58pm On Jun 07, 2021
Amen to this. Asian are extremely racist and most are so nice to everyone and humble you would never know how much they hate you. They have sense enough to know that green is the only color they need to pursue. They ain't got time for any of this bullshit.


LikeAking:


Rubbish education that cant create ANY VALUE in.

THE HUMBLE Asians are doing it big in silence, that how life should be.

Nigerians only see and talk about negativity. What about the good sides of AA?

Empty vessels make the loudest noise.

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Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 7:46pm On Jun 07, 2021
It's only a plus to you if you can find a sucker to fund you into this country. With all your romance scams, these days is damn near impossible. If you ever do get here, you will see how much Nigerians in Diaspora have been lying to you about their success.

9ton:






The only thing that can make degree and jobs to expire is death aside that nothing else..... Your AA people do not have that and it's a plus for we Nigerian.... Keep simping around... Simp

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Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 7:41pm On Jun 07, 2021
What's your contribution to diaspora society? Quoting statistic with no dates from some obscure online forum does not constitute truth and was probably written by a fellow Nigerian with NPD. Most Nigerians that brag about being the best of the best in the USA have Narcistic Personality disorders. The best jobs I've seen them have are nurses. They're basically a glorified medical slave that caters to sick white people. And trust this country would prefer nurses from the Philippines as appose to Nigeria. A nurse has to work 20 hours a day to make as much money as a the best of twerkers; only for their husbands to use her 20 hours hard earned money on his other bitches and kids!!

Bobmarie:
Lmao!


See this one. I’m talking about real achievements, you’re talking about celebrities that have been in the U.S all their lives. What else did these celebrities do for their societies apart from buying cars and buying houses? What was their REAL contribution to society. STOP REASONING THROUGH YOUR ANUS.


It’s funny how you called my reasoning inferior but feel you’re inferior to a bunch of lazy ass who half of their population is in jail and the other half twerking and strippers.

YOU NO GET ONE SENSE.
Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 7:38pm On Jun 07, 2021
What's your contribution to diaspora society? Quoting statistic with no dates from some obscure online forum does not constitute truth. Most Nigerians that brag about being the best of the best in the USA have Narcistic Personality disorders. The best jobs I've seen them have are nurses. They're basically a glorified medical slave that caters to sick white people. And trust this country would prefer nurses from the Philippines as appose to Nigeria. A nurse has to work 20 hours a day to make as much money as a the best of twerkers; only for their husbands to use her 20 hours hard earned money on his other bitches and kids!!

Bobmarie:
Lmao!


See this one. I’m talking about real achievements, you’re talking about celebrities that have been in the U.S all their lives. What else did these celebrities do for their societies apart from buying cars and buying houses? What was their REAL contribution to society. STOP REASONING THROUGH YOUR ANUS.


It’s funny how you called my reasoning inferior but feel you’re inferior to a bunch of lazy ass who half of their population is in jail and the other half twerking and strippers.

YOU NO GET ONE SENSE.

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Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 6:03pm On Jun 07, 2021
Nigga please, I can see your coon ass liking white cops asshole the minute he stops for for a fake broken tail light, so he racist cops can search your car for drugs or better yet identity theft. I can't remember but around 6 to 8 Nigerians just got arrested for stealing $600,000 from Washington State unemployment fund during the pandemic.


2buffagain:


Honestly speaking...it's not as bad as it was back then. Some of you are living too much in the past.

We Nigerians know how to comport ourselves when we deal with police.
The good book says "A soft tongue turneth away wrath". This is not merely a flesh and blood thing.
We are wise and know how to treat authority figures with respect. You lot? Not so much!

The same attitudes mentioned in this thread about the majority of you, are the same attitudes that typically lead to you catching LEO bullets and then complaining afterwards. If you hear a Nigerian in the states getting killed by police, it would be the type of Nigerian who comes to the US and starts acting like your people, hoping to feel among.

I have been stopped by white cops and even the few that I could tell were looking for a reason to hate me, became so pacified by the time I had shown them respect and maintained an aura of lightness through out the interaction. And we are already making a name for ourselves because I had a cop come over to me once with an attitude. Just from him hearing my voice/accent and my warm reception of him, he knew this was not "the usual nigger" and he dropped his guard and elevated his vibes to match my level of peace and tranquility.

Some of you have this spirit you carry around that subconsciously makes you act/speak in ways that unsettle and rile up others around you...confirming their biases. Only deliverance and therapy can free you of it.
A stop is a tense situation. Keep that in mind and understand that the person wearing uniform is as nervous as you, even though they might not show it. Also, LISTEN when police is asking you to do basic things.

The recent one was one large teenage black girl who got gunned down by police split second before she could stab another black girl...In police presence...after police yelled multiple times that she stop. Of-course your people started making all that BLM noise again DESPITE the fact that the cop saved the other black female from being stabbed by taking out the black female aggressor. The man is a hero in my book, but emotional folk who lack sense will disagree.

No respect for order, law enforcement and common sense. You feel your "nigga moments" supersedes all ramifications for your actions.
We don't have these problem when in your country as it exists today. If you see us shouting BLM with you, it's just because we are supporting you. A good number of you would not survive an encounter with a Nigerian police officer (olokpa) with your attitude and arrogance. We grew up with respect for authority, and so we know how to handle people wisely.
Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 5:58pm On Jun 07, 2021
Nigga please, I can see your coon ass liking white cops asshole the minute he stops for for a fake broken tail light, so he can search your car for drugs or better yet identity theft. I can't remember but around 6 to 8 Nigerians just got arrested for stealing $600,000 from Washington State unemployment fund.


2buffagain:


Honestly speaking...it's not as bad as it was back then. Some of you are living too much in the past.

We Nigerians know how to comport ourselves when we deal with police.
The good book says "A soft tongue turneth away wrath". This is not merely a flesh and blood thing.
We are wise and know how to treat authority figures with respect. You lot? Not so much!

The same attitudes mentioned in this thread about the majority of you, are the same attitudes that typically lead to you catching LEO bullets and then complaining afterwards. If you hear a Nigerian in the states getting killed by police, it would be the type of Nigerian who comes to the US and starts acting like your people, hoping to feel among.

I have been stopped by white cops and even the few that I could tell were looking for a reason to hate me, became so pacified by the time I had shown them respect and maintained an aura of lightness through out the interaction. And we are already making a name for ourselves because I had a cop come over to me once with an attitude. Just from him hearing my voice/accent and my warm reception of him, he knew this was not "the usual nigger" and he dropped his guard and elevated his vibes to match my level of peace and tranquility.

Some of you have this spirit you carry around that subconsciously makes you act/speak in ways that unsettle and rile up others around you...confirming their biases. Only deliverance and therapy can free you of it.
A stop is a tense situation. Keep that in mind and understand that the person wearing uniform is as nervous as you, even though they might not show it. Also, LISTEN when police is asking you to do basic things.

The recent one was one large teenage black girl who got gunned down by police split second before she could stab another black girl...In police presence...after police yelled multiple times that she stop. Of-course your people started making all that BLM noise again DESPITE the fact that the cop saved the other black female from being stabbed by taking out the black female aggressor. The man is a hero in my book, but emotional folk who lack sense will disagree.

No respect for order, law enforcement and common sense. You feel your "nigga moments" supersedes all ramifications for your actions.
We don't have these problem when in your country as it exists today. If you see us shouting BLM with you, it's just because we are supporting you. A good number of you would not survive an encounter with a Nigerian police officer (olokpa) with your attitude and arrogance. We grew up with respect for authority, and so we know how to handle people wisely.

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Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 5:28pm On Jun 07, 2021
I actually think what they definitely can't get is white women. Even when black men can get white women, they can't keep them. They only shit on us because we don't want them either. And how dare a fouled mouth black women reject all useless black man!

Me20211983:
As a Jamaican-American woman, methinks this is just jealousy. There are bad tips I could give about why beautiful black women should avoid Nigerian men. But I won’t because I wan stoop as low as you to stereotype other blacks. Why listen to lies put out by whites in the media about blacks in America? I almost thought this was a colonizer talking. Your white worship is so sad. Also, all you do is copy African American and Jamaican men. All of the slang you use like “red-pill” comes from black cultures outside of Nigeria. Methink you hate what you can’t get. Let that bad energy go. You destroying your success holding jealousy in your heart. Set traps for others and you will fall in them.

Me glad I not meet any Nigerians like this in real life. It’s sad because a lot of “akata women” only want to see Nigeria and other African countries win. They celebrate when anything good happens for people that look like them in other countries. They excited to visit and make friends. They getting stomped on, and locked up protesting for the rights of all blacks around the world. Black women in America stepping up to do that for our men and community everywhere. Even those with soul sickness who white in blackface.

I thought it One love, but I guess no.
Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 5:02pm On Jun 07, 2021
Who shit on who first? I believe it was a Nigerian that started this shit show. ALL black people lived their lives the best way they can. Unless you are God, which btw has done nothing for Nigerians, who are you to judge!!


2buffagain:
@AkataWoman
Artificial arguments aside...

In truth, I fully understand why the world is the way it is, both for AA and Nigerians.
I just don't care much for an AA coming over here to spew rubbish about my people.

If you want to have intelligent conversations, I will have that with you.

But if you just wanna come here and shit on Nigerians with unintelligent arguments while trying to have a sense of superiority, you'll get that same energy right back...with TWICE the logical and factual accuracy.

I can decide to match your ignorance if I want to.

PS: many forums like LSA talk about africans and AA dating african men. I see threads there all the time.
It is only the "bitter birds" who spew vitriol about it. And they are a pariah even to their own society.

Everybody loves everybody in a normal setting.

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Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 4:56pm On Jun 07, 2021
Who do you blame for you problems? Akatas?



Kvngfrosh:
@ Akatawoman
@ Khiaa
I have a question: Is it true that AA are Lazy ?
and blame the system for their problems ?
Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 4:13pm On Jun 07, 2021
All of your academics and you still live in your shithole country! What a waste, lol!!!
2buffagain:


Post facts or shut up.
I will not waste my time arguing with an slowpoke who just makes up numbers.
You lack the academic habit of citing facts for your arguments, and you expect anyone here to take you seriously.

Before I even wade through the rest of your diarrhea of a post, first provide facts that say only 2% of Nigerians in Nigeria are educated.
Failing the provision of FACTS to back up your numbers, leave in shame!

PS: Go wipe the ass of this guy shitting in the streets in San Francisco
Romance / Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by MarjieJ57(f): 4:02pm On Jun 07, 2021
Unless you are already in the United States and living a successful life; these "fact", which mention nothing about Nigerians, mean nothing for you.

Btw the most successful "blacks" in this county are Ethiopians, Somalis and other East Africans that whites consider beautiful. I've only met about 3 Nigerians here in my life. I've met plenty Africans from the Gambia and Kenya. The majority of "Africans" that whites marry are Arab.


2buffagain:


LOL I'm not going to argue with your thirsty ass.
Just gonna drop facts. Your made-up, uneducated opinions don't matter.
Be sure to shut the door on your way out after this school session. Again, we don't want you....

We are just generally better than you given the same opportunities:
https://www.ozy.com/around-the-world/the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-may-surprise-you/86885/
https://medium.com/@joecarleton/why-nigerian-immigrants-are-the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-23a7ea5a0832

In the graphs below, note how it treats black immigrants as a unit and not just Nigerian immigrants, because if it did, our averages would be even way better. But even as that aggregate, we are still better than you.

Uneducated black American like you coming here to talk nonsense cheesy:


Broke-ass, no opportunity-taking black american coming here to say Nigerians in US are "poor" undecided


More than 1-in-4 of you ain't shit. You are the most poor in a land filled with so many opportunities. So much so that an outsider, who has to fight and suffer years of indignities before even being ALLOWED to work legally...comes in, starts from zero, and overtakes you. Ask yourself why. Don't say "It's because I'm black", because our skin is the same color. Mumu. undecided


You should have checked the FACTS before coming to show yourself a fool here.
But then again, your type don't care about facts but instead prefer emotional outbursts, lies, complaining, and still referring to yourselves with the name "nigger" used by racist white scum to define you. Martin Luther King would slap you today if he could..

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