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Chuzzyrules: I used to be very shy tho... these are ways I conquered it.

1. Learnt to go out with friends n be a core part of the activity.
2. Saw the people around me especially the female folks as my sisters, that way u cant be shy.
3. Always tried new things that brought me out of my shell... (presenting, acting etc).

You really need to get out of that shell tho..
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Nice one bro,noted.......thanks

marieolae: Socialise more..try to break that shell..mix with people. Remove that fear of embarrassment, or people talking abt u. I always say it, you only got one life to live. Don't dull urself mehnn...!

Hahahaha,ok ma'am,no more dulling cos you said it

On friday I was home playing game (Devil may cry)when a friend called and said she wants to come visiting,I decided to go over to her place since I've never visited her before
When I got to school,she came and pick me and we went to her house,one of her friend came in and was insisting on seeing my face which I refused.when I was about leaving,she came out and stood by the gate and when she saw me,she was like "wow,Jane u didn't tell me ur frnd is ds cute,bros u fine o" and the next thing was she went from one room to another to call everybody in the house to see Jane's friend....
I was so shy I couldn't talk nor look them in the face
What can I do about my shyness pls

50calibre: Ignorance vexed me, I'm tired of people using dangote as an example or excuse. Dangote was born to a very wealthy family, he's not your average Nigerian.

I didn't bring your family into it, I only replied your sarcastic/rhetorical question with fact

Abeg tell them,Dangote is not poor,you are not Dangote and don't compare this schools with the community schs around,a few of my friends that attended Nickdel and co are a step higher and they form clicks,which is important in life,hustle hard to send ur kids to one of ds

Godmother: @OP

You weren't wrong. Trust me, that girl will forever hold you in high esteem, no matter how long. I have such a friend and I can cross seven mountains and seven seas for him if he should ask me to

Tnks dear,I feel so encouraged

I once had this very beautiful girl and I loved her much,I never really thought of sex with her and we were fine,until she got admission too and joined me in school,her friends started telling her about sex and she started asking me why we are not having sex,that probably am seeing another girl,well I decided"let's do it" until I found out she was a virgin and I decline,cos I promised myself never to divirgin anygirl
After much silly quarrels,we broke up,but I dnt regret nt introducing her to the"sex" world,she still holds me in high esteem but am sure she has lost it
My friends still make jest of me o and its actually annoying
Was I wrong not to have done it,going with the fact that I lost her and she lost it

Church girls.......hmmmmmmm
A few are honest,a lot are pretenders
I remember havin one wen I was in 200,I saw her as a gud girl so I neva even tot of sex with her,not until the day she dumped me for my crazy friend who was gvin her d koko

Khalessi: Why lie? You're the "guy ".

Me ke?
My Gf is the girl of my dreams,I don't need another

Dbestmax: Hehe....Fyn boiz....come...marsh wich gal dey dciv u say u fine sef ...lol

Dem plenty o,I no fit start dey name dem

dechandel: Spreads mat

Biko fine girl come and spread the mat in my house

NiniArike: That was a Joke. Don't take it serious.

Awww,I wasn't waitin for smtin

NiniArike: I can change your mind.

I'll love to see u try dear

okparaugo: What stage have you gotten with her ?

Does she pick your calls when you ring her ?

How often and where do you see her ?

If you don't trip a girl, she won't find a reason to date you. Any little thing about you could trip her.

Your voice, your face, your job, your diction, your eyes, your height, your flat.

Girls are more attracted to a man with a well furnished house than a man who has two cars with no proper house furnishing..


What is your strength ? What is it about you that a Lady has ever admired openly ? Use that on her..

Noted bro
But I dey fear u o,only u knw all ds tinz

farano: What else He should get her just one Ferrari.... Thank me later!

Ferrari?ok o

This is a sincere plea
This guy is in love with a girl and he really feels she's the girl of his dreams,He wants to know how to get her as she's forming hard to get and me av runned out of ideas o
Abeg,what shud he do,ur advice is needed

Just look good small like me
And Money my brother,I mean plenty money,forget the sex part,if girl dey chop your money,nobody go teach u how to sex am

A proper relationship is supposed to be an avenue of selfless service,giving your all,expecting to share your partners burden,his or her fears,sorrow,joy,pain and happiness
How's this supposed to happen when you are here and your partner is there?
Long distance relationships face a lot
1.Temptations
2.Breakdown of truth
3.Unnecessary quarels
4.The feeling that ur partner is not there for you
My girl just came back to Nigeria 4 days back and there was this gap between us,we are not used to each other anymore
I understand some people can stand it but not me sha,nothing like spending quality time with your partner,abi no be so?

andromida: I guess your girl is a nairalander .

Lol....noooo

farano:



Conclusion is you're in love right?

I've always being inlove

priscaoge: I love light make-up so I don't apply heavy ones.

Good for you

Na guys I wan talk to
The word love has being abused by alota guys (and girls too)but I'll like to focus on we the guys for now
Girl dey on her own jeje,you asked her out,she refused,you pest her until she agreed,lied to her,decieved her and after 3months,you tell her you are no longer interested(na guys wey get sense be that o)
The other type of guys won't even tell the girl they are no longer interested,they'll just be acting funny

Pls what will you gain from toying with a girl's heart?making her go through emotional trauma,you dey feel like boss abi?
The real guys have one girl and stick to her,changing girlfriends don't make you a big boy,it makes you a kid and you don't earn respect that way.she could be your sister
As for me o,I love my girl and I'll always try to make her feel good
TREAT HER RIGHT

priscaoge: Lmao I swear u are on point . Some people thinks that perfumes are for those with body odour Or something. HELL NO!

I saw all the makeups on ur face o

nikkyshyne: I know your type. No wonder this thread stinks!

It stinks cos u came here without ur makeup

Vikky014: y shld u brush ur teeth?dnt u knw u r making up ur teeth wt artificial toothpaste?y nt leave ur teeth Natural?

My dear,not brushing ur teeth will harm ur teeth,
Not using makeup will not harm ur face

marieolae: its God that gave them the sense to create d makeup so technically its God. God can use us in many ways

You win
I hope u'll get to the stage wher u won't hve to wear makeup or just a lil and you'll still be proud of ursef

Vikky014: u mean powder is nt makeup?U also brush ur teeth

How is brushn teeth a makeup?
Of course powder is makeup

Vikky014: since u use soap,dere is perfume inside soap

Lol....you win

marieolae: Another thread complaining about girls. When are you guys just gonna get over it. God created makeup for women to use to enhance their beauty so what is it. I understand some guys don't like excess makeup but haba..its not every single girl that packs mary kay on their face. And again I don't see how protesting on nairaland is gonna help anything really and truly.

God didn't create makeup,whitemen did cos they feel u re nt beautiful enuf
I feel ladies who can't do without makeup have low sef esteem,they feel dey re nt fyn wihtout it

nikkypearl: @op..pls wat happened 2 .."LIVE AND LET LIVE

Honestly am not a huge fan of make-up watever,but when I see beautiful gurls with nice makeup,I so love it!

Last bullet
Stop freaking out,their boyfriends/hubby are not complaining!

You'll be suprised how many bfs re complaining behind dia girl

Houseofglam7: I wan use am take selfie.

U go fear selfie na

Idowuogbo: My fingers, my choice, my life.

Op, GO AND DIEEEEEEEEEEE

Am too young to die ooo

Houseofglam7: Madam Abeg gimme Black Opal concealer, and MAC lipstick and Mary Kay primer, Abeg no forget Bronzer and blush o.....Meanwhile, una get Ardell lashes?

You wan turn masqurade?