₦airaland Forum

Spasmic:
Women can't make the move to start a family or take the driving seat in a relationship because women always prefer partners that are higher than them in all relevant hierarchies like power, wealth, status, intelligence, physical strength and emotional strength, and they are usually happier and satisfied when in a relationship with such men. Women prefer to play the subordinate role in a relationship because that's how they are wired. The vast majority of women don't want partners that would be subordinate to them, rather they prefer a dominant partner who would take the lead role in the relationship. The reverse is the case for men.

The difference in wiring of the male and female? So women that are proposing and writing love letter nko? What are you saying sir? women don't like to be subordinate by default, it has been passed down from generation to generation and was started by greedy and wicked men who saw the female gender as being superior to the male gender.

Spasmic:
Men and women aren't the same. The brains of men and women are wired differently. Men and woman have evolved to have different needs and possess different traits. The gender roles that you are trying to modify didn't just manifest arbitrarily from some vacuum. They are that way because they represent the nature men and women.

Stop that rubbish of associating "brain of men and women are wired differently" in this case. Most of the practices in relationships we see today came from the ideology that a man is better and superior to a woman. The practices of man being seen as the head of the family, men being seen as the heir, the clamouring of a male child, women don't talk when men are talking etc. are all testament to this ideology. This has always been with human beings since history if you doubt it, take a look at your indigenous culture and it's history and read the quran and bible on how women are to be treated and how man is made from a woman . Surprisingly, even women have bought into it.

I admit that men and women's brain may have differences in wiring but in this case, it's obvious and by virtue of common sense that men and women can perform equally in this regard. I rest my case

IAMSASHY:
dere is a limit to wat a woman can do,women can Neva occupy d position of men,it's not in d place of women to make d move towards starting up a family,it's a man's duty. The way men and women reason differs,b4 a man could tink abt proposal, he must have taught abt d future, his upcoming family and even his unborn kids school fees bc he will be the one to bear most expenses but place women in dat position,they will only consider their age and d numerous outstanding weddings of their friends.
Men remain men, ntin will eva take their position

Oh shut up your mouth and think. Nonsense! Who says a woman can't make the move of starting a family? Who the hell are you to say such? Who made it so that a woman can't initiate the move? Women and men in this case are equally capable of starting a relationship and making plans ahead. Break away from sheepishly subscribing to cultural convention and stereotyping, reason first and think for yourself.

Spasmic:
This Martinez19 guy is such an ignorant buffoon.

I am not an ignorant buffoon. I am only thinking with my head. I don't subscribe to convention and stereotype just like that, I reason first. It's clear you haven't broken out yet to attain the mentality of a civilised man that can think for himself.

dalaman:
Some islamic stories are truly hilarious. From talking ants to Gog and Magog etc.

Light coming out from the vagina of prophet Muhammad's mother at the time of prophet Muhammad's birth.

Savage comedy I swear!

Acidosis:
Oga Feminist, hope your family will receive [s]Bride[/b] Groom's price from your girl?

I don't believe in bride price. Two people who love each other and have all it takes to "settle down" should be allowed and encouraged to go freely and "settle down."

As a feminist, here is my take.

Male and female are equal and deserving of equal opportunities and integrity. If a man can propose, a woman can propose too. Infact, if a woman proposes to me and I like her, I will marry her. If a man can be the breadwinner of a family, a woman can be the breadwinner too. If a man can be a danfo driver.....

If a woman propose to me, I won't see anything wrong in that. Woman do fall in love and it should not be wrong for them to go after the one they love and make their intentions known to them. Feminism is a hallmark of a civilised mentality.

However if you want to stick to waiting for a man, no problem as we are all free beings.

kimbraa:
Are you expecting me to applaud her?. She's smart and could have undergone some training from the professionals. Question is, is tire used on that piece of furniture?...Not to talk of a picked one from the dump site. I wouldn't buy.

it's as if you read my mind.

hopefulLandlord:
"Objective evidence is a subjective process" seriously


"Measure consistency and experience" how's that not subjective?

"Consistent reality is experienced" well......

This why I opened my thread on human stupidity.

Olodo rabata, here is what religion is.

Tozara:
One thing I find irritating and incomprehensible is the hypocrisy of these nutters.

Nearly all of these people don't really believe in God---they just live their lives engaging in doublethink, compartmentalizing it.

99% of my Christian friends are HELL-BOUND SINNERS. They LIVE LIKE ATHEISTS, but CLAIM to believe in God---even though their life-styles clearly show they DON'T. We're equally cast adrift the high sea of doubt, uncertainty and unbelief, journeying in the same ship, the only difference being that they're HYPOCRITES who claim to be what they're not.

Given the fact that we're equally sinners that share the same fate, it beats me how they look at you askance and scoff when you reveal that you're an atheist. DON'T THEY LIVE AS IF GOD DOESN'T EXIST? So, what exactly is the difference between us that makes them become hostile when they find out about our atheism?

Abi o. They don't actually trust God even though they say they believe in God. When shit hits the fan and you ask them to seek God's help, they will be like "abeg be serious."

Ladies right now

Disregard those thoughts and visions. If they are disturbing too much, see a doctor.

sau4real:
i de vex

Almost looking like khayella.

NB: just kidding.

babadey:
Does he think it's the power of the doctor to heal or be successful in an operation.
If the Lord God doesn't approve it, who will? And where else do you go to show your appreciation as a Believer...... Radio station?

Doctors are great. They are the instruments of God!

If it was their power (doctor), a former first lady of a particular country wouldn't have died.

if god doesn't approve it? So those that died were not approved by God?

RoyalBlak007:
One Of My Girlfriends Students Gave Her This Card For Her Birthday

damn. Savage

makydebbie:
She saw the signs.

If the guy harbored plans to marry her, he would've been happy about the pregnancy. So it shouldn't come as a shock to her. Pregnancy cannot make a man love and marry you.
Irresponsible men. I believe in this 21st century, nobody should be having unwanted pregnancies tho, we've alot of options to choose.
Pills, condoms and even more.

Pills:
Postinol is 5 cedis here and 500 naira in Nigeria.
We've the ones of 5.50p.
Lydia, very authentic. And it's 20 cedis. Dunno if it's in Nigeria.

The cheapest condom should be kiss condom and that's approximately 1cedi. And 50 naira in Nigeria.

You no get excuse.
I just dey help you people oo. We shouldn't be hearing tales like this in 2018.
You're welcome.

I have been observing you, you seem like a very sensible gal, please meet me at one hotel like that I have something to discuss with you.

omura:
Thanks for your advise, I still believe God exist. Thank you for your concern once again. I am just in need of one on one deliverance from a true man of God.

If you think that's what you need, No problem. But I must warn you that nothing will come out of it. I hope you don't mind sharing with me?

omura:
I if only you can understand what I am going through.

We all go through stuff. There are hopeless and non-hopeless cases. Your's might be the worse compared to many but it doesn't make God exists neither those it change the fact that clergymen are charlatans. Don't waste your time on them and the ridiculous garbage called religion.

Tithe collectors and GOs be like

Stop fooling yourself, there is nothing like powers from father's house. Evaluate your life and do your best to fix the problems you have.

We your jealous friends gave you weed before the party.

Tonyosas101:
You ought to collect hers before giving her yours

Anyway,,, I think I might react same way she did if it was three years ago and before

lol. My atheist posts just pursue am commot for my side.

I was waiting jejely for lecturer to enter class as he was a bit late. While waiting, a fine girl, whom I already know, sat besides me as I was on nairaland to spend time. She was like " omg, are on nairaland?" and I said yes. She then asked me for my moniker which I gave her. This beautiful girl started digging all my posts and topics after a while, I wanted to talk to her but she parked her belongings and muttered "the rage against god. Mtewwwww" as she changed her sit

Wetin I do this girl?

I was waiting jejely for lecturer to enter. While waiting, a fine girl, whom I already know, sat besides me as I was on nairaland to spend time. She was like " omg, are on nairaland?" and I said yes. She then asked me for my moniker which I gave her. This beautiful girl started digging all my posts and topics after a while, I wanted to talk to her but she parked her belongings and muttered "the rage against god. Mtewwwww" as she changed her sit

Wetin I do this girl?

johnydon22:
Totally steered off the premise I raised

he knew what you were talking about but he still decided to hold weekday programme on your head.

johnydon22:
Oh you could say that too.

Doesn't still stop the building from being called a Church... the point it

"A place of worship was destroyed"

doesnt really matter what you call it

are you minding him? They love shooting off point.

shankara7:
Go on with the explanation of Porn/Masturbation addiction and the correlation with reading and not understanding. I'm listening... NB: Empirical facts only

Their is a reward system in the brain. The main chemical of that system is called dopamine. When someone watches and mastubate, dopamine is released in excess and as the person keeps watching regularly, the dopamine receptors adjust to see the excess as normal( anything lower will not lead to satisfaction in porn and even in every areas of the person's life). At this stage, the viewer becomes difficult to satisfy hence he seeks more novel and more hardcore porn novelty. This surges the quantity of dopamine realised. Since the receptors can't handle this excess dopamine, it becomes damage and can't respond to normal levels of dopamine. Hence he starts experiencing deficiency of dopamine. Please ma, Google deficiency of dopamine and learn what op is suffering.

I have many things to say but let me stop here.

shankara7:
It's not written on the forehead and yet you know it's affecting them. Are you talking out of experience? Medically speaking there is no correlation.

Medically speaking, there is a correlation. The mechanism of how porn damages the brain is known. The effect is brought about by the other things I mentioned. I have worked with people affected by it. If the OP goes to neuropsychiatric clinic in yaba, they will ask him virtually the same question I asked. I can explain the mechanism is you want me to.

We know that humans can be stupid at times but from my experience, I must assert that human stupidity is as worse as evil. Human Stupidity is a formidable and is strong enough to cause the death of anyone.

Do you know that there are millions of people who believe that world leaders are shape shifting reptiles who dominate humanity?

Do you know that there are people who reject medicine for faith and prayer? Many babies and children have died through that means.

Do you know that millions of people believe that if you feel attractive about yourself, you attract others to you? Wtf!

Do you know people believe in yahweh and the Bible? We all do.

Do you know people still believe that they can manipulate the "unseen" to influence the physical world?

Do you know stupid people are stubborn in their stupidity? Which is worrying.

All these and many more. What can we do to tackle human stupidity? I suggest we teach critical thinking in our schools. This would reduce What do you think we can do to counter human stupidity

HopefulLandord, HardMirror, Johnydon22, hahn, 1Sharon, 0temSapien, Nilfeim, proudgorgeousga, Tozara, Catfishbilly, donffd, adepeter2027, decide.

this God is too good o.

Fake ass story. Awon werey jatijati.