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Notice that despite the fact that the textbook was written by a professional, girls (with probably no degree) are saying that the textbook is wrong in every aspect.

Stranger18:
0p you met the wrong woman oh. There are nice ladies out there just like there are nice guys out there.

I never said that there were no nice girls, read the first thing I wrote in my op.

escapefromusa:
If only you were this meticulous .. And yes I never graduated.

Well, I try as much as possible to be meticulous.

Revenge is sweet, I love it. Wicked people never change but we can make them take responsibilities for their actions. No matter how they try to get emotional or bring up excuses, I will still make them take responsibilities for their actions.

The world is fvcked up and wicked people are always in control because wicked people are many; wicked people are will to sacrifice anything to get what they want and good people are too stupidly forgiving to make the wicked ones take responsibility for their actions.

Aphroditee:
When you've been waiting on God for a long time and nothing happens, then someone offers you in exchange for something which is a path that might seem destructive..so how's it your fault if you fall when God didn't answer at due time?

God doesn't exist. If you kill an innocent soul to get money then you are immoral asshole.There are no excuses. So if you are offered $1bn to cover up paedophilic rape and murder of little girls, you will collect?

People don't like to cultivate good values because standing up for good values will require them to forgo huge monetary bribes from time to time.

SweetBuns:
Hm.. Women have suffered in this life. Just because we are vulnerable are easier to exploit. I saw the other thread and guys were not even really condemning the guy. Some where even acting non chalantly.
But if its the other way round now, they won't waste time to bash ladies.

Some naija guys are hypocrite.

The man that married the girl should be flogged and burdened with heavy labour. The parents of the girl should be flogged and have pepper in their anuses for giving birth to a child that they couldn't take care of and for subjecting her this treatment. This is unacceptable.

aishapmbtoto:
You are not serious. Our problem is lack of good leadership.

The problem is with masses, precisely the character and mentality of the average nigerian. Patriotism and morality is of no concern to the average nigerian instead they want, by all means (morally or immorally), huge money to buy cars, build houses, marry, born children and buy stuffs to show their pairs or social media that they are making it. They are dominated by vain competition. So imagine if these set of people become leaders, what do you expect? Their stupidity doesn't help matters too. They don't care to fight for what's theirs or even know what their rights are. They would rather eat crumbs or just get by instead of fighting for their rights and betterment of their country.

If they are smart, morally upright and care about values like political transparency, accountability and human rights, PDP and APC with their godfatherism would have crumbled or they would have sat up long ago. Like leaders like masses.

I don't believe in god.

Nonsense. It's lack of morality.

chenzen:
ya'all are blowing grammar...


until l see a guy or a lady in this 21st century whose genotype obviously is SS agrees to marry someone with same genotype in the name of love maybe then what ya'all are saying might make sense.



ya'll now can drink water and take a chill pill.


Love is a JOKE !!!


l challenge all Nairalanders to answer to me on that.


who amongst u behind those literate monikers can do that?

While some men will run away from a woman they claim to love when they discover that she doesn't have a womb or she is paralysed, I cannot. With me, it for better for worse. We die here.

Op, take heart. Gold diggers have increased and they are now bold in their trade. If you doubt it, take a look at the ones on this thread and their laughable logic. There are still good women but they are scarce as good politicians.

WORDWORLD:
Of which alot of men are scared to their balls when they come across a woman who calls the shot because she chose to work and be independent. TRUE FACT. INFACT ALOT OF MEN ARE SO SCARED TO DATE A LADY WHO EARNS MORE THAN THEY DO FINANCIALLY, WHO IS MORE INTELLIGENT THAN THEY ARE UPSTAIRS.

Bro, don't get it twisted am only painting a REALISTIC PERSPECTIVE.

Have you read that great leader who forged Singapore from grass to grace? His book FROM 3rd TO FIRST WORLD?!

The late Lee Kuan Yew faced a lot of challenges, convincing men to marry ladies who are graduates, working and independent. Despite these men being graduates too, most preferred to marry a girl that didn't go to school at all, infact one from the village and not the Urban.

Why?!

Because of FEAR that their EGO could be bruised by an EDUCATED WOMAN who knows her rights and is able to fight for them.

I JUST GAVE YOU AN EXAMPLE OF HOW ITS MOSTLY A LIE WHEN MEN SAY THEY PREFER AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN. MOST WANT A SUBMISSIVE WIFE AND HOW CAN A WIFE BE SUBMISSIVE TO HER HUSBAND WHEN SHE IS NOT DEPENDENT ON HIM. WHEN SHE IS SO INDEPENDENT AND ECONOMICAL VIBRANT THAT YOUR SALARY IS NOT ENOUGH TO BUY THE TYPE OF LINGERIE SHE USES HER HARD EARNED MONEY TO BUY FOR HER OWN SELF BEFORE SHE MET YOU.

A true and honest relationship is that one that is UNSELFISH and which both work as a team so as to win together.

* BRO, DO NOT MISUNDERSTAND MY PERSPECTIVE. A PERSPECTIVE I HAVE SUPPORTED EVEN WITH LEE KUAN YEW IN HIS BOOK. TRUTH IS ALOT OF MEN ARE SCARED OF WOMEN WITH WIT, THEY RUN AWAY LIKE FRIGHTEN DOGS WITH THEIR TAILS BETWEEN THEIR LEGS.

I agree that most men like to marry women who are "below." It's all misogynistic pride that was rooted in the traditions of man's early history and we still see it today. It's the same pride that manifests itself when you see a boy feeling ashamed that he lost a fight to girl or a girl beat him in chess. Girls don't feel ashamed if they are at the receiving end.

Why should it matter if a woman earns more than a man? So it's not enough that a woman loves a man but it's necessary that she be "below" her man? A lot of men are scared because society says men are not men if they can't provide; they have the misogynistic pride I talked about; those with lesser cash should not command respect from those with more cash and/or educated women look down on men below their class and are proud because they have a degree. What you wrote is true, for a relationship to work both must work together and if they work together regardless of who earns more, the relationship will be okay.

CAPSLOCKED:
LOOK AT THE NONSENSE A MATURED EDUCATED MAN GOING TO 50YEARS OLD IS SAYING.

MY GOD!

Such insensitivity. This is why I am indifferent when a pastor, minister or christian apologist dies. They readily disregard human suffering or downplay it just to promote their religious bullshit and narrative.

escapefromusa:
Beside's the length. His writing is bad, really bad.

And there is a good chance; he earned has 2.1 or better degree.

It's "beside the length" not "beside's the length."

It's "Beside the length, his writing is really bad." It's not "Beside's the length. His writing is bad, really bad.

Seems your hemingwayapp is really working for you. It's likely that you never went beyond primary school.

NB : no vex, just using your standard against you.

Amakavula:
keep wasting people's time you hear ? be worthless there and be waiting for luv.

I am not wasting anyone's time. If you feel I am wasting your time, don't bother replying. True love exists, stop twisting facts for people. Go and learn to be upright and be an independent woman.

@bold
When they have nothing else to say or can't appeal to reason, they begin the ad hominem attacks and try beat you down by trying to appeal to wealth. SMH

1) who told you I am worthless? Do you know me or have you met me before? Let's assume that I am worthless, what bearing those it have on the issue we are discussing? does it prove love doesn't exist?
2) who told you that I am looking for love? I simply stated the fact that true love exists.

You know what, let us agree to disagree and call it a day. Bye bye.

Amakavula:
It's nice to say but who can live up to it

It's nice to say and such love exists. It works when both partners love each other. I have seen such love in action. I have seen a man go jobless and his wife used her salary to take care of the man and the family and she sold akara and ice block to get extra cash until the man finally found his feet. That man is my father and that woman is my mother. She could have left given that the marriage was still new, she was doing fine as a nurse and that she had other suitors but she stood her ground. She never insulted my father and she still gave him his respect. True love still exists. I know that there are women like my mother out there. Why wasn't it wired into my mum biologically to leave my father, during his joblessness, and seek other men?

Forget that sh1t that women and queens are wired to be this or that blah blah blah blah blah. To become a leeching h0e or independent woman is a choice. No excuses.

Amakavula:
This kind love and true communism has one thing in common, they don't exist..

Stop misleading people. Communism is disastrous but it exists. That kind of love exists and I have seen it. Rare people get rare stuffs.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Issa free would

"world". I know it's a typo error.

Anyways, good night.

Where are those who said suicide is the atheist plan B?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You nearly married me in your dreams? Wow!

Stay there and be forming one kain one kain, I am no more interested in you, gerrit? You don't know what you are missing. Be acting as if you don't know that I am the man.

Lightangel65:
To me love is wanting to be with someone without any sexual intent. Love doesn't come like boy/girlfriends you might end up loving only one person. You act at what is best for that person even if it means letting go.

When I love someone, I can't think of any sexual intention, just wanting to be with that person.

Most relationships today are based on looks. Love is not based on looks, it is connection.

Love is selfless, you don't think about your own benefits.
You don't want to get into his/her pants.

For ladies to know if a man truly loves you
He loves you without sexual intentions.

Love overcomes any situation
Sickness
Finicial instability
Family problem
Even death.



Love cannot be lost, it can stand the test of time
Love changes anyone,

I hope you find what you are looking for

Very. Bia

Amakavula
NwanyiAwkaetiti
Funmisticqueen

Can you see it? Chai!

and to think I nearly married NwanyiAwkaetiti.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Indeed. Even in the old days women are drawn towards good farmers wrestlers, someone who can protect them. Don't go and be a Man, dey look for cheap love

Love exists but it's rare.

Amakavula:
Don't confuse academic and derogatory, the term isn't meant to be the later, the ideal of opportunistic love is it been attach to a feature we find alloring.

This isn't our fault it hardwired biology . To protect Women from suffering, since we are the ones with the most to lose if there is a pregnancy.
sperm is cheap ; egg is expensive.


Ask yourself why we ladies ( include myself ) don't want to settle for just anyone ? A man can do that because their idea of love is to be loved backed without conditions.
Anyone who should them that is a possible mate.

But for us, women a man most be a provider, protector and hold some form of social value ( fame, handsome or power ) to be considered a match. ergo opportunism. That's why we say there's no good men out there, no because they don't exist but they don't match our ideas of love, i.e qualities mentioned above.


It's a study. A king want to pick a bride and be happy. A Queen want to be conquered by the biggest and more powerful King. Value!

Lol. The rationalisation is strong in this one. Stop this bullcrap of "it's hardwired into us." It's not. The human specie has a highly developed brain to adapt and determine their roles and destiny. If a woman wants to work and be independent, she can and it's within her power to do so. If she wants to sit her lazy ass down, she can and it's within her power to do so. To be dependent on a man and to love like a leech is not hardwired into you at all, stop that nonsense.

As Biglittlelois pointed out, there are women that love sincerely and that's a fact and to love sincerely is a conscious decision so as opportunistic love is. This is due to the ability of our intelligence to make choices and adapt. So stop the "it's wired into us biologically" nonsense. Despite the nonsense from girls like you, true love still exists. It's a choice and you don't have to deny it, no one would hurt you.

NB : no insults, just counter my point.

funmisticqueen:
bravo! i feel like hugging you. you just conveyed how i feel and what allthese small boys refused to understand

girls and rationalisation.

WORDWORLD:
Makydebbie

I for marry her but I no sabi give head.

FRoosevelt:
A bulging cameltoe signifies healthy fat labia, and a prominent mons pubis a.k.a mountain of love.

A well shaved vulva covered by sheer transparent panties arouses the deepest of erotic feelings, wild imaginations and a testosterone storm in a virile male.

Burying your hard c0ck in the swollen, slippery, tight wetness of a fat cameltoe after teasing it for a while, elicits the greatest, warmest and most sensual of feelings in a h0rny man.

.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Lemme not even type what I have in my mind.

I am on my knees, type it. Let us set the crooked way straight.


@op
Not every woman cheats. That's obvious. For these set of women, the rationalisation aspect was discussed here.

escapefromusa:
start here genius
hemingwayapp

you are welcome.

escapefromusa:
Beside's the length. His writing is bad, really bad.

And there is a good chance; he earned has 2.1 or better degree.

You are welcome. As you have come, so you shall go.

dairykidd:
Nice to know guys are waking up faster.. Nice one Op. Keep spreading the gospel

Thanks jare.

henryy111:
wat the f

wetin?

The man is wicked. If I were the man, I would choose my gf over my brothers, where were my brothers when things were tough? Which girl would spilt her salary for a broke boy in this era? Only few of them. Chain, this man is wicked