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Chummynoni:
i am not refuting d guy's claim cos i do hear some people say d same thing. i jus need an explanation to how it is possible to have erection when yur mind doesnt want sex. or do d ladies rape guys' anus?. i need clarifications pls. doctors in d house and those tat av passed thru d trauma bfore.

Oga, forget that thing. The body can be saying "yes" but the mind is saying "no". Do you know how easy it is for d!ck to rise when body "jam" body? If three Nicki Minaj looking women pin you on the fall against your will and give you a good bl0w job, tell me your prick wouldn't stand firm like a concrete NEPA pole? I have seen a female rape victim who confessed, in her own words, "I didn't want it but the pounding was sweet." Guess what? She never agreed through out the whole time. I don't know if she is telling the truth.

Ishilove:
You are just ranting and ranting without making a single sense. I clearly stated that 'I stand to be corrected', and Ornicus did just that, but you are one of the many Nairaland youths with poor reading culture that comment first, think later.

FVCK OFF MY MENTIONS.

At your age, you stand to be corrected on a simple stuff as this? Nonsense. Keep on fooling yourself. So if your son was pinned to the ground against his will, he had his trousers and undies forcefully taken off, his private part sucked or fondled by all the girls, and he reported the case to you, would you be asking if it was rape or not or if his d!ck was turgid? Shameless woman!

(JONNYSPUTE, Omar09, Ubunja, healthserve, astroG, cococandy (will you chastise ishilove? )).

Michellekabod2:
To be honest,on this forum is mostly males that are abusive or sham ladies that is why it seems that its only males been called out.

As for the hypocrisy when it deals with meting out justice,its the impression "men are pigs" or "men are scum" conveyors convey that makes it seem impossible for women to be seen as capable of assault.
Since you are aware that feminism movement doesnt make provision for you males but it female centered,why not you start your own movement to speak up against male rape? To fight the gynocentric society you perceive like patriarchy is being fought?

And also the statistics of rape cases. It is an obvious fact that female rape is more common. That is why the news of male rape is seldom.

PS: many males have been assaulted in the past but didn't even know they were raped since the common/layman definition of rape is "when a man forces a woman into sex...", they didn't see a lady assaulting them as rape.

When most guys keep silent or wish they were raped why will people take you serious?

Well spoken. You are right that something must be done however it's still hypocrisy if people who claim to champion gender equality sideline male rape victims. I was just point that out.

The statistics of rape cases might contain fewer male rape cases than there are in reality because most men don't usually report for various reasons.

Some of the obstacles (some of which you can see on this thread) to tackling male rape are as follows:
1) Many find it hilarious or weird for a man to be raped.
2) Many think it's impossible to rape a man. (many men sincerely believe this and some women act like this is true to shield female rapist and fuel the narrative that male rape is nonsense).
3) Many see free pussy as enjoyment and a privilege. Maybe they are incels and white knights and they are used to paying heavily for pussy and attention or they are cultural and mentally backwards.
4) Men are conditioned to feel weak, disgraced and less masculine if they are raped by women.

The main culprit of these beliefs and mentality are men themselves.

Ishilove:
What I don't understand is how can a man be raped when he is aroused? Is male rape admissible in court seeing as a turgid penis_ indicates arousal, and arousal points to a degree of consent? A turgid _penis is needed for penetration, so turgidity may rule out rape.

I stand to be corrected.

Hypocrisy personified. If a woman says "no" and a man forcefully unbuttons her shirt and tears her bra, you women will scream rape.

If a woman is having sex with a man, she says she is no longer interested, and the man thrusts in and out for three more seconds, women would scream rape.

However, three women pinning a man down against his will and pulling down his trouser and boxers isn't rape because, according to you, his penis is not turgid. SMH.

(JONNYSPUTE, Omar09, healthserve, Ubunja, astroG, Raalsalgual, cococandy (what do you have to say) )

cococandy:
As expected

Na so. Better stop seeing yourself as oppressed. No man is oppressing you. We men like gender equality. Feminists have deceive women and made them proud to extent that feminist full time house wives see the acts respecting their hardworking husbands, putting the house in order, and making his meal as a blow their ego even though there is nothing wrong with these. Good day.

Fake story.

cococandy:
Do not digress.
And yes anyone can misbehave whether feminist or not. I will call it out if it qualifies as misbehavior in my opinion.
Not to mention that y’alls definition of misbehavior is usually when a woman is asking for mutual respect.

But focus on the topic for now.

I am just calling out your hypocrisy. I have mentioned you and other dumb feminists on threads in which women supported egregious acts of violence, double standards and injustice against men and you did nothing. I and others are not looking forward to oppressing women and taking away their rights. We men don't want to withhold the respect that a woman has earned. We men want equal rights.

You problem is that you have, like a sheep, been brainwashed by feminists to see the world as place where women are oppressed, demeaned, subjugated, and marginalised by men. You think men are egoistic and heartless beasts who get their ego massaged by bossing and dominating women. The day you will drop your ego and stop seeing sexism and oppression of female everywhere is the day that you will have a healthy and well rounded view of things and build good relationships with men. Until then, you and your kinds are a sorry lot. You are not a victim, you are not oppressed, you've been empowered, and no man is oppressing you.

franchasng:
You cannot rape a guy that easily that's why. How will you get a scared man's dick to rise attention to start firing bullet


Okay let's assume the first lady succeeds in working his scared dick to rise, how possible for the 2nd, 3rd ladies to achieve the feat of making him get erection when he has probably ejaculated and tired + scared


Male rape happens but very rare and mostly common to underage boys....not full grown men abeg

You are trying hard to say that male rape is impossible and at the same time, you are admitting that it does happen. If the rape of men is rare (by your own admission. Let me assume this to be the case.) then male rape victims exists and it's possible to rape a man. You have therefore agreed with me. Male rape does happen and the guy in the op could be a victim.

I don't know what your problem is. Did I ever say it was easy to rape a man? Did I say male rape is common? Why are you then bringing all these unwarranted arguments and taking things personal? Something is not right with you. Either you are a bitter misandric feminist or you are a female rapist yourself. Stupid girl.

cococandy:
Here’s another bunch of fools.You men are your own worst enemies.

@Martinez39. You see your fellow unserious men.

You personally would be gallivanting all over the pace cussing everyone out of it was women who were doing this on this thread.
In fact if a woman was raped, y’all would probably be asking what about men. Now it’s a man, look at what your dudes are saying and you’re (not surprisingly) quiet. Shows none of you actually cares about rape. You just care about shutting the victims up so the rapists can go free.

May God have mercy on all of you.

Don't mind them. The men who laugh over these are lower animals. I tackled this issue in a topic of mine titled HYPOCRISY OF SOCIETY WHEN IT COMES TO GENDER EQUALITY. Besides, I not active on this section and didn't make out time to read the comments. Rape is bad and all rapists male or female, should be given exemplary punishment. By the way, I don't see you call out your fellow feminists when they misbehave. Your mind is clouded with female oppression even where it does not exist.

Pettyprincess:
I never commented about him b4,i do see his post bt ignore because it's none of my business,its usually for alpha male not for female advantage!! Bt this i can relate because it says alot!!! Nd i do love my bf with all my heart!!!

Okay o. If you give birth to sons, make show you give them the red pills in abundance.

partnerbizn5:
Oga, go and check s 357 of criminal code.
It's the law naa.
That's why i said legally.

Legally or not, do men actually get raped in practice?

@Ubunja

I can't see any lady calling you broke, jobless, and frustrated? What has changed? I don't see anyone saying that you are always spending your time on women? Two of them that usually lampoon you are now agreeing and thanking you.

Women!!

Pettyprincess:
I guess this write-up is more on female advantage!! I can relate really well!!!
I will rather be called a gold digger than the other way round!!!
If your bf can invest in you without pressuring for sex then he will definitely marry you because he knows he hw much he has invested nd will never let you go!!! Bt Nigerian guys do call them mugu only because they believe every guys needs to be players!! That's why i can never leave my bf ehh,he has done alot!!!
Every lady needs to be smart!!! Stop giving your broke bf free pussy all the name of love!!!

So ladies now agree with Ubunja. He is no longer broke and frustrated? Great!

Anyway, the op is spot on but don't try to water down the fact that with girls, you included, it's all about the money. You don't love your spending bf, it's just the money. Have a great Monday.

This miseducation for ladies is better than all the boring female miseducation jargons ever written by Sandra8, Missghosted, Eyeness and others. Kudos to Ubunja.

I have always known this that's why I always told boys to stop spending. If any one had read my previous posts, you will observe where I pointed out financial investment in a relationship as the main reason for Nigerian boys committing suicide by sniper during a break up. They've have invested so much money and time and even gone into debt because they want to make their girlfriends happy. Having invested all these, it's not surprising to see them doing all they can to maintain the relationship. They even endure toxicity and disrespect from the girl; they accept all her rules and are willing to bow to her like a fool; they readily forgive her when she cheats and lie; etc. Why are they going through all this? Because they have heavily invested in the relationship and seeing the dissolution of the relationship would mean their investment and sacrifices were all for nothing and had been a waste.

Spending, investing, and sacrificing heavily in a relationship that lasted for quite a long time but end and didn't amount to anything is like wasting part of your life all for nothing. It's even clear, which makes it more painful, that those energy, time, and investment could have been channelled to other things. The more the investment, the greater the hurt during break up. Some really invested so so much (and even went into debt or sacrificed huge parts of their career or business plan just to see that the girl is alright) that they become depressed and suicidal during a break up. They are terrible drained, saddened, and hurt that a great part of their lives had all been for nothing (and have incurred debt and passed on good opportunities all for nothing).

partnerbizn5:
Dude is in weed. A man cannot be raped. But in law and in biology or medicine.

See s 357 Criminal code.

Or the case of Upahar v state.

I won't go into details about how the biological and medical part.

Btw, the guy made lots of grammatical errors

You are taken seriousLY; not serious. Example. No one took me SERIOUSLY.



It's that FATEFUL day, not faithful.

I did the corrections with love not i too know.
We all make mistakes. Nobody sabi all.

Finally who Engrish epp. lol

If it was a girl that was raped by three guys, your reaction would have been very different. Men do get raped. Either you are ignorant or plain dishonest.

Duggedised12:
So let me get this straight,you have a lady you met a virgin ,she has a daughter for you ,love you effortlesssly and even kneels down to serve you ,yet she is still your babymama? Wow you see why i said humans are insatiable? You just like every ingrate out there are the reason many women have had to borrow themselves sense and built up a defense mechanism so wicked men like you will not take advantage of them.

A man says he doesn't want a ho yet he cant wife a decent one who respects him, can you tell my why i should not call you a hypocrite ? Men like you are the ones who treat women anyhow because in their minds "she is not going anywhere,she will be waiting for me when i am done having fun with these hoes out here".

I must say you got yourself a perfect prey who isn't leaving your net any time soon ,so enjoy.

You are not sensible. A man and woman can form a strong relationship without getting married. Ubunja did it. The basis on which you think he is qualified to be a hypocrite is an illogical and laughable one. You also presume a lot about Ubunja's treatment of his baby mama. You are trying hard to imply that he cruelly took advantage of his baby mama and that his baby mama was an unfortunate prey. Have a good night sleep and shove your deception and mental gymnastics up your drilled ass.

Ariza:
One thing I have noticed about you praise singers is you hardly read or comprehend the write up. All you do is look for counter opinions and start your lunatic displays . You don't contribute intelligently but you are very vast in conspiracy and controversy. Grow some sense!

Lilwetd!ck aka Defen.deralert, is that you? How are your mum and dad? Hope you have been cured of your Ubunja Derangement Syndrome. I saw you with this same moniker on another Ubunja's thread trying to insinuate that he only has prick (pen!s) to his name. It is well.

GODPUNISHALABI:
liverpool is not going down anytime soon 1 thing you don’t know about Klopp is that he is just like Ferguson them no Dey ever lose form

As in. Don't mind those haters.

Angelfrost:
What part of the world??! Not even the best in England. Lol.

You clearly have not been watching Mane this season.

For now, Mane is the best player in the world.

Money brings out the worst in people.

ijewejones:
A philosopher once said...


'Man should merry,for tomorrow we all die'


Merry on bro,its your tym!

All men should drink all they can now for there are no drinks in heaven.

lilmarley:
This guy is a beast

I still can't forgive Mahrez for the die minute free kick he scored against Nigeria at AFCON, I'm not a fan of football but I nearly die that day

I'm still grieving tho

I was very happy. I invariably want our performances in sports and Olympics, academic contests, chess, etc accord with and reflect the state of affairs in the country. I was happy when all African national teams couldn't make it past the group stages in the 2018 World Cup. Let our performance always reflect the state of affairs in our continent.

Gaspardd:
I think Dangote shld come and read this. I heard he is single and searching for a wife.

Dangote has had his fun.