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ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC]You're the gaffer and nobody's b**tch...Well done, boss . [/color]

Abi. It's funny how some people have the temerity to demand that he pick side as if he owes anyone anything. Are we in a war with girls? To me the purpose of the red pill is not to hate or maltreatment girls but :

1) they stop making women their priorities. Let them focus on self improvement.

2) they stop spending unnecessarily on girlfriends (who might no even marry them) and even her family. There are much better things to spend your money on than a woman, her family, and sex. Also, you are better off saving your money.

3) they stop handing special treatment and privileges to women. Women should be treated equally like men. No special treatment or privileges for any no matter how beautiful or sexy. No man ought to be a white knight,

4) they are no longer vulnerable to female manipulation since they are now enlightened.

ubunja:
You are right. But you are also repeating what I wrote. Did you read everything in my post or you just skimmed through?

He is emotional. It's sad that boys here could get so emotional and so caught up in the "boys vs girls" war that they missed the treasure here. He, just like others, saw you as a traitor and disliked you so he vainly wanted to punch holes in your post. Paradoxically, he ended up saying the same thing you said. It makes me wonder, are boys really digesting the miseducations or are they in the bandwagon of the emotional "boys vs girls" hate war?

ubunja:
I have already been called a Captain-Save-A-Ho for thinking like you.

Don't mind them. Keep releasing more miseducations. I await more miseducations.

ericsmith:
We all av our choices, buh the code of choice demands we "pick", playing two sides can never yield progress asides going round in cycles. these not abt vbunja or d "truth" i see u've bin emphasising ..let focus on the deed ...it is double standard, i can only understand his deed if he were to be selling books cos in business their is no family.
i am not asking for loyalty neither can i stop him frm writing wen he feels like buh i am just sayin pick a side.
miseducation or no miseducation adam survived EVe mother of dem all ..so !

Ubunja isn't expected to live by anyone's code of conduct. Read the topic again and read my first post on this thread, you will see that boys too can learn something here. Remove emotions from this. Girls, whom this thread is meant for, can also learn something here too. No matter the enlightenment Ubunja gives to girls about the game, you joy is that once you are red pilled, no gold digger can make you a victim. This thread does not endanger the power or safety of boys. In fact, even though this thread is meant for girls, it actually instructs both genders.

Beside, ubunja doesn't care about your opinion or that of anyone else. If you think he has violated some code, what are you going to do about it? If you are smart, you will encourage Ubunja to release more female miseducations because you will read them, be informed, and be on the look out on every possible strategy and wiles a girl can use to game you. If you are playing against a football team, wouldn't you want to know every possible tactics they have up their sleeves?

Learn to see opportunities and lessons for men even in the female miseducations. You don't have to support or like ubunja from henceforth but if he says the truth, admit it. If he drops certain lessons for boys (directly or indirectly) in the female miseducations, absorb them. I don't like people shutting down others or attacking them because they say what you don't like. Beside, ubunja wasn't paid by anyone to be on the side of boys, he doesn't owe anyone anything, and he is free to pick "sides" (though I don't think he has suddenly decided to hate boys. He, as admitted, is compassionate to female loved ones and wants to give them a little help to safeguard them).

Don't take things personal.

swaggzo:
Good qualities that are hard to find.
I'm trying to axe it. But it hasn't been easy. These things work somehow.

Good qualities my foot. When a lady becomes toxic, starts misbehaving, and is not serious in the relationship, discard her as soon as possible. She can go to hell with her "good" qualities. It's better to be single and have your piece of mind than to be distressed and subjected to abject misery by a girl with "good" qualities. Send her through the exit door and she can shove her "good" qualities up her ass. You won't die or be miserable if you dump her.

You are not a serious person. You even want to marry her. By the time she makes you miserable, cheat on you, run your household as the head, and abject you to lowest level a man can emasculated to, I am sure her "good" qualities will help you out. You are such an idi0t. I rest my case on this issue. I won't post anything on this thread again. If you can't reason and make the simple and obvious best choice, you are on your own. Bye.

swaggzo:
Elder0001, Martinez39, tintingz, seun
Jeff1607, lordreed, just4fun, rottennaija, banjicom, Michellekabod2, Joseph1013,
Tillaman, JONNYSPUTE, 1Sharon, astrog

After this thread was made she came around again and it felt like everything was on it's way to be alright, in the last 4 days.

However, yesterday, she has gone back to the old things again, trying to say it won't work and we can't be and stuff. Her excuses are the old things from months back which are even insignificant. She says she's scared and "there's no love for me in her".

There's no love for me but you started to text and call last Sunday.. After I had moved on pretty well, and we've hung out pretty much since then.
What is wrong with this person? I'm in a maze right here.

Then right now, I get a good morning text from her. I'm a soccer game now.

You are at fault and you are the architect of your suffering. Why haven't you sent her through the exit door for good?

ericsmith:
Writing a miseducation for both genders by one author is like , producing insecticides for use and on the otherhand producing a disappearing charm for the cockroahes. does it make sense.
You know even in battles ... God pick a side check d bible. if the females want him dey can av him, we own d world that is like an homeside advantage .. a notorious gold digger nkechi blessing jus got dumped scoreline 1:0 let d game roll.

As long as white knights and simps are the overwhelming majority, you would be under a misapprehension to think men own the world. White knights and simps are the creators, bones and muscles of gynocentrism. It's a case of being a king on paper but being homeless in reality.

I believe in the emancipation of boys from female manipulation. If Ubunja chooses to enlighten the ladies, it's his choice. Though I don't support giving the ladies a helping hand in the game for obvious reasons but we must all respect the fact that this is his thread and that this topic is loaded with truth. By the way, Ubunja never proclaimed to be faithful to the boys. Let the miseducationist be his own individual.

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Kingoflotto:
Hmm.. Guys are just blaming ubunja for this write up but It's filled with deep wisdom but most guys are just viewing it from one perspective and that is why you're all complaining ... You guys need to read to understand and having a deep understanding of what ubunja just wrote... It's a miseducation so it's left to both genders to understand how this things work and apply it to your own best interests.... Kudos to ubunja...

The guys that are bitter are pumped on emotions. The lesson guys can learn here is to stop financially investing in a relationship that is not certain to end in marriage or else they are playing a losing game. Girls too can learn here. To me, it's not about who ubunja supports, it's about the truthfulness of his posts. His posts are truthful and ubunja is not stopping anyone from having sense.

Is it safe to say that ubunja has seen it all?

Draken:
Setting standards is easy but enforcing them is a lot harder. The power of women when it comes to the men their in relationships with cannot be underestimated.

It's easy when you realise that no woman is special, irreplaceable, indispensable, or the best thing to happen since slice bread. This is a fact you must embrace 100%. Women are just another human being and they nothing special. Don't be afraid or hesitant to send a girl through the exit door.

You have one life to live, you will never be born again when you die. There is no second chance after death so value your only life and don't settle for less. Don't hesitate to send a misbehaving and toxic girl though the exit door. Cheers!

Why should he stop?

ORIMIRI:
Now,you suddenly realised that you have a doughter, sister,mother or wife etc, and they have to be empowered through the miseducation too? Well, that is a good one i see. But i think your EMOTION is working on you already. This write up depicts you as a soft being,a mangina,a traitor to the redpill and not the alpha you wish to intill in boys through your previous miseducation

Don't get so worked up on Ubunja's post. Let ubunja be his own individual. If he wants to write a miseducation for girls, no problem and he has the liberty to do such. See him the way you would see a medicine man that attends to need of both genders. Ubunja never swore allegiance to any gender. He is hear to spill the truth for both genders as we can now see.

ubunja:
I bet you never met a REAL Gold Digger. These girls digging you for airtime and a meal are just minor league gold diggers. They are average. The way many men are average in chasing sex. But not on Player levels.

There are women out here getting houses, cars and businesses without giving any man sex. These are the real Diggers this writeup goes out to.

True. There are very powerful gold diggers. I remember a girl that visited a basketball player regularly and got $20,000 for each stay. Not only that, the basketball player always pay for the first class air flight that will take her and friends to see him.

Toseenlove:
Walahi ko mana....You sabi them well well lol.....Most times I don't take ladies serious, Take them serious at your own Peril.....Meanwhile this your Meme na die. I don laugh so tey, My belly dey pain me.

Don't mind maynati0n. She hasn't met me but she knows I am broke and depend on freebasics. Logic is not their strong point. They are emotional.

We have a generation of weak men. Fans are hurling racist remarks at you, so what?

—Are the remarks affecting your salary? NO!
—Are the remarks limiting your playing ability? NO!
—Are the remarks stopping you from entering the first team? NO!
—Is your coach a racist? NO!
—Are your club owners racist towards you given that they spent money to buy you? NO!
—Do the racist chants hinder other clubs from buying you? NO!

So why the hell must you care about what the fans think and say? Why can't you just ignore them and keep playing? Sticks and stones may break your bones but mere words cannot hurt a strong man. Mere words are useless. You can't stop fans from being racist but you are in charge of your actions and you can ignore them. The red card was well deserved. Next time, be a man and learn to ignore assh0les.

#SayNOtoRacism

JONNYSPUTE:
Martinez39 and AstroG is ok pls.

I have left her already. Once they start getting too emotional and start throwing insult, I withdraw.

maynation:
Advice taken


Then you get a life and step up.
Classy ladies await your upgrade.

Sorry for the pain. Broke shaming: the refuge of pained girls who have nothing tangible to say in an argument against boys. Funny enough, you might be one of those broke or low earning girls who need a guy's money to afford basics stuff like sanitary pad, undies, hairdo, recharge card, etc.

Good bye, no more mention from me. Classy lady my foot.

AstroG:
Neither does it change the fact that ur highly an illiterate

Maynation is already broke shaming. Broke shaming: the refuge of girls who have nothing tangible to say in an argument. Emotions all the way.

maynation:
I know your time bro.

Please step up.

It is "type". AstroG just corrected you. Reread before posting.

AstroG:
You and Healthserve get time to dy reply all these female NL hoes.



They tink been a redpiller makes u to become gay and not to have a gf not knowing that they are confused

Don't mind them. They don't even know what the term "red pill" or "alpha" means.

healthserve:
See this misconstrued meaning Martinez39


Approaching or not approaching a lady does make a guy a simp. A simp is simply one womho would stake his esteem,ego, humanity, dignity,pride to " get ". Ascribe more value to a chick than she's worth. See no or lesser value on himself than he should.

And for the records, I'd rather pee in my pants than stick with an undeserving Lady.

Don't mind maynation. All the boys she has met are sissies hence all Nairaland red-pill men are sissies and hypocrites. Logic is truly not her strong point.

healthserve:
Accurate analysis. I'm amazed by your sound analysis when commenting on issues. If it were in game arcades, we call such moves K.O

Hehe. A lot of people don't think before they make conclusions. How can someone think that all nairaland alpha males are hypocrites because of the sissy men she has met offline? If you ask people to name the red-pill men they know on nairaland, they can't even gather up to fifty names if they do their research. Ask to them to name the red-pill guys from their head, they can't mention up to fifteen instead you will hear the usual "Ubunja, Martinez39, Harddon, iLegendd, astroG, etc."

Humans!!!

@partnerbizn5

You are under a misapprehension and your conclusion is a nonsequitur. Nairaland has a membership that is less than 2.4 million. Let's use 2.4 million. Compare this to the population of this country. It shows you that the overwhelming majority of Nigerians you meet outdoors are not even nairalanders and among this 2.4 million, the red pill guys are not even up to 100. This might explain why you see simps and weak men a lot. You only notice us because we post regular and get people's attention.

Among this 2.4 million, many have deactivated. Your conclusion is not sound.





Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, pansophist, JONNYSPUTE, Omar09, astroG, healthserve

RedCreme21:
Sorry if that came out rudely. But stop claiming that i wrote female miseducations. I believe entirely in love not golddigging and all that.

Okay.

RedCreme21:
Martinez39, stop quoting me.

I will from henceforth.

vannessa7:
Arguments and word play without any evidence or first hand experience, signs of brainwashing, your arguments will not change what Islam really is or get you to heaven in eternity, you cannot dictate to God or change His mind because you feel so strongly about what you have never experienced firsthand, so continue in your ignorance, God said in the Quran that it is only those He led into the truth of Islam that will know, Alhamdulilahi I'm a Muslim

You clearly have not read your Quran. Go and read your Quran. Get the English version instead of the Arabic version so that you can understand what it says. Read and think for yourself. Good day.

Pettyprincess:
lol my bf already told me in future we having only one kid,nd definitely i will prefer a female child!!! Nd if it should be a male i will keep him away of all this so called red pill syndrome!! I can't treat my son to be treating women like trash when his father isn't!!

Ah! Better give him o so that no girl will use him as a maga. Tell him that true romantic love doesn't exist; ALL girls are after the money; and he should stop spending on girls except on his wife. Ah! Don't do this to your son. Good day.

vannessa7:
And this one you are talking about is reported from Mars news Mr islamophobia, you are the ignorant one calling people ignorant, all of you with definite opinions on Islam without haven practiced it are brainwashed and prejudiced

Lol. Islam is not a religion of peace. There are up to 100 verses in the Quran inciting hatred against non Muslims. The Quran supports death penalty for apostasy. The Quran supports slavery of non Muslims. Prophet Muhammad, who Muslim look up to and think is worthy of emulation, was a paedophile. He married a six year old and had sex with her when she was nine. If I did that, I would have been tagged a paedophile by you and many. My reputation would have been destroyed and I would be been deemed worthy of utter disdain. However, paedophilic Muhammad is a person that both the educated and the illiterate around the world rever and look up to as worthy of emulation. You are a disgrace to human dignity and morality if you swipe this fact under the carpet. The paedophilia of Muhammad is used to support paedophilia and child marriages in core Islamic societies. I wouldn't talk of the misogyny in the Quran.

Islam is not a religion of peace and those who criticise Islam are not islamophobes. The criticism of Islam is not islamophobia because a phobia is an irrational fear and it's irrational to criticise or fear what's in the Quran. Islamophobia is also not racism because Islam is not a race but a disgusting ideology.

Mrshape:
Most discoveries are by trial and observation, it is not by age o,
It is first to try,
Remember Rutherford comments of alpha particles scattering back,
This was observed by his students ginger Miller, because of Rutherford experience he was able to make an intellengent guess as to why the particulars was going backward, so who discovered it? His students

Even penicillin was discovered by chance.

ubunja:
lol. I wrote a list of such writeups for women after I made the promise last time. But When I was done I decided to compile them into a book instead


Women have Ego.

It very true that women have ego. Each time I want to ruffle feminists a bit for the fun of it, I ask them "if you are a full time house wife and your husband is working hard, footing all the bills and taking care of you and your children, would it be wrong or bad for you to make him a sandwich, respect him as the man of house, and do the chores?" The look of shock and discomfort on their faces, especially that of American and European feminists, is priceless. They know there is nothing bad but feminism has given them the ego of seeing themselves above those things and that they wouldn't be among top women or would be devaluing themselves if they did those for any man.

That’s one of the many many instances of female ego.