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AwkaetitiBabe:
Marriage does not cut short anyone's dream if u serious about it.

It does if you haven't achieved your dreams yet. Family is sacrifice.

Spman:
What's all this behavior with ladies..
My baby which I met last month and she was all over me but now she I'd actin weird..
Despite my busy schedules I do call her daily to see how is she doing and even as well find time and chit chat her on fb....
To the extend it seems she is the one that even love me more but recently I can see there are changes and yesterday I arrived home from school to sort things out and she was supposed to come visit me UT today I called her to ask her how is she doing and her phone hanged up and I sent her a message on fb she didn't read it,so I called her angrily knowing gully well that we human out emotions are different and I have never reacted like this about why she don't reply me she said 'oh where so I told her what u are doing to me now is not fair that a time will come u will seek for my attention and u won't see...' so after this she doesn't pick my calls nor reply my chats..
Thought I have another babe though but why must she get my attention to love her when she knew she will misbehave later?


Is she doing this just to test my emotions or I don't just understand her changes recently.....


Have any of u had dx issue too before with ur girl?

Cut her off for good.

Drfinn:
This cracked me real good! Your mum has sadly realized MBBS in Nigeria doesn't guarantee financial freedom. Am a Doc too.

Lol. MBBS in Nigeria is deteriorating. Law (the profession) has passed it's glory days already. The thin thread still keeping MBBS in the dim part of the spotlight is that people still need doctors' services and many are too poor to travel out of the country for treatment.

It's not uncommon to see doctors, these days, taking up a side hustle. Though doctors can do just fine with their salary but it's not just worth the stress. Las las, everyone wants to travel out.

I wanted to be a soccer star but mumsy was having none of that. Later, I wanted to be a mathematician or a physicist but mumsy no gree. I remember my mum saying in anger "if it's not a medical course, count me out. What will you use Maths and Physics to do after school?" I yielded to this pressure and chose MBBS. Luckily for me, I got MBBS and I don't regret it. Just yesterday, mumsy was telling me "Don't force your children to do any course" and I nearly said "look who is talking." Thank goodness I didn't say it.

pascalexmond:
Bro,we don't even know who to trust amongst them again o.

Relationship in 9ja now has been commercialized.

It is transactional

Relationship has always been a scam. As a man, women see you as a utility and you are only loved for what you can provide. Romantic relationship is a waste of time and resources.

EmptyCoconutHead:
happy new month bro. i sent and wished u a new month text via WhatsApp but it couldn't deliver as my WhatsApp data expired.
after u were banned I can't come across your new moniker again.
how far na?

We can speak on WhatsApp later this evening.

EmptyCoconutHead:
keep quiet there and face the true factm.
love is imaginary, this stuff is just mutual interest.
squirrel01 is very right

Guy, how far? I am now online. How was it? Anything to discuss?

pascalexmond:
I agree with u but from my discoveries lately, it is one out of every 1000 9ja babes that might be different.
My sister,I pity this our generation.No wife material again oo..They re scarce.

We guys need to shine our eyes properly so that we don't die untimely

D situation is outrageous.

Don't listen to Zita55. All girls are like that. The one who you think is descent is also like that. Good to see that you've realised that romantic relationship is a scam. Save your money and use it for better things.

The hammer of life's hardship has beaten these men's heads into various random shapes. These guys have suffered.

Easybela:
Same reason a guy changes women like clothes but won't want another guy near his sister.
Same reason married men flirts around with under-aged girls but won't want any guy close to his under-aged daughter.
Same reason Regina Daniels married some women's husband but didn't want the "same" husband to look at any of her friends.
Humans are naturally selfish not just women.

Thanks for answering the question. Hypocrisy and selfishness.

phintohlar:
ain't God helping you, his not gonna come down to help everyone and that's why he helped you so you can help someone else

God doesn't exist. The people you think god helped actually worked hard for their money. You too can work hard for yours. No body owes anyone a thing. Even if someone was lucky to make it, it still doesn't mean anyone is entitled to their money. Beside, it's not the person's fault that he/she was lucky. Go and work hard.

The matter should be investigated. All accused are innocent until proven guilty.

Happy new month.

JONNYSPUTE:
,,Seems she just copy and pasted the post without reading to know if it makes any sense.Nonsense.

Don't mind her. In the minds of feminists, men are somehow the oppressors and women are somehow the victims. They can't prove this and it has no basis in reality yet they persist in having this mindset.

My mum first. This is easy.

JONNYSPUTE:
Ranting of an ant.

Don't mind her. I want to know what rights she doesn't have and how she at disadvantage. It's not uncommon for feminists to play the victim. She is even comparing her situation to that of suffragettes, how laughable. Does she know the misogyny and inequality suffragettes had to suffer? What is she suffering? What right does she not have?

She thinks someone tapping her ass in the market means that she is not liberated. How frequently does that even happen? How about girls that grab the penis of men during flirting? Shall we say men are not liberated? Bad behaviours are bad behaviours. Even in the liberated USA, sexual assault on both genders is still a thing.

Lol. A lot of strawmanning. Nigerian feminists are hypocrites, egoistic, toxic, misandrists, professional victim, whining children, and full of lies. These are the problems that people usually fault Nigerian feminists for not that you people are bitter and frustrated. As I have said, you are strawmanning. You people are not fighting for any right. The suffragettes fought for their rights, what rights are you fighting for? What rights don't Nigerian women have? If people tap women's ass in the market place, it's a sign of bad behaviour not that you don't have rights. In America, women and men are liberated but it hasn't stopped male and female rapists from doing what they do best. Beside, NO ONE WANTS YOU TO BE LIKE YOUR WESTERN COUNTERPARTS. Your western counterparts are feminists of mephistophelean proportions who have, with the help of white knights, ensured gynocentrism, victim mentality for women, and destructive marital laws.

Blue pill marketer.

Lol. You don't need to open this thread as you owe no one any explanation. Everyone is at liberty to have their preference and no one should be faulted for his or her preference.

I don't see anything wrong in that.

If a lady is beginning to distance herself, discard her ASAP.

Paulimation:
Guys beware!! While this worked for the op, it will not work for you and i sincerely advice anyone not to try this.

It happened to him by mistake, it wasn't planned. So, don't plan your life along this path. Don't say...i have 50k...what is stopping me? Every sense and fiber in your body should stop you. Work and be comfortable enough to take care of a family and not put them under poverty.

How are we even sure the story is a true story? It's probably just another sentimental nonsense to validate unsound marital decisions of this kind.

matildababy:
I have been wandering how ladies can open their legs for a man they did not love nor have feeling for.sicerely speaking,it's looks disgusting to me.haba, everything shouldn't be for monetary gain.

Can men ejaculate and masturbate to the clips and pictures of a IndecentStar that they have no feelings for? Yes!

swaggzo:
Broke up with me one time. Reason was I slept off without her

Haba. You are a funny fool indeed. You should have broken up with her at this moment for good.

The last break up.. She told a lie. Refused to tell the truth. I said the truth I knew was right. She started laughing.
I left her presence to my house in the calmest manner you can ever imagine.

No apologies from her. Only for me to call a million times before finding out that she's broken up with me over so many allegations that has never existed. This is what really happened. It's confusing till this moment.

The last begging was last night in the street. I made sure I entertained onlookers for close to 2 hours with tears and catarrh. I'm not kidding

I'm a very funny fool.

Anyway, don't be a fool again. Do away with her for good.

swaggzo:
Na wah for you. I only came here to see if there are people who have experienced such.. And to learn how they outgrew that phase.

Guy I no go lie. I cried no be small. With catarrh running down my face.
My mates are committing suicide because of this same situation. How am I worse?

I'm not you. I'm in for the red pills, but when I find a nice human I tend to be affectionate towards them. I won't stop falling in love mate.
The only thing is that I understand to fall in love with wisdom instead of play the fool.

Thanks for your additions.

Those that committed suicide were just like you while they were alive and if care is not taken, you might end up like them.

"when I find a nice human I tend to be affectionate towards them. I won't stop falling in love mate.
The only thing is that I understand to fall in love with wisdom instead of play the fool."

After everything, do you still think she is nice? Romantic love is a scam either ways. We can agree to disagree. Happy love life.

swaggzo:
Bros take it easy. You don't need insults to educate people. Insults and shaming is the number 1 cause of suicide.
You don't know how many people are on this thread looking to learn, but you're busy serving bullshït around.

Reality doesn't pamper people or creates room for weakness. You must toughen up so mere words/people opinions don't influence you or push you to suicide. You must, as a man, strengthen yourself to embrace the truth no matter how harsh it is presented. Toughen up and grow up.

swaggzo:
Una don use curse finish me.

I see the wisdom in your post amidst all the curses.
Thank you.

Good that you see the wisdom. The ball is in your court. Let her go for good. Don't ever beg her again or accept her back. Even if she comes begging or she starts acting in a humble way so that you take her back, don't give her a second chance. Move on. You have endured enough and no nice person should be treated in this way. Forget about her, she is replaceable and nothing special.

tintingz:
What makes someone a fool?

You should know without asking. If you don't or you want to pretend that you don't, don't mention me again.

Being a pastor doesn't mean anything. A lot of crooks, hardened criminals, drug and human traffickers, sexual predators etc. are pastors. Try to collect your money and don't be scared of him. God is nonexistent. Even if god exists and he wanted you to have your money, he would have given you since and if god doesn't want you to harass the pastor, he had better give you your money because you confront the pastor.

Go and collect your money. By fire by force.

tintingz:
The way I take my emotions can be different from yours.

You may have a way of suppressing your emotions or being dishonest.

The fact that people have a way of running their emotions is not a licence to be a fool.

tintingz:
Dude, humans have different way of running their emotions.

Meaning?

Nesso:
You absolutely right and i totally agree with you. My dad told me years ago, "son there is nothing like love, its just permanent interest" but becos i was brainwashed by romantic fairy tales by mainstream media back then i brushed what he said off and used to wonder what old boy was saying, now i know better. Women see men as tools they can use and discard at will, we simply a means to an end and the earlier we men know this the more peace we'll be with ourselves and the way things are in this world.

Unlike what many will choose to believe, the purpose of the red pill is not to hate women or institute misogyny. Instead, it is to enlighten men so that :
1) they stop making women their priorities,
2) they stop spending unnecessarily on girlfriends (who might no even marry them) and even her family. There are much better things to spend your money on than a woman, her family, and sex. Also, you are better off saving your money.
3) they stop handing special treatment and privileges to women. Women should be treated equally like men. No special treatment or privileges for any no matter how beautiful or sexy. No man ought to be a white knight,
4) they are no longer vulnerable to female manipulation.