₦airaland Forum

iLegendd:
Only two reasons

1. Ego — caused by too much adoration and compliments by sissy men. They don't know about this ego, but it secretly pushes real men away. Only fake men with money endure. At a point, the pretty lady realizes the fake man is not only fake, but also weak and a cheat, so she loses interest and reverts to square zero — single. Or, the fake man realizes she's gold digging him too much, so he runs away with either a prettier girl, or a more endowed girl.

2. Personal issue I can't explain — each for her own. This particular reason has branches. Some of the branches can be found in our Church's headquarter in Abuja. (Read in-between the line).

I agree with your first point. Due to the compliments and adoration given to beautiful and sexy girls by thirsty simps and white knights, their ego is pumped and they start feeling like the best thing to happen since slice bread. They then feel entitled to be treated as such.

Juliet11111:
Plz how do we do away with this menace?

The ant queen sent a spy to survey your boyfriend's room to see if it's fit for the establishment of anthills. The spy did just that and reported to queen saying "I have surveyed the place. It doesn't look like where normal human beings could live so I see no problem establishing our anthills." The queen nodded and said "let construction begin".

Stop dragging with ants.

Pettyprincess:
Yes exactly!!! I know how much i spend to order makeup one friend will nw want me to be doing charity with it!! Even when i charge my close friends lesser they still complain!!
I think i will follow your method if they cant pay full amount no service!! Thanks for this advice really appreciate!!!

In business, there is no such thing as friend. The people you are helping won't help you when sh!t hit the fan. They only care about taking something tangible for themselves and give you praise in return. Will praise feed you? Will praise take care of you? If they truly like you, they will pay in full so you can take care of yourself and grow your business. If you are too weak in saying no and setting your boundaries, people will use you as a foot-mat. Collect the full price and spare no one (even your friends, parents, or boyfriend). Nothing is free.

Ubunja just wrote a female miseducation, try reading it. I am sure he has more for ladies. Beg him to release some.

ubunja:
very interesting phenomenon. Deserves a closer look.

Lol. He might have gone to the village to get a damsel. Many in the village look upon one from the city with mild awe. Some nasty men lie to their prospective in-laws that they are doing well in the city and then elope with the naive girl. There used to be a joke sometime ago about a man who, on being asked what he did for a living, told his in-laws he deals in Oil and Gas insinuating that he works in an oil company. When he took his bride to the city, she discovered that her husband sells kerosene and gas cylinders by the road side. It might be what is happening. There are many more reasons I could give.

tolulopevoice:
thanks for the concern but the answer is wrong... For the volume they put 5030cm³, and for the surface area is 1925cm². And the cost 38.5 naira

Correction for me. My formula for volume is wrong and I miscalculated on that. The rest is correct. I await the input of other mathematicuans.

Given R = 14 cm² and π = 22/7

1) V = (1/8 )(2/3)π(R³) ≈ 718.67 cm³

2) A = (7/8 )π(R²) = 539 cm²

3) Cost of painting 539 cm² at 2k per cm² is (2 × 539)k = 1078k


Cc. Mrshape, darivie04

What could make a man kill his wife? It could be any of the following :
1) Anger issues on the part of the man,
2) Nagging and razor tongue of the wife,
3) Paternal fraud (the man discovered that of the children wasn't his),
4) Infidelity,
5) His wife could have give him an STD,
6) His wife might have been saving his money and draining him to secretly build a house in her own name,
7) The man believed in money rituals and was convinced to use his wife as a sacrifice ,
A pastor or spiritualist convinced him that his wife is a witch and the cause of his hardship,
9) Add yours

Duggedised12:
lol ,i asked a simple question. Before or after. Cos i know guys who will impregnate a lady as revenge for her farther refusing his proposal. That i have seen tho it was the guys parents who were against him marrying the lady,they have two kids not still not married. So my question was a logical one.

Read the op. Your answer is there.

And by the way, why are you always on the edge, are you this angry and grumpy in your everyday life? I can help feel better if you want to.

You can't make me feel better. My blood is boiling. Good day.

Duggedised12:
her farther meddled before or after you got her pregnant?

Go and sit down. Nothing can stop you from trying to punch holes on Ubunja's personality. Mtewww.

ubunja:
her father meddled. The tribes thing.

Too bad. Two girls, Duggedised12 & Ariza (Lilwetd!ck aka Defenderalert), here who don't know your history were accusing you of maltreating and dumping your baby mama. They are desperate to paint you as frustrated, callous, and broke.

KingAzubuike:
Shut up your mouth you this dumb thing. You are insulting someone else's English when you ain't perfect neither.

You are a typical Nigerian idi0t and snowflake. So commenting on her poor English is equal to insulting her? Criticism is insult? I am sure you are part of the many f00ls that see simple disagreement as enmity. People like you are the enemies of intellectual progress.

The Olori demonstrated a consistent misuse of tenses. Such consistency excludes the excuse of a typo on her part and confirms that the Olori doesn't know her tenses. How can you compare a typo to a lack of understanding of an aspect of the English language? Since you prefer to pamper people's feelings so as not to offend people and you prefer to sweep stuff under the carpet instead of correcting, it didn't occur to you that it is incredibly disturbing when our universities produce graduates with such inexcusable flaws.

People will tell you that they want a better country yet they excuse the rot that they claim to fight against.

KingAzubuike:
See person wey dey correct person. "She needs to work on her tenses" not "her needs to"

Don't try to be smart. That was a typo. I had already corrected this before you dropped the post. You saw the initial typo and you wanted to rub it in my face. It's okay to support the olori but don't push it too far.



As for your post below

Fact that her English is bad means nothing. Abi how English take concern person wey study Yoruba or mathematics , french or Islamic studies? Abeg face your own life.

No matter the field of study, if one is going to go far in academics or in certain businesses, one will likely find oneself in formal settings where impeccable use of English is not an option.

She needs to work on her tenses. Other than that, her English is okay.

@Ubunja

Care to share why you and your baby mama eventually broke up?

tolulopevoice:
Mathematicians in the house solution to question 10 please

The first important thing to observe is that the region described is one-eighth of the spherical region.

Given that R = 14 cm ,
1) V = (1/8 )(4/3)π(R³) = (11 × 392)/6 ≈ 718.67 cm³

2) The surface area of the region consists of one-eighth the surface of the sphere; two quarter circles of radii 14cm; and one-eighth of a circle of radius 14cm. (think deeply about this and calculate the area)
A = (7/8 )π(R²) = 539cm²

3) If 2k is for every cm², 539cm² will cost (2 × 539)k = 1078k


Cc. Mrshape, Darivie04

ubunja:
Why must I bother?

Hahahahaha. When they talk like that, you know you have to ignore them.

Pettyprincess:
I checked the link,didnt you know Nigerians love free things? I still remember when i was around 10 to 15 years old i did usually make free hair for my neighbors,they dnt give me nothing as even compensation,for the fact that i can naturally style hair like real hairdresser,i even make their hairstyles for Christmas nd new year,all of our neighbors always shower me with praise nd make me feel important then i realized is this how i will be wasting my talent for free? So i started charging peanut nd suddenly they all changed!! Telling me small girl like me don know money pass my age,after my mum realized people are taking advantage of me she made me stop styling people's hair!!
Even when i first started makeup i will use my product for free for my colleague nd they were all praising me bt after i started charging them they gang up against me telling me i was using their face to learn nw that I'm good at it I'm now charging them that I'm ungrateful bt i didn't care because non of them are feeding me!! Whatever service i wanna render even the person is my close friend i always charge them though I do charge lesser though.
So i can really relate!!!

Wrong move! Charge them as you charge others. If they don't want to pay, let them fvck off. Friends that really care about you will consider the fact that the money you get from your business is what you use to take care of yourself so they have to pay in full if they care about you and don't want to drag your business to the ground. Let them pay.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC]If it was an Mzansi forum then you should maybe that might quell the high crime and rape rate in SA...but in this here forum, bros, just shelf it because you might spark a scheme where men now use Game to finetune their gold digging tactics on women.That's like using a battle tank to rob a bank.....Stick to unplugging us from the matrix of the Female Imperative. [/color]

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC]Oh my GOD,You would be unleashing the Pandora box on this one.... [/color]

You care too much about your female loved ones. Let Ubunja release it all. As long as it is the truth, let it be released no matter the consequences. We, including your female loved ones, all have choices and it's our responsibility to think for ourselves. You can coach your sisters and female loved ones if you want but Ubunja must release all the truth no matter who gets hurt.

ubunja:
Let me make up my mind. Women's money is sweet money.

Do what is in your mind. All truth must be revealed no matter who gets hurt. More truth (miseducation).

AMAZING!

ubunja:
just as a Player, no matter how good can NEVER force a woman to open her legs, So, a Gold Digger, no matter how good, can NEVER force a man to open his wallet. Simple.

We always have a choice.

True. This thread is an eye opening thread. It has shown that some boys are really in some crude war with ladies. Perhaps most of the people who have been supporting the male miseducations are inspired by the red-pill rage (you should understand what this is) and malicious intent against all women due to past experiences in the hands of certain women. Looking at the responses here, one would think that you have delivered the lives and resources of men into the hands of the ladies. See you on another miseducation thread.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Unfortunately most guys might not get into the God father level of Game because They are too smart for their own good,not romantic enough, they always have these mentality of scarcity instead of abundance thus they become petty, insecure and downright paranoid just as we have here in these thread.... The closest we have to charismatic men are already pastors, priests and maybe entertainers...But the man on the street is just boring and lacks a certain joie De vivre to excite the the Nigerian female folk, therefore, they opt for the shortest route to female excitement which is money thus a thread like this after their awakening from female manipulation would scare the sh**t out of these awakened....[/color]

Lol. Exactly. Pvssy is never scare. Even ubunja who is advising girls to ask for investment will never give a dime from his pocket so why are they getting worked up? Even if Pvssy never comes, one won't die and nothing is stopping one from refusing to spend. I am out of here. The emotions are too much.

Omar09:
Many people like me understood, and chose not post a thing.
Thank God Ubunja is not emotionally driven, some with this kinda bashing would decide to quit posting.

@Ubunja don't ever quit on us bro.

As in. This miseducation is just a little tip to girls and people are losing it without reading the message and taking into account who it is meant for. Funny enough this op is more beneficial to boys than girls. The men who don't fall prey to gold diggers are those who have read and/or understood the thought process and strategy of golddiggers. This female miseducations kills two birds with a stone.

Leoniine:
No.

It wouldn't be wrong or bad.

And I can do those things for him.

As a feminist.

You're the one misconstruing feminism here. It's not about disrespect, and being a braggart, being hurtful and neglecting things that need tending to...

Every feminists says what's in the emboldened but their actions don't accord with their utterances. Perhaps, just like Michellekabod2, you are a classical feminist. I am referring to contemporary feminist.

ericsmith:
Who asked him to care ? considerin the population of nairalanders is write up are inconsequential to the society..ok
lol ! mayb also i nid to remind you on my moniker its state "male" i don't do emotion. i don't jus look out for what benefit me alone,i also take concern about what might affect others.that is much i could say about me. naturally women are gold diggers, this is definitely not an eye opener to the ladies, it is a justification.

I understand your point and moral perspective. We know that women are golddiggers by nature and they, in accordance with the deceptive human nature, will use the op as a justification and wax stronger in golddigging. However, we know the justification is isn't sincere and they would gold-dig anyway but they can't force us to spend our money on them and nothing stops men from dumping women who ask for money. The crux here, for me, is the truthfulness in what he wrote. That's all that matters to me. Would you throw away an accurate scientific conclusion because the Professor who conducted the research is a racist? No! In fact, ubunja doesn't hate anybody.

maak400:
You’re right Martinez, guys need to stop spending on women who are not their wives. Great comment bro.

Exactly!

ericsmith:
who asked him to care ? considerin the population of nairalanders is write up are inconsequential to the society..ok
lol ! mayb also i nid to remind you on my moniker its state "male" i don't do emotion. i don't jus look out for what benefit me alone,i also take concern about what might affect others.that is much i could say about me. naturally women are gold diggers, this is definitely not an eye opener to the ladies, it is a justification.
Truth that won't facilitate progress or enable an organised society is not worth sharing.
If you insist he is saying the truth, how cum he forgot to state emphatically that "Gold diggin" is only lucrative on the short term & for ladies who don't want a lasting r/ship. yeah ! we all know some prominent A list gold diggers in the industry.. asides living large alone, do they av a home. kim kardashian had a home when she stopped gold diggin. she showed her managerial side, she calmed down
For any lady the take away from that post is, to secure a man yu av to gold dig him immersely.. that is entire wrong & false, gold digging can only fetch women valueables buh certainly not a man's heart or that lasting r/ship they crave for, sooner or laster d man wil know.
For the ladies who av time to play around enjoy d gold digging tips buh for those ladies wey no get time, show a man ur potential he will value you, show him ur managerial skills n he will place his treasures in ur hands. men love ladies that add value to them.
martinez i wish i could understand you n i knw yu wish u can understand wat am even sayin .. we've tried abi naw

I understand what you are saying. It seemed to me that you demanded ubunja to pick a side and you hounded him for violating some "bro code". I was trying to remind you that ubunja has his freedom to do as he like. I agree with you that men want feminine women who are submissive, industrious and useful, and respectful but it doesn't change the fact that many men who have invested so much in a relationship are very reluctant to end the relationship and are willing to run helter-skelter to make it work even if it means enduring and tolerating so much bullcrap and rules from the girl and readily forgiving her when she cheats. At break up, these men become depressed and suicidal because a break up means their investment was all for nothing. It all boils down to the fact ubunja dropped here. Read my first post on this thread.

Given the truthfulness of this, advising girls to ask for investment to avoid being jilted makes sense. There are other ways, even better ways, to win a man but from the female perspective (so appropriate to consider since this is a female miseducations), asking for investment is the safest route. If this was a male miseducations, ubunja would have advised you to pocket your money and don't give sh!t because from the male perspective, it's the safest route. For now, let's focus on the topic — will a man's heart follow his treasure?

Don't worry, no one can force men to give out their money. Chillax.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] But you've got to understand that we are all humans thus we ain't infallible and we can imagine scumbags,dickkheads,sexual predators, molestors,arseholes from all walks of life running amok with their dîcks in their hands and all, well equipped with Game.It is like furnishing a thieving lunatic with a machine gun and not expect chaos in the village, this Miseducations is akin to.......ermm.....alerting the village people. [/color]

Hehe. I understand that there are ravenous and heartless wolves among the males. I was just trying to put the people who are reading and digesting red pill facts in proper perspective concerning the goal of the red pill. I agree that our sisters must be guided from reckless and heartless top players.