₦airaland Forum

tolaloluomo:
There's no respect for woman in Nigeria

pansophist:
Feminism is a nutshell.

They want the privilege of women, the power of men, and the responsibility of none. Like a spoilt child, measuring shoulder with her parents, even if she lives freely in their house, and has no financial responsibilities to herself.

If after all your feminism, I still have to pay for dates, bride price, sacrifice my life in war, do the most dangerous and fatal jobs, approach you, and so on, then you're nothing more than a joke to me.

Good to see that feminist are becoming synonymous to losers, and for a good reason.

budaatum:
No I didn't. And I'm not going to. The answers are all around you so I will not bother. And it's got nothing to do with a specific religion but the ignorance of humans who think it wise to suppress the abilities of half its population.

Ryan03:
i have followed this red pill movement and I have seen the truth in it but have you noticed how some twist it to seem like women are demons who should be oppressed and casted out of planet earth? who are not up to a man hence should be a man's slave? it's same for feminism. simply because some persons with misandry qualities have decided to hide under the feminism umbrella doesn't mean the movement should be banned. I am a feminist and I know what I stand for

budaatum:
I think you are just trying to drown this in needless argument 39. You know very well that there are many parts of our country where fewer girls to school, and there are numerous societies in our own Nigeria where women do not inherit. You just need to read comments of potential girl parents on this thread to know that it is deliberate and due to parental ignorance.

A lot of companies in Nigeria insist colleagues cannot marry each other while working for the company. First Registrars and Investor Services Limited is of personal experience.

It is the woman who tends to be the one who has to resign, though I do have one experience of a lawyer reigning for his accountant wife.

And most societies are religious!

Yes you can attribute Jesus's education to very well read Mary if you can read and understand.

How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?”

[url=https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke+1%3A26-38&version=NIV]The angel answered[/url], “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called the Son of God.

Do note that Joseph did not have a clue and Jesus was not the Messiah of wood.

Be that as may be 39, that "book filled with myths" influences many!

budaatum:
I'll give you 4 so you can pick one.

Fewer girls go to school than boys.

Girls don't inherit property.

Most companies have discriminatory marriage rules that oppress women.

Most societies have religious doctrines that show women in a negative light.

You want to know the most annoying thing? If Mary had not educated Jesus with her Holy Spirit he would have ended up a saviour of wood like his father Joseph!

Bossontop:
Ambition,.....and u went to assnal??

LOL!!!

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budaatum:
Female oppression is just way too much for me to abandon fighting pigs. In fact, I'd go as far as claiming the women who misuse the feminist tag do so precisely because they are oppressed by pigs!

FEMINISTS : no one has the right to define gender roles for women. To do such is sexist. Women are not obliged to sweep, cook, wash or do house chores. Men should contribute in house chores and wash their clothes themselves.

——— later ———

FEMINISTS : men are supposed to provide. Real men have money and spend on their women.
ME : Are you not being hypocritical by defining gender roles for men? Suppose I say real women are supposed to make money and spend on their men?
FEMINISTS : Error 404!

MAN : (slaps a woman)
FEMINISTS : misogynistic pig and oppressor of women.(gets outraged all over social media)

WOMAN : (slaps a man)
FEMINISTS : he shouldn't have gotten her angry. (silent on social media)

MAN : I had sex with this my girlfriend for months/years and committed many abortions but I don't want to marry her.
FEMINISTS : you are a wicked man. You are irresponsible. You better man up. You are having sex and making her commit abortions yet you don't want to marry her? You had better marry her.

WOMEN : this my boyfriend has been spending heavily on me for many months/years. He even bought houses and cars in my names and helped my family financially but I don't want to marry him.
FEMINISTS : you are a liberated and empowered woman. You are free to leave, it is your choice and body. Spending on you doesn't mean you owe him marriage.

A feminist that can't afford cheap rubber slippers is broke shaming a guy and telling him to get his money up. They broke shame boys but don't think girls should be broke shamed.

Tersorio:
You are definitely not in naija.

MJBOLT:

Xavi the greatest midfielder in history alongside Iniesta

Rosay15:
... psycho

Rosay15:
[s]... Oga stfu, you don’t know me and I don’t have to prove anything to you.
I don’t know when you guys will stop this mentality cus to you every lady have entitled mentality and I don’t even know where you see the set of ladies you guys date that alway makes you to conclude on what you don’t know.
For your info, there are some guys that don’t know how to bring anything to the table no matter how the lady try her best to bring something to the table and keep the relationship so don’t be surprised cuz it happens and I believe relationships is about both parties bringing something on the table and not one party.
So there’s nothing like entitled mentality, try and get your fact right before tagging the lady a liar. Peace[/s]

larryking540:
I thought I was the only person who noticed that d story looks frabricated, in as much we think differently but there are some similar character every adult male portray,,,and what dat lady just wrote is nt d truth, if she had said d boyfriend wasn't given her d money she requested to her expectations dat would have been better, not I cooked for him and take it to his hux for 9 months and he never gave me anything (money) d day I requested,

it's either d girl and d boy are mumu or zombie, what then have they been discussing about when day are alone in the room, ? or dis lady thinks she is talking with kids, ,,

Rosay15:
... Can you please stop replying those guys, let them call you whatever names they like.
You don’t need to prove anything to anyone, just for them to know you’re saying the truth.
May the lord crown your effort and bless your hustle. Peace

AstroG:
No,No,No,No
Guy ah don't support you on this,
GIVE CREDIT TO who deserves it...

Zinny25:
I get him things, Cook in my house and take to him. The cost of transportation from my house to his is #600, I see him often, I have never asked for transportation fare. I go to fast food get him things whenever I wanna visit. what I'm saying in essence is that guys can never be pleased,u ask them for money they call you golddigger,u don't but instead give them they say u r too desperate.

I don't go into relationship for monetary gains, I'm very ok,at least I'm contented with what I have, that's why I keep working hard,next time get your facts straight about me before coming to my comment to rant

Elexdallas:
Omo.
80% of people celebrating this news on Nairaland are poor,
Quote me if you are not. And you must have at least a million naira in your account.
We too like bad news in this country

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Boss,where have you been? You see the way most of our ladies reason? Instead of her to get the money from her father or even brother,no,she went for another girls brother to leech on.

Zinny25:
I don't understand guys.... I dated one like that for one year and through out the relationship I never asked for a dime because I don't know how to, moreover I'm employed and he never even gave me #100 recharge card not to talk of giving me money. I had a pressing need at a time this should be after 10months of dating, I reluctantly asked him to borrow me some money, I knew the courage it took me to open my mouth to ask him,and he refused. In his little mind he's wise,no girl can eat his money...Guys are scum

farem:
Sad! Like many of us here, Jennifer might have been told about the brevity and vanity of life and mocked and rejected the divine advice.

To us all, let's come in repentance to Christ Jesus. Because, like Jenifer, we don't know what the next minute hold.
It is only God that knows when that your heart will stop beating.

Without your input or approval, your heart could stop beating.

Let's come to Jesus now for eternal assurance.

God bless you in Jesus name, amen

Her friends who identified her claimed that she was lured into agreeing for a night romp with a yet-to-be identified man for a fee of N10,000 and the Nigerian barbecued beef, popularly called Suya, as an extra.