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sexylassie2:
enough rant, show us picture of your wealthy home, mum cars and your pic... make i go sleep abeg

so your mother was an evening newspaper with her spider web virginal, nobody wanted her after frying akara and ice block, that stress made your mum unwantable thus no man was attracted to her.

When you can show me evidence that I am broke, I will take you seriously. Have you done my assignment?

Riele:
Oga . Who said your mum remarried ? .

Don't twist my words .

Shut up. I saw your comment in the thread that was deleted. Shameless liar.

Sexylassie2 and Riele,

I saw you both spreading the false news that my mum remarried. My mum never got remarried. Why marry when she could take care of her self? She is not like other irresponsible single mothers who got pregnant for fùck boys that can't man up and then look for a fool to take care of their financial responsibilities and baby daddy's baggage. Foòls.

CAPSLOCKED:
TELL ME WHY I SHOULD KEEP MY ATHEISM TO MYSELF WHEN THIS COUNTRY NEEDS MORE AND MORE OF MY PREACHINGS TO ERADICATE SUCH NONSENSICAL BELIEFS THAT KEEP AFFECTING US ALL-ROUND.

False beliefs can be devastating. Good examples are those children that died because their parents rejected medical help or, as related to this case, families, romantic relationships, etc. that were destroyed because of false beliefs or "prophecy" from a pastorpreneur. It's heartbreaking.

lNOW THE ACCUSED "WITCH" WOMAN WILL BE WISHING SHE MARRIED THAT ATHEIST SHE ALWAYS REBUKED ON THE INTERNET.

@Handsomejok

I hope you take my advice.

sexylassie2:
OK. Akara seller. I love how it triggers the son of a akara frier and ice block seller.

Still disappointing. Perhaps you need to have this task as an assignment since you can't come up with a better label. Submit your reply tomorrow morning.

I am responding to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/5705389/think-wife-witch#down

First of all, it breaks my heart that nonsensical beliefs have, in their own way, needlessly contributed to conflicts among friends, relatives, and married couples and they continue to do such till this day. I would like to address the OP (Handsomejok) of that thread.

Handsomejok:
Before marrying my wife, my business was moving well. I had an appliances big shop with full of things. I made a lots of money monthly and was able to pay all my bills and take care of my single mother and siblings without fail.

Bbut since we got married, just two months and 5 days after our marriage, my shop caught fire. I have lost almost everything only managed to save some few things, had to pay for all the damages to my landlord (the shop owner ) I’m still owning him money and I’m now renting a small shop but things are not working.

It's natural that our brain checks patterns and then attribute causes to explain happenings in our environment and lives however silly these conclusions are. Fortunately, that can't stop us from being realistic. Your wife is not a witch. Bad things and misfortune can happen to anyone at anytime and no one is immune to misfortune. Before blaming your wife, did you stop to think if your misfortune could have happened naturally without some supernatural influences? Haven't single men faced worse than this? Why rule out coincidence as though they don't happen? In fact, what evidence do you have to conclude that your wife is a witch?

What has happened to you has happened to many and it will happen to many because that's what life is. Life is full of ups and downs. Now that your business is down, don't destroy your marriage as well because of a false notion that your wife is a witch. As a man, you should pick yourself up instead attributing blames to your wife. Nobody is too special that life must be rosy and sweet all the time. We Nigerians so much like to think we have a bright future almost to the point of entitlement that if such future doesn't materializes, we think something supernatural is afflicting us. This is not so.

I have so much debts to pay to so many people including my previous shop landlord, can’t afford a 3 square meals, can’t afford to pay house rent, can’t afford to pay my shop rent and we have moved to my parents house.

People have been in this situation and many have been in worse. It doesn't mean that some diabolic and malign supernatural forces were against them. These things are natural. Don't hate your wife because of a false belief. I will also warned that you shouldn't fall into the trap of huge desperation and run to one pastor for financial deliverance like many do. Success is hardwork not spiritual. These pastors are thieves and they will ruthlessly siphon money from you just to "help" you. They might even cause more divisions and feed on your solipsism by giving you some "prophecy" that makes your wife or any of you relatives the cause of your problem. What is happening to you is very hard and difficult but it's what many are facing.

Don't blame your wife or hate her, try look for the way forward.

My wife is pregnant and due in April, we haven’t bought anything for the baby. I wish never met her in my life cos she has completely destroyed my life and I have nothing left. She is evil. Haven’t confronted her cos of her condition, don’t want to add more stress to her and am waiting for her to put to bed then I will confront her and chase her away. I will keep the baby with me so she can go with her child she had before we met. I just hate her so much and I want nothing to do with her anymore.

Stop this. With this mindset, you will end up destroying your family and cause great pain with your own hands. Calm down and look for the way forward. Try your best and hope for the best. Things may improve or they may not as nothing in life is guaranteed but it will suffice that you do your best to move forward in life.

Please what do you suggest I do?

Do away with the foolish belief that your wife is a witch; stop hating on her for she is innocent; and start doing your best to move forward. Don't foolishly run to any pastor for relief, they will milk the little you have left and even cause more division in your family. You can still get back on your feet. Cheers.

sexylassie2:
Ok. Akara seller.

Hmmm. You try sha but that's a C+. I believe you can try better and get an A+ baby girl. Come on, try again and don't disappoint me. I won't be happy if you stop trying. Don't tell me your fire power has quenched. Come on.

I have gifts for you if you try better.

sexylassie2:
OK. Son of a very wealthy akara and ice block seller.

My mum no longer does those things. Pick from the options I gave or better still, you can call me an incel as you like to. Come on, don't disappoint me. I have gifts for you if you can come up with a better title.

Oregbe17:
Congratulations bro; 5.6m can be managed well.

Martinez39s your status irrespective of what you/others type here cant be changed; you and only you can narrate your story provided it's not a facade

I agree, the reason why I posted my status wasn't to boast. I just wanted him to know that I am talking from a very wealthy person's perspective. If I had just said that 5.6 million naira is not big enough to say that one has arrived, I would be seen as a hater. Actually, I am almost regretting that I commented on this thread.

@sexylassie2

So you came to like your comments. I saw you liking your comments. I know you will unlike them to prove me wrong. What a clown.

sexylassie2:
S[b]on of an Akara and Ice block seller [/b]

Oh nice. What else have got? Let me help you with suggestions:
1) son of secondhand car dealer.
2) son of a nurse.

Today, I will break that illusion of the power you have over me because you went to dig my accounts for posts. Yeye dey smell. I sense your fire power reducing, you need glucose?

I can see your two accounts. You came to like your comments. What a low life.

@sexylassie2

I am waiting. Don't tell me you are tired already. Keep responding and I will keep replying. You think everyone is broke. I can hear my mother's fry pan calling you.

sexylassie2:
ok.....tell that to one of the dummies now where your mother always sell akara and ice block

Didn't I tell you my mum no longer does those things? Her pans and whatever are still in my family store lying there for many years. You can come take the menagerie and start up an akara business to help your life. Hustle o so your children don't have to work. Shameless internet maggot. I have your time today.

sexylassie2:
Imagine someone preaching redpill messages copied from youtube and reddit on how men need to improve their lives but he still lives with his mother, he has no social life, he has no job, he is broke, his mother feeds him, buy him cloths and all sort of things.

what sort of man is that?

More assumptions. Who told you I have no social life? Who told you I am broke? My mum is rich, my family houses are big for all, so why should I hustle to prove a point to anybody. What is wrong in my mother taking care of me? Hustle o so your children don't need to work in this life.

sexylassie2:
i will leave you in your ignorance..akara boy..nothing you wrote convinced me.

I am not here to convince you, I am here to respond. You think I would want to convince you like I have anything to prove to you? Your opinions and delusions are none of my business. I AM HERE TO RESPOND. Why don't you call me secondhand car dealers boy?

you are the son of a nobody, you are jobless and broke, you live with your poor mum and your are proud of it. your mum built a small bungalow, shows she hustled for it. dont forget she is a nurse, the real fact is if your wealthy dad was wealthy as you claimed, your mum wont be building any bungalow, she will be enjoying the fruits of investments and inheritance. wealthy boy, i thought you lived in a gated community not knowing you live in a crowded street facing somewhere

Lol. More assumptions. Show me that it was a bungalow she built. Show me that I live in a CROWDED STREET. Perhaps you don't know my dad bought lands close to each other in the same estate? Eyah, sorry.

it is hilarious to read the story of a boy born into a "wealthy home", whose mother had to [b]sell akara and ice block [/b]as side hustle to feed his jobless father....is that the story of someone born into wealth. funny enough, your mum had a good salary as a nurse but was selling akara and ice block down in the corner, what sort of good salary is that

Is not my fault you don't know what side hustle is.

abeg, i have heard enough of your fables... abeg....Otedela was once worth a billion dollar, he is now worth 400 M USD, is that been broke, your father was selling second hand cars, he got broke, mother started frying akara and ice block to feed jobless father, is that not poverty and complete brokeness and break down.

My father is not Otedola. If you can't understand that, it's your problem. it's not until one gets to Otedola's level that they are wealthy. If Otedola can lose 600M, who is my daddy?

Where is your evidence that I am broke? Where is your evidence that my mum is poor? I thought you wanted to ignore me, seems you can't stop coming back for more. Shameless internet maggot. I have your time today. Ensure you spill everything out.

Americanboy35:
Chai sexylassie2 no be small thing o

She is obsessed with me. I would have ignored her in typical fashion but I had her time today. She has been following me from thread to thread trying to disparage me because of my redpill messages.

Nwanne, dis one na sorcery. Wetin be dis?

Americanboy35:
Abraham Shakespeare comes to mind

I remember his case. Poverty is not just absence of cash, it's a mindset. If you give many people who have been broke for many years 5.6 million naira, they will look at it like 5 billion naira. They will think they have arrived and they may make very stupid decisions. Some will go and marry, some will become Santa Claus with their cash, some will start womanising, etc.

Money comes with it's challenges eg. fake friends, scam artists, the pressure to keep up with the Jones instead of cutting your coat according to your size, superfluous wants, etc. It best people know how to cut their coat according to their size and manage their money. It's one thing to have money, it's another to manage it.

sexylassie2:
1- i didnt compare your father with dangote, i gave a scenario, NO wealthy man get broke, many wealthy people have back up plans, they have assets, TBs, shares, bonds, real estates that they can sell for income, your father never had this and you claim you were born into a wealthy home.

you see the common man think that friends and network do not uplift people, see the wealthy rotate money within themselves and they help themselves, your father was never wealthy that is why he didnt have those friends, those bank connection to lift him up. funny enough, i haven't seen a wealthy man staying at home being jobless depending for his wife for income, even the wife didn't have asset to lift the family up, she had to go so low to sell [b]ice block and akara to feed the family [/b]and you say you were born into wealth.

More assumptions. Wow, you assumed my father stayed at home. Only fools think wealthy people can't go broke. It depends.

2. your late father was a second-hand car dealer, why was his cars seized at the border, wasnt he importing second hand cars from benin republic

Dumb statement. More assumptions. Was the border the only way he dealt with cars?

3- This so called "wealth" happened when you were 6-8 years old, guess you saw some cash and thought you dad was a billionaire.

So as a grown up, I can't assess and estimate my father's net worth given how he balled and lived his life? Do you know the schools I attended? SMH.

4- your are from the average job family, your story and background says it all, your mum supports you, buy cloths for you and feed you, the best you will do for her is to support her and make her life better. now that she has finally Finish building her home after many years of saving, better will be to support and encourage her, this is suppose to be a lesson to you, this shows that your "wealthy dad" had no assets or properties after he died and he just allow your mum to suffer for nothing, anyway, just be a good boy and collect rent.

More assumptions. You assumed that my mother saved and hustled for many years to build a house because I said "recently." FYI, She decided to start building that house recently and in no time, it was completed. She could have built it way back if she wanted. Sorry o.

Besides, don't tell me how to live my life. If my mum decides to cloth me, take care of me, and spoil me silly, am I not her son? My mum, as she has said, doesn't need our money. She just wants us to be responsible. As I have said, I don't need to work for money. I only work because I love it. My deepest apologies that I am not suffering in life.

btw, i dont know why a boy from a "wealthy home"will be living with tenants in the same compound to the extend of allowing many guys live in a single apartment.

Who told you I live in the same compound with them? More assumptions. Their house is across my street and I can see their compound clearly from the window in my mum's room. Try again. Who cares if they are many? As long as they are paying their rents,

5- i think it will be fair to write that you arent born into wealthy home, you created that fake story to solidify your fake online persona. should i say you are an akara and ice block boy, no shame in that, it is just that this how you were brought up. or does selling akara ad ice block make your you a billionaire or does it create wealth.

Feel free to believe what you want.

6- this will be my last reply to you, i got better things to do akara boy.

Internet maggot. You don't have my time but you could follow me from thread to thread. Now that I have decided to face you, you are backing out. I have supplied more accounts for you to dig.

7- have a good day..i got no time to argue, you cant convince me otherwise

I am not here to convince you. Show me your evidence that I am broke at present. Shameless internet maggot.

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@sexylassie2

Here are some of my accounts in case you are looking for my posts.
1) Martinez19
2) Martinez39
3) Martinez79
4) Martinez39s
5) Martinez99

I have nothing to hide. Shameless internet maggot. I am waiting for you.

@sexylassie2

I am free today and I have your time today. You follow me from thread to thread trying to disparage me because of my redpill messages which you don't like and you act like you have some power over me because of the information you shamelessly dug out from my old posts in my previous accounts. I am waiting and I will strip you of that power today. Shameless internet maggot.

sexylassie2:
1-sir, no wealthy people go completely broke, it does not happen, it is like saying dangote went completely broke, it does happen, most wealthy people have good relationships with banks, they got lot of assets they can sell to bounce back. your late father had no connection, no bank relationship, no investment, got no wealthy friends to lift him up, yet you say he is wealthy.

Did I say my father was as rich as Dangote? Did I say my father has mad connection? So you are still a child to think people you call friends will always lift you up when you are broke? Hahaha, my chest.

2- No wife of a wealthy man sells akara and ice block on the street because she has a frying pan, fridge and cooker, it seems your mother left her palace to go sell akara and ice block in emele junction

Olodo rabata. Purposely misrepresenting and spinning assumptions. So you assumed my mum did her akara business at a junction? I am sorry for you, keep pretending you didn't see where I mentioned it was a side hustle. You also left out the fact where I mentioned my mum was a well paid nurse. Keep fooling yourself. People do all sorts of things as side hustle but you wouldn't know that since your brain can't carry it.

3- we dont bake akara, we fry it, i respect your mum hustle but she was hustling like the common man.

Whatever. It was a side hustle to bring in money however little.

4- your father was a second hand dealer, so what is his cars doing at the border of Nigeria? most new car sellers deal with the manufacturer directly and they import through the ports.

Lol. Your foolishness is lofty. So you have never seen rugged business men that exploit all opportunities. With my dad, more was never enough. You still have not told me why my late dad was a second hand car dealer.

5- the rest tantrums and abuses, it non of my business, my business is facts not insults

Ah! I don't need to insult you, you are a walking insult. When you have evidence that I am broke at present, let me know. Internet maggot. I have your time today.

@sexylassie2

Take your time in constructing your lies, half-truths, and misrepresentation, I will be waiting. All the bullshit lies must end today. Jobless internet digging through my old posts and thinking she has power over me. I have your time today. Do your worse. You say you know a lot about me? Spill them.

sexylassie2:
Thanks, for exposing yourself, this is what i wanted and you fell into the trap, no need for long speeches.

You werent born into any wealthy family, your late father was a second hand car dealer, your mom a nurse and petty trader, if you guys was wealthy as you claim to be, your mum wont go as far as to start selling akara and ice block to support your father during his down time, your "wealthy" father would have used all his saving and connection and other investment to get back, while your mum would have used her wealthy friends to get better opportunity for the family.

I have never seen when a woman married to a wealthy man go so fast from being wealthy to start selling akara and ice block to support the family that is impossible.

Now this stuff happened when you are 8, now that you dad is not alive to support your guys, are you guys not struggling

your redpill nonsense got doing to do with this, stop been highly emotional, your lies to create a false persona about yourself is disturbing.

your think about it

your father was selling second hand cars
your mother a nurse who eventually started selling akara and ice block to support your dad when he went down

does that stink of wealth?

if you were born into wealth, you wont be suffering today and that your friend, your mum wealthy connections would have gotten him a job,infact, he wont be even looking for job, rule of life, wealthy people make friends with other wealthy people

I don't have time to start deconstructing your lies, half-truths, and ridiculous assumptions. These things are part of you. You must have known my dad very well to think he was a second hand car dealer. Sorry o. Keep pretending like you didn't read where I said my father got completely broke as if wealthy people don't go completely broke. What is wrong in selling akara and ice block? You are so detached from reality that you think these are only for poor people. So my mum can't have a side hustle in peace? Lmao. Mum knew how to bake akara and we had a big freezer, so why not? I knew you will come with no evidence instead you will come with lies, foolishness and misrepresentation.

Don't worry, if you are struggling in life, I am not. I am so sorry that my family is doing very well. You know it's not my fault. How painful it must be to know that the redpill guy who speaks the truth you hate doesn't fit into the poorly contrived stereotype of a broke and frustrated nobody that hates women, take heart. I know you want to see me suffer but it CAN'T happen in the life. By the way, my mum is no longer selling akara and selling ice blocks so maybe you can come pick the pans, sleeve, and cooker. They are still lying in my store for many years. Come and keep them, and start your own akara business to help your life.

I thought you had great evidence to show I am a liar and I am broke but you have none. I have nothing hide. By the way, when digging my post, did you forget this one when calling me broke? Internet maggot.

sexylassie2:
Martinez39s stop your lies, you weren't born into any wealth. you are a broke ass as usual

Sexylassie2, you seemed obsessed with me. I like it when internet maggots like you give me relevance. You keep following me from thread to thread trying to disparage me. I love it, keep it rolling.

I guess you have forgotten the thread where you said you mother is suffering and how your dad died, you also talked about family members not giving a damn especially when you were sick. Have you forgotten, which so called wealth was transferred to your mum...lying Martinez,

the same lies your fellow nairalander came to tell on this thread which I debunked. Keep deceiving yourself, I was born into a very wealthy family. There is nothing haters like you can do.

[s]I won't expose you but know that I know a lot about you, I hope you are not calling that shop your mum runs to feed you guys the business your father passed to her.lets keep it like that, you know your story doesn't add up, stop deceiving the general public to create a false image of yourself online. Go and help your mother and stop wasting time here.[/s]

Stop being jobless by stalking me and reading through my posts and topics from past and present accounts. I don't need internet maggots like you giving me relevance on the internet. Even I as a redpill guy isn't so idle to start digging through people's post.

You were born into wealth but your brother after graduating from unilag was looking for job all over the place, how come your imaginary father business and wealthy connections couldn't employ him.

Joblessness has led you to read all my posts from my previous accounts. I dare you to do your worse and when you do, tag me. The person I was referring to as an "elder brother" was a very close childhood friend up till a certain point. We were so close then that we unfailingly refer to each other as brothers. You don't know me, I am not as broke as you. Make sure you reply me sexylassie2 because I am free today and I have your time. Shameless thing.

Is this not the thread you are talking about? Nairalanders can read it and see that you are lying and exaggerating like your fellow who will like to see me suffer because I am a redpill man. The third and fourth pics are my claims on that thread and as you can see, you are a liar. I am waiting for you. Internet maggots thinking everyone is broke like them since time immemorial.
https://www.nairaland.com/5047077/wife-reduced-me-common-trash/1#76140678

As far as I concerned, liverpool are not my champions.

seanwilliam:
this particular post of yours has redirected my steps to the right path of life.. thank you very very very much.. some people might not see sense in this but I tell you, I was about making HUGE mistake till I saw this post

Glad you got my message. Some people thought I was trying to boast about being born in a rich family not knowing I wanted to offer sound advice from a perspective of someone who has handled huge cash thanks to my hardworking parents. I am glad someone gets the message.

doggedfighter:
Your yansh has just been opened. Too bad.

I was wondering if your family wealth narrative is really important to the thread.
Born into wealth bla, bla, bla

Do I know you? Do I care what you think?