. My whatsapp suddenly stopped connecting to 9mobile data. The data works well on other applications. I use infinx hot 5. I av reinstalled it severally. I even restored factory setting. What can i do

iheanyi4u:
If it's share and sell you'd have to use a VPN app for it to work.

please how do i make use of VPN

iheanyi4u:
If it's share and sell you'd have to use a VPN app for it to work.

its not. I bought the weekly data

help. My whatsapp suddenly stopped connecting to 9mobile data. The data works well on other applications. I use infinx hot 5. I av reinstalled it severally. I even restored factory setting. What can i do

help. My whatsapp suddenly stopped connecting to 9mobile data. The data works well on other applications. I use infinx hot 5. I av reinstalled it severally. I even restored factory setting. What can i do

help. My whatsapp suddenly stopped connecting to 9mobile data. The data works well on other applications. I use infinx hot 5. I av reinstalled it severally. I even restored factory setting. What can i do

Martins4christ:
help. My whatsapp suddenly stopped connecting to 9mobile data. The data works well on other applications. I use infinx hot 5. I av reinstalled it severally. I even restored factory setting. What can i dok

abeg make sumbody help me

help. My whatsapp suddenly stopped connecting to 9mobile data. The data works well on other applications. I use infinx hot 5. I av reinstalled it severally. I even restored factory setting. What can i do

help. My whatsapp suddenly stopped connecting to 9mobile data. The data works well on other applications. I use infinx hot 5. I av reinstalled it severally. I even restored factory setting. What can i do

help. My whatsapp suddenly stopped connecting to 9mobile data. The data works well on other applications. I use infinx hot 5. I av reinstalled it severally. I even restored factory setting. What can i do

help. My whatsapp suddenly stopped connecting to 9mobile data. The data works well on other applications. I use infinx hot 5. I av reinstalled it severally. I even restored factory setting. What can i do

Happy New Year, I Want To Say A Very Big Thank You To Everyone , I Really Appreciate Your Care Nd Contributions, May This New Year Favour You All O.
Abeg O , Anyone That God Is Laying It Upon His Heart Should Please Help Me , Dis Financial Stress Is Kinda Choking O Jawe. 0125981405. GTB. THANKS

Thank God For Safe Delivery.Mary Is Here [b][/b]

Eyimofe2017:
hmmmm...
dear Op, congratulations in advance.
Every baby is unique and special irrespective of the circumstances surrounding his/her birth.
As per the day care issue, you can get very good day cares, especially if your school has a staff daycare system.. you can offer to tip the caregivers to give special attention to your child cos of the age.
You can't have lectures all through the day without breaks, you can check on the baby during the few breaks you get (why it is preferable you get a staff daycare or very close to school).

You might want to consider supplementary feeds for the baby too early enough.
My friend had her baby few days to exams and she did the above and baby was fine, she's six years now.

Just take it easy, one step at a time, believe me, you'll be fine.


As for the holier than thous spewing thrash carelessly,he who is without sin be the first to cast the stone cos even FP fails, condoms burst..@op was caught between a rock and a hard place,hers came in form of a baby she didn't really planned for now, yours might be something more serious.

Keeping a baby isn't the easiest of decisions to make, and abortion doesn't make anyone less pregnant or "unpregnant", it only makes you the mother of a dead child, she made a choice she can live with....better than aborting and regret for the rest of her life

She asked for advise not castigations.
Wishing you safe delivery @martins4christ

Wow. I Thats Where I Had In Mind. A Staff Daycare, Thanks A Lot For The Tips.

Proudgorgeousga:


You are correct. Also I don't know how smart she is academically because a friend of mine was able to do the two, she stayed at home cared for her child, collected notes from classmates and read. She resumed for exams and did better than those that didn't have all that responsibilities.

thanks, Guess I Can Do That.

Thanks Everyone, Am Very Grateful.

mrphysics:


The bold phrases are not connecting well to me. Anyway, let me normalize everything and speak on a neutral ground.

First, they is no law that says your child must start this first term. Starting now does not mean he/she can't start from second term or even third term. You can offer her exact thing she will be offered in the school when you are back from class. So plan yourself well and know you have a work when you come back. With that plan she will not miss a lot. Some of us that didn't go to nursery school but started from primary one are even better than some persons.

Secondly, You currently have a 2 weeks old baby, and you are pregnant again, yet single. Sorry to be harsh, but if what you said up there is true, then you don't have plan for yourself. You seem not to learn anything from stories and experiences people share here on nairaland. By same analogy, when you put to bed, you will get pregnant two weeks again and still remain single, please don't open another thread in that regard.

Lastly, my sister, this is 21st century. If you must Bleep, tell him to wear condom. Stop losing your sense when you are touched. Imagine what you are currently going through now. A baby, academics, and pregnancy. No one can love you more than you love yourself. This is hating your own self. To be sincere with you, you need to be strong now, have time for youself. Your mumu should have done by now. There are hard decisions you need to take now:
1. Suspend your school till you are done with child birth while still single
2. Let your child miss the first year in school. It has nothing to do with her cognitive reasoning
3. Get married to this man that is responsible for these innocent children that do not know how reckless their mum is. That is if its the same man that owns the two of them.
Let me stop here

i Shows U Didnt Take Tym To Read My Post, I Dnt Av A Child Yet, ...Going By Calculation. I Wil Av... Nt Av Ad. Plus Am Nt In Sec Skul, Abt To Resume Final Year In Uni

i really need advice. i am a student, currently pregnant. going by my calculation, my baby will be two weeks old when school resumes, i am planing on staying at home for a month to take care of LO. my concern is will i be able to drop a six weeks old baby at d school daycare, while i attend class? (i am a single, cant afford a personal nanny, and i have no family member around me) or is there a better way to go about it. am at my wits end.

blackie01:
Hmmmmm! Nairalandes and their holier than though atitude. @ op I don't know it all, but I think you will get the advice you seek ons quora.
It's way matured and accommodating than nairaland.
The mistake has been made, thank Godness you choose to keep it. That child will wipe your tears much later in life. You can still reach out to your dad, but stick close to mummy. You will need her assistance a lot especially during exams, she might have to come stay with you.
Focus on your studies cos the beautiful baby is enough distraction, though a good one.
Pay less attention to friends except those close ones that are ready to help.
I don't know you financial state or if you school in the same town as your parents. But what I am 100% sure is the fact that you and the baby will pull through this and you will still make good grades on school.
Should the embrassment of having a child outside wedlock become too much, get a ring and wear it . At least you are married to your baby and studies.
Still descreetly try to reach out to him and aplogise for bring your parents to him. Perhaps he chickened out due to fear and what yours parents and his might do. I have been in his shoes before. But that does not mean he loves you less or wouldn't want to be part of the child's life. Send him pictures or tag him to the pics on his Facebook page but don't make comments that might anger him.
He will come around soon seeing what he has made with you. Perhaps it was just a one time thing and he was your first. Shit happens and when they do, we dust our ass and move on.

Don't organise sympathy party for your self oooo. You will get food to eat and your baby won't starve be sure of that.
In as much as you have made up your mind to survive and continue school, just continue .
By the way what level of study and what discipline are you. Pm details , I might have materials to help and also see how we can help.
Humanity should be our first religion and nothing more.

Luckystarmartins@ymail.com

Never Said Anyfin Lyk Yr1. Am A Direct Entry Ful Tym Student , He Was A Part Tym Student, Different Calender, Just D Same School, He Stayed Brk In School 4 A While, To Complete Clearance Nd Others. I Told U Wat Is Needed To Be Told, BASICS, Once Again, I Wanted Advice, Nt Some Pple With Trust Issues Givng Me Headache. First It Was D Name, Den She Suppose Dat Am Nt Preg Cos Of D Way Or Maybe Wat I Typed, Lyk Preg Pple Are Aliens Nt Human. Of Course, Miss Knw Al Took Her Tym To Note That I Wrongly Made Use Of Capital Letters, Nw Crowning It With Am Confusd Blah Blah Blah, Never Knew Am Supposed To Type My Entire Auto-Biography Cos I Need Advice. Its Not Even Lyk She Has Said Anythng Helpful, Just Prying For Flaws.
Well, Thanks A Lot Guys, For The Scolding, Concern, Advice, Everythng. I Have Been Able To Pick The Ones I Need. My Thoughts Are Clearer Now, I Would Try My Best To Move On From Here. Ese Gan Ni O.

eyinjuege:
You cant eat your cake and have it..

You don't want to drop out, yet you're pregnant.

Well, your mum can help you raise the baby while you face your studies. You've just made them grandparents earlier than expected.
Meanwhile, go to your boyfriend's department and try and find out what you can about him.
I'm sure there'll be an address in his department for him.
Universities have everyone's address
Goodluck

Thanks, Thats Helpful

blackie01:
Hmmmmm! Nairalandes and their holier than though atitude. @ op I don't know it all, but I think you will get the advice you seek ons quora.
It's way matured and accommodating than nairaland.
The mistake has been made, thank Godness you choose to keep it. That child will wipe your tears much later in life. You can still reach out to your dad, but stick close to mummy. You will need her assistance a lot especially during exams, she might have to come stay with you.
Focus on your studies cos the beautiful baby is enough distraction, though a good one.
Pay less attention to friends except those close ones that are ready to help.
I don't know you financial state or if you school in the same town as your parents. But what I am 100% sure is the fact that you and the baby will pull through this and you will still make good grades on school.
Should the embrassment of having a child outside wedlock become too much, get a ring and wear it . At least you are married to your baby and studies.
Still descreetly try to reach out to him and aplogise for bring your parents to him. Perhaps he chickened out due to fear and what yours parents and his might do. I have been in his shoes before. But that does not mean he loves you less or wouldn't want to be part of the child's life. Send him pictures or tag him to the pics on his Facebook page but don't make comments that might anger him.
He will come around soon seeing what he has made with you. Perhaps it was just a one time thing and he was your first. Shit happens and when they do, we dust our ass and move on.

Don't organise sympathy party for your self oooo. You will get food to eat and your baby won't starve be sure of that.
In as much as you have made up your mind to survive and continue school, just continue .
By the way what level of study and what discipline are you. Pm details , I might have materials to help and also see how we can help.
Humanity should be our first religion and nothing more.

Would Be In 400 Level By Next Semester, Law

selflessmaya:


i'm really really sorry about your predicament. i think deep down, you know no one here can really help u but u just wanna reach out. i cant really help u now since u are almost full term. if u had come here earlier like in your first trimester, since u dont want the pregnancy and only kept it out of fear, i would have advised you to get an abortion & me and many open minded, non-judgemental ppl here could have even tried to help u get one, it's not the horror thing ppl watch in movies where hangers are used and instruments are slid into the vag, that was medieval times, a simple pill, just one pill, that a gynecologist or midwife or top pharmacists have access to, could have ended this nightmare early, plus there are many ppl here in diaspora living in countries where abortions are legal who could have tried to get you this pill and fedex it or something... there really isnt much you can do now. pls dont do anything rash, u could really hurt yourself, just take it in your stride and move on, hopefully, you'll be just fine, will it be easy? no. but pls be brave. i'm really sorry this happened to u, i can only imagine how it feels to be in your shoes. pls take heart.

your parents are absolutely mean for letting you go through this alone, absolutely mean i tell u, even if they didnt want the pregnancy, why not shout at you if they must, express their disappointment, then, help you get a safe abortion or help u keep it if that's the general consensus. you made this decision alone at a point when you should have reached out and now you're really at a point of no return. pls call your mom and try talking to her, see if she can keep the baby for u till you're done with school and have a job, i wont suggest adoption to you, nigeria is a very risky country and no one knows what'll become of the child if it gets into wrong hands. if your mom wont agree, reach out to a sister or family relative who could help u talk to them. u really should have come here early, this story makes me so fu<king sad.

as for the guy, i am pro-choice (i believe a woman gets to decide to keep a pregnancy or not).. i believe in equal rights, this guy did not want a kid and he did his part to wash his hands off it, i think if a woman does not want a pregnancy but the man wants it, she should not keep the pregnancy, it's her body and her choice but i also think that if a man does not want a pregnancy and a woman chooses to keep it, she has accepted sole responsibility for it, it's only fair. do i think he should have done more for u like help u with connections to actually get it done? yes. but he didnt and i also understand the fears of going through this alone in a country where girls in your shoes dont have a lot of choice but you should have done your absolute best to ask around for 2nd opinions. i dont know why u didnt make moves or ask here earlier. no one should be forced to keep a pregnancy or punished for having sex, ignore all the mean ppl here and in real life, their taunts dont add or take from u.

dont be too hard on yourself, pls dont hurt this child when it's born or vent frustrations at it, just accept it and love it with all your heart, as much as i support abortion, i only do so in the very early stages when the embryo is pretty much sub-human, in the 3rd trimester, it's already a baby and once it's born, it's legit there, get in touch with your ex when it's born and make sure he knows the baby's here, send him pics and all, dont have any high hopes of his help and pls dont marry him just cos of the kid if he does get in touch. i rarely use this consolation cos it's pretentious but there are ppl better than u who will give anything to be in your shoes, there's a girl somewhere pregnant with AIDS too. pls count your losses and bear it and toughen up. call your mom and re-establish communication, if she wont help, try to see if u can find someone who can help get u a job and u can transfer to part-time studying, STAY IN SCHOOL!! pls take very good care of yourself, at first it'll be hard but this is not the end of the world. you'll move on.

Thanks For The Advice. You Dont Know How Much It Means To Me, Am Trying To Be Very Strong. Everything Would Be Fine, I Dont Know How. But I Knw It Wil Be. Once Again, Thanks

Oyindidi:
why write like this? Capital in between sentence

Thats A Fault From My Phone. I

Oyindidi:
Someone that is really pregnant and won't type that rubbish above.

I Knw I Deserve Mean Comments. You Cant Insult Me As Much As I Av Insulted Myself.
I Have Been Tru A Lot Already, What I Nid Now Is Am Advice On How To Come Out Of This Mess. I Really Dont Want This One Fall To Ruin Me. I Have Learnt To Get Out Of Depression, Guilt And Self Pity. Its The Practical And Reasonable Step To Follow That I Need Help With, Please

Oyindidi:


Martins, how come you're pregnant? I doubt your story

Am A Female. Martins Is My Surname

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kittyfayy:
When will oou second batch list be out and uploaded

Wen will it be out ooo. Why is no 1 talking abt 200 direct entry. [color=#550000][/color]

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mykelkeys:
Pls I'm confused hommies is DE list also out??

mykelkeys:
Pls I'm confused hommies is DE list also out??

mykelkeys:
Pls I'm confused hommies is DE list also out??

is d direct entry list out. sumbody should pls reply

Phummey:
If one was offered a course that one didn't choose, what should such do? A cousin of mine intends studying law but was given French

. is the direct entry list out?. abeg lemme know. my mind dey sky!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!¡!!!

[img][/img] [color=#000099][/color]My bf no fit do dat kyn tin 4 me. my reason is .I NO GET BF. GUYS R JERK ANYTYM ANYDAY

Na God fit help us o