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Oluwasaeon:
She will break your heart or you'll break hers.

i don't want a life where i'll look back and say "i've dated many girls before" no...i don't want...that's why i thought it's good to keep her alone.

I don't wanna get heartbroken in the end that's why i'm asking this question...i have this girl i'm dating,she always say she loves me...and she prays our relationship leads to marriage,and besides we just started our life...she is yet to gain admission,me too same.cos i know that the road that lies ahead is rough,that is the journey of life...i fear everything she is saying might not be true...

she is 19,i'm 21...i'm done with secondary education since 2016,yet to secure an admission...she finished 2018...we are working at the same place that's where we met...
for me not gaining admission doesn't mean i'm not brilliant...i had 212 in my first jamb(not my real score though) in 2016,2nd had 247,3rd had 248,4th had 259...i'm considering going for p.t next year...the person supposed to sponsor me passed away early last year...
PLEASE SAY THE TRUTH...I LOVE TRUTHS NO MATTER HOW PAINFUL IT SOUNDS.
Good people Advice Me.

donbachi:
she no pick for my front...no mean sey,she no go pick for my back.

i instantly thought about that.

Is it normal for your girlfriend to pick a male suitor call in your presence...the guy has been on her neck,she claims they are just friends...i just felt it's disrespectful for her to pick the guy's call in my presence even though they are not dating...my girl is just too friendly with guys...even people(boys) she just met.

The girl I'm currently with broke up with her man just to be with me, does that means she is in love with me or what?it has nothing to do with money...

yommyk222:
Mini importation business,
If you don't mind partnership with me you can message me

I mind sir...thanks

Which Business can I do online with 50k?

I don't have any WhatsApp notification app,and now someone sent me a message yesterday and deleted it back...and I really want to see the content of the message,is it still possible ?

If so, please show me.

Davash222:
90% of beautiful women don't have sense!

I swear na true

donstan18:
Why did you advice her to frown whenever she sees him?

she is my gf...though we just started

Nairalanders pardon my grammatical errors...


This girl happens to be my colleague at work...she told me how our boss asked her out...I told her to try to frown face whenever she sees him...

I was suprise when I saw that the boss gave her food in take away the following day and she collected it...
I was like wtf ... thought this girl said she is not into that man?

Dadaboy:
There is almost nothing beautiful about Religion. apart from the continuous deceptions, Prejudice, Illusions, chaos, undevelopement and foolishness it brings

Let me explain this way.

The reason you believe so much in God is because, by default, the mentality of humans has been altered to believe there a supernatural being up somewhere. (Including myself born into a Christian home till i found redemption)

If you choose to stop being the ignorant person, you would take your time (even if years) to understand the whole theory about life and how humans created God because they had no explanations or understanding how the world evolved.

As a Geographer and anthropologist, i will not waste my time on religious mentions because it’s almost impossible to explain to people who have had a wrong perception and believe for a donkey years

alaye there is God...shut up

GoTV:

remove that "born again Christian " from your siggy.

Monaco2:
Ok she is still young na

ok

Monaco2:
Ok, how old is she?!?

19

Monaco2:
Is she single?!?
Is she a student or she is already working?!? Cause if she is a student it may b she just want ur money

dating...

Mobree:
Really? And what has she done wrong?
SMH..

nothing...gonna free her

Mrmezico:
Am stil wondering d kind of men this nigeria is breeding 2day, a girl wave at u, u asked wht do u do, a girl shake hands wit u, u ask wht do u do, a girl smile u stil ask us wht do u do, very soon u wil be asking us if u re 2 breath or not wen a girl calls ur name....mumu

I no understand

Jewessgratitude:
She's not giving false hope cos she already told you. Shes only using you and since you're not putting up any resistance she'll only believe you're enjoying it hence she'll continue but if you dont want it. Then stop her the next time she tries it and tell her you have a girl friend and can't afford to be cheating on her, and see her reaction. But can you?

Just stop her from coming around you if she's not interested in a relationship with you as you are the one that is going to suffer it especially now that you know she doesn't have interest cos you'll start feeling unecessarily hurt and jealous. Which could lead you to do something despicable.

Avoid her!

ok then

Jewessgratitude:
Why?
Please dont do anything out of place. Ok? She hasn't committed any crime by not being attracted to you. Its a normal phenomenon. You can't force people to like you against their wish, it won't work.

She hasn't done anything wrong here rather you have been the one tormenting yourself unecessarily by getting too close and emotional to someone whom you have no idea what they feel for you. And to think she even gave you a hint which was clear enough to let you know nothing for you, but you still wanted to go ahead until I advised you against it. Now you want to seek revenge or what exactly do you mean by "she's in for it"? My dear, drop it. Exert your energy on something else.

but why is she giving me false hope?

Offpoint:
Those who kissed you as a baby, does it mean they were in love with you?

I sey make you check the meaning of friendzone, you dey tell me say she kissed you.... guy I go knack you jazz o

I don check am already...

Jewessgratitude:
Ah ah..what don't you understand? A girl who's into you will never tell you she wants to be just friends with you.

The reason she doesn't complain when you touch her is prolly cause she's enjoying it for now that there's no main boo.
She's still waiting for that main guy that meets her criteria. Sort of using you to pass time.

Try asking her her spec. Then see if you fall short or not. but if she refuses to tell you, run! It means she doesnt want you to know cause you dont fit in and might feel bad. So stick to being just friends like she said and get yourself someone that truly fancies you.

ok ma'am


She is in for it...I'll use the guys code for her

Offpoint:
I no fit talk am, but check dictionary.com for the word "Friendzone"

ok.

Offpoint:
Guys make I tell am?
Should I tell him?
Make I break the news?
Should I break the news?

break am o

Jewessgratitude:
Dont even waste your time.
The girl is just using you to catch feelings.

I don't understand in what way?

J111333:
Start treating her as your girlfriend and if she continues to misbehave, relegate her to the role of sidechick else you'll be friendzoned to the extent that you'll be making the bed she sleeps with her boyfriend on and switching on/off the lights for them.

wow... thanks boss...

J111333:
A girl kissed you deeply twice and you're still asking her to be your girlfriend?
Soon, she will sleep with and you'll still be asking her out.
These kids sef.

I don't understand

Jezyfreezman:
you are doing woranworan

...no mind me...na love

Jezyfreezman:
shot fire, man down!

meaning now?

Omar09:
Just look at you simping. After forcing yourself on her and she later finds another you will start crying fowl of how she cheated. If a girl you don't like forces herself on you how'd you feel?

Martinez39 looks like you didn't even do any job here. These people be flawing your efforts. Too bad.

Ps. To the OP. I need answer to that question bolded.

I will push her away