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tenderheart:
Thank u muchos...

you are welcome sir.

[quote author=tenderheart post=89725448]Really

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

pretend everything has turn upside down for you and see her true color.

fineboynl:
this guy must be really ugly and dating a fine girl. and to him he has won a trophy. the girl doesn't like him but only managing him. no matter what anyone say here it will never change anything. his investment on the said girl is the problem that will keep him attached for life. when you invest massively on a her. she start to misbehave because she has nothing to lose but gains. but whereas the guy who invest will be thinking about all the investment.

exactly what I thought

Emaprince:
If I don't put her on a pedestal, who will I put there?

May your sons never put you on a pedestal.

Amen... the girl is probably I'll mannered

Mhimi007:
what is beyond the physical

an invincible world surrounds us... believe bro... it's more than you can imagine... the spiritual world is around us.

Mhimi007:
athens is a greek city i think what you mean is atlantis btw it is a myth

its not a myth... see beyond the physical

ArticleBeast:
To shock you now, she is a prophetess. Like a real vision seeing prophetess....

You wan sell yours?

ok
good for her

ArticleBeast:
Anytime I am bleeping her... When it is close to when she want to cum she will be singing hymn or saying forgive me father for I have sinned. I asked her why, she said she used to see a man in white garment appear to her during sex.


I just ended the relationship codedly.

the girl is connected to demons (fallen angels)...

she can't be seeing Jesus or angels during sex...
dey don collect your destiny... go purchase another one

Brytesp:
Some Gospel Worship songs.... Cause it touches my soul worshipping God and i end up crying to my father

mine is tope alabi oluwa o tobi

Norphiee:
The ones you've met abh?

the girl I dated last carried that mindset

I dated a girl recently before we broke up(actually initiated it) ... all I fully observed about the girl is that she believes she can only escape poverty through marriage cos...she always say if she is dating a guy and things ain't moving well for him that she will leave that she won't suffer what her mum suffered in her dad's hands...

I've never hear her talk about using her own hands to make it... all she believes in his dat a rich man must marry her or she must marry a rich man...

I hear people say if a girl is your sister will you let her date a broke person... the question is must a girl always believe her only hope of survival is a man supporting her...don't dey have hands abi dey can't huzzle themselves cos I don't get.


pardon errors please.

Amotolongbo:
Yes Through rigorous exercise

hmmm...what!!! ?

just curious.. just curious..

[quote author=jeph19 post=88797007]Alright then no problem

jeph19:
Yes drop your mail so I'll send you prayer rain by Dr. Olukoya, it will help improve his prayer life

sir, please I also need prayer rain... my email ain't functioning, should I drop my whatsapp digits
...
please sir.

nairavsdollars:
No big deal in that. OP also engages in it

oh

donbachi:
We can analyze her statement...but her heart is what no man can analyze...use ur tongue and count ur teeth.

I DON'T UNDERSTAND

MycroftHolmes:
She already has options and can easily leave you at any point in time(or cheat if you eventually marry her).

You know why?
You've presented your self as a needy, spineless man who is wanted by no one else.

She likely doesn't have any unique feelings for you.. You're just there as an alternative plan, incase the others don't workout on time.

Just take heart and move on.

so you mean I should break up with her now?

AfroKnight:


Bro she is not satisfied with the level of your finances and is ready to jump ship when the opportunity comes. She has justified herself and is biding her time. When your period of grace elapses and you haven’t “set things right” in her own eyes, she will leave you.

Now I have a question for you. Will you double your hustle and enlarge your finances because of a mere girlfriend or because of yourself?

Some people would argue that she’s being real with you. Fine. Be real with yourself. Is that the kind of motivation you need?

i always tell her that if I say I will do it for her... I'll be lying, but I'll do it for myself... not cos of her

I told my girl through a chat on fb...that my instinct tells me she is still gonna leave me... here is her reply I copied and past

"Lol
Not at all
But I don't have it mind that it's a must we get married
But m always like if you are meant for me we will surely be together"...

that's exactly her reply... though she always tell me if I don't set things right in my life... she ain't gonna wait for me.


what does it mean, guys help me analyze that... I told my girl through a chat on fb...that my instinct tells me she is still gonna leave me... here is her reply I copied and past

"Lol
Not at all
But I don't have it mind that it's a must we get married
But m always like if you are meant for me we will surely be together"...

that's exactly her reply... though she always tell me if I don't set things right in my life... she ain't gonna wait for me.


what does it mean, guys help me analyze that...

dudusky007:
i just sent you 100k pls check and treat her immediately

lol...sakamania

AfroKnight:
He say na him friend.

Bro. Don’t you ever marry out of pity. She’s not pregnant for you sef. Nothing dey happen.

If you marry her because you don’t want to “disappoint” her, the both of you will be unhappy in that marriage. Las las una go come here come open thread before you divorce her.

If you want to break up, be honest with yourself and do it. Better now than when she sets trap for you and gets pregnant. And once you breakup, please don’t ever let her sleep over. Desperate girls can be stupîd. She fit stab you.

As for the curse. Sorry. You should have thought of that before sleeping with a virgin.

You don buy market. It’s about to get real bro. God be with you.

should i beg her before i break up with her?

ikh777:
OP, cut the crap.. .you are YOUR FRIEND. and that girl has trapped you.

Your lawless deek has led you into something very spiritual and DARK.

you may not know now, but you were wicked to have seen the girl's weakness or secret and used it to deflower her when you KNEW, you have nothing like LOVE INSIDE YOU... well the girl simply returned the favor.

You can go ahead and marry anyone else... or date any other lady... but the repercussion will be severe and you will eventually need deliverance or have to beg her to release you.


In this day and time, am still shocked intelligent people think HUMAN BEINGS are the highest intelligence in the universe.

she also deflowered the boy...cos she is the first person he ever have anything with.

my friend has this girl he deflowered...they have been dating for months,he said he was not really in love with her...said one day he collected her phone and saw porn videos on her phone,he said that's what triggered him to tell the girl he love her...he even kissed her as he told her,but she did not push him away or do anything...he said somehow they eventually had sex one day...he said even she even used to come to their house and they will do it...it now got to a stage that the girl will call he won't pick,sometimes he do call and go to her place...but that's whenever he feels like...there was a day the girl told him that she just finished cursing him now,and he showed up...she thought he has dumped her...also a day the girl don't him that he shouldn't even dare to think he can run away from her...

but the truth is that this girl loves my friend and respects him,MY friend has even cheated on her and she found out but still forgives him...but he kept asking hope there is no repercussion.

mattfeuter:
At 21, securing a girl’s love should be the least of your worries young man. Truth is, she’ll leave you sooner or later. Do you really want to go through that process?

NO [sup][/sup]