₦airaland Forum

princetom1:

hahahahahaha.....the kadun and kano fire golf.....see tales by moonlight.....hahahahahahaha

pls one more question...when asked about how much traffic I can bring. pls what do I answer on this one?

I registered with bounty cpa. saw some ads and was asked questions about how I intended going about the adverts and how much traffic I would generate. well,I answered to the best of my knowledge.till date I'm yet to get an ad request.what could I have answered wrongly

tiffanyfan:
Am a 200l student, I met this guy here on NL, though when we started I didn't tell him am 18, I told him am 24, I cooked up different lies for him, so that he won't see me as a teenager, but with time, I felt deeply in love with him and I think he felt the same way, though we have never slept together.

I decided to confess all my lies to him....which I did on Saturday, though he was angry initially but he later calm down and said I should come to his place today so that we can talk about the issue....av never been to his place b4, we only meet at public places. The problem now is he is threatening to call it quit if I did come to his house today, though I really love him but am not ready to go his house now. PLEASE NO INSULT

Don't go to his house...I smell a rat here. I suspect he wants to use the fact tou confessed to him as an advantage to bleep you. For the records...if he's threatening to call it quits just because you are reluctant to come to his house. Then he should go ahead. he doesn't love you. simple!!!

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

just calm down brov....give her a second chance. we all have done some cheating in the past we ain't proud of. I believe you should dialogue with her. if she is repentant. then let nothing hold you two back from tying the knot. Nobody is holy brov.....

jobless....people are thinking and planning of how to fend for themselves. able bodied young men are bush looking for who to satisfy their sexual desires on.

MissKim:
Please, Is Her Man Playing Her Or Just A Victim Of Circumstance?

HI

My girlfriend came to my house yesterday and during girls chit chat, she told me something that is kind of baffling to me.

She met this guy late 2015 on facebook and they later met in person. They have been in relationship since then till now. She told me she had 2 abortions for him last year immidiately she missed her period by taking a drug. He gave her his reasons, that he is not yet buoyant to foot pregnancy, baby, traditional marriage and that his place is too small to house relations that may want to visit.

She missed her period 4days ago and she told her boyfriend she will want to keep it and suggested him paying only bride price since he had the plan to marry her like he said, but he told her that, that will obstruct his plan to travel out by him making use of his budgeted money and also it is expensive for him now to keep to take care of pregnancy,mother and baby. He then suggested she starts taking unripe papaya, parsley leaves etc to miscarry since she just missed her period. She came to me feeling confused.

I told her if the guy truly loves her and want to make her future wife finances shouldn't be the problem...but in all, the decision is hers to make. It is obvious this guy is not that serious but may be wrong.

Just wondering how many of you would decide to marry their present girlfriend if such case presents itself. Though i do not support marriage because of pregnancy.

that n**ga is f**kn playing yout gullible friend. she would surely get dumped if she doesn't move on. As for the pregnancy.....my candid advice? keep it.

wished people can actually buy sense. well,all I see here is advertised assets....even when looking for a modelling job @ least be decent...kai!

over exaggerated news. is it topless or a show back clothing.she's not putting on a bra no doubt. but she's putting on a piece of cloth.Not decent though but not topless.

brov why bleeping a total upto 180 prostitutes. when you can bleep just one woman 180 times. anyway,summon up courage and go do a test. It still baffles me how this made front page news.

Nice concept...but sincerely hope this rubbish doesn't find it's way to nigeria

vchykp:
OP god it is watching you oh, always stingy with FTC.. i wonder what you want to do with that land..


i am from anambra, but i so much dispise this biafra thing, nigeria is still standin with one leg as a nation, instead of us to help us grow, we are planning to break out as though that is the solution, i bet you biafra supporters.. your problems will have a fresh begining if we venture into breaking up, we need nigeria as much as they need us.. "a bird in hand is worth more than 10million in the bush" lets make good use of what we have as a nation, let us help nigeria grow... tnx



quote me i slap u..!

nice one op. I'm also from anambra.but have never for one day supported this biafra movement.

[quote author=DanXplore post=60237853]Please, i could use some career advice from great nairalanders. Please tag monikers that you think would be of great help, as i am at a crucial point in my career.

I am a graduate of chemcal engineering but for 2years now, have not gotten any engineering related job. The only job i got was at KPMG (audit), which i resigned after 3 months due to some personal reasons. I am currently an Area Sales Rep with a poultry feed production company that pays 183k per month (net take home after tax and other necessary deductions), though i could use up to 20 to 25k to fuel my car monthly.
Now, i just got a PTDF scholarship offer to study Advanced process integration and design in UK but not really sure if it is worth ditching my current job for it.

I am not very confident about securing a job once i finish msc because only a handful of opportunities come for chemical engineers. more also,UK rarely retains Nigerians.

Please what are your advices, especially from those who have done Msc in Uk.

I need your advices, i dont want to make a costly mistake.

Its actually a good thing you got the chance to do MSC abroad.....but brov you really need to think twice before you leap. A salary of 183 no be joke o! There are online programs you could to to enhance your skills......

sorry to say but there is no credibility in this story. they were smooching....where? In a public place where I could see the body of a third person and the person who took the picture making 4. what's wrong if two people hug and laugh in an office? Madam didn't get her facts right because this pictures aren't enough proof.

people and captions eh.....somone who had been killed would lie without life na.......RIP to the dead......

very impressed.....beautiful and hardworking.....

hahahahahahahahahahahah, so,the pastor fought back? Well,funny enough the pastor has gotten a well deserved attention.......sleeping dogs are meant to be left alone

and this made front page.....chai!

dumb a** pastor

OP you are not yet mature for a serious relationship....this used to happen to me im my early 20's....I wonder how the made News(FP). what a waste of my time reading this......

op, I have a problem with this post....for 9 years you took your fiance to see your parents just once. And your mother kicked against your union.....op, for 9 years? Is this not wickedness on your side op? A girl that was with you through thick and thin. Don't you think you should have introduced her a long time ago? put yourself in your mom's shoes...how would you feel if it's you. I have nothing more to say other than you go and apologise to your mom and make her see reason why this girl is a rare gem....that's all I have to say about that

couldn't help but laugh.....though the guy get suit sha.....but dem shoes are a whole lot of comedy....hahahahaha......

cummando:
Where was it written in the constitution that killing of vulture as meat is a crime?

precisely, I still don't understand the crime he committed.......maybe a sacrilege....but not the type to put him in prison.....

cummando:
Where was it written in the constitution that killing of vulture as meat is a crime?

precisely, I still don't understand the crime he committed.......maybe a sacrilege....but not the type to put him in prison.....

this is an act of cowardice. What would the burnt houses benefit the .military men(soldiers). I mean na house kill una colleagues? it's crazy, stupid and senseless. and I repeat a sheer act of cowardice.....go after the culprits and not innocent civilians.......Rubbish

I really wish for the day everyone in nairaland would realise that its just one God that created us all......I weep most times when I read hate comments here. yet,we go to mosques and churches every Friday and Sunday. It makes no sense watching an hausa, yoruba and igbo man taking up deadly (mouth)weapons against each other here. Yet,that same person has a friend of the same tribes he's killing here outside of this platform.....it doesn't fit. I mean...I do mouth battles but I don't and will never do racism or tribal battles.....I'm igbo by tribe. but,I'm a NIGERIAN BY BIRTH.

wordproof:
Many of us don't understand the impact and efficacy of what we do here of Nairaland, most google search about Nigeria often refers u back to Nairaland, companies that would normally neglect your private massages and mails responds immediately once published on Nairaland.

I bet if we tone down the hate speech on Nairaland the whole country will follow...

We all should be glad KANU is speaking up against the Nigerian Elite and Cabal that would never understand the language of poverty, they have amassed enough wealth for their fourth generation...To perpetually manipulate you into fighting their battle online and offline...what a shame!!

We all need to learn to speak up, just like the OP demand your due, from the companies, from the Government and from your elders...

NIGERIA MUST RESTRUCTURE

BTW:
Oga u greedy ooo, u still write, still wan first me comment ni?

he's grateful brov especially for the impact of nairaland.......I'm impressed......I love NAIRALAND

thank God for the quick intervention o!

huawel tab.....wide screen

IFEANNYI:
I lost my dad on the 14th of August and ever since then my family relations have been trying to frustrate me, my mum and my sister, even to the extent of threatening my life.

How my Dad died.

My Dad had diabetes and fell sick when he travelled to the east, Anambra State. Fortunately he was with my mum when everything started, unfortunately my relations where also present. They debated on the best hospital to take him to, my mum suggested he returned back to Lagos where he had a specialist taking care of him, our family physician also advised the same but due to ignorance, my dads brothers and sisters took him to a maternity hospital, where he died few days later.

The first thing my relations did was to start spreading rumours that my mum, and we the children killed our dad. How? How?
A man we loved so much, although we had our little differences, just like every other family. But we loved him, I've never seen my sister cry so much until the day we lost him.
They took him to a maternity hospital and now turned back to point fingers?
But i'm not interested in accusing anybody.
I just want people to learn from my experience.

My Dad's elder brother has been the only one different in the whole issue.

I seriously think you should change the topic of this news to something that won't deceive people....How are you dealing with the relatives?Nothing of that sort was written here. Secondly,you said they are lazy on the caption and nothing was explained to us about this except the accusations that was levelled on your mom......it's funny....this story is just full of self pity and am sorry to say not even near the caption put up...All the same...take heart and handle it like a man would...don't lose your cool. it will be well.