₦airaland Forum

wittyt98:
furk!! that till wedding night bullshit

jashar:
Biko, don't take this the wrong way; but I love you.
Men like you are an encouragement that there are still sane and sound human beings in this world.

Thank you for rekindling hope in the humanity of today.

God, help us ooo....

naughtynaughty:
[s]ladies all over the world are always adviced to protect their Cookie ( Vajaja) till marriage. As it's usually written : close your legs tight like Mami water.

Ok fine, sounds cool but pls lets view dis scenario:

Let's say the very first time you sleep with your husband is on your wedding night.
What happens when your husband know little or nothing about sex?
What happens when your husband doesn't know even how to position himself in a missionary style/position?


What happens when you realize suddenly on that excited wedding night that you have finally entered one chance regarding sex? What happens when you suddenly realize you need to even show your husband where to put his penis, how to put it, how to sit on top of you, how to go in the upward and forward thrust, how to feel , how to touch you and where to even touch you? What will you do?
Will you ever ask or advice another woman to marry without sexually been active with the spouse ?


Do you know most men who insist on sex ONLY after marriage HAVE a somewhat problem sexually or physically ?


This scenario can be more bad when d bride isn't a virgin..cos this can mke d lady to start looking out for someone that can satisfy her. I know some pple will come here and say
They wuld pray and fast for him to start learning, listening and knowing sex and understanding intimacy in marriage. What if he is impotent?

How do you pray for a miracle to happen so that a man learns the act of sex?

Personally can u practice no sex till after marriage? Will u advice anyone to practice it? Pls share ur view

Cc lalasticlala[/s]

BeardedMeat:
To answer your question, yes it will work for them again and again due to their homogeneous nature. The south can never speak with one voice because they have constituted themselves into little little presure groups to be selected and used by the north to achieve whatever aim they have in mind at any given time. Once a portion of the south is invited to come and chop by the north, it abandons whatever quest and agitation it hither espoused as a way forward for the common good, but once the opportunity ends, it goes back to its former position. And the next time, the strong north would look for another ally and it goes on and onwe have gone past the stage of asking the south to unite against a domineering north because it will never happen.
The solution to end the deepning ethnic mutual suspicion and its attendant retarded economic maturity is to go back to true fiscal federalism where the federating zones will be the architect of their own destinies.

omenka:
See guity conscience. Who don mention Igbos here??

Dragonking:
Real niger deltan militants dont give ultimatums!!

We already know who these clowns are, but why use our niger delta struggle hide your true self. Make dem continue sha

omenka:
Did I read that they gave him an ULTIMATUM to apologise??

I had my doubts who these guys were, but with the ultimatum I'm very sure who they are.

omenka:
Did I read that they gave him an ULTIMATUM to apologise??

I had my doubts who these guys were, but with the ultimatum I'm very sure who they are.

swaggzo:

HUMANS GET TREATED BETTER WHEN THEY'RE DEAD, OR YOU DON'T KNOW?

THEY BOOKED BUS FOR THEM WHEN THEY WERE ALIVE,

NOW DEAD, THEY FLY FIRST CLASS!

MirabelArode:
The good thing about this whole current political situation in nigeria is that the saboteurs are revealing themselves without anyone pushing them.

When people say Igbos can sell their brothers for money and power, they are talking about men like Dave Umahi, Rochas etc. Unfortunately there is now a price for being a saboteur in the East. Ask Rochas why his Blood pressure has shot up since Radio Biafra became popular. He no longer talks much later.

If any life is lost in Ebonyi to fulani herdsmen, DAVE UMAHI SENT THE HERDSMEN TO KILL THEM. Simple!

MrFairplay4ume:
Innalillahi was inna illahi rajiun may Allah grant them Aljannah. Condolences to their parents!

Aegon:
There goes the head of the Fulani Caliphate. The main beneficiary of British One Nigeria. Of course if Nigeria splits your jihad against the south will become more impossible, your throne will be ursuped by the Tuaregs and Kanuris and Boko Haram will overrun you. Your views are nothing new, the British rigged the whole system to favour you since 1956.

DaBullIT:
Cows don't just go missing

but since some news said Agatu people killed fulanis and their cows

I knew this will get out of hand



i said some unscrupulous elements will hijack the situation


so will fulani agree to forget their 80 cows ? that's if any cow is missing


and will the community produce those who stole the said cows ??


It's definitely going to get out of hand

bicmitchum:
This is a point in my life where I really need other opinions about my pending decision.
Here are the points:

-I graduated first class some years ago after completing studies at the University of Lagos
-Secured numerous masters admission with and without scholarship and intended to go for masters immediately, but got an attractive job offer with an oil multinational. Took the job offer.
-I've worked now about 4+ years with this multinational and the going has been incredibly terrific. Even with the incredible layoffs in my company and in the oil industry, it looks very likely I'll continue to keep my job.
-Every year I have continued to apply for masters in universities abroad given my intention to really acquire a masters and possibly a PhD degree. Never once accepted any of the offers I have been getting. Simply ignored them. As the years rolled by, the offers are no longer coming as usual. I'm getting turned down by schools.
-This year I have now obtained an offer to complete my masters at the No.1 ranked university in Canada, my desired destination. The only offer I got among the top schools I applied to. No scholarships.
-I'm yet unentitled to study leave

Here's the question: do I quit my job and go complete this masters in a really reputable school or do I stay back in Nigeria and continue slugging it out in the oil industry? Who knows what will come of the industry as the oil price continues to flutter? Who knows how my future might turn out if I leave to go chase the masters?

Here's my decision: Work is getting boring as time races on. I'm not getting any younger. I'm in my very late twenties. I should quit, go chase my masters and embrace any uncertainty that may come out of that. If I'm unable to secure an attractive job I'll go with academics for life whether in Canada or in Nigeria. I might even secure a Canadian citizenship. Canada is a lovely destination where I don't mind spending a large chunk of my life.

My worry: I have a comfortable life here. Why shake the bottle? Why stir the pot? Racism is still rife in these "white" countries. My life could get unbearable mixing in a culture I'm not familiar with.

Any inputs, please.

sparrowkid:
[s]@Omenka

I want to sincerely appreciate you for your thoughts, beliefs and actions. Even though we've never met or may never even meet, you strike me as a great personality that is worthy of note. You have been taunted, insulted, provoked, ridiculed, sneered at, reviled, held with disdain, scorned, etc, but all in all you have never lost your cool. You took time to explain yourself to whoever cares to listen to your own side of the story, and try as much as possible to still retain your sanity in the face of unwarranted confrontation. You're one hell of an enigma! I ask, how on earth is it still possible for you to maintain your cool in all this madness, my brother?

However, I want to advise you, stop flogging a dead horse. Some of these characters you are dealing with are psychologically challenged. Some of them are suffering from narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and correcting them is a huge task. Despite staggering evidence against them, they will still try to justify their abnormal behaviour because they only see from their own perspectives only. That is why they sound contradictory in most cases. All you just have to do is pity them and pray for them so that they can be cured of their ailments.

Cheerio! Mon ami [/s]

udatso:
"The Fulanis" is a general term representing all Fulanis.. ...
If you aren't calling them terrorist, then why the article on them been the 4th deadliest terrorist.? Even when Omenka tried to correct you that it's not all Fulanis, you said and I quote

He tried to correct you here that in the article you quoted, what was mentioned was Fulani militant group
Maybe you didn't mean to generalise but your posts suggest so

MAROC:
Lol! When you've been cornered, this is what you resort to.

So "Civilised" fulani people are the ones carrying out these attacks?? Lol! Chronic case of zombeism.

Who else among the various sub-ethnic groups of the Fulanis could be carrying out these attacks if not the nomads/herdsmen?

Guy take your head out of where APC has it bro! Will power is very important!

omenka:
[s]Bla bla bla bla bla... Show proof ontop your own source, you no fit.

Now it has become a "bottom line" thing, an "inferential" deduction and no longer a categorical statement of fact as quoted. from your own source!

Bye mr Fulani Herdsmen are the forth bla bla bla. [/s]

udatso:
You have to resist the urge and temptation of lumping all Fulanis together and tarring them with the same brush

omenka:
Oga ooo!!! Highlight just Fulani Herdsmen for me.

Can you guys see what hatred has done to you?? Your mind has been twisted to see what it wants to see and not what is actually on display.

You keep insisting they listed "Fulani Herdsmen" yet you can't show me where they said "Fulani Herdsmen".

Smh.

omenka:
Lol. You just gave yourself a head-shot.

Please, show me where it is written on that article in QUOTE that Fulani Herdsmen, as you put it, are ranked as the second deadliest terror group in the world.

Just a quote my brother...