WORDWORLD:



MY DEAR BROTHER, LET ME TELL YOU A TRUE LIFE STORY OF AN UNCLE WHO FOUND HIMSELF IN YOUR SHOES. HIS WIFE KEPT DENYING HIM SEX FOR NO JUSTIFICATION AT ALL. JUST FLIMSY EXCUSES, LIKE MOOD SWING, HEAD ACHE, TIREDNESS AND E.T.C

WELL, HIS GRAND DAD GOT TO HEAR ABOUT IT AND PROBED INTO THE MATTER.

THE NEXT LINE OF ACTION BY HIS GRAND DAD WAS TO TOE THE PATH OF TRADITION. HE WENT TO THE VILLAGE AND BROUGHT BACK WITH HIM SIX BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADIES HAVING FIRM BREASTS, AND SEXY CURVES, VERY SEXUALLY APPEALING. HE INSTRUCTED HIS GRANDSON, MY UNCLE TO CHOOSE TWO OUT OF THE 6 TO MARRY. MEANING TO MARRY TWO MORE WIVES IN ADDITION TO THE FIRST.


MY UNCLE OBEYED HIS GRANDPA, BUT CHOSE ONLY ONE. HE MARRIED A SECOND WIFE.

GUESS WHAT REALLY HAPPENED AFTERWARDS?!

SINCE, HIS FIRST WIFE USE TO ALMOST ALWAYS DENY HIM SEX EXCEPT HE BEGS AND BEG, HIS ASSUMPTION WAS THAT SHE WOULD CONTINUE TO DO SO. BUT HE GOT THE SURPRISE OF HIS LIFE.


WHEN EVER IT IS HER TURN FOR HIM TO SLEEP IN HER APARTMENT, HIS MIND WAS ALREADY MADE UP TO ALLOW HER BE, HENCE HE WILL JUST TURN ASIDE AND SLEEP OFF, HOPING HER TURN WHICH LAST 3 DAYS AND 3 NIGHT WILL SOON BE OVER AND HE WILL RETURN TO HIS SECOND WIFE AND GET HIS SEXUAL DESIRE FULFILLED.

SURPRISINGLY, IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHTS, THIS SAME FIRST WIFE WOULD WAKE HIM UP, DEMANDING FOR SEX FROM HIM, THE SAME SEX SHE HAD VERY MANY TIMES DENIED HIM IN THE PAST. BUT NOW SHE IS EVEN THE ONE WAKING MY UNCLE UP THAT THEY SHOULD HAVE SEX. AND SO HE WILL TEASE HER THAT HE IS TIRED AND NOT IN THE MOOD.

SHE BECOMES VERY ANGRY AND STARTS, LAMENTING, TELLING HIM HOW UNFAIR HE IS TO HER, THAT SHE IS VERY SURE THAT HE NEVER GOES A NIGHT WITHOUT HAVING SEX WITH HIS SECOND WIFE WHEN IT IS HER OWN TURN TO STAY IN HER APPARTMENT. BUT WHENEVER HE COMES TO HER ROOM, HE BEHAVES AS IF SHE IS NOTHING TO HIM

BAFFLED BY THIS DEVELOPMENT, HE TOLD HIS GRAND DAD.

HIS GRAND DAD'S RESPONSE WAS BREATHTAKING..............(will tell you later am running out of battery, just managed to post this)

Which novel did you get this from?

ImaIma1:
OP you have no choice than to manage the situation. A lot of women keep citing the excuse of not being in the mood. If you want to live according to mood, some of us won't go to work or do what we are supposed to do.

I might sound insensitive but I don't think we should let our moods control us.

This is brilliant input.

If we take our decisions based on mood then there will be real trouble in this world.

How many times do you feel like going to work for instance?

Ishilove:

Nackson.

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crackhaus:

If you know you can't manage, better just go and keep one shenkes on the side for the culture.

Even the 3 days a week, are you sure you will get that much?
I just pity you...

Wetin man go do nah.

descarado:

Eziokwu

Na wetin nah?

Petyprincess:
Hope you not 2 minutes man?

It seems both if you are incompatible sexually
Hope you are romantic? Most married nigerian men stopped being romantic after marriage,most men just wants to enter field without clearing the bush

Please teach me how to clear bush, I want to learn.

Ishilove:

Oga you sef will have to compromise a little bit. If you like nacking 5 days in a week, reduce it to three and have an agreement with her to adhere to the agreed number of days. Marriage na compromise o

I will see if I can manage 3 days a week.

Ishilove:
You obviously have a higher libido than her. Like thorpido pointed out, she needs someone to talk sense into her head because she is not going about it the right way.

I don't know why some married women make it difficult for their husbands that have decided to stay faithful.

pozehnani:


Hmm.. it's mood. I can perfectly understand her cos she's just like me. I don't feel up to it until around my menstrual period, few days before and after then the mood dies off again. It's not our fault. Thats what the body does to us.

Well.. like I said, bear with her but if you can't wait till shes in the mood, then encourage her to eat lots of chocolates. It sets one in the mood at all times. This is what I discovered so I won't deprive my man when the time comes cos at some point I was worried and went into research where I found this.

It's well dear.

Thank you. Chocolates? Too much of that won't be good for your health don't you think so?

Munzy14:

ooh!!!....
Person go deh chop anytime while single, but start begging when married.

These women make it difficult for men that want to stay faithful

Munzy14:

Oga talk to her one on one, this one na punishment.

I have done so many times that's why I said I am tired.

thorpido:
She must have a reason which you need to find out.
Is it denial for one day or continuous denial?

There's always drama. Why can't I approach my wife and have sex? Drama today, tomorrow until when she senses the strain in our relationship she will then agree. I am tired of the cycle

pozehnani:
It could be mood swings. Just try and bear with her. Also try to find out if something is bothering her.

There's usually drama before we have sex. I will try first day, she will push me away, second day, the same until when she feels she is ready she will then start behaving well. I can't continue like this.

Tabasco23:
I'm saying this a joke.........CHEAT

I just don't understand. And she monitors me like wetin.

Ishilove:
What's her reason for refusing?

She will say sex is not food. In the night she will say she is very tired, early in the morning she will say she has prayers or have things to attend to in the house.

Husbands, how do you handle it when your wife denies you sex?

I am tired.

Toks2008:
No one knows the day and time for the rapture but the Bible clearly gave prophecies that points to the period when the rapture and the second coming of christ will take place.

A peace deal or covenant between Isreal and Arab states will usher the world into the final 7years preceding the unveiling of the antichrist, the great tribulation, the rapture, the war of Armageddon and the second coming of Jesus to take over the world government and he will rule the world for 1000years.

But before I continue, it is very important that we read the passages in the bible that talks about this...

Daniel 9:24-27 gives us a sweeping, end-times prophecy from Christ’s first coming to His Second Coming.

Here is the passage:
“And he shall confirm the covenant with many for one week: and in the midst of the week he shall cause the sacrifice and the oblation to cease, and for the overspreading of abominations he shall make it desolate, even until the consummation, and that determined shall be poured upon the desolate.“ (Daniel 9:27)

Jesus makes vivid reference to this time period in Mark 13 vs 14-25.

So in essence, the sequence of events will begin with Isreal making a peace agreement with many Arab nations and one of many peace agreements or convenant that will be made by Isreal with many Arab states was signed at the White House on the 15th of September 2020.

But there are still more nations to come under the peace agreement expecially Palestina states and a peace agreement with Palestine will be the major time clock for the second coming of christ cos once a peace covenant is made between Isreal and Palestina states, the final 7years to the rapture, tribulation and second coming of Christ will start counting.

A peace covenant between Isreal and Palestina states will create a two state solution allowing the Jews who stay in the west Bank to stay out there under Palestina rule, and it will allow Isreal to build a third temple cos the peace agreement will place the Temple Mount under a sharing agreement.

The peace treaty between Isreal and Palestina states will be for 7years and in the first three and half years, Isreal will be allowed to build a temple, start the animal sacrifices as it was done in the old testament to atone for the sins of Isreal.

The one world government will be gaining power rapidly during these three and half years and the world will yield to the rulership of the one world government. This is the period the antichrist will be revealed.

In the middle of the 7years peace agreement between Isreal and the Palestina states, when the temple would have been built and the regular activities are going on in the temple, the antichrist will suddenly put an end to these activities and enter the temple to to proclaim himself as GOD... thereby fulfilling the prophecy of "The abomination that causes desolate standing in the most holy place" and then the great tribulation starts for the last three and half years with the mark of the beast forced on people.

With the first set of peace covenant signed between Isreal and few Arab countries in the White house on tuesday, all we need to watch out for is a peace covenant between Isreal and Palestina States which we don't know exactly when it will be actualized but as soon as this happens and it will surely happen very soon, we should start counting the days to the rapture and the second coming of christ.

If you are yet to have jesus as your lord and saviour, please do this moment because his coming is near than ever before.
https://unitedwithisrael.org/new-dawn-israel-signs-peace-treaties-with-arab-states-at-white-house-ceremony/

Pastor Chris has told us that the rapture will happen within the next 10 yrs or thereabout. Now that we know that the end of the world is around the corner what next with life? Is there any need saving your money for your children, going for that lengthy course, planning for a long-term business, etc?
The best thing now is to eat and enjoy all you have within the short time left for this world to exist as we know it. What do we think? Max is 10yrs.

In all of these, at what point will the rapture take place? Before the seven years, within or after?

Pastor Chris has told us that the rapture will happen within the next 10 yrs or thereabout. Now that we know that the end of the world is around the corner what next with life? Is there any need saving your money for your children, going for that lengthy course, planning for a long-term business, etc?
The best thing now is to eat and enjoy all you have within the short time left for this world to exist as we know it. What do we think? Max is 10yrs.

Bighead9:
Igbo's can never rule this Country. Let them continue chest beating on Nairaland.

we can never allow them.


Quote me anywhere.

Hopeless eediot. Who are you?

Odemok:
No she is right. There could be other ways to have sex with his wife than coming here to tell us he is sex starved. What happened to a couple of rounds when the kids are sleeping? What happened to doing it very early in the morning? What happened to a quickie when the kids are busy with cartoon in the living room? This is why he has to be the alpha male. Invent other ways to kill a rat in your house bros. Leave your wife to take care of the kids as it should be while you think of ways to get collect the sex from her. IMPROVISE!

You are an eeediot

jenifer007:


Madam you are very wrong with your analysis.... Once you are married even your kids must not be a barrier when it comes to satisfying your man.....A reasonable married woman must know how to balance the equation....

That woman is a big foool.

Vortex369:


[s]Well, your last line was a question: What I think?

Are you sure you really want to know what I think?

Since you asked for it, then I have to tell you what I think and the reason for my conclusions.

I think you are stupid, and I am not joking. I think you are one of the stupid husbands who have no idea what Fatherhood means and what being a real man in your home entails and how to be a husband to your own wife.

The reason I think you are stupid, is because at this stage in your Life, when your wife is strugggling real hard to bond with the young kids you still are worried about your silly sex life.

You have failed to be an alpha male, a real man, a true husband, who will cuddle his wife and his children and generate happiness for your wife. What bothers you is sex. Do you have any idea that it is sex that brought those children to this world, and when they come, you now sound as if those kids are inconvenience for your silly sex life. Do you even know how silly it sounds?

My advise is that you grow up. Call your wife and kiss her then apologize for complaining about Sex, and move into your bedroom and nurse those children to reach an age of grace.

It is not you that should be complaining of sex dimwit. If your wife needs sex, then become creative, you can make move in the kitchen, bathroom, toilet, under the bed and even at the BQ for a change.

You must not come here and lament about this nonsense again.

Do we not have real men again in this forum that will chastise these Indomie men?

Take charge of your home and bear all inconveniences. Life is not a place for perfect joy and happiness. Embrace the sorrows and pains[/s].

You are actually a very st.upid woman for writing this rubbish.

A wife should not allow her children take the place of their father.

Do you know what sex means to a man?

You're an iidiot for calling the OP stu.pid

Animal.

QuotaSystem:


Presidency is not on demand.

The SE has burnt too many bridges to be able to earn winning votes in Nigeria.

Just facts.

It is only a question of time then because you cannot hold down a big ethnic group like the Igbos for too long.

QuotaSystem:


The PDP are the originators of zoning. Their failure to respect zoning in 2011 when they denied the North the opportunity to finish its turn by forcing Jonathan on the party as a scam "consensus candidate", was the main reason for their defeat in the 2011 Presidential elections (as even disgruntled northern PDP members, including the chairman, worked against GEJ) which signaled the beginning of the party's downfall that they're still struggling to recover from.

PDP will therefore not dare repeat their 2011 mistake by denying the south its turn in 2023. APC is also fielding a SW candidate with the support of its CPC & ANPP northern wing (despite SW splitting votes ) .

It is only fair for power to move south after 8 years of northern Presidency. This country is on a delicate balance and we know an attempt to dominate the Presidency for 16 years is a recipe for national chaos, so we will definitely support the south.

2023 will be very interesting.

If the north truly cares about the unity of Nigeria then they should support the SE to produce the next president. That is the right thing to do.

If power is to return to the south it shouldn't go to the SW. It's time for the SE to produce a Nigerian president.

Hello

Ikechunna:


Recall I told you igbo denials in our community predominately seek attention and your back and forth with them does nothing more but feed that attention seeking. The best way to deal with Igbo deniers and I'm saying this to all SE Igbos is mockery or flat out ignoring them. I'm glad you're not engaging them as usual. Just ignore them, don't waste your time debating them because you're pretty much feeding their non existent ego.

I think I will adopt your suggestion.

He should go and sit down. Rubbish and nonsense.

Pazienza

pazienza:


I am not a fan of Zik.
But I don't see any wrong in his move to the East. You only see wrong in it because he is Igbo. And I ask, if he was the most capable hand for the post, why should his ethnicity matter? Is this the type of Biafra we want to create?
The Biafra where we would sacrifice competence,
at the altar of carrying unwilling partner along. Remember this was how Zik got it in his mindset that the North was essential to Igboland and must remain in same geographical entity with Ndiigbo, even if it meant relegating Ndiigbo to backseat and handing all power to the North.

You later day Biafrans should watch it. I see similar trait in you as in Zik you are castigating.

In Zik era, the North had no interest in Nigerian independence, they preferred an arrangement under British colonialism.
The Niger Delta I know today are not interested in Biafra/Independence from Nigeria. They mostly want a renegotiated Nigeria (call it resource control or restructuring) under the Fulani control.

Zik was infatuated with the North vast arable mineral rich lands and felt it was a necessity for Igboland to stay attached to the North if we must become great.
The IPOB led Biafrans are infatuated with the sea coasts and crude oil wealth of Niger delta, and are today erroneously thinking we can't be great without staying attached to them. It's same Zik myopia.

Zik set out to do everything possible including happily playing the ceremonial role to woo the North into accepting Nigeria with Ndiigbo.

The Biafrans under Ipob are doing same. They will take all sorts of poo and insults from minorities, in senseless bid to keep them part of Igboland. You yourself are already conditioning Ndiigbo to accept ceremonial role in Biafra, if only to keep the minorities in it.


The North were comfortable with colonial Nigeria, but would gladly accept driver seat of new Nigeria that Zik and co fought for with their blood.

The Niger deltans are proudly one Nigerianists, but would gladly accept Biafra if Ndiigbo can guarantee them front seat and accept backseat, they will not fight or shed blood for Biafra with you. Yet They don't want share power in Biafra with you. To this end, the Capital of Biafra must be in Minority territory and not Igboland, and the leader of this Biafra must not be Igbo.Anything else on the contrary would be Igbo domination and God forbid they be part of it.
The minorities would rather stay in Nigeria under Fulani than share power in Biafra with Igbos. Don't even talk about Igbo becoming the first Biafran president of Biafra or in charge of Biafra.

The Nigeria Zik negotiated in bid to carry along unwilling partners in the North, was the one that condemned Unborn Igbo generations to a position in which they have to fight again for freedom from Fulanis.

The type of Biafra Ipob and all Igbos who are proposing a multi ethnic Biafra will bequeath us, will bequeath us with, will be one in which our Unborn generations would still one day have to fight to free themselves from the minorities.

It is not enough typing this here, please find a way of sending this message to that Nnamdi Kanu. His pattern and style is the reason why many intelligent Igbos have disowned him.

Kanu all the way from far away Britain, sat down and drew a map of Biafra without any consultations whatsoever. Just imagine all the insults we get from the minorities just because of this Kanu and his lunatics.

It is very difficult having a reasonable conversation with IPOB members. I am wondering the kind of country they are trying to Form. It is definitely not the kind I want for myself and children unborn.

Thanks.