mrex911: Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls. I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years. I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail. I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that; I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again. It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years. Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power. I always fill sad and empty afterwards. I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here. Pls help a brother. U advice will be appreciated.
Oga, stop praying.
1. Tell someone about it. Someone you see everyday. 2. Keep your mind busy with good thoughts. Think of how to succeed in life. 3. Don't allow yourself to be alone all the time. 4. When it's 9pm....switch off your data or switch your phone off and sleep. Better still do away with smart phone for like 6months. 5. Pray to God to bless your sincere effort.
There is a tiny line between love and hate. Once you start hating these dirty habits, you're getting victorious.
mrex911: Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls. I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years. I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail. I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that; I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again. It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years. Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power. I always fill sad and empty afterwards. I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here. Pls help a brother. U advice will be appreciated.
AandGee: It's Grammy season, the time to celebrate nominations of our favorite Nigerian artists. Sadly, only one Nigerian artist made it to the 2021 Grammy nomination list. And that is the self-acclaimed African Giant, Burna Boy. His recent album, Twice as Tall was nominated under the Best Global Music Albumillioory.
Davido fans have been asking the one millionn dollar question, why has Davido never been nominated for a Grammy award, why wasn't he nominated for the 2020 grammy, and again the 2021 grammy?
Well, watch the video below, as we answer this question.
The quality of music is what the problem is. Listen to Burnaboy's lyrics and you will understand. That guy is deep. His music cut across borders. Songs that can make you sit and think. His songs bring the realities in the world into our headphones.
Can you say that about the other guy's music. Ariwo no be music ooo
MeeztaFabulouz: It is really terrible to feel suicidal all because of marriage. I use use to see different news of how people commit suicide because of relationships and I always felt it was so stupid to think of suicide just because of a fail relationship.
Now I have seen it all clear that depression is really very bad especially when you feel so depressed in a marriage you work so hard and do everything to protect and make your family happy. Its very painful when you know honestly inside your heart that you don't cheat on your wife, provide everything she wants for herself and the kids even when business is quite rough.
She has no conscience and no regard for our union and our home. I am a guy that don't think about looking at wife's phone or suspecting her for anything but then after our first child she changed completely and as of today I don't know were I stand anymore because of my kids. I opened a business for her just so that she won't be like a house wife but she has completely taken the business more important than the family and wake up 4am to start cooking and close 8pm at night. Stressing herself so much but always complaining business is not moving and she is not making any money.
I sponsor everything in the home though am not complaining because that's what a man should do, but she does not have regard for anything or appreciate anything I do. Can you imagine I give her money for feeding weekly even though she is running a food business, she buys few food stuffs in the house which can stay almost two weeks without us eating them because we basically feed from food she cooks in her restaurant. I decided not to bother myself and just give her money to always ensure her business is moving and at least food will not be a problem for us.
One faithful day, I decided to check her phone because I observed a certain strange behavior about her and how she likes to off her phone at night or sometimes when I am around. I saw different chats with some two guys she claimed one was her ex boyfriend that just likes to check on her once in a while, and the other guy was someone I remember like coming to eat in her restaurant but she said they went to school together and he is working with a construction company doing a building project close to her restaurant. She also claimed that when they were in school he was asking her out even till they fished school but she preferred her ex boyfriend to him and when she had issues with her ex that was when I came into her life.
If the story she told me is true or not, I wasn't really bothered anymore because I know its normal for a woman you met at 26 years to have met other guys before you and obviously still has guys that don't respect people's marriage and still do anything to sleep with a married woman. But my paid now is because I feel so respected by many of the things she does and when I think of divorce, I only feel for my kids who will now have to grow up with another man or having to visit their mum and see her with another man.
Recently I have become so depressed that I have been thinking of suicide so that my kids will know their dad is no more rather than knowing that their dad is still alive but can only be with either daddy or mummy and not as a complete family. My depression is getting worse especially when I think about all I have done for her and the kids just to always make them happy but in return, she doest appreciate or even have any regard anymore for what is called "FAMILY"
Over 7 years now and at this point I really feel suicidal. Please I really need help because I make this big mistake.
So, you know it will be a mistake if you kill yourself, right?
Oga, life is hard but it's beautiful. Take a time off. Travel to beautiful places. Meet new people. Move closer to God. There's more to life than how people treat us. Your happiness is not dependent on anybody but YOU! Take care of yourself first. You will pull through and if you have concrete evidence that she has been sleeping with these guys. The Bible allows you to get rid of her and get yourself a beautiful and responsible woman to marry again.
Taiwoa990: Zion, the child of Toni Payne and Nigerian singer, 9ice was blown away when he saw the new PS5 in the bag his mother got him on his birthday
With the PS5 being the highly sought after gift any man could get, Zion was lost for words as he dug the contents in the bag only to find the console beneath
benjackugo: A lady who was wrongly arrested and extorted by a police squad attached to the LASTMA Enforcement Unit, has gotten her money, IgbereTV reports.
The General Manager of LASTMA, Mr. Olajide Oduyoye said the lady got her money back on Tuesday December 1 after an investigation. He disclosed that the police squad attached to the LASTMA Enforcement Unit went to enforce the law on one-way driving without LASTMA personnel.
peacekante: A curvey Lady who has fantasized about having sex with NIGERIA music superstar Wizkid has offered sex to him. The Beautiful curvy Lady said her body and shape belong to Wizkid. In her word she said.
I have been liking Wizkid way back in secondary school, but now that I am a fat ass bitch, I still like him. Look at that ass, I don't mind giving it to Wizkid Ayo balogun. Wizkid, get in here let phuck shit up.
damosky12: Read to understand. This was an expression. The expression is pellucid enough. I'll help you.
Here is what is written:
"I speak with tongues more than you all. Yet, in the church, I pray more in understanding so that I can edify others."
He is clearly saying that it is key to pray in tongues. He does it more than a tone else. However, be is more committed to edifying others in the church by speaking to them in understanding.
In his prayers, he prayed in tongues. In the church, he spoke to the people to edify and instruct!
Hope you get...
No, I don't get?
Why did he pray in that gibberish language and who is there to interpret?
damosky12: Read Bible in context. Don't pick verses out of context.
Interpretation is necessary only when the unlearned is/are present.
Praying in tongues is beneficial to you. However, you may need to interpreted it to bless another person.
1 Corinthians 14:4-5,18-19 [4]He that speaketh in an unknown tongue edifieth himself; but he that prophesieth edifieth the church. [5]I would that ye all spake with tongues, but rather that ye prophesied: for greater is he that prophesieth than he that speaketh with tongues, except he interpret, that the church may receive edifying... [18]I thank my God, I speak with tongues more than ye all: [19]Yet in the church I had rather speak five words with my understanding, that by my voice I might teach others also, than ten thousand words in an unknown tongue.
Read to understand and learn. God bless you!
First, the world has advanced pass all these seeith picketh spaketh. The word of God is more easier to understand now.
You knocked yourself by including that verse 19. You people should stop speaking gibberish. It's nonsense.
He said "If I speak in Tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I'm becoming sounding brass, or a clanging symbols. In short noise maker.
Do you not understand what he was teaching here. He is saying even if he can speak all the languages of humans on earth and can even speak that of angels and he does not love, that everything is useless.
Nuttella: We have two types of tongues, tongues of men and tongues of angels. no human being can interpret tongues of angels/angelic tongues. Only angels and God knows the mystery behind it. Someone can be speaking angelic tongues and you will be busy calling the person a noise maker.
LOL! Tongues of Angels?
I dare you to show me where the Bible mentioned that.
Chai! Where on earth did you people get all these lies?
I dare you to quote me a scripture that ever mentioned tongues of the angels.
Did you ever read the post? Why will you tell me not to mind them when what the Bible says is glaring? It very easy to identify the truth. Are you saying what that OP said is a lie?
MichaelPoem002: Actually, it's more advisable praying in tongues when you're alone—with God—just you and Him alone. It's more power filled there. It can also be spoken when the whole church burst into it, there's a unitedness to it. For example, there's an "intense" service going on, the Holy Ghost descends and reactions follow; some get slained while some burst into tongues and also, they are others who get gifts apart from "tongues".
chatinent: Engaging in speaking some crazy words wasn't what was done in bible times.
What is done today is a borrowed madness.
Tell them.
Apostle Paul said if someone has the gift of speaking in tongues, then someone must be there to translate. Who has ever translated that gibberish they speak?
jaybenugo: 'Agbani Darego Did Not Bleach Or Surgically Enhance Herself. Yet, She Is Married, Has a Child' - Reno Omokri
Reno Omokri took to his Instagram page on Thursday morning, November 26 to throw jabs at women who bleached their skin and surgically enhanced their bodies, IgbereTV reports.
Using former Miss World, Agbani Darego-Danjuma as an example, the former presidential aide averred that women do not have to bleach or undergo surgical enhancement to be pretty.
According to him, Agbani did not bleach her skin or undergo surgical procedure and she still ended up getting married, having a child, and is a ''source of joy to herself and her race.''
Ekundayo7574: Ozo's choice of outfit lately makes him trend and at the same time, his getting backlash from his fans for what he is wearing. The light skin big brother Naija ex housemate don't look bothered, as he keeps wearing what he feels comfortable in. Ozo who was one of the the strongest housemate I'm the 5th season of the big brother Naija reality show.
The picture above was what Ozo was seen wearing that got him lot of backlash, he decided to wearing something more longer but still the trolling didn't stop. Facebook user identified as Bright said "Ozo upgraded from bum short to leggings"
@enna said "if I catch my man wearing a leggings like that, we are done"
@alpha said "what is this guy wearing"
@enioluwa said "what kind of trouser is this guy always wearing"
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Christianity Etc › Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Maximus85(m): 10:26am On Dec 13, 2020
