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Am a working class guy who is in a serious relationship, I mean my folks love this lady and I have introduced her to the people that matter in my life, its needless to say peeps are expecting us to get married in the nearest future but I have serious issues with my woman which makes me think I cant go through with this. To start with, she is damn too quiet, I mean its scary the way I tell her very sensitive things and she has almost nothing to say, at a point I had to stop telling her about my challenges at work simply because she wont say anything significant. She doesn't do this intentionally but she ain't just good with words. On to the next one, she doesn't show affection publicly, I mean she is so not into PDAs, like c'mon this is the 21st century. If we happen to be in public, she kinda refrains from hugging talk less of kissing and at times it hurts so bad. we've talked about this a thousand and one times but it keeps going on that way. And am really disturbed because i have a lot of ladies around me that will say yes to me if given half the chance but i don't wanna cheat on her.I love this lady and i want her to be my wife but really, given all these deficiencies, am not sure i can get through with it. Please lemme have your comments, matured ones please. Thanks in anticipation fellas!

I got it too. The day am scheduled for is thursday which is so not convinient for me cos I gotta go to work. Does anyone have information on whether candidates can be rescheduled? Saturday would be totally fine with me. really want to explore this opportunity. Resonses please

chukmeister: Good evening people I got the text from nexia this morning I had to google nexia till I got NBS through several links I saw the page announcement and for applicants to log in which I did and the drop down for email and NYSC advert and my data and venue came out I stay in lagos but my venue is in ibadan on a saturday please am working already I jst want to know if this job is worth it travelling down to ibadan to get to the venue by 8am please people reply

Its gud u ar working, but if u feel u want a good federal govt job,its worth it.luckily for you,the ibadan venue is very easy to locate (loyola college).peace

macof: I am not Christian.

And I know a myth when I see one

Well, that's my cue. Peace

macof: u have a problem with me comparing.myths together?

the Oduduwa story isn't even a myth but scientifically proven fact.

So wats ur point

I would make my point clear after you do me a big favour by answering dis questn.
Are u a christain? And do u bliv in d death and resurrection of jesus?
And d comparism isn't the only thing I wrote about, give thought to other salient points I made in respect to studying your bible.

Spotless180: To me pastor can buy a jet but let there be no poor member in his church. Cos if there is that pastor need deliverance.

Oh oh!...God bless u o spotless...

[quote author=Gab-real]He made his point, he doesn't know where to begin. . .datz his point.[/quote]Well,for a 'believer' that did 'well' enough to disapprove the fact that God came and dwell with us in human form as jesus, where do u tink I'd start with such a person. comparing jesus' coming to earth to sango and oduduwa. I tink we shdnt see NL as a forum for winning arguments or showcasing eloquence. Why not sit down with your bible and read up those verses I gave. U neva even mentioned one verse of the bible but u were swift to counter all d points and even using such preposterous comparism. Yes,I don't know whr to start with u. God bless us

MANGAM: The issue here is that as a pastor u ve plenty to eat and drink and ur members ar dying in poverty. Pastors living large like politicians even moving with armed bodyguards and using bullet proof cars. Churches ve now bcome part of the estates that can be inherited by their wives and children. I remembered how to contributed immensly for a church to start a private university. Our parents gave all they had for the university to take off thinking it will be affordable but when this university took off the fees are not within there reach. Pastors and churches ar all concern abt prosperity and forgetting abt winning souls for heaven. Please let's stop deceiving urselves.

U are right,am not disputing dat. A pastor owning a jet when members are impoverished is totally decadent and far from what true gospel stipulates. But my point is owning a jet is not a sin on its own,either by a pastor or whoever.but ppl ar quick to judge and the bible warns us about that. peace

macof: blaspheme is not wat I do.

Even u agree Paul was spewing thrash

Since u like believing Myths of humans dropping from the sky and turning from God to man.

I dare not see u condemn the notion that Oduduwa was a God who came to leave among men and rule the Yoruba

Or that Sango died, resurrected and ascended to heaven to sit on a throne in heaven

Wao!...am speechless,not because I don't know wot to say bt I don't kno whr to start...it is well. I pray God will open the eyes of our hearts.God bless u

macof: 2Corinthian 8:9 is a complete lie.

Where was Yeshua rich? Unless he isn't the one Paul was talking about

I mean Paul never even knew him personally

2timothy 3:16 says all scripture is given by d inspiration of God,don't u tink its blasphemy to say a scripture is a complete lie? Anyways, Jesus came as God in human form,wot paul meant was initially before He came to earth,he had everything,riches and wealth but he came to earth and was poor so that we might be rich!!! Its dat simple but christains have been deceived by erroneous doctrines that as a follower of christ u have to be poor. Pls read your bible line by line and digest every detail through the help of the holy spirit. God bless us....and to the person that said paul's scriptures should be in the old testament,wao! Dats d funniest tin av eva heard. Paul's books brings out the true essence of salvation, it sharpens our faith in christ jesus...as my pastor would say 'read your bible and be wise'

MANGAM: When ur members ar walloping in poverty. Some can't eat 3times a day. Many can't afford hospital bills or pay their rents. The church is so suppose to be a refuge to the poor and needy but instead pastors steals fro the poor members. Pastors wit fine houses, private jets, marrying ex beauty queens, luxurious cars, xpensive suits, their kids schooling abroad, oversea medical trips, etc. Pastors are suppose not to even ve bank accounts. Jesus never had a donkey, horse or camel which was for rich those days. Even foood to eat jesus wit His apostle had to beg. They walked distances to preach the gospel. Why ve private Jet or even Jets when u can take a pessenger plane. Why buy a private jet which cost billions when dat money can change d lots of ur members.m

I agree with u dat many pastors are taking it to the extreme.but for what its worth,there is nothing wrong in a pastor owning a private jet. Read 2corinthians 8:9'jesus was rich bt for our sakes he became poor that we might be rich'.It is an erroneous conception for a christain to think wealth and riches is off limits for him/her. There ar so many promises in the bible for us believers and riches is an integral part of those promises. Most of dese ppl that attack wealthy men of God,ask them if they would lyk to wallow in poverty,am sure there answers would be no...so it is men of God that should be poor right??..God has not called us into poverty but into glory. Abraham was a friend of God and he was wealthy,how much more we that are sons of God!!!...God bless us

Hello nairalanders, For a while now,the phenomenal gospel singer,j moss has been tweeting about coming to lagos! Pls does anyone have info as regards that. Cos I for one won't wanna miss it for anything! Reactions please.

willibounce: I wish Jona would write a letter in reply to Obj without the help of anyone. He should write the letter, edit it himself and send to the press and let us all see how intelligent our president is.

So u honestly tink OBJ's letter ws nt edited?..he wrote it himself?..u gotta be kiddin me. Anyway OBJ as an elder statesman messed up to av condescended to put up such a ludicrous action. dats y its so apparent dat dere is more to dis...he dint do dat in d interest of gud governance and all,instead it ws all a political gimmick...no be 2day jare#park well#

HumbledbYGrace: uju baby,handle the pastor will u?

I need to go get more sugar @ da market

No nid for sugar..smiles*runnin frm diabetes*