ckenneths:
Even in tight city centres, you will notice the beauty of Enugu

Front of HRC, Uwani Enugu.

Pls tell me, how much does ifeanyi ugwuanyi pay u guys to spill thrash??

Funny how you kept rotating around govt house axis. Show us OBIAGU, ABAKPA, EMENE, NEW HAVEN, GARIKI, OGUI ROAD then I will know ur first female governor is working.

Before you come online to spill lies upon lies, also know indigenes of Enugu are also on nairaland.

IntersexSherry:
I must start by saying most people are not familiar with the term ''Intersex''. We were formerly known as hermaphrodites. I will simply define intersex in my own term as someone who was born with a body that doesn't conform to the typical male or female body norm, it could be in their hormones, genitals, gonads, phenotype or chromosomes. Most people do not find out they are intersex until they reach a certain age or some people even live and die without knowing they are intersex. The girls do find out early when they are unable to develop breast or fail to see their periods and most of the men do find out late when they are unable to impregnant a woman. Some of us were assigned a certain sex at birth but as we grow, we tend to identify as another sex later on in life or some of our bodies tend to develop as another sex different from our assigned sex at births. Doctors/parents wouldn't really know at birth until we grow up and reach puberty or some certain age then our bodies start showing those intersex traits. Intersex has lot of variations but some are easily spotted at birth. For example, those born with both female and male organs/complicated genitals, theirs are easily spotted at birth and the parents become confused whether to raise the child up as a male or a female. Some are raised up as males and as they grow, their bodies tend to develop as females or nonbinary and their gender identity may also differ from their assigned sex at birth. Some may identify as a male, female or nonbinary (not a man or a woman in identity). Those who are born with just one genital, theirs are not spotted at birth so they may be raised up according to the genital they were born with and as they grow, some of their bodies tend to develop as another sex or some discover they have mixed chromsomes inside, streak gonads inside, lot of discoveries. For example a woman having a male chromosome XY or mixed chromosome XXY or a man having female chromosome XX or mixed chromosome XXY. Or a woman finding out she has testes inside, no womb, no ovaries, can't give birth or a man finding out he has ovaries inside of him, even undergoes menstruation, can't give birth etc. The struggles are difficult/different and many people don't understand us. Some of us tend to look very androgynous that people will confuse us for crossdressers, transgender, gay etc but those people's cases are different from ours and thats why we try to educate and create awareness on intersex community. We are one hell of a community that many don't believe we exist and many try to erase us and we are really misunderstood. Some even call us abomination and accuse us of witchcraft. Intersex doesn't just deal with having both genitals alone, it has many variations in classifications.
In my own intersex story, i was born differently with a penis and a slightly small vaginal canal opening that has been covered by my scrotum skin and i was assigned male at birth, so as a kid i was a very sick child, no one could really spot the difference from other kids. As i grew up, i never knew my body has started changing to that of a female, that explains the cramps i normally feel between my thighs, also some pains i feel during urinations and why i loved bahaving and feeling like a girl. Even all my body language like walking, sitting, posture all read female. Ya i developed a natural feminine physique, my voice didn't really deepen to a man's voice, my waist became slimmer as my hips also spread out the more, my hairline has always been feminine till now, i developed little beards as a result of the male cells still flowing in my body, i dealt with severe acne and after that my nipples started soring and at this stage my breast started developing. i had to see the doctor that ran test on me and diagnosed me as an intersex female. Life has not been easy being intersex in Nigeria but i still struggle to survive and educate others. I get stared at virtually everywhere i go and lot of people coming to ask me questions if am a man or a woman and i explain to them. You can learn more about intersex by following my page on facebook ''intersex sherry Nigeria'' you can also send me messages. I will try to reply and answer your questions.
UPDATE: for those curious minds, there was one leaked picture of me some bloggers stole online and put in their site. You can can click on this link to view the photo and story.
http://www.wisdomclass.org/2019/09/19/g/

08104352184 can you call me?
please just call me

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IntersexSherry:
Question?

I'm just being curious. where do you stay??

IntersexSherry:
is intersex and trans the same??

So do you've a dikk and a pvssy at same time?

IntersexSherry:
Anytime any man sees me in shop, they keep staring at me then they offer me drink or ask me what do i want to eat. And anything i tell them, they will buy for me oh! I even shock! Its becoming too much because people around think am using charm to jazz these men. Na so dem go dey toast me around even when am not in the mood because i like to mind my business then later some Men will claim women like money so much. No be una wey dey offer us? I know the reason why they buy me all that is to win my heart so i agree to date them.
I have already made up my mind to abstain from sex and relationship till i find that really different person . i know its impossible .

Are you a transgendered??

FG should not only ban the movie or only gay content, but also any x-rated porn site from being accessible in Nigeria.
It has done more damage than good.

Joshmodest:
Falz is the number one artist against yahoo in Nigeria , yet he's spear - heading the protests ....
People who think yahoo boys are taking over the protest are mentally impaired !??

If the work of SARS is to Curb cybercrime, then what's the work of EFCC??

The case here is ultra vires.
FG should restructure the whole system.

sapphiere:
Did all these women send their husbands pictures and phone numbers?

Hmmm, it means you're not serious about ur prayer. God can connect you in anyway, but ur still doing shakara even after praying..

Girls sef, I dn tire for una matter

Abouwaza:
Even God no say I no go go house after final whistle
We go still chill for like 30 mins cos anything can happen

lwkm
Take am easy na

tophumble:
So it will tell him about tomorrow

The amount used to buy it can be used to create job for over 1000 people

See yimu talk, so Davido is now a politician to create jobs for you??

And you think you've the right to tell him how to spend his money??

nastyking:
Hair dressing vs Tailoring which is advisable to learn for a 20 year old guy. All opinions are acceptable

All these won't fetch you anything meaningful in future.

use that time and learn these things:
mechanic
computer software operator or programming
plumbing
electrical engineer


these ones will be more beneficial than hair dresser and tailoring.

obembet:
Barcelona paid £142,000,000 for Coutinho only for him to be loaned to Bayern Munich to win the treble and help knock Barcelona out en route to doing so.



only if he won the UCL with Barca.but with Bayern is a different story Don’t let that get in the way though.

The clause binds the parent club, Barca.
whether he plays for them or loaned by them.

manuel4real:
Op that's not true..the bonus will only be activated if coutinho plays more 15 matches for Barcelona which very much unlikely as it stands

You're getting it wrong..

Barca will have to pay Liverpool another €20m is he gets 100 caps for them.
he's currently on 75.

so Barca should prepare €25m for Liverpool.

Foske:


U know nothing about the clause
The clause is, Barcelona will pay Liverpool if they win Champions League within the first 2 years(If he win it with Barcelona and not any other club) and he was signed in January 2018 and the clause ended January this year.

Please always get your fact right don't follow the crowd

keep deceiving ursef.
clause wey dey open for club officials Twitter page.

Barca should please prepare our €5m sharp sharp..
Liverpool is the biggest winner tonight even without kicking the ball.
#YNWA

Chii59:

A boy will always talk like a boy.
Does your mother not have a vagina ?
It will be foo.lish of you and boys like you to think you can shame women and your mother will be spared.
You came from a vagina and to a vagina you shall return.

And my mum now caused division between my father and his family right??

I think I now understand the slum you came out from which you call home/family

georgeiyke009:
Financially ok is a term for a regular working class joe. He will not be able to afford maids, cooks and cleaners at the same time.

I run a full house and make close to a Milla and I cannot afford those.

So its the same issue. You need to be rich to afford those not just financially ok.

lemme ask you this, why can't or shouldn't the 3 of them live together in a case of necessity as this??

where's the love??

so you expect me to leave my mother out because of the rubbish in-between ur legs??

na thunder go fire that person wey fit try am for my side

truthsayer009:


Believe people at your own peril. When something defies common sense logic, you should know they are lying. It's like someone saying my mother owns a big restaurant but I have not eaten in 3 days.

How are you financially okay & you cannot rent a place? He is not only broke but poor.

My own is, the woman should understand what marriage is all about. if she can't be and endure with him and workout everything, why did she accept the marriage in the first place.. She's just created trouble for herself by herself

OluwaLina1:
Oro e ko lesi

Akpa amu

ogbuefi677:

My brother,if the husband na Otedola pikin,will that girl threaten to call of the wedding even if husband insists they will live in the family house forever?
Issue is most of the females here come from loveless,extremely poor homes so na so them de behave.

Nairaland females own too much, especially "Chii59" that girl and her family needs help not just food

Chii59:

Ah! E really pain am o. Ndo

Name one thing you and ur family can assist the man that will mistakenly marry you??
completely nothing.
All you Jezebels do is bring trouble where there's really none.
Don't even know why I dey reply someone my wife can feed comfortably

georgeiyke009:
The man is broke. That is the issue. Being broke means all this work falls to the woman.

If she is now well to do, then hello why the heck is she wanting to marry a poor broke dude who wants to live in his mother's house? She will own her own home by this time. H3ck I dated chicks living in 3 bedrooms and then cuz tou want to marry them, they will just adjust because of what?

Let's be realistic. I am a guy and will not even tolerate my MIL living with me even though her daughter runs the home. If she holds it over my head, marriage will be over. Its that simple.

This is a negotiation and the fool should put his best foot forward. She has to agree. Reason being that all the hassels that go with it will be her cross to carry. And it will be worse for her being the "outsider".

You lie.
Ask the Op, she said in one of her comments that the man is "financially ok"
so the problem here is that she doesn't want to live with the MIL even without the MIL creating any problem

Chii59:

Boring.

The bitter truth is always boring for you Jezebels.
Now fvck off!!!

You won't want him to bring his family along, but ur poor relatives already have their sacks packed to follow u along once u leave.

I pity the kind of man that'll marry you with this ur devils mind..

Bible advocates peace and not division.
fvck once again you Delilah

Chii59:

If your sister's fiancé insists on her living with his mom, what will you do, boy?

She's rich and well employed to have time fighting with her MIL

Only jobless people like OP sister and you will always be there to fight ur MIL even over 1 common cup of rice

olaajilaran:
Last picture

Don't worry, I'll give u a prescription that'll clear it easily.

As for the toe, that's "witlo" so go and buy LINCOMYCIN 500mg
prescription: 1x3 daily


As for the feet, that's fungi infection, go and buy FLUCONAZOLE 200mg

prescription: once daily. if she takes the first at night, she should only take the rest at night.

She should also avoid her leg making contact with dirty water.

it's just a bacteria and fungi infection, nothing like village people.

Update me after a week. God bless you and your Sis.

OluwaLina1:

There is no need to reply him..am here for sensible advice

He gave you a sensible advice, just that it's the bitter truth and you don't like it.

let me ask you this, if your brother's wife orders him to treat ur mum like this, will you be happy??