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Lols... Guess this things work differently. [/b]A loyal Moses Simon or a stubborn/disloyal Vinicius Junior. Both are left wingers and in their prime age[b]

AirBere:
Competence is even more expensive. If you're a football enthusiast, who would you rather in your team.

A loyal Moses Simon or a stubborn/disloyal Vinicius Junior. Both are left wingers and in their prime age.

Loyalty first!
Reason is: loyalty is very rare and expensive.

Good job doc! Well done. Wish you more success in your career.

Han Han... kilode!

[/b]Nothing survives here, not even virus. Nigeria is a crazy place[b]

EddyNumerouno:
Nothing survives here, not even virus. Nigeria is a crazy place

Well, I don't reside in Ekiti, but I visit the state frequently for short trips, just like I do with many other states in Nigeria (and that is the basis for my comparison). There is the pervious thread on NL that compared each states vat vs allocations too.

EvilMerodack:
Relocate to places where things arent expensive

You are an adult. You should be bold enough to leave places you arent comfortable staying


By the way, i didnt see Ekiti on that list. Just SW

For God sake, let the man have his peace please!

Lols... That's it. Every one is here to only take take from the land.

sholatech:
If this is a recent picture, then it means Nigeria made Buhari a better and healthier individual. Against public expectations that he will make Nigeria better and healthier

That's the same way a mad man sees the activities of the sane people around him

Fuckyoumod:
too many words, but no single sense or meaning.

In my days, I can't just run after a complete stranger too. If I have seen and admired a lady in my territory, I must take sometime to actually know her from afar as much as possible before proceeding to even make her feel am interested in her. I don't believe in love at first sight too.

However nowadays, where it is normal to engage a complete stranger, if she packaged herself to clearly give me a perception that she outclass me, fine, I will rather move even farther from her. Na those types go dey dangerous pass!

njelrapheal:
how would you know a lady that outclasses you without engaging them in a convo. Or are you referring to perception and packaging?

[/b]someone like me who is a diehard hater and critic of trump through all my nairaland posts would be denied visa[b]

LordBiden:


That means someone like me who is a diehard hater and critic of trump through all my nairaland posts would be denied visa sharparly.

He really is in charge overflowing self.

phemray:
I want to be like jagaban,I love that Baba sope mantra, meaning he is in charge fully.

I don't think that is abnormal or the lady is abnormal. As a man, one of the fine ways to provide a necessary comfort to your lady is to drive her in your car if you have one. But siting beside her when she drives you in her own car is somehow not dignifying. It is like living with her in the house she rented/built. Just not dignifying for a natural African man.

I think it's okay for a woman to potentially dignity her future man by setting standards, and setting them at her level or above hers.

advanceDNA:
so what will happen after marriage and the guy loses his job and doesn't have a car anymore....?? She should leave again naaa....and go marry her standard..... Y'all just base standard on temporary superficial nonsens£... that's why marriages don't last more than 2 minutes these days

At least there will be a record of good times for the guy with a car that turn broke in marriage and lose his car. What if the guy that is not successful enough to buy a car for himself when single, never become successful enough to buy one even in the marriage also?

A single lady that grinds and get herself a car because she feels it is a necessity or desired luxury, should never be advised or coerce to date or marry a guy that is lower than that class, else the marriage will also not last.

For guys mentioning and asking about men setting same standards: Yes! Various men do set their own standards! It is just unfortunate that the standards that most men set do not go beyond body shapes and sizes. Some men even set financial/career standards for their women to remain below theirs, to sustain their lordship, security, and leadership. There have been stories of men who made remarkable moves to make sure that there women never gets to financial/career levels that are higher than theirs. All these happen here in our typical society, and here we are being all hypocritical.

Men should also set high and reasonable standards for their type of ladies! The result will be great for our society, as our ladies will be more focused on doing something productive to attract men, and not just investing on boobs, bums, makeups, and artificial hairs.

Seriously, I don't know how guys beat it and walk up to a girl that obviously outclass them, for chyking. I was never fit for such. Always in my class.

Lagos PDP is another word for a figure head. The group is just there for the necessary noise. Whoever seem loudest in the group is promoted to Tinubu party (senior leagues) to try solid food

Baba keep quiet and try win Israel first nah!

Na so ooo, Baba don collect wotoporiously

Na almost everybody they adjust by force... Be like funds from a whole movie to reach to service baba jeep and fill up the tank again.

Lol... The one wey tire me pass na Ekiti.... If no be over do, how is Ekiti, a small state without any tangible industries, institutions, and organizations be generating more vat than Ogun, Nasarawa, and so on.. No wonder things are outrageously expensive in Ekiti.

Some evil Mosquitoes now take part in the activities from 6am to 6pm.

Morbeta11:
Timetable For Africa

If this is not well coordinated....State otherwise..................................

Abomination! Pascal Ofomata is a bad kinsman. He should be brought to the village square for a brief meeting before he proceed to jail.

Poverty being the reason for unstable relationship and irresponsibility growth in the society, is just a plausible idea.
On a larger scale, I believe the issue is a culture that is being incorporated by wild exposure and wokeness. This issue is not strapped to any class of people in Nigeria (as it is all over the world), and it is not uncommon among both the elite and the less privileged society. I can even augue that this issue is rising with the misuse of the freedom of rights and models of privileges.

IbeOkehie:
Of course that's true but more important is TRENDS. Anyone 40 to 50 years old can tell that the mating market has deteriorated badly in the last 10 years or so.

In Nigeria the major reason is the increasing levels of POVERTY and the DESPERATION to avoid falling into and remaining in poverty.

In the US & UK it's the increasingly SOCIALIST policies that have destroyed the family. For example in the UK, 33% of children in the sub-Saharan, Black African community are born to single unmarried mothers. In 1950 over 75% of Black American children were born/living with two married parents, today less than 25% are in that structure.

Nigerians in particular are so hard hit that EVERY RELATIONSHIP in life....with siblings, career, business, marriage, religion, social clubs politics....EVERYTHING is now about how to leverage that relationship to extract free MONEY. I'll cite this as an example - in the USA today, it's common for Nigerians to form Committee of Friends to support funerals and related expenses for bereaved persons. Most of the time the money becomes the subject of controversy and fraud. Same thing with money contributed by Nigeria alumni associations.

The primary mode of existence for Black Africans since Contact with Europeans/Arabs has been xeno-parasitism coupled to an unceasing DECEPTION & EXPLOITATION of their fellow Black Africans, taking without providing anything in return. That's what the Slave Trade was all about.

It's not about marital relationships, it's about EVERYTHING, everything in Nigeria has been poisoned by the desperation of poverty.

Good Luck to Nigerians.

Na me be the OP, and I think your mind is in the right settings

ImoleNaija:
My mind too dirty walahi

What is the spikes in this herdsmen attacks all over the country?

Tunde would have just answered that imole, the simple answer is yes or probably. Tinubu is a very smart or should is say cunning man. Nothing compares him with portable except they both have blokos.

Na lie! Seriously, portable cannot be more intelligent than Tinubu.

Zonefree:
Portable is more intelligent than the president.


This is not up for a debate, please.

Best of all advise. Let's hope he'll heed and actually stop populating the already overpopulated society directly and through proxies.

MufasaLion:
Having 7 kids is not an ideal thing to do especially a man like you that's still struggling. You should stop breeding like rodent!

As regards the girl that's pregnant, send her back to her parents and let them take care of her. She's not your responsibility.

Smoking.

It's just not made for my kind of system.

I have been trying to understand the rational thoughts behind that emerging practice.

Go for IT skills. MSc may make you a bigger liability, if you are not already in academics though.

Well done OP, this is very educative. The night attach also have more give aways including easy visibility of the missiles (especially at the lunch site/location)

matify83:
https://www.jpost.com/middle-east/iran-news/article-857856

The money that has been embezzled and mostly wasted in Nigeria, is enough to build another Dubai from scratch.

This is general knowledge now. Any army integrating terrorists already pre-planed compromise.

This cannot be any form of ignorance or mistake nah🤷

You still don't get it. Iran cannot be a threat to any world powers or their allies. Just like Iraq and Libya, Iran can also join in the countries with unending internal crisis If they so wish. But breeding international terrorist groups and keeping weapon of mass distrustion will never be allowed.

When the world powers are done with Iran (spear-headed by Israel), next will be Pakistan (spare-headed by india).

As for Nigeria, we are not ready for anything serious yet.

madridguy:
You guys cannot contribute to international events objectively rather than being emotional.
So are you saying there's no peace in Iran right now? Try and emancipate yourself from mental slavery...

The same card was played with Saddam Husseini of Iraq, has Iraq been peaceful since Saddam was killed? If you're still a baby during Saddam era are you also a kid in 2011 when Ghaddaffi was killed with same excuse?

Ever since the fall of Ghadaffi Nigeria and other countries in Sahel region have never sleep with our two eyes closed.

Or you think whatever that happens there won't reach here? You go learn with time.