₦airaland Forum

jasent:
I can feel it

Do you meant you want to shoulder the responsibilities of 3 female adults? A lady you met, her sister and her friend? They even added an extra person.

Go and watch some Geh Geh videos on YouTube, follow Agba John Deo on twitter and read his old posts, search for okanstalk_official on instagram and take time and watch most of his videos if not all and learn.

I will tell you this. This is a wrong investment you are about to make. It won't end well trust me. Carrying responsibilities of 3 full grown women in your shoulder will not only drain you financially but also will wreck you emotionally.

Stay away from jobless girls. Don't make yourself the Messiah that will save them. Learn from the experiences and histories of others who had toured this same path. Research about how things ended.

budaatum:
Let's first be clear about something. The reason you want your "girlfriend" (I love how you slyly promoted her by the way), to not move so far away is because she'll not be so easily accessible.

Now that's clear. What exactly do you want?

And how much you willing to pay?

That second question is because you might want to consider putting the sister and friend on your pay roll plus their rent.

First, I want to ask, are you a guy or a lady?

Secondly, are you joking or you are truly serious with this bolded?

tunlex01:
Spot on!

Civil Engineer is probably not the best occupation at the moment! CPM or CED are better options now

Exactly, 💯%!

Smithwilliams826:
How you no go get boldness? You dey take Igbo, you dey talk of shyness.

Don't mind am. He doesn't know what highness can lead to na.

He will be feeling on top of the world and can even slap an Army man. Highness na your mate?

Na him type dey take Igbo to get high before talking to girls.

Yeye!

Seunpapa65:
Was this really the plant God told Adam and Eve to avoid in the garden of Eden
Ever since I started using it Omo there's nothing like shyness infact I found myself becoming more social and out spoken

Why won't you become social and out spoken, when all you take it for is to get high?

By the time you discover, it becomes an addiction. That's how an addiction starts. Don't say I didn't warn you.

Condolences!

Newbiee:
By the grace of God we are surviving

That's the most important thing. Congratulations brother. Contentment is golden.

Babaibe:
Dey play. USD na CAD abi. Na you be otondo,many only travel to Canada to acquire the passport and later travel to countries like Saudi Arabia to make good money as expat. You have never see video of Nigerians living as destitute in Canada. That your cleaning job that is paying 100,000 USD, those one can not do it. You might be fooling people not me with over 15 years traveling experience.Abroad will make you live comfortably like me if you can work , but not rich . You can not even have 150 million naira savings in 20 years in your naija account, except if you are not paying bills, or you choose the dirty path (fraud, gangsterism and drug)

Your problem is that you lack proper information.

Remember the Bible says, my people perish due to lack of knowledge.

What's keeping many people stagnated in life is their self-beliefs and lack of proper knowledge.

I am not surprised about your self doubts and beliefs. No one can change you.

lightwind:
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First to drop a comment in almost a decade on nairaland.

I really like this girl very classy[b] how come Rhema keep looking so unkept always. How can you be so damn rich and look unkept and dirty
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Go and be his fashion adviser. Don't you think that will be better.

SmallmebigGod:
Minding your business should be easy. But it seems not that easy for some people.

I think they should introduce it as a course.

Babaibe:
This guy is a pathological liar. Show us your G-wagon.Tell me that country where cleaners make 100,000USD annually.100 USD is a very big money in the US, and accomodation is not joke.Stop misleading people with your rubbish.I am sure you have never travel beyond lagos.

It be like say you dey new in this Nairaland. Person wey dey Canada na u dey talk say never travel beyond Lagos?

We wey be ancestors in this Nairaland know say màternal na OG.

You be real new comer. It clear!

Hismercy234:
Don't mind these average thinking Nigerians that believe other countries are always better than theirs. People leave their countries to come and pack our wealth but we go to their countries to go and be slaving, all in the name of their money is strong and ours is weak.

Una dey deceive una self for this Nigeria I swear. Nigeria is not a sane country. Many of the Youths are wasting away. There are no jobs. They now go into kidnapping and banditry. And you will tell me Nigeria is working.

Who is deceiving who? No place like home is what many use to console themselves.

The country is in a serious sorry state. The citizens dey see better pepper. By 2027, corrupt politicians will share 5k give you guys to vote for them.

jetwonder:

I should relocate to abroad and become slaves in another Man country.
Never!
I will become a king here in my own country.
I travel for leisure not to become a slave for any mudafucker white head

Hehehe! Mo na continue dey deceive una self o.

You said? Peace of mind in Nigeria? Please, is that a joke or what?

A country that is filled with kidnappers and bandits?

papiSNEH:
This is Nice!!! this how it should be, spend on parents not on some hungry girls that has nothing offer...

I wish I can Like this post 1000 times.

franchasofficia:
Igbo ladies and natural beauty sha, don't blame those men rushing Igbo ladies, it's not their fault sha; even the devil will recognize good things, beauty and the beast comes to mind.


If you are an Igbo lady reading this, I throway salute to you beauties, u ladies are a beauty to behold, your demeanor is always phenomenal

Beauties without manners you meant? What's the purpose of beauty if there is no character and good manners to go hand in hand with it?

Waste of beauties if you ask me.

The materialistic tendency ascribed to majority of them and lack of good manners is something to be worried about if you ask me.

The only Ibo I may be attracted to are those from Enugu and Delta. They said those ones are not materialistic and possess wife materials qualities.

You see those ones from Imo, Anambra, Abia, egungun be careful.

Sonnobax15:

They will never calm down and allow the breeze of sense to enter their brains for once . See Dem for up na . In stead of them to tell our young bannies who refuse to reply men's comments on social media,cuz replying those messages could make their destiny helpers to have pity on them to marry them,in stead they're up there talking rubb1sh

Most Nigerian girls are not interested in holding meaningful conversations with potential serious men.

The only thing that goes through their brains is how to chop a man's money and jump from one hotel to another.

Wasted big for nothing brains 🧠 with little sense if you ask me.

People don't really pay attention to vital points in between passages. Now, I have highlighted one vital reason that got her attracted to him and that is the bolded. 👇

“We met on Facebook. I wouldn’t really say there was a pickup line per se. But it was more of how he carried himself that drew me to him. He was confident yet easy-going. And he has this opulent charm like he didn’t really need to try”

Would she had been attracted to him if he wasn't the bolded? Capital NO.

Just for those that do not understand what opulent means; it means wealth, riches.

Nomerci:
Kip kwayet fraudster

It clear! This one na still small pikin. All these 20 years old Gen-Z children sef. Na wa o.

FitCorper:
So small shaking like dis u don de begging turn blood for blood So una two no fit row together for life? 😂

Na wa for you o. If na you shey you go still roll with am ba? What about a friend who is planning to kidnapp and kpai you, if you find out shebi you go still roll with am na as per the kapon wey you be shey?

Nomerci:
Cooked up
It cant happen to me.im not as dull as u

You're not dulL, you are still very naive. A naive person can sometimes be comparable to a dull person you know.

Nomerci:
Cooked up story
Pls

Seems you're still in your twenties for thinking everything is always cooked up. You haven't experienced things in life that's why.

In this evil world, with the numerous bad news flying up and down on a daily basis, if you are still thinking many of the news you see online are cooked up, you need to think twice and start thinking out of the box.

Go and watch Africa Crime Today and True Crime Daniel channels so you can learn that things are truly happening.

Meanwhile, also watch this story of how a man kpai another of his guy he did business with.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IlwqNaJM230

Don't be naive to think that many atrocities being committed by fellow humans are not happening in their true senses.

Get your prepaid meter. Prepaid meters are available. Go and apply for yours. It's stinginess that is still making some people not to apply for prepaid meter.

Instead of crying over the bogus and exorbitant estimated billing by power companies, why not get a prepaid meter? It's between 150k to 200k depending on the number of phase.

Save yourself the incessant over estimated billings. Apply for a prepaid meter.

fergie001:
What about those on postpaid?

In this era, prepaid should be made mandatory. Whoever that is still using postpaid is shorting himself.

The reason why most places don't have light is because most of the houses don't have prepaid meters, thereby making the power companies not to supply power as they are supposed to because they make more by billing their customers using estimated billing system.

They can just come to your house and quote high figures of what you didn't even use.

But with prepaid meter, if the majority of the houses have that, they will have no option but to supply light on a daily basis because if they don't, they will be the ones at loss.

In the city I reside, almost all houses have prepaid meters. This makes them to supply light on a daily basis. We must have at least 5-10 hours light every day except the transformer in your area has fault.

That 5-10 hours light is sure every day because if they don't bring the light, my meter won't count. Who will be at loss in the end? It's them. So this makes them to at least supply 5-10 hours light every day.

Like today now, they already supplied 8 hours light. On Sunday, they supplied 10 hours. On Monday they supplied us 5 hours light.

But we must see light every day. That's the advantage of majority of houses having prepaid meters. It will force them to supply consistent power on a daily basis.

The 5k I recharged since April is what I am still using till now.

Sammy101111:
Bro you too wise on of my ex show me Pepe she will do something wrong when I tell her I don't like what she did she will say let go for break in relationship oh she did that several times to me one day I found out that break was her not to pick my call act busy and to be with another guy later when I found out I ghosted her in the relationship I just ended the relationship silently he pain because she thought she can control my emotion she will make me happy today make me feel sad the next day. BUT NOW MY EMIONTION ARE STRONG NOW ANYTHING WAY WOMAN DO NO NEW TO ME AGAIN

That's it. Once you can control your emotions as a man and have some levels of self dignity and respect, no woman on this earth can manipulate you.

Your problem is that you're trying too much to please her.

If I can advise you at this point, I will say, do your part and leave the rest. Play your role as a father. But don't approach her for anything sex. I have stayed away from sex going to 2 years now and I haven't died. So, not having sex won't kill you.

Stop bothering yourself. At this point, just focus on your children. There is nothing you can do any more. You've tried. Stop trying to please her any further.

You are making things worse. You can force a horse to the river but you can't force the horse to drink water if the horse doesn't want to drink water.

Don't give her any more attention. Just play your roles as a father and focus on your children.

Take my advice and watch her crawl back to you and make amends.

The one that invests the most is the one that finds it hard to leave, while the one that invests the least is the one that finds it so easy to leave without looking back.

She might be right. You might end up going back to beg her cuz you are the one investing in the relationship.

SAMBARRY:
why do you disagree with him.hes saying the truth

Where are the good girls? Whoever says good girls are everywhere is not in touch with the current reality of the society.

Enter streets, you will see only girls that dress indecently and expose their body parts to sell their markets.

In our Igbo brothers' voices : I think you get it now.

DrChukki:
VDM should just shut up... Must he talk in everything?

Make a video and tell him to shut up. Post the video and make sure VDM sees it.

You will be surprised VDM will dig up all your hidden secrets to your very eyes even the ones you yourself don't know about.

The fear of VDM is the beginning of wisdom.