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Merry100:
🤣🤣🤣You think say you be Elon Musk, abi you be visa officer? I go dey lie just to get your validation. Who you be?

Even though I no need to prove my virginity status to anyone, I fit take virginity test just to show you say you be idiot 😂😂😂

Na sexless relationship dey hard pass; sometimes I dey rethink my decision. Virginity be money? Virginity wey no get physical gain.

You know how many opportunities I don waste

Give yourself sense, I no be all those your tiny leg girls wey you dey press up and down.

According to you and I quote: Virginity be money? Virginity wey no get physical gain.

This answers it all. So, better stop deceiving yourself as a lady. Run and hide your head in shame for not being a virgin and still setting rules for guys. You will old my sister.

Always know that men are the prize. You can't set standards that you don't possess.

You are not a virgin and you are setting standards for one simp to follow. Instead of working on your character as a lady and developing qualities that men want, you are there setting rules and standards for Kings that are the prize. Your eyes go soon clear.

Let me tell you for free. Gone are the days when men are carefree with the woman they settle for and going the extra length to please women who only possess yansh and breast as qualities they are bringing to the table.

If you don't have good character as a lady, you go old for house, trust me.

Many of you don't have this common sense. The only thing you can use to tie a man down if you are wise, is good character and value.

If you like, be a non virgin, of which I know you truly are, or have yansh and breast, if you don't have sense, value and good character, you go old for market.

And in the aspect of setting standards for guys after messing around with different men, it won't work for you. Why because, from your lamentation, you have been with quite a number of guys who didn't deem it fit to take you as a potential partner, and common sense couldn't tell you that there must be something wrong with either you as a person or your character.

A bad person will always think she is good and others are bad. For being unable to tie one man down even after sampling different men all throughout last year, shows that there is something wrong with your character. No one will ever tell you this but I am unapologetically telling you.

Now, have you ever sat down and ask yourself some critical questions of why you couldn't make any man stay with you till now even though you met so many? Have you?

Do you always see yourself as the only good person and all the men you meet are always the bad ones?

Madam, stop setting standards. Instead, re-evaluate yourself and character. You might discovered where your problem of not being able to be with a man is coming from.

Don't let anyone deceive you. You can never tie a man down by setting rules for them. We are kings and the prize. No sane man loves women that will set standards for them. Instead, men set the standards and women follow.

We lead and you follow. Don't be deceived by all those feminists out there. They will corrupt you to the extent that, you won't be able to keep a man in your life, cuz you will be lacking the qualities that can help you keep a potential man due to the many accumulated feminists bad attitudes you've blindly developed over the years.

Men love feminine women and not feminist women. And until you check your character properly and stop setting rules for kings, you will hardly be able to keep one as a long term partner. The cycle will keep on repeating itself trust me. You can't keep on doing the same thing every time and expect a different result. Take note of that.

So, do the needful now that you still have the time. Check yourself and character properly instead of being fixated on setting rules for men to follow. I have just unveiled to you where your problem is coming from. If you are wise, you will ponder over this post and make some drastic amends.


Shalom!

Dreamhans1:
You don't have say on this matter. Oga move.
Allow the girl set her standard in peace. Come here come dey rant I'm celibate for one-year, such a weak man

Did you say such a weak man? See this chronic womaniser. Hehehe for my post to pain you to your bone marrows, it shows that you are the type that fvck around. Olobhruku Olosho man.

This one that can't get girls by himself is calling a valuable guy a weak man. Who doesn't know that you patronise Oloshos? For you to even be so stupid to get pained by my post shows how useless you've made your life.

Your only Savoir are Oloshos. Commercial olosho patronised man like you that only patronise ashawos should hide your shameless head in shame.

See a bloody chronic móron calling a high value man a weak man. You should be ashamed of yourself if you are a guy.

Between captain save a hoe like you who is fighting for a hoe who doesn't care if you exist and a very intentional guy like me, who is the weak one?

So you don't know that it's only weak men like you fight for women?

If truly you be guy, you're fvcked up and I dey shame for you big time.

Such a stupíd dumbscore!

LoneSoldier:
You being quiet shows that you are not a madman, spilling out trash the way you do now, makes you a madman so continue to spill trash.... Fool

But you know, it takes a mad man to recognize a mad man. True or false? So welcome to the league of mad men brother. This can't be possible without your current madness.

For this, I warmly congratulate you for attaining this feat today. New year, new madness. It's not easy. Once again, a super big congratulations to you brother.

Merry100:
🤣🤣🤣Non virgin guys association has spoken, do you think everybody is like you?? Just because you jump from hole to hole, you think everyone is as cheap as that nonsense dangling between your legs. With your mentality it shows that the females you surround yourself with are cheap but don't pin that shit on others.

I am sexually clean than you. Do you know what it takes for a guy to stay celibate for 1 year now? I am not only clean but also carry positive energy. Just a mere contact with me and being around me alone, good things will be following you. You will be experiencing massive divine favour, divine grace, success and open doors. Your life will never remain the same. Don't joke with my sexual cleaniness. You think a guy like me that stays away from sex is a fool?

You want to tell us now that you didn't do anything with all those guys that showed you shege? Why do girls like you lie so much? We all know all the rubbish you did with those guys. Stop lieing.

Is it today that ladies start lieing about their virginity?

If them born you well, let's go for virginity test, bills on me, if your yansh won't be exposed.

Even some so called virgins do engage in other hidden sexual acts.

Your broad day light lies is just too much madam.

Guys showed you shege in 2024. So, after messing around with different guys of various structural pipes sizes, it's one innocent guy whose life is intact you want to retire with.

Only God knows the amount of body counts that went down the drain with all those guys that showed you shege.

If you do the mathematical calculations and multiply it by the number of times you get down with these guys, to be frank, I doubt if that innocent guy who has not been touched can satisfy you. Reason being that all of those guys have left indelible imprints on you which this new guy can't erase. Your loyalty will also be questionable.

Sister, you better go back to one of those guys and settle with one and stop looking for an innocent guy to mess up his life.

Zinny91:
thank you so much for ur response, we have already submitted o. I would love to connect with you on this journey for further questions as we progress. kindly let me kw how i can reach you. i really do appreciate.

Ok no problem. You may send an email request.

Saudi Arabia is a nice country. WWE always host their crown 👑 jewel matches there every year. If it's not a good country, big companies like WWE won't bother flying their wrestlers there to host their shows in the country.

Make the move. It will be very easy for you to even secure another job in western countries from there, couple with the fact that, what you do have very high demands abroad. Don't be too comfortable with your 400k job in Nigeria. Go out of your comfort zone and explore the world more.

With the current situation of things, that amount is nothing to write home about, just so you know. You are being able to sustain yourself with that salary now because you are single. Once you add a wife and a child comes in, that amount won't be able to sustain you and a wife.

Also, if you move to Saudi Arabia, you will get more international exposures and that will be a big plus to your CV.

With all of the aforementioned, I will without a doubt advise you to make the move without thinking twice. Go and have fun and sell your skills to the outside world.

Please, use Saudi Arabia as a stepping stone and international experience. Don't look at the money aspect for now. Once you've worked for that 2 years, 5 months to the end of your contract, start applying for jobs in the US, UK, Canada. Start looking for sponsorship jobs from there. If you are lucky, you will even get a better job in those mentioned countries right from Saudi.

temmybaba

LoneSoldier:
Keep quiet fool...

If I decide to be quiet for a low life like you, won't you feel surprised and question your stúpidity and foólishness?

LoneSoldier:
Indeed you are a dumbscore? A$$hole....

Are you trying to dare me? Do you want to dare me? Come straight let's how it will end.

LoneSoldier:
Shame on you and your family, dumb f*ck...

So, to you, you expect me to trade words with a dumbscore like you? Your shame dey shame me I swear.

We Nigerians are the most jobless human beings on this planet. Shame on all of us!

Omo when I see some kind of comments some people like and share here, I am pretty surprised. You will see one meaningless comment, up to 100 people will like the comment.

I will then take time to read the comment and can't find any reason why such comments gather such amount of likes. Are the people here thinking properly at all?

Why liking rubbish comments and leave meaningful ones? Are we this blind?

Badmashiii:
You noh lie bros... avoid the unhappy and unlucky lest they infect you with their misfortunes.

I dey tell you brother.

She is right. It's only those who think they need another individual to feel good that always complain of loneliness.

Those are the types that bend to the pressure of the society and always seek validations from others that complain of loneliness.

Gentle men, when you have so much burning desire to achieve success in life, you won't feel the need to get drown in emotional roller coaster that will add little or no meaningful value to your life.

Any relationship, marriage or situationship that you are currently in that isn't giving you peace of mind to excel in life, leave it asap.

Be more concerned about how to give your children the best of life than worrying over a partner that isn't adding peace and value to your life.

Only those that feel they need partners to succeed in life feel lonely. Not people like us who are hell bent on putting our personal life first and creating financial freedom for our generation and our unborn kids.

If I settle down tomorrow, my children will be my joy. I will put them first and then myself second.

We all pray for good marriages. But should things go bad, I will focus on my children than worrying over a failed marriage or relationship.

I am a sigma male. We don't experience loneliness. We are lone wolves. We don't need others to be happy in life.

When a woman knows your weak point, she will use it against you as a man. And if you are that type of man that doesn't set boundaries, it will be a fair ride for her.

As a man, learn how to set boundaries and understand what you can't tolerate in a woman's behaviour.

Women are emotionally brutal when it comes to dealing with men. Don't tolerate stupid behaviours all in the name of emotional love.

What we call love are just mere lustful feelings. There should be a reason to love a woman. Love should be expressed to women that are of good behaviours. Don't reward stupid behaviours with love. A woman with bad character shouldn't be loved. As a man, only love a woman that give you peace of mind and respects you as head of the home.

Stop lottering around with your emotions while the said woman you claim to love is dealing with you mercilessly.

There should be things you shouldn't tolerate as a man and until you learn to let go of the emotional side of you for women, you will be walked on, spit on and disrespected by your wife and her family.

I thank God I used my 20th to simp over love, those exposures are what made me to be the better man that can cut the shot and say NO to unhealthy women's behaviours today.

As a man, you need to get those exposures and orientations on time, they will help you put your house in order when you finally settle down.

Majority of guys didn't get those exposures and orientations we had in our 20th, and today they are paying for it in their marriages where they tolerate all sorts of disrespectful behaviours from their wives and these wives don't even give a fvck. Can you see where the problem originated?

Lack of early exposure and orientations.

samguru:
I have been in this situation and I know how it feels especially when you love the woman.

In my case,the woman disappeared with my boy and that added more pain to the pain of divorce.

I focused more on self development and all the projects that I have pending in my life.

I got married to another woman five years after the divorce, though still missing my boy but i thank God for my life now.

Use this time to scan your life and fix every area you need to fix before entering another marriage.

I want to guess the lady is from one of the states in the South South of Nigeria

South South abi na South East? This is common with south east not South South. South South women no dey run comot man house except if it involves physical abuse.

I will advise guys to develop that burning desire to live that soft good life.

If you have this desire, you won't even think of women at all. Cuz all your mind will be on how to live a comfortable life. If you already have children, brother focus on your children and be the best father you can to them.

Leave any woman that is giving you problems and seek your peace of mind. Make money and enjoy your life. Man must no live by pússy alone.

In the next 10 years to come, many marriages will fold up. But what do you do when that happens? Don't kill yourself. Look for ways to better your life and live your life.

I will advise you to focus on your life and find ways to improve your life. Go on self-development, find a way to go out and chill once a while. Eat good foods and enjoy your life. Look for ways to improve your finance also.

Develop a burning desire to improve your life in all aspects. That passion to improve your life will make you forget about the already crumbled marriage. Tell yourself that your peace of mind matters. Look after your happiness as a man and don't give rooms for self blames.

When you engage yourself in meaningful things, you won't have the time to still be thinking about marriage that had already folded up.

I hope you will heed to these little advice and let go of your past for a better tomorrow.

Beuberry:
Na mumû like you dey go nons miraj show

Mtchew

Don't be stupid. Broke shaming a guy when your account is empty is the height of stupidity. If we ask now what you do for a living, it won't be more than I am a chef, I sell hairs online type of shits. Online vendors gang.

Lots of your like have no tangible smart skills order than selling things online and I am a hair vendor type of shits. What can a valuable man benefits from a jobless mofo like you?

You that has used hookup to finish your life? Show your empty account let's see what you have. If you have up to 500k in your account, I will leave Nairaland for life.

Broke, wretched girl like you broke shaming hard working guys is the height of stupidity.

Beuberry:
Stfu broke tin

Beu Beu, one thing is to broke shame a guy, another thing is to show your bank account let's see how much you have inside.

That's how one lady was broke shaming a guy in Nons Miraj hunt game show, only for her to be asked to show her account, nothing was found inside.

How much is currently in your account as a lady? Screenshot your account balance let's see.

If you are broke shaming a guy and you don't have up to a million naira in your account, desist from doing that as a lady.

I don't want to place it 5 million naira that will be too big.

Mean while, 2025 will be a juicy year for many guys.

Listen men, this is how to identify irresponsible and promiscuous ladies. Double ear 👂 piercings, tongue 👅 ring, nose ring, multiple visible tattoos, leg chains, BBL.

For the leg chain, I exclude those wearing it for their husbands. That is if it's the husband that says she should wear it. Then I have no problem with that. Aside that, all the aforementioned are signs of irresponsible acts/behaviours that go with promiscuity.

If I am to live in any place in Nigeria to raise a family peacefully, I will rather stay in Uyo or Calabar.

Akwa Ibom and Cross River.

Lagos is too jam-packed. Portharcourt is even better for a single guy than Lagos. The only thing in Lagos is that all the celebrities reside there and there are more opportunities.

But with family and for those that work from home, I will peacefully choose Uyo, then Calabar comes second on my list.

EmperorCaesar:


Lagos is almost like Asaba. Na why i prefer Ibadan be this. Well-spaced apartments with fair prices and the Agent fees are always reasonable

You'd spend more to rent a Self-con in Lagos than you'll ever spend to get a 2bedroom flat in Ibadan or a mini flat in Ogun


For most remote workers that are of SW origin, a large percentage of them prefer IB or Ogun to Lag. The obsession to live in Lagos isnt there because from an economic POV, you're spending more on things of same comparative value, especially if you are in an area with 33kva constant power supply. So, Why Lagos ?


Spits

I saw house prices in Ibadan I was wowed. Omo, a full duplex was going for 600k. I was shocked.

God forbid bad thing. No even POP. These agents are truly wicked.

Guys, let me tell you something. I am a very inquisitive being. Not just inquisitive but highly intuitive. I can sense and foresee things right from my imaginations and they are real and happens as I see them.

Let me tell you something you don't know. Where you stay has great influence on your progress as a person. So, be mindful of where you stay. There are places you pack into and you will remain stagnant for life not until you pack out of that place.

These places are mostly associated with all those dirty ghetto places where nothing seems to be going on for the people living in that region. And all the evil people mostly stay in all those places.

Please, in everything you do, please work hard to be able to afford a good place to stay. Stay around people that things are going pretty well for and progressing in life.

Avoid all those dirty ghetto areas of face me and face you places. Most of those places are not good spiritually speaking. They will hinder you and make your life miserable.

You won't understand. But just pick something from what I just said. That is if you are looking for a house, make sure you find a better place where the people living around are at least averagely doing pretty well. If you want to progress in your life as a young man who is working hard to survive, avoid all those dilapidated and dirty ghetto areas. They are the breeding grounds for stagnation, evils, setbacks and the like.

This McLaren model costs $310,500. Do your conversion to naira. That should be between
₦500,000,000. Half a billion naira.

Fearurcreeator:
Anywhere wey he like make he go , he still not fit get money pass Dangote

"Life is not all about money, rather life is about personal fulfillment." - Mcslize, 2024

Go and frame that and hang it on your wall man.

azpekuliar:
Una go jus open mouth waaaaa dey call people liars. Na wa o. Person wey u no know from Adam. People from all walks of life are on this forum, accomplished or not, so stop thinking everyone is like you. Even the Tayo Aina guy is on this forum. I remember him posting links to his YouTube videos on this forum before he blew up with over a million YouTube subscribers now. You would have also called him a liar years ago.

Taaah. Most of you are liars who form champions on a faceless platform. Dey act like una no dey shit for house. If we check now, chin chin no gum most of una.

Anybody can form anything here. If we should do verification now majority of you guys are still struggling to make ends meet. That's why una go see salary of 300k and go dey advise person to stay back in Nigeria and make it big as that seems to be big money to most of you and money is the only priority una get.

You guys should go get una life together and stop worrying about Tayo who had gotten his life together and having a fun filled day with his life.

Nnamdipapa:
Am I right or wrong? Nothing else matters.

Nothing works in Nigeria. Let's not deceive ourselves. You're talking about 5% who are doing well out there. What then happens to the rest 95% that are poor, struggling to eat and live below a dollar per day?

Let's wake up from this self deception man.

Topman7:
SHUT UP THERE.

He is saying the truth, you fcking dunce.

Get yourself together man. Go and make money and stop barking like a dóg 🐕.

Nnamdipapa:
The richest Nigerians are in Nigeria

The ones you dine with abi?

Softmirror:
I go to all these places on holidays since a toddler so it's no big deal to me. Truth be told, I have never loved any of those countries because of either their weather, their to much privacy, loss in family bond. I prefer going on holidays and back home, Nigeria. One of the countries I can't stand during winter is Canada even some Canadians relocate for a short period to other countries during winter, their aged ones do this a lot.

Bottom line, it's no big deal to me. Nigeria is a lot of fun. If you have family members who were born in U.K or U.S.A you will notice that at most times, when the travel down to Nigeria they feel reluctant to go back.

Una Sabi lie sha. You wey never smell airport. Everybody will be claiming what they are not.

Proudlyngwa:
If u no get opay
I no go transact with u

Opay na mumu fintech banking firm. Try Moniepoint and see what it means when they say at the speed of light. Transaction dey drop at the speed of light for Moniepoint. Opay will disappoint you point blank. Transactions dey hang for Opay.