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Men should learn to prioritise themselves. That lady a guy somewhere is building up while neglecting himself, will leave him once she starts seeing little changes. She will feel she has arrived.

Men, we have been sounding it again and again to make it a resolution to prioritise yourself first in everything you do.

Never build a woman up with the intention of marrying her. Only roll with the ones that are already striving well for themselves. Neglect yourself to build her up and watch her dumb your sorry ass in a matter of seconds.

Love doesn't exist with the women of this generation. They only go where they know will benefit them. Where they will reap bountifully. They don't believe in building with a guy.

Be wise and stay wise.

brain54:
Because of 3million...

What if she sees 20 million. What would she do. Slap Tinubu?

I don't believe your story though. But these kind of things happen everyday.

I always say you can never know a person's true character until they have money. Especially those coming from a limited background!

Don't mind her. The girl na big mumu. That's why it's not advisable to pick a girl from the trenches and build her with the intention of marrying her.

Eteka1:
This Dark Man or whatever he calls himself may soon talk his way into prison.

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Streetdoctor:
Abeg who bi dis bolded

Na one chronic anti-japa antagonist who has taken it upon himself to fight and discourage all those relocating abroad. He claimed to have lived in the USA and now back to his mother's land and living with his eyes over his shoulders everywhere he goes for the fear of being kidnapped.

He is always on every travel thread discouraging people not to travel abroad. That Nigeria is not that bad as we paint it. He claimed that majority of Nigerians are going abroad to wipe white people's buttocks and do menial jobs.

According to ogbonti, no Nigerian survives abroad. That they are all sufferings and roaming the streets homeless.

Can you imagine all those bullshits he paint about those living abroad?

flexyrule:
Never happened!

Those big generating sets don't blow up appliances. They have a circuit breaker that trips off when the voltage goes haywire.

Furthermore, the prices of those big generators have gone over the roof.. The one that would pick your AC and fridge shouldn't cost less than 400k.

I doubt if someone with such financial strength would rent a house in the type of compund that she described.

When you said gone over the roof I was thinking they cost over 1 million naira. I was shocked when you mentioned 400k.

Jeweltz:
Broke men all over Nairaland. Carry your frustration go somewhere else. I didn’t make you broke

Tha shall not broke shame. Broke shaming is a sin. Let me be the judge. Let two of you show your bank accounts?

If you're looking for a husband, go to Nons Miraj Hunt game show. You will find husband there.

Mind you, don't go there and broke shame any guy o, if not Nons will ask you and the person you intend to broke shame to show your bank accounts.

To avoid embarrassing yourself with an empty bank account, don't even think of broke shaming any guy cuz men mount o.

The day you will by mistake have a million naira in your bank account as a lady, we know, we no go hear words for this Nairaland that day.

Dzzzz:
..You can see all you BrainDead 🥷 Continue to fool your followers..Tell me what’s your life like?

My life is filled with purpose, joy and fulfillments. I focus more on my personal goals and build myself to be that high value man that every woman will love to be with.

I am purpose driven, with main focus on self-development. I don't build my life around women. I am building myself to be that man with value.

What about you? What's your life like since you started falling in love helplessly and forgetting your purpose in life for a woman?

Cute9gerian:
Who are those still standing on his mandate 😂

See them here with their big heads my brother. Here are the people that are standing on Tinubu mandate. Very detailed list. List was compiled last year June 1, 2023 when the matter was still in court. Believe me when I say they are all feeling it hot hot. Standing on Tinubu mandate no be anybody mate trust me:

LeoDeKing
Bighead9
Parachoko
beerfraud
seunmsg
AdesegunSanni89
omniwater
Shigishege2
LordviccoDaGuru
jahsharon
OLOKOESHIN
Chucks13
iLoveYouToo
Dittodat
Tagtaye
wayforward2grea
yahmohy27
zomby
xtervaganza
Timmi
candygist
princeamehjosep
sleemomymy
Christistruth03
gloryman91
fareed69
deeva2
Alaigbomaster
omooba74
Wagwanbrethren
gassbee
livingbygrace
Firstcitizen
raddyworld
fuckjones
flokii
Maize247
yarimo
seunmsg
blowjohn
MisterBanny
Olachase
olatade
nairavsdollars
obembet
horgarzer
amooba74

MasterofNL:
Your wife is actually you. If you don't understand this then you don't understand the mystery of marriage. Can you love another person more than yourself?

Copied from Godsonkemz

If you're talking about ancient wives, then I will agree with you 50%. But if you are talking about wives of this generation and era, brother think twice make your case no go be like Tyrese o.

I saw one video of one Nigerian woman complaining online and advising Nigerian women to stop calling Police on their husbands in the UK, that UK police are now complaining about them disturbing them over trivial misunderstandings they have with their husbands at home.

If wives of this generation are truly good and women of virtues like Sarah in the Bible, the wife of Abraham, they won't be acting selfish in their marriages.

A woman is supposed to be a help mate as God made them and always support their husbands. But what do we see today? We see women who will follow feminists and bad friends and tell their friends that they will show their husbands pepper at home.

That's why you will hear words like his money is our money and my money is my money from majority of women who call themselves wives.

That's why, when some of these women find themselves in western society that gives them power over men, they tend to abuse it, chase the man out of his own house and start calling Police on their husbands over minor misunderstandings.

If you look at it, your woman love for you is conditional and fair weather. They can't withstand any minor tribulation with any man they claim to call their husband.

If not for children, brother, marriage doesn't in any way benefit men, especially in the western world. So, before you love any woman over your family and mother, try and ask yourself if her love for you is unconditional and selfless. If not, then think twice and learn from the experience of men in the western society.

MasterTeeUSA:
This is why I listen to Old Yoruba Song...The song said...you need to choose one, Mother or Wife. The singer said Mother and Wife are different, but a wife can leave and remarry, so a man must always realize Mom will always be Mother. Same argument was made for the Father. You grow into love with your wife...your love for your Mom and her love for you is why you actually lived long enough to marry wife. Do NOT let your Mother or Father curse you over your wife. You will understand why the Bible said HONOR your Mother and Father...in the 10 commandments without mentioning wife one single time Lol.

Wisdom. I advise everyone to read this post over and over again especially that part that says You will understand why the Bible said HONOR your Mother and Father...in the 10 commandments without mentioning wife one single time.

This is deep wisdom and logic that overide emotions and sentiments.

MrCork:
Of course, dont u like pussssssy? Bro any male who chooose ther rubbbbish mother over ther wife or girlfriend is gay & deserve a double backhand slap for bein gay sir!!!!(no oofencse)

Mr coçk the pussy slave young boy, how is your body now. Hope you are taking your hospital recommended medicines regularly.

Please make sure you take good care of yourself o and stop taking hard drugs and smoking Igbo in London so that you can recover on time okay.

Fast recovery my brother. You're healed in Jesus name.

Openifemy:
Una never see anything. We warned all those staunch supporters of BAT but just like the saying goes: " dog wey go lost no dey hear the whistle of the hunter"

It is well o

We told them o. Here are some of them. Take note of their Nairaland names. They are wanted. Just in case you find any of these names complaining about this government, don't hesitate to blast them.

They dare not complain about their lord and personal saviour. They are all enjoying this tenure. They ain't feeling it.

Some of them u see on this list can't even eat two square meals o. I pray make hunger no finish all of them.

See the list. Very detailed list. Any where you find these people in this platform complaining, don't hesitate to tell them to run to their saviour.

LeoDeKing
Bighead9
Parachoko
beerfraud
seunmsg
AdesegunSanni89
omniwater
Shigishege2
LordviccoDaGuru
jahsharon
OLOKOESHIN
Chucks13
iLoveYouToo
Dittodat
Tagtaye
wayforward2grea
yahmohy27
zomby
xtervaganza
Timmi
candygist
princeamehjosep
sleemomymy
Christistruth03
gloryman91
fareed69
deeva2
Alaigbomaster
omooba74
Wagwanbrethren
gassbee
livingbygrace
Firstcitizen
raddyworld
fuckjones
flokii
Maize247
yarimo
seunmsg
blowjohn
MisterBanny
Olachase
olatade
nairavsdollars
obembet

horgarzer
amooba74

Brendaniel:
I kept asking these Tinubu supporters during the election if they ever learn, they kept throwing insults, I told them their eyes will clear that it was just a matter of time...

Some even told me, we will give him 4 years if he doesn't perform we will remove and I asked which one is harder, to prevent him or to remove him?

Well, we all know the answer to that....

Na them be this my brother. I compiled some of their names last year June when Peter Obi was still in court with Tinubu. Here are some of the Tinubu loyalists. Anywhere una see them complaining about this government, make una chase them with cutlass.

LeoDeKing
Bighead9
Parachoko
beerfraud
seunmsg
AdesegunSanni89
omniwater
Shigishege2
LordviccoDaGuru
jahsharon
OLOKOESHIN
Chucks13
iLoveYouToo
Dittodat
Tagtaye
wayforward2grea
yahmohy27
zomby
xtervaganza
Timmi
candygist
princeamehjosep
sleemomymy
Christistruth03
gloryman91
fareed69
deeva2
Alaigbomaster
omooba74
Wagwanbrethren
gassbee
livingbygrace
Firstcitizen
raddyworld
fuckjones
flokii
Maize247
yarimo
seunmsg
blowjohn
MisterBanny
Olachase
olatade
nairavsdollars
obembet

horgarzer
amooba74

Here are list of some of the hoodlums that campaigned for Tinubu in February 25 2023.

Then after the election, when they were judging over the election at the tribunal, here are some of the hoodlums that were vouching for Tinubu and cursing Peter Obi.

I compiled this particular list on June 1st, 2023. Here are the list of all those that campaigned for APC.

I believe they are all now buying fuel at 400 naira per litre. They are not experiencing the hardship their Lord and personal saviour plunge us into today.

Tinubu is paying them 1 million naira monthly and they are all buying bag of rice at 40000 naira while those of us that said let's vote in someone that will relief our plights are currently buying bag of rice at 110,000 naira.

How it kor be now? I believe una don dey grind una teeth against each other o. How it kor be now Tinubu loyalists. Shey una see una life don improve well well o since una lord and personal saviour took power by force o.

Una dey feel am hot hot too o.

LeoDeKing
Bighead9
Parachoko
beerfraud
seunmsg
AdesegunSanni89
omniwater
Shigishege2
LordviccoDaGuru
jahsharon
OLOKOESHIN
Chucks13
iLoveYouToo
Dittodat
Tagtaye
wayforward2grea
yahmohy27
zomby
xtervaganza
Timmi
candygist
princeamehjosep
sleemomymy
Christistruth03
gloryman91
fareed69
deeva2
Alaigbomaster
omooba74
Wagwanbrethren
gassbee
livingbygrace
Firstcitizen
raddyworld
fuckjones
flokii
Maize247
yarimo
seunmsg
blowjohn
MisterBanny
Olachase
olatade
nairavsdollars
obembet

horgarzer
amooba74

AfonjaMozlem:
Death to all simps
Only a simp gets married

E.g Dzzzz , he is a chronic simp and a finished young man who is helplessly in love. He will never learn from the case of Tyrese.

He wasn't loved when growing up and always want the validation of a woman to feel wanted, thus, he refuses to take my advice to guard his heart and be cautious of his emotion about love for a woman order than his immediate relations and parents.

Una shakara too dey too much. He tried 3 good juicy times, but heck no you are playing hard to get. For a guy like me, twice and I am done. I can't kill myself.

I am of the belief that, if a lady likes a guy, she won't stress him with all these hard to get shenanigans. The guy even tried. 3 times he shot his shots and you still guffed? Baby girl, come on, that's too much of immaturity on your part essentialone.

I am happy the guy respected himself by backing off.

We know say na u the thing happen to. Don't use that copied to fool us abeg. We no be mumu for this platform.

canada123:
So was able to talk with my girl last night though didn’t go deep in the conversation but told her I saw an escort and all

Interestingly I thought that would be ground for breakup and I would start working on finding a girl here and all, but she said it’s not a deal breaker to her .

But still I’m very determined to stop this nonsense I’m engaged in and find my pathway to salvation and redemption.

Just suprised she didn’t see me seeing another girl as a deal breaker or grounds for breakup

Lol. You don't know what's in the mind of that lady. I expected you to know better. She won't find anything wrong with it now..but trust me, you will see the true colour of that lady once you make the mistake of taking her to Canada. Trust me. She will just use you as an escape route. Find a lady over there and settle down with.

Dating back home is not a good idea. There are lots of Nigerian ladies in Canada. Find someone who is already there. This one back home will only use you as an escape route.

This no deal breaker she finds nothing wrong with will be the same thing she will use to leave you once you take her over and find her footing. Once she starts working, she will leave you.

Even if you tell her now that you are a higher assassin, she won't find anything wrong with it until she gets what she wants.

Her eyes is on the prize. In her mind, she will be like see this mumu man. Once he takes me over and started earning, I will leave him.

Brother everything is just an escape route for our naija girls. Don't say I didn't tell you. We see ahead of things. I can practically sense things and know what could happen even before they happen. And I am here telling you.

I am sexually clean and pure and I can sense and feel things ahead before they happen. Don't say I didn't tell you. Find a Nigerian girl over there and strike a serious relationship with.

canada123:
Just curious, how best to go about this

She’s not done anything wrong to me and have been very nice and sweet since we crossed path, but I’m living a double life and she dosen’t know the other side of me which is this side of addiction


I really need help

You really need to know more about women brother. Why won't she be nice to you? Someone that already knows that you are based abroad, she will definitely worship you and portrays herself as a good partner. But trust me, they always have an ulterior motive at the end.

Our naija girls don't use ear to hear about abroad guys o. They are always so cheap to abroad guys cuz they want to escape Nigeria. Everyone wants to secure their spot. We do hear stories of how cheap our ladies are to abroad guys. Some will even be sending their núdes to abroad guys and always ready to do their biddings all in a bid to secure their spot o. Things dey happen brother.

She will see you as an easy escape route from Nigeria. That's why someone was advising you to look for a girl over there that is available within your reach to start a relationship with.

There has always been this reoccurring stories of our naija women misbehaving once our men take them abroad from Nigeria. Learn from the stories of others.

carl90:
Is there no beautiful lady over there at Canada you can have as a girlfriend or build a relationship with ?
do not put so much hope in this long relationship with your girlfriend here at Nigeria .
Personally ,I do not even fancy long distance relationship.
Life is too short for that.
You can't have so much cash with you and still be paying to have sex with a woman.
It does not make sense.
Get a good woman over there at Canada and build a serious relationship with her.
Life na once o.

canada123 doesn't know dating a Nigerian lady while living abroad, they only see it as an escape route from Nigeria.

That's why once they get there, they will start following bad friends and start listening to bad advice of how to show the man shege and will start misbehaving.

Before you know it, they will leave the man and start following another man there.

Having relationship back home while living abroad will always be seen as an escape route for majority of women. They don't love. There is always an ulterior motive.

HopeVictor:
I'd have suggested masturbation but una go say na bad thing.

Someone is battling with one addiction, and you want to introduce him to another worse addiction. Meat pie, Na wa oooooo! Na so una dey do oooo.

biggal:
It's a 5-year course

Yes I have experience as a farm Manager.

Infact, I have discovered a way of raising birds with zero antibiotics.
Part of my aim of wanting to relocate so I can carry out the research and gain international attention.

Interesting then. I will send you a telegram link in a dead thread. Don't quote the link as I will take it down once you join. Rather, quote this particular message to inform me that you have joined so that I can take the link down.

Please, once you join, kindly check the pinned message on top of the telegram group and provide your full details in the group, following the instructions contained in the message so that you can be attended to.

Let me know once you've joined by quoting this message.

biggal:
Good morning Sir.

Please what do you advice here

I studied Agricultural Economics with 2.1 (2009)
Currently finalizing my Msc Agricultural and Applied Economics.

Just got certified as associate Data Analyst.

I have strong determination to relocate because nothing is here for me.
Please what do you advice I do Sir??

How many years was your previous course? And do you have any experience related to it?

Dzzzz:
..Your still a boy if you listen to people for advice on relationships..

Sit down and think about this statement very well. Take it home, ponder over it very well and thank me 5 years later when you've grown matured and learned how to control your emotions over a woman:

👇

Foolish men find fulfillment in love, while smart men find fulfillment in their purpose. A man who finds fulfillment in his purpose can never be done dirty by woman because his purpose takes precedence over his emotional entanglement.

Mikespecialone:
You can take her away from Nigeria , but you cannot take away Nigeria from her

Please, come out plain. Stop beating around the bush.

OlaLiberty:
I have been getting error message each time I tried to upload my career episodes docs on EA when they are in pdf which is one of the suggested formats. Tried word too, it was the same issue. Has error experience this and how do you overcome it?

Rename the files. You are getting an error due to a duplicate of the files. You were trying to upload them, but they didn't, this created a duplicate files in the upload link. Rename and reupload them, the error will not occur.

E.g

MSA Career Episode I
MSA Career Episode II
MSA Career Episode III
Professional Summary Statement
Continuing Professional Development

OgaTheTop2:
Class A Simp!

That homo sapien called DaddyCoool is not a guy. If na guy that means we need to beat better sense comot his life and reformat his brain.

But trust me, she is an impersonator with pússy.

DaddyCoool:
She was minding her business, doing just fine when you insisted on making her "girlfriend". Well "girlfriend" comes with certain conditions

Daddy, stop impersonating guys here and stop being a transgendér. Your posts say it all.

BeauBragnar11:
Hello Good morning,
Please I need your advise, what country can I best migrate to??

I have a BSc in Accounting and Finance and also have Nigerian and European certifications in Accounting and Finance (ACA, ACCA, ACMA) with 7+ years of relevant cognate experience.

What Countries can I migrate to as a resident or work visa?? And if it's through the study route, what countries do you advise.

NOTE: I have a dependent (my spouse) and a savings of about N14m.

Please advise,
Thanks.

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