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CrimeRe: My Sister In-law Came For Omugwo by md16: 7:31pm On Oct 15, 2024
Reasonable and sound response. The OP asked for advise not insult. The OP is right to be angry, but then, he should send money to the sister-in-law. Doing omugwo is not easy. You should consider how the sister in-law had served you both. Tbh, this is not the time to be caught unawares when it comes to spending.
Tallesty1:
The difference lies in planning. Some people naturally prefer to plan ahead and be prepared—it's simply part of who they are.

Additionally, if you make a decision that you expect me to fund without consulting me, it implies that my input isn't necessary, and by extension, neither is my financial contribution.

If I was the OP, the wife's attitude won't change anything. I am going to be so happy in her presence that she will start to wonder if marrying me was a good choice.
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by md16: 7:02pm On Jul 09, 2024
Do you have the long type, I think they call it M.2
Betnomore:
New but no carton 1TB Micron PCie Gen 4 NvMe 2230 SSD upgrade for Steamdeck, Legion Go or ROG Ally.
Location: Ikorodu
Price:130k
Check signature for contact
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by md16: 8:41pm On May 19, 2024
How much is the Sony and Jabra?
FutureFocus:
Earbuds

Here I have the

1 Sony WF Xtra bass C700 earbuds
2 Boltune BT - BH020
3 Jabra Elite 2
4 Mometum True Wireless 2 ( TW2)
Technology MarketRe: Iphone XS Max For Quick Sale by md16: 6:55pm On May 14, 2024
What's your best price? With heavy use, how long does the battery last?? My offer, 200k
PhonesRe: Why Meta AI Is Dangerous by md16:
The only issue i have with Meta AI is the fact that you can't turn it off....or.maybe I'm the one that's hasnt found a way yet.


Users should be able to decide if they want it embedded within their WhatsApp, IG or Facebook or not.
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by md16: 11:45pm On Nov 14, 2023
Bread toaster still available?
Chiomy17:
Home Theater sold

2 in 1 red bag sold

250 litre water storage 18k

150 litres water storage 16k

100 litres water storage 9k

10pcs of Cottons and rod 20k

5 pcs 25 litre yellow gallons 5k

4.5 by 6 mouka foam 40k

3 in 1 food processor/ blender 30k

6 by 7 bedframe and mattress 220k

6ft wardrobe 100k

2 pcs kids chair 6k

1pcs plastic chair 5k

Medium size sensamite bag 20k

Large size travelling bag 20k

Small size refrigerator works very fine, cools and freezes but the exterior is not so neat because of my kids 20k

Hanging wooden wardrobe 10k

Dummy head for you wigs 1 pcs 4k

12.5kg Cylinder 25k

The prices are slightly negotiable
Please serious buyers only.
Kindly send a message on watsapp to see pictures and for quick response
09072489170

Thank you
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by md16: 5:30pm On May 26, 2023
Done
ayomidan:
no contact details?.. kindly paste your number
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by md16:
kyinusa:
Ur phone number
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by md16: 5:30pm On May 26, 2023
No sir/ma
aryor07:
Can it go for 50k??
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by md16:
gr8skillz:
No phone number to call?
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by md16: 6:16pm On May 25, 2023
Ibafo
IsiahOla:
Specific Location?
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by md16:
SOLD! SOLD!! SOLD!!!

1. A very strong and fancy wardrobe for sale. Location is Ojodu Berger axis.

PRICE: 65,000 (Slightly negotiable)

Pickup is available immediately

Jobs/VacanciesRe: My Experience With A Lady I Hired And Fired Last Week by md16: 12:09am On May 23, 2023
I don't know if anyone has said this before. What's your company policy on lateness? This should be something she knows the consequence. For example, coming late twice in a week/month attract warning/deductions from salary.

Also, when people start a new job, they need a sort of in-house training on work ethic. Believe me, the way she slept could be her importing an attitude from her last place of work, which may not be so frowned at over there (whatever the job is - maybe sales girl or so).

I'm not going to make excuses for her, but what I can think of is this. She probably lied that she lives within the same area as the work place just to get the job, and she actually have to commute a long distance to get to work, hence the sleep. Or, you unknowingly employed someone who is preggy. Either ways, at the end of the day, it is your business and you decide how you want to run it, what you take and won't take.
FamilyRe: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by md16: 10:11am On May 03, 2023
I'll advise you to communicate the idea of the fertility test with her as if it is your original idea. Afterall, it's not exactly a bad thing to do, since you've done it too. It's left for you to convince her.

As to your dad, he's trying to guide you, but you must set some boundaries with him when it comes to your relationship/marriage. His word is not law! You'll need discretion and wisdom to do this.
FamilyRe: Can Trust Issues Unresolved For 10years Managable? by md16: 3:49pm On May 02, 2023
@OP this post may be very long, please try and read through. There are 7 basic things that make marriage work. The absence of any of these will affect the health and the institution of marriage itself.
1. Unconditional love
2. Absolute Trust
3. Mutual Respect
4. Complete Honesty
5. Unquestionable Commitment
6. Forgiveness
7. Reach out to me, I'll tell you wink

Your marriage need what I call emergency care. You both need to revisit why you were married in the very first place. You both need to sit yourself down in an atmosphere of love and ask yourself the difficult questions.

*What would you like me to do differently in this marriage?
*What do I do that bring you joy and you'll want me to continue to do?

Your marriage can be good again if you are both willing to work at it. I strongly believe you are a melancholic person (from the way you've analyzed the situation). You may need to take some self-development classes to better understand yourself and others. How to turn your weakness to strength. Truth is that we ALL have weaknesses. For some it is trust. You don't have to do anything before they have trust issues with you. For some it is control. They just always want to be incharge (male/female). For some it is unchalant attitude no matter how serious an issue is.

You both need an accountability figure (a mentor, coach anything you want to call it). Someone who can speak with either or both of you and misbehaviour will gradually turn to desired behaviour.

Please feel free to reach out to this email if you want to talk to a professional that can help. rhemalogosng@gmail.com
HealthRe: Erectile Dysfunction by md16: 1:02pm On Apr 29, 2023
Thank you for the information. Just a quick one, is dry basin leaf and dry scent leaf the same thing, because you used them interchangably.
Teetee777:
I will give you 3 remedy but one after the other but if the first one work, don't bother to do the rest.

Don't worry yourself about ejaculate quickly in the first round but the problem is how long does it take you to rise again for the 2nd round that's where the problem lie.

1. One hour before sex with your wife, get black pepper (iyere) and efirin (dry basin leaves).

Take 7 pieces of black pepper and dry scent leaves and eat it and drink warm water on it.
FamilyRe: Loyalty In Modern Day Marriage by md16: 5:48pm On Apr 27, 2023
What works for A may not necessarily work for B. Marriage counseling works, like you said it's not a silver bullet. We have a few trained marriage counselor in Nigeria that are not religiously biased because I am one. If both partners are open to counselors, it may change their perception and decision to work things out. Sometimes, what is lacking is right information on which they can act right and that sometimes may be provided by a trained, professional counselor.
Curiouscity:
You seem to suggest marriage counseling for almost every marital challenges. These services though good, they don't work as silver bullets. If the partners are not willing to work things out, counseling is useless. In my opinion, a counselor serves as a guide to people willingly seeking solutions. If one person believes nothing is wrong,then there is nothing a counselor can do.
Secondly, how many professionally trained counselors do we have in Nigeria. The few we have are tainted with religious biases.
FamilyRe: Loyalty In Modern Day Marriage by md16: 5:42pm On Apr 27, 2023
You said all. Let me add this, the OP seem to use loyalty in the place of trust. She has trust issues about the husband. She doesn't trust her man's opinion (maybe because he has misdirected at some point) or the husband appear to be a bossy person, so she's resisting, again, a professional marriage counselor is encouraged here. She needs to be properly groomed in what is called information management in the home. It's somehow to easily divulge what the partner seem to consider their gist. @OP I can recommend a professional marriage counselor if you need one.
Kobojunkie:
1. What exactly do you mean by loyalty in marriage? Do you mean the traditional idea of the woman always doing the bidding of the man because he is head of household and believes it always has to be his way? Or do you mean two partners together reaching an agreement as far as that which benefits them both in the relationship and sticking to the terms of the agreement reached in this case? undecided

2. There you have your problem. In the case, that a different approach has been suggested, the couple must then come back to the table again in order to renegotiate and reach a new agreement in that case. undecided

3. The husband and wife aren't operating as an effective team in that case. To bring them both back to the same page may I suggest professional marriage counseling because they obviously don't operate as a team should. undecided

4. A marriage is meant as an agreement between a man and a woman. When they don't both agree, they can't both work effectively for the health of the relationship. Again, I suggest professional marriage counseling. undecided
EducationRe: My First Semester Result Without Any Expo (pics) by md16: 9:25pm On Apr 20, 2023
First of all, congratulations....and please, certificates gotten in a legitimate way is NOT useless. It's like saying human resources is useless in the corporate world. Until you need a good doctor when you're prettysick or so, a very good lawyer when you have a case to win in court, an engineer that knows how to build a 15 storey that won't crumble while being constructed or a business analyst to create a winning business model for you; that's when you'll appreciate those that go to school. It is talks like this "certificate is useless" that made some people not to pay attention to their studies and be comparing themselves with the 'microcosmic' number of people that are making it without actually finishing a degree or diploma.

Our young first class material, just a tip for you. Start to understand the economic relevance of the course you're studying right now and not when you're finishing up the program. Intentionally expose yourself to how to be employable, how to be an employer in this field you've chosen to study.

Ire o
RomanceRe: What Would You Do If You Was In My Shoe: Life Experience by md16: 6:19pm On Apr 08, 2023
Firstly, I'm so sorry you had to go through this experience. Anyone who's been there will relate better. I hope all is well with you and you have the strength to face this challenge. Here's my input....
1. Search for scholarships for first/second year students if your grades are in good standing.

2. Learn a skill that align with your potential. If you are religious, move close to God and pray, pray and pray. He sees your struggle.

3. Dwell on positive thoughts only. I know it is not easy, but please do for your own sake. Read books, stories of people who came out better at the end of the tunnel. People who experienced what you're going through.
tobby20:
Im a man of 21 years old , normally I’ve been struggling for my self since secondary school because my dad retired, my mom left my dad .
So fast forward to 2021 I gained admission to university, I hustle to pay my school fee
But things started taking u turn , I couldn’t pay school fee again , I had to skip two semesters . I can proof all this things . Idk why today I just got the sucidal thought today and just feel like commuting sucked . Now my colleges are in school , and I can’t do nothing cos no school fee.
Everything is just shit
I don’t know how to feel
Someone come to my aid
RomanceRe: What Would You Do If You Was In My Shoe: Life Experience by md16: 6:12pm On Apr 08, 2023
I agree with and love everything you said. Just to add, "doing well" is a relative term. You see those artisans you talk about ehn, some of them wish they had formal education, at least up to say secondary school level. I know this because I was a facilitator for adult education some years back and I heard them first hand. All in all, I like the angle you came from. Skill acquisition shouldn't be the last option! I see skill acquisition being embraced in the past 3-5 years like ever before.
brain54:
Most times people just follow the crowd mentality…


Or band wagon effect. They hardly do self appraisal.

I remember a friend who got admission to a private university in ogun state. One of the most expensive private schools in the country. At that particular time he lost his dad who was his major sponsor. He had some money with him and decided to go ahead with accepting the admission. I advised him against saying he should rather apply to a federal or state university for admission which would be cheaper and he can invest the rest money in a business which can yield profits and at least take care of his fees and basic needs through his education.

At a point it was like I was his enemy and did not want his progress. God will see him through he said. And so I left him to do his will.

Long story short he “struggled “ paying his fees through to 200 level second semester and had to drop out of school. Due to financial constraints. Degree he did not get… money he had wasted on a futile effort. Money he could have invested.

Now he had to start all over from the scratch again. Isn’t it frustrating?

The school a lot of people do not even know why they go get education… only because others do so and want to also do same.

Some of these artisans do even better than the so called graduates. Some of these graduates later go back to learn skills which they ignored initially.

I know a graduate of uniben who after searching a job for years without success went back to learn how to fix those aluminum glass doors and windows. He is doing well for himself now. Even though he had to fall back to the same which he had rejected.

No one should look down on acquiring a skill. Everyone should look inwards and decide what is best for them.

I know mechanics, brick layers etc without any formal education who are doing better than those with masters. Formal education is not a guarantee for success.

If you have the means get the formal education while learning a skill. You don’t know which you will fall back to.

Follow your dream yes… but use sense!
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 17 by md16:
Oh there's a website called scholaro? I just checked it out. What I need to know is if WES include a failed course that doesn't require resit during evaluation
Zihno:
I believe she’s referring to the website? No?
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 17 by md16: 9:31pm On Feb 22, 2023
@scholaro please help out here. Thanks
chibertha:
scholaro can give an insight to that
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 17 by md16: 6:32pm On Feb 22, 2023
Does WES factor in a grade F that is an elective and not required to finish a course. The grade F does not need resit

@justwise

EducationRe: What’s Is The Difference Between Nigerian Army And Nigerian Legion Force by md16: 9:44pm On Jan 19, 2023
I think Nigerian Legion consists of not-so-old retired members of the armed forces. I think they were engaged with legion force services so they aren't idle
AgricultureRe: My Pig Farm Journey by md16: 10:36am On Jan 06, 2023
How do we contact you
ChineduObinna:
Renting currently. But you can consult with us for a design that suits your needs
RomanceRe: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by md16: 7:32pm On Dec 09, 2022
I really love your balanced statement. Five star� for you
gaby:
Hmmm...

I am "words of short" as a man knowing I could get caught up in this kinda exploratory and adventurous hubris.

My only issue is how he(we) would take this sort of exploration should the case be reversed.

I no fit shout jare
PoliticsRe: What Will Happen If Peter Obi Does Not Deliver If He Becomes President? by md16(op): 3:16am On Dec 03, 2022
The question is simple and hasn't been answered. Wisdom is key, let's discuss intelligently rather than throw jabs.
Gucciblog:
This kind obsession ehh. I just tire.

From he won't win to what if he wins and doesn't deliver?

OP are you God?
PoliticsWhat Will Happen If Peter Obi Does Not Deliver If He Becomes President? by md16(op): 1:59am On Dec 03, 2022
So I'm just curious, with the so much support from the LP supporters, what happens if Peter Obi becomes president and we begin to hear stories year in and year out how APC government have looted Nigeria purse dry.

BTW, I'm asking as a curious citizen. I don't belong to any political party and presently not supporting anyone for now.
HealthRe: Fake Medical Doctor Apprehended In Lagos (Photo) by md16: 8:17am On Nov 27, 2022
I like people like you who dare to think outside the box unlike most people who just want to rush to type what is expected.
Revolution2022:
What does it take to become a qualify medical doctor?It may be he doesn't have a licensed to practice his profession or he is not registered with Lagos state government.We know how Lagos state government will pull down billboards that is not registered with LASAA.We also know how Lagos state local government will go about closing business premises that is not registered with them.Multiple taxation.


Modify;I am not in favour of his illegal activities.What I am stating was that,it could be he actually studied medicine but didn't registered to be legally accepted by the government.
PoliticsRe: Nigerians Accuse Peter Obi Of Lying About Naira Exchange Rate by md16: 12:42am On Nov 16, 2022
Something is missing. I have said this before and I'll say it again, as a political party lover or ardent follower of a candidate...if you have not come to terms that your hero or role model isn't free of making mistakes, error or blunder and all you want to do is defend them hook, line and sinker for what makes them human...then you are just a puppet!

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