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Reasonable and sound response. The OP asked for advise not insult. The OP is right to be angry, but then, he should send money to the sister-in-law. Doing omugwo is not easy. You should consider how the sister in-law had served you both. Tbh, this is not the time to be caught unawares when it comes to spending. Tallesty1: |
Do you have the long type, I think they call it M.2 Betnomore: |
How much is the Sony and Jabra? FutureFocus: |
What's your best price? With heavy use, how long does the battery last?? My offer, 200k |
The only issue i have with Meta AI is the fact that you can't turn it off....or.maybe I'm the one that's hasnt found a way yet. Users should be able to decide if they want it embedded within their WhatsApp, IG or Facebook or not. |
Bread toaster still available? Chiomy17: |
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I don't know if anyone has said this before. What's your company policy on lateness? This should be something she knows the consequence. For example, coming late twice in a week/month attract warning/deductions from salary. Also, when people start a new job, they need a sort of in-house training on work ethic. Believe me, the way she slept could be her importing an attitude from her last place of work, which may not be so frowned at over there (whatever the job is - maybe sales girl or so). I'm not going to make excuses for her, but what I can think of is this. She probably lied that she lives within the same area as the work place just to get the job, and she actually have to commute a long distance to get to work, hence the sleep. Or, you unknowingly employed someone who is preggy. Either ways, at the end of the day, it is your business and you decide how you want to run it, what you take and won't take. |
I'll advise you to communicate the idea of the fertility test with her as if it is your original idea. Afterall, it's not exactly a bad thing to do, since you've done it too. It's left for you to convince her. As to your dad, he's trying to guide you, but you must set some boundaries with him when it comes to your relationship/marriage. His word is not law! You'll need discretion and wisdom to do this. |
@OP this post may be very long, please try and read through. There are 7 basic things that make marriage work. The absence of any of these will affect the health and the institution of marriage itself. 1. Unconditional love 2. Absolute Trust 3. Mutual Respect 4. Complete Honesty 5. Unquestionable Commitment 6. Forgiveness 7. Reach out to me, I'll tell you Your marriage need what I call emergency care. You both need to revisit why you were married in the very first place. You both need to sit yourself down in an atmosphere of love and ask yourself the difficult questions. *What would you like me to do differently in this marriage? *What do I do that bring you joy and you'll want me to continue to do? Your marriage can be good again if you are both willing to work at it. I strongly believe you are a melancholic person (from the way you've analyzed the situation). You may need to take some self-development classes to better understand yourself and others. How to turn your weakness to strength. Truth is that we ALL have weaknesses. For some it is trust. You don't have to do anything before they have trust issues with you. For some it is control. They just always want to be incharge (male/female). For some it is unchalant attitude no matter how serious an issue is. You both need an accountability figure (a mentor, coach anything you want to call it). Someone who can speak with either or both of you and misbehaviour will gradually turn to desired behaviour. Please feel free to reach out to this email if you want to talk to a professional that can help. rhemalogosng@gmail.com |
Thank you for the information. Just a quick one, is dry basin leaf and dry scent leaf the same thing, because you used them interchangably. Teetee777: |
What works for A may not necessarily work for B. Marriage counseling works, like you said it's not a silver bullet. We have a few trained marriage counselor in Nigeria that are not religiously biased because I am one. If both partners are open to counselors, it may change their perception and decision to work things out. Sometimes, what is lacking is right information on which they can act right and that sometimes may be provided by a trained, professional counselor. Curiouscity: |
You said all. Let me add this, the OP seem to use loyalty in the place of trust. She has trust issues about the husband. She doesn't trust her man's opinion (maybe because he has misdirected at some point) or the husband appear to be a bossy person, so she's resisting, again, a professional marriage counselor is encouraged here. She needs to be properly groomed in what is called information management in the home. It's somehow to easily divulge what the partner seem to consider their gist. @OP I can recommend a professional marriage counselor if you need one. Kobojunkie: |
First of all, congratulations....and please, certificates gotten in a legitimate way is NOT useless. It's like saying human resources is useless in the corporate world. Until you need a good doctor when you're prettysick or so, a very good lawyer when you have a case to win in court, an engineer that knows how to build a 15 storey that won't crumble while being constructed or a business analyst to create a winning business model for you; that's when you'll appreciate those that go to school. It is talks like this "certificate is useless" that made some people not to pay attention to their studies and be comparing themselves with the 'microcosmic' number of people that are making it without actually finishing a degree or diploma. Our young first class material, just a tip for you. Start to understand the economic relevance of the course you're studying right now and not when you're finishing up the program. Intentionally expose yourself to how to be employable, how to be an employer in this field you've chosen to study. Ire o |
Firstly, I'm so sorry you had to go through this experience. Anyone who's been there will relate better. I hope all is well with you and you have the strength to face this challenge. Here's my input.... 1. Search for scholarships for first/second year students if your grades are in good standing. 2. Learn a skill that align with your potential. If you are religious, move close to God and pray, pray and pray. He sees your struggle. 3. Dwell on positive thoughts only. I know it is not easy, but please do for your own sake. Read books, stories of people who came out better at the end of the tunnel. People who experienced what you're going through. tobby20: |
I agree with and love everything you said. Just to add, "doing well" is a relative term. You see those artisans you talk about ehn, some of them wish they had formal education, at least up to say secondary school level. I know this because I was a facilitator for adult education some years back and I heard them first hand. All in all, I like the angle you came from. Skill acquisition shouldn't be the last option! I see skill acquisition being embraced in the past 3-5 years like ever before. brain54: |
Oh there's a website called scholaro? I just checked it out. What I need to know is if WES include a failed course that doesn't require resit during evaluation Zihno: |
@scholaro please help out here. Thanks chibertha: |
Does WES factor in a grade F that is an elective and not required to finish a course. The grade F does not need resit @justwise
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I think Nigerian Legion consists of not-so-old retired members of the armed forces. I think they were engaged with legion force services so they aren't idle |
How do we contact you ChineduObinna: |
I really love your balanced statement. Five star� for you gaby: |
The question is simple and hasn't been answered. Wisdom is key, let's discuss intelligently rather than throw jabs. Gucciblog: |
So I'm just curious, with the so much support from the LP supporters, what happens if Peter Obi becomes president and we begin to hear stories year in and year out how APC government have looted Nigeria purse dry. BTW, I'm asking as a curious citizen. I don't belong to any political party and presently not supporting anyone for now. |
I like people like you who dare to think outside the box unlike most people who just want to rush to type what is expected. Revolution2022: |
Something is missing. I have said this before and I'll say it again, as a political party lover or ardent follower of a candidate...if you have not come to terms that your hero or role model isn't free of making mistakes, error or blunder and all you want to do is defend them hook, line and sinker for what makes them human...then you are just a puppet! |
