₦airaland Forum

Dear Members,

I sincerely seek your honest advice and guidance concerning a deeply personal and challenging situation I am currently facing.

I got married to my wonderful wife two years ago. Before our wedding, we both underwent genotype testing, although in different hospitals—mine was done in Abuja and hers in Lokoja. According to the results at that time, I was told I had the AA genotype, while hers came out as AS. Regrettably, I did not take the step to verify my result with a second test from another facility.

Early last year, we were blessed with our first child. Shortly after his birth, I secured a job in a federal agency, which required a comprehensive medical evaluation. During this process, I was tested again, and to my surprise, the genotype result came out as AS. I went to another reputable hospital to confirm, and the result remained AS.

Fast forward to a few weeks ago—our son, now a year old, began experiencing swelling in his hands and feet. Initially, we thought it was a minor injury and got him some medication from a pharmacy, but the condition worsened and spread. We had to rush him to one of the top hospitals in Abuja, where he was sadly diagnosed with sickle cell anemia (SS).

As you can imagine, this has been devastating news for me. I’m overwhelmed with emotion, regret, and confusion. I love my wife dearly, but I’m also struggling with the reality of the situation—especially knowing it could have been avoided with more careful steps.

I am reaching out to you all, not to cast blame, but to ask for your heartfelt advice: How do I move forward? Should I continue with the marriage, or should I consider separation?

Thank you for taking the time to read and respond. Your opinions and suggestions will mean a lot to me during this difficult time.

Warm regards,

*File photo attached by admin

Who free train help?
We go kick him ass out of aso rock come 2027 by God's grace.

fergie001:
SOURCE: NLC

Nigerian's needs to wake up, we can't be a slave in our own mother land. These leaders doesn't have the interest of the people in mind. We have to shun ethnic and religion differences and fight for our common goals.

Salamualaikum Mal. Hussein. I based in nasarawa state. I studied agricultural engineering with a first class honours. I'm ready to meet any terms and conditions if you can help me with a slot from federal polytechnic nasarawa.
Here's my email address sir.
mohammedibrahim00262@gmail.com.


Sorry I cannot help o. Politicians have hijacked it completely. The ones selling the slot pegged around 800-1m. It is just crazy[/quote]

What about the age on NYSC cert. Can it be modified?

Mohisah:
So my Waec is trying to be useless.😂 That age is not fr me

Hussen24:
Shared today..

Salamualaikum Mal Hussein... please I need your help on something very important, how can I contact you?
My email address is: mo.ibrahim3002@gmail.com

Who is this pig again

derecho:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AJ0_yVhJ6ks


It's is clear that Inspite of the intimidation last Saturday, APC couldn't get up to 160,000 votes across Lagos.

Despite the suppression of voters, LP scored over 982,000 votes.
We can get more if only 3million out of 7million voters come out and vote.

This time around protecting yourselves.

The Thugs in Lagos are not up to 200,000.Add them to the less than 160,000 Lagos BATs who voted APC last Saturday.

This makes it about 10 persons to every 1 thug.

Please can we talk

ameynuJR:
I get sure link with the rector… he’s selling slots and given some to his relatives and kinsmen.

Please house, can the age on nysc certificate be adjusted?. Urgent reply needed please

TigerHead001:
Firs documentation in the process. Successful candidates have been posted all over the country.

Are they still calling applicants or they are done with the documentation

Miagro:
Firs new intakes have been deployed to various branches

Please is there still hope for those of us that has not been called

My source told me the documentation has started, but only few people are being called at a time to a hotel, so u guys should just be patient until the end of this month

geoimam22:
If you need NLNG APTITUDE past questions and answers kindly drop your mail

mo.ibrahim3002@gmail.com
Thanks.

JaiJaigyal:
Please there’s no specific date yet for FIRS?

Before or after Xmas

Thank u very much bro �

NurHadejia:
Only ogas at the top at firs can gives you the exact date bro.. But hopefully from next tomorrow to 25 December anything can happen.

NurHadejia:
My email is useless.. Talk to me here bro

.

Please do you have any latest update as to when firs will start issuing out APL

NurHadejia:
Be patient if you are waiting for APL at firs.. You will smile soon

Hello,
Good afternoon, I sent you a mail

Tplbankz:
Pls guys any idea on how much NDLEA pays its graduate new intake..

No idea

Yes they do

We are hoping they will start issuing out APL late next month
[
quote author=NurHadejia post=118494414]FIRS...[/quote]

Please can the date on an appointment letter fall on weekends?

Good evening house, please how can one tell if an appointment letter is fake or not...

[mo.ibrahim3002@gmail.com
quote author=Damfostopper post=118311691] damfos

topper@gmail.com[/quote]