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Tradepunter2:
Till Fulanis will wipe it out .... Except if another ighadolo comes up to save the Yoruba tradition

Hmmm. Only you will understand what you put up there.... By the way, I've seen how people from different colours and background sustain their tradition and culture passed to them by their ancestors. The old and modern China is a typical example. This people don't joke with tradition. I expect Africa to rise up before all aged practice of our fathers goes into an extinction

long live the king. King like this are the true custodian of our traditions which needs to be harnex to generations to come. Tradition is sacred and it must be protected..

That's how I ended up investing my last allawee balance during my service back in the days. I was apparently tempted by coleeagues I shared apartment with who received payments call every now and then. I wasn't cut out for such endeavours in the past but I went on with it anyways. The first ref flag was my inability to transfer the fund directly from my smart phone. Then I went to the only bank in the community to do the transfer, still not going. Then I had to borrow a phone to complete the transaction. It was like they were waiting for my payment before they crash the whole thing. Omoh!! I couldn't cry...

All this sponzi schemes are down to luck, join it very early and leave before the ovation rises😁😁

Too many irrelevant bills with no good intentions. May God heal our land!!

But all these hullabaloo is not in the interest of the good people of Rivers State. There is an urgent need for this country to be reset. Make the public offices less juicy for any aspirants. Let all tiers of govt be independent. Decentralize the Federal power and let states be in full control of their resources.

Then we are talking. But what do I know though!

if look well, the two teachers subject can not be far fetch

What happened to the physical fight in public and this could only amount to serious health
issues in a long run cos they are adult. I swear, in-depth education is paramount

This piece doesn't correlate. There is no way he would not hear or notice the blast of the train horn even if he increased his ear piece to the high heaven.

There must be something not said here...

brain54:
I guess the Bible has only been translated into African languages...


They are professors etc in Africa. Keep waiting for the white man to come and spoon feed you by translating biology and physics to your own language.

If this isn't entitlement... I do not know what else is!

Entitlement You say, this your I somehow vague o

Habbeyy:
actually people have been doing it in different local languages, especially mathematics. Government needs to get involved too

You wouldn't have said it better bro👍

AllenSpencer:
How will they mentally Africans if those other books were translated.

You teach someone about the evolution of man and same time tell him that God created him.

How do you them that rainbow is a promise made by God when physics already explained it as a dispersion of light.


How do you explain to them that a whale swallowed a man and the man still came out alive, or a man chilled with Lions and didn’t get hurt.

Science will make you question those fictions, and you won’t believe the books.

🤔 Hmmm! This is another dimension to it

the general believe is that if all these core subjects like math, chem and physics are taught in our native languages, it will be better understood by all than the English form. But who will translate the chemical jargon and complex mathematical terms to Igbo, Hausa or Yoruba

I couldn't wrap my head over the tweet, is there a ploy to perpetually underdevelop the mind of black race with religious rather than developmental innovative minds

Some of us are even closer to ok ur friends and peers much more than we closer to our family members. Reason for someone like me is to avoid too much emotions and inconveniences, most especially with married family members..
But trust me you may feel free discussing some sensitive and confidential issues with your friends and never with a family members. That the kind of bond we share especially with reliable and honest friends... But the old traditions says family is bae oo

It's a top notch but this demands steadfastness and commitment among others... It's easier said than done oooo

Edygrin:
The apex Igbo socio-cultural organisation, Ohanaeze Ndigbo, on Friday, distanced itself from those who endorsed the demand for the creation of Anioma State.


https://dailypost.ng/2024/12/06/we-have-not-endorsed-creation-of-anioma-state-ohanaeze/

The more the creation of states, the more the liability created. More states is not what we need at this point of time. Our coexistence needs to be renegotiated, our forms and running or govt needs to be revisited. There is an ultimate need for a referendum. We should not prioritize what will bring no succor to the people of the state for what the states really need. The creation of more states only beings wealth and an underserved soup of plate for a selected politicians who are not up to 100 .

Natbrowny:
The real G himself

Note. Ur wife knows already whether you wanna agree or not. U no b james bond. These wives knows.

But in all ur van damme moves. Dont do it to her face

They always know there is a mulla by d side of their husband, they dont like it when u do it to their faces.

That calls for war u can't win. Even if u be Jason Statham

You wouldn't have said it better

Dogalmighty17:
8 weeks is enough for your wife to resume her conjugal obligations to you. Where are you getting that two years rubbish from?

Oh! Ok, I'm very sorry sir

Kobojunkie:
1. First of all, there is no truth to the claim in bold(and red). Second, every woman's situation is different. If a woman feels she can begin having sex right after having a baby, she can do that except the doctor outrightly advises her not to for health reasons. I used to know a gal who would jump right into bed pretty much the day after having a baby. She did this after her first and second and had no problems of any kind. Yes, doctors advise women to wait four to six weeks but that has not stopped many women from jumping right back into the grind, some even the very same week.

2. Many times nursing mothers have similar cravings but put that aside for one reason or the other. I see no reason why the man cannot equally be expected to make a similar sacrifice after all the child at the center of the issue is equally his.

3. It takes self-discipline for single and married men alike, and married and single women as well. I see no reason why a married man should not be expected to exercise the same level of self-discipline his married wife is expected to exercise for one reason or the other.

The key at the center of all of this... for both men and women... is self-discipline/self-control, something that is less and less stressed among more and more African men and women alike these days.

You've said it well👍

cococandy:
It’s only medically necessary to wait for 6 weeks after a normal uncomplicated pregnancy and birth.

Additional wait time might be necessary if there was surgery, trauma or other complications associated with the pregnancy. If none of that is applicable and the mom feels up to it, after 6 weeks you guys can get on with your bedmatics.

Breastfeeding doesn’t prevent sex

Lovely submission ♥️♥️

Natbrowny:
Most married men gat some mullars by the side.

They will not admit this.

Lol... Are you echoing your style

Bahamas95:
I waited for 2months.

My wife gave birth with no complications so it's unnecessary waiting for months before knacking......

So did mine.....Thanks man👍

demoBaba:
1.5 month would be okay.

Is that one and a half month?

dawnomike:
3 to 4 months wait is fine....

Oh! Thats sound familiar.... Thanks man👍

Happy weekend nairalanders
So, I've come with loads of questions for young married men in the house

To this effect, I need upright and experienced answers devoid of negative sentiments

So, as a young family with less than a month old baby, of course there will be need for us to wait for at least, 3 years before developing a thought of making another baby.....


It is however normal and medically necessary for a nursing mother to abstain from sex during the entire period of breast feeding and nursing the young baby.

At the other end, a father/husband who has nothing to nurse but ensure basic provisions of needs and care for both the mother and her baby may have a need to crave for sex during the period.

Now, without fornicating,for how long can a man wait for the wife to be physically fit to engage in marital sex and how can this be achieved without cheating.

Some friends says they wait for 3 months before engaging their wife in a protective marital sex again. But when I mentioned 2 years to them, they all bursted into an uncontrollable laugh 😂. They stressed that even women would not hold it for that long.

So friends in nairaland, come to my aid..

And once again, my questions are directed to married and young couples in the house...

All opinions will be keenly processed and thought over ...

Thanks 🙏🙏

The whole thing looks scripted to me I swear . Abeg, wetin be the title?

You cedis people and their wàhálà ehn...

EreluRoz:
You see this abroad, I will never be a fan of it.

I can't trade my princess treatment here to become a second class citizen elsewhere. I love my country

I seconded you

He should be probed and sent to God if found guilty........No padi padi.


Next abeg

They should send him to God if found guilty....... I hate nonsense

Chetas81:
THEIR NOT BLACK AFRICAN FOOOOOLS

Oh really!! Mr compound fooooooooool. Like I didn't know that .

🤣🤣

When sharing formula goes wrong...

adamusuleiman3:
https://punchng.com/oyo-declares-august-20-work-free-to-mark-isese-day/

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