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The question is, how old is the wife? Having a 32years old lady as nanny is what I can't decode. If her husband was not busy, he might even be the one to impregnate the nanny.

Solution is simple.. To me, you brought a new wife for your father in law unknowingly because you were too busy to take care of him. He didn't nag or complain that you were too busy. And bringing forth a young lady to do your job relieved him.

Now, the deed has been done. It's either you calm your nerves because your husband will NEVER be on side. Reason been that, the money ge brings home is from your father in law's company. If you don't want to loose your home, be patient. When I say, PATIENT, it takes a lot of maturity. Calm your nerves, treat her well.

In this situation, if you don't calm your nerves and be patient, you might loose your home because other siblings will NEVER be on your side. They want happiness for their Dad and anyone that will cut if short, will have a lot to deal with.

The right time will come when you will be justified. Don't fight. Don't nag. I know it's geasy said than done but all these is what you need to keep your home.

Marriage is full of ups and downs. This is yours, accept and move. Others are worse, yet it was managed.

What happened in Osun is about to play out. Nigerian politicians, WehDonSir

iriakanns:
Bros, you have quoted the scripture wrongly. It's a man that leaves and cleaves to his own wife. “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”
— Genesis 2:24 (KJV)

To the bros that sought our opinion. If you are ready to compromise, then go on with the marriage, no be say after you agree now, if you don marry her finish, you go come rescind your decision. If you can't compromise now, just make it clear to her that you can't continue with the ship.

Going back will cause more havoc. It shows he is not man who can stand by his words. Respect her wish for crying out loud. If it happens the other way round, battery comes in and of care is not taken, someone will loose heavily to something that can be avoided.

Men.....please respect women. They are humans and not second fiddle. Let's treat them right nah. We have mothers, sisters and aunts. Can we see see them in situations like this and advise as we are advising men online..?

Orientation is really needed for this generation on how to treat women. Now, I can conclude my research on increase in marital disputes.

emmanuelle27:
Lol.. my problem is with your scarcity mentality, if you've been with women alot you won't be this timid, what do you mean be "the only one I love?? my friend grow up, she's already calling the shots because she's sensed that you're weak and indecisive and that you love ONLY her, which is bad, tell her what she must do or she goes, stop being naive and vulnerable to manipulations

So, respecting your spouse opinion(s) is manipulation? Chai..women don suffer for this world. This is only time (before marriage) when her opinion should be considered mostly because when she gets married, it will be very hard to voice her opinion to people like you. Respect her wish and if you can,find another @ least you all say, there are many fish in the water. Pick another nah..Oshisko

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

If you cannot accept her words nor compromise your religion for her..I say this with my full chest, that's a read flag. The marriage no matter how you love or endure, it will break and religion will be the cause. I am not a soothsayer, that's the fact. Nothing should be attached to marriage most especially religion.

Praxtech:
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Why?

Did you check other extensions whether they have been taken?

Did you click the link at all to check it's authenticity?

You just concluded?

Jman06:
Truckloads of excuses! Women have always looked for rich men from the days of Methuselah. But modern women have taken it up to a whole new level by abandoning their own supposedly traditional responsibilities of taking care of the house, submitting to their husbands and being the virtuous woman. Instead, they want to stay in a man's house and claim equality and feminist even while living off the man like a parasite.

Stop justifying the promiscuity of today's ladies! If you are dating a guy and he fails to propose, you don't start cheating on him because of that, you simply breakup and look for someone who'll propose. But we all know that the reason behind cheating is economic, sizing as many men's pockets as possible and checking who is SIMPle enough to marry that one.

Woman offend you in your former life?
Do not wish bad for any gender no matter the havoc they have caused. Not sure you have a child and if you do, not sure you have a girl child.

If you have a girl child, I pray you live long to see her husband in this situation or more. Then, you understand why you respect people no matter the gender or havoc.

Now, the woman is the problem because she's female and brothers are right because they are male? And you co-accept their attitude? Without even checking whether the news is fake or real or even listen to both sides.. All these just because you dislike the female gender.?

For real. You must be a psychopath.

All these jabs are not really necessary. let them conclude all investigations to ascertain it was actually his greed that led to the collapse or something that needs indepth findings.

You can't rule out other factors till its confirmed that greed which I believe he won't be only culprit led to the lost of souls.

We shouldn't be judgemental.

In this country, I have said it many times. Nepotism kills faster than corruption. This is the aftermath.

Kill Nepotism..Kill Corruption...Nigeria becomes a better country

What exactly do we want as Nigerians?..

We keep complaining like a buffallo. We are corrupt. Damn corrupt. It runs in our blood.

Proffer solutions to the corrupt system and stop typing gibberish on different post. They (elites) will pick or modify some.

That's the way forward and not cyber ranting

Kobojunkie:
If that is the case, the ministry should have been involved in this case long before this, right?

Absolutely

Kobojunkie:
What do you mean by her present state of abode?

Also, I hope all those who submit applications are thoroughly investigated before these kids are handed over to them. Nigerians are something else.

According to the story, the 17-year-old was abandoned at the hospital and probably has no clue that the ministry could be of help. Are you maybe ale to connect with Delta to get someone out there to find her and aid her?,

Her home state.(Abode)

Well, I work in the South West . Not sure they have a liason office in my State. Will check, if they do, I'd definitely show them this thread.

In the interim, nurses or social workers should be able to liase with the Ministry easily. We work together most times.

Kobojunkie:
I hope a couple looking to give the babies a good home can find this and help out.

Hey Meetme01, can your ministry help out in this case by maybe finding her a couple to pay the bill and maybe get the twins off her hands as well?

Sure we can. Though, her present state of abode need to be put into cognizance before taking such step. Before then, there can still be series of intervention.

Let them talk to Delta State Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Welfare or the Social worker in the hospital. They will definitely take proper care of the mother and babies.

[quote author=halayomide post=107279396][/quote]Which of the Ives are contemplating?

HonNL:
SOURCE

Same bullsh*t.. Case closed. Let's continue ranting online.

Moneyboyz:
There is a Human corpse at Toll gate around that Bible college, it has been there for days now and people just go about their business like it's a normal thing.

The corpse is now smelling and may burst soon (today or tomorrow).

Please help push this to front page so the appropriate authorities In Ogun state will go there and pack it up before things go sideways.

The most annoying part is that there are police men all around tollgate extorting motorists, there is a FRSC office in tollgate, a whole police division in sango ota and an extortion checkpoint just a 1 Minute walk from where this corpse is located.

Please this is human life, a person that was unfortunate. Can be anyone tomorrow, please don't let this person suffer in life and in death.

Do we actually value human life in this country?

The problem has been there and will continue to be there till we put right peg into right holes. Nepotism kills a country faster than corruption. Institutions will work if Nepotism is jettisoned and corruption can be properly checked.

It's a pity, they (elites) have inflicted us with poverty mentality, we fail to ask for our damn right.

No matter how bring issues to the fore, we would just rant online and leave them to their jobs (politics) while we suffer and smile.

Woosssss...we the masses are the problem of this country especially the educated one's. We keep running away from our fundamental human rights (franchise most especially).

It is not rocket science, if we don't change our mentality and change the state of country to what we want.. na like this he he go dey dey ooo

Alaye won enter through back door to see his Doctor.

Tell the management to adopt ICT in issuance and sending of transcripts. Why should I contact an alumni who is also busy to collect my transcript?Also, student copy is a norm in Universities in the country,OUI should imbibe such.

Most importantly, spelling errors should be checked when issuing transcripts.

A student that graduated in International Relations, the cover page stated the student graduated in Mass Communication.

The spelling errors in the courses. Chai. I have proof. This is not hearsay.

Best of luck to us all in our future endeavours

My regards to all the International Relations lectuers.

Evangelynn:
Easier said than done,how many couples adopt in Nigeria,they would rather wait for 70 years and have theirs than adopt one.

There are people who know the drill and carryout abortions here let's not kid ourselves, thank goodness that in neighbouring Benin Republic it is now legal so she can go there.

The ministry cannot help everybody they may only try to compel the man but in Nigeria where men are hardly held to account I doubt the man can be forced to do anything.

Madam, what do you know about adoption? Okay see, walk into the Ministry of Women Affairs in your state, ask about the process. On your way out, ask how can they make the process faster because you are in dare need. The Officer in charge will tell you this- Madam, applications are really much on ground. However, you can check back in 6months. That shows the number of applicants on board.

Adoption has been accepted has a norm. There is no single working day that a couple or woman will not come forward to apply. That's the basic truth. If it's a lie, do as I say.

Women oo..stop advising your fellow women to abort. Rather, advise yourselves to ensure, you close your legs for every tom,deck and Harry. Let them know, for every action (open legs), there is a bigger reaction (unwanted pregnancy). Both have a price. Whichever they deem fit, the price will be paid and receipt collected.

It may be a faster and easier process to elude shame. The shame is just for while. With proper counselling, the lady in question will forever be grateful she took that bold step. You will not be there when the repercussion arise.

Evangelynn:
If you are not in anyway capable of taking care of the twins or you don't have any support from anybody to undergo this life changing journey you can have an abortion.


Don't let anyone deceive you if you are not prepared you cannot force the father to take responsibility especially in this lawless country and he isn't even married to you.

Abortion..how many have done? You heard its the best way of terminating pregnancy. You didn't ask the consequence. How old are you sef?

I see, if it were you, abortion is the next option.?My dear, if it happens, don't try abortion o. It's a suicide note that kills gradually. You might be lucky to have it done successfully. Do you know how many kids, your creator has associated with you? When you now get married, with no pinkin, you start jumping from church to mosque as if God's your problem.

Don't ever advise a fellow woman to abort. Lots of repercussions ahead. The future is the key,not today.

PatrickOkunima:
I am not aware of the bridge courses. The reason they're not accepted is because those programs are not thesis-based. In the real sense of it, they don't do any research. Most pro masters holders know little to nothing about academic writing. [/b]In Nigeria, most of their thesis are written by others and they are graded by their supervisors[b] I don't need to tell you the process one goes through to be awarded a thesis-based masters degree.

Do you know how many Msc thesis I wrote between 2019 till date?. Even UK students do contact me for same. And frankly, what's that biggie about thesis? In Nigeria, 70% of thesis were contracted. Even some dissertations. Yes, that's fact because that's my second side hustle.

Thesis is over rated in Nigeria. Presently coding 1450 RQ of 6pages for a PhD student. You know what comes before getting to this stage. Analysis con be wetin sef.? Run the package and explain.

I said it earlier, it is not about the degree. It's about experience and knowledge. I'd even prefer a professional Master's holder in some fields because their field experience alone is enough for research.

In MSW, I did 180 working days multiply by 8hrs excluding public holidays on the field and you have first hand experience in every specializaton. Can any M.Sc student have that experience? Nah except Medical students.

Let me lecture you a bit in my field and relate with other fields with such specializatons.

In Adult Education, at Masters level, you have to specialize in 4 fields which include Social Welfare, Community Development, Health Social Work and Industrial before graduation. On your certificate it will be specified . M.Sc Adult Education (Social Welfare). This folks don't have any field experience a bit.

In MSW (Masters in Social Work), you specialize like that of Adult Education. MSW, Social Welfare. They have the field experience of 180days x 8hrs.

Now, tell me, whose thesis will you prefer? At least, both must submit a thesis.

The bridge courses is M.Phil. It is not all those who fail to meet PhD grade that apply for Mphil. It's a bridge course for professional Master's holders in some fields and Uni.

kimcastropiihnh:
Here is a video of a live frog being pulled out of a woman’s private part. It was alleged that the undisclosed woman have been complaining of pains in her abdomen and it was her boyfriend that helped bring out the frog.



Here is the video
https://loadedpulse.com/video-of-frog-coming-out-of-a-womans-toto-leaves-social-media-users-shocked/

Or she was doing rituals (kayamata upgraded)

PatrickOkunima:
Okay. I believe you know those qualifications are not accepted for PhD. Do you know why?

I do. However, there are bridge courses that convert some professional Masters to PhD.

Don't deviate. That does not make them uncapable of writing M.Sc thesis.

PatrickOkunima:
What gives you that impression? I sincerely want to know.

Why the subtle bias and discrimination? Spewing it loud to the world saying you don't want "professional Masters holders" speak a lot of volume.

I have been writing projects wayback since my UG. I made money. I did same in my PG (Professional, MSW). There is nothing about project, thesis or dissertations that I don't know. Lots of folks out there with same experience and knowledge like myself but with your discrimination, they will definitely see you are an academic racist and opt out.

Sincerely speaking, I don't need a job because my table is already full. My wife is not enjoying me all because I have to wake up midnight to use my computer. Me sef don tire..

PatrickOkunima:
Minimum Academic Qualification: M.Sc. or M.A. ([b]Professional Masters holders, such as MBA, MPA are not accepted[b]

Must be familiar with APA 7th edition.

Must have a laptop with internet.

Must have 24/7 access to electricity.

Must have published an article in a reputable journal.

[Very attractive

Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV, cover letter and samples of academic articles to patrickokunima@gmail.com

It shows you are an academic racist.

Kobojunkie:
It's 2021, why do I need to put my request in writing abeg? I was hoping I could fill the form online and maybe get it before the end of this next week.

Interesting information you provide there on the delay in adoptions. I hope I can forward any other questions I may have in regards to this subject to you , in the near future.

Well, that's a good idea. Hopefully, in the future, this would be in place.

No problem. I'd gladly and willingly answer your questions.

Kobojunkie:
Can you please explain why the process of adoptions take so long in Nigeria, even at the local level?

Also is there a comprehensive list of orphanages currently operating in Nigeria today?

I would not be able to provide the comprehensive list of orphanages in the country. I can only provide this information in my domain upon request in writing to the Ministry.

The process of adoption linger because number of applications increases everyday. People are just adapting to this form of having kids. We can only give what we have, a large number want new 0-6months and few want 2-6yrs.

The former comes from abandoned babies which is 1 in 3months. (Averagely) and you have to treat applications one first come basis.

Now I see, we need alot of orientation and reorientation in this country about social problems. We are our own problems and if we don't take caution, the rate or suicide will increase.

The lady is just like another woman who can face this problem. No one is a Saint. Even most of you mocking her have gone for abortion, and because it didn't go wrong, you instantly become a virginity.

97% of you have had unprotected sex. You didn't not get pregnant was not because you were too smart but luck or not on ovulation secured you. Beat you chest if you have not.

The lady in question brought her problem and in all hurry, you become judgemental because she got pregnant out of wedlock. Is that a sin?

In cases like this, either real or fake, you show empathy. She has made a mistake. Correct her maturely. Provide workable solutions. I wish I can invite all those mocking her to marital dispute sessions to understand what am saying.

Haab

Mercychen:
You guys should stop opening legs up and down anyhow na? Chai!

Ok. Now the man has rejected the pregnancy, you're going to bring those innocent souls into the world to suffer...

What will it take this generation to abstain till marriage because apart from the spiritual implications, the physical implications are even more devastating and most times irreparable.
Simple chastity has become a herculean task for this generation.

Just go get a job and start saving ahead for when you'll deliver because times are hard and you can't afford to be a burden to anyone. Even the one responsible has dodged you because he knows what it entails.

Go get a job!

And who says the one you even got married to and opened legs for cannot deny paternity? Don't wish this for any one.

It is not about opening legs in this generation ma'am. It's all about societal changes we are witnessing in this generation. Some ladies want kids,but no husband (Baby mamas has you call them). It's vice versa

Kobojunkie:
What organization is this and what is the contact information to this organization?

Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Development or Social Inclusion of any state. I work in one of Southwest states

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

Ma'am don't mind all those cowards chastising you.

What's your age bracket?

Are your parents aware? If yes, your mom could be a good support system at this time.

If no, you need to get them involved at this early stage and if perhaps, you feel it won't go down well with them, get a sister, cousin or family friend that you are comfortable with to confide in, to talk to them.

Try this and give an update to see what would be the next step (counsel, advice and intervention). I believe this would work.

My dear, lots of guys are irresponsible which they later regret in life when it dawns on them, what a foolish decision they took wayback.

Lots of applications for adoption are on my table. This is to tell you that, the gift God is about to handle over to you, is priceless.

This time will pass. Whatever support you need, ask and assistance will come. The bright future should be your focus.

It will be rough, but believe me, it will end in praise.. Amen

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