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In the 20th century, parenting was the hardest job on earth.

Today, I can confidently tell you that, parenting is no longer a job but a joke.

Children are now parents so, the question is just absurd (apologies).

We ain't see anything yet.

Gmave:
Hi guys,
Please I've applied for skilled worker visa, my wife got a nursing job.
We've done everything we need to do so far.
We did biometrics on the 25th of Jan,
12 working days so far, biometrics remains stuck @ received by Dmc,
She has to resume by 25th of Feb or Cos might be withdrawn.
Only mail we've gotten so far is to upload TB certificate, which we have.
I'm panicking a bit, I've called them, they said decision hasn't been made. Help?

Calm down. Decision will be made and it will end in praise. They rarely reject health workers especially nurses.

Still available ?

Location

STYCNig:
LET ME HELP YOU BROTHER...
NATURALLY, LOVE, SACRIFICE AND GIVING ARE TOGETHER BY DEFAULT! ii.e YOU CANT SEPARATE THE THREE OF THEM!

Who taught you how to give her? The natural Love you have in your heart for her...
What taught her NOT to give to you? The lack/emptiness of love, concern or passion in her heart for you... NOTE: There are folks she's giving presently without those people asking her! Why? because she value them!

DON'T BE CONFUSED BY THE CONCEPT OF ASKING BEFORE GIVING... It does not correlate in all circumstance. This is someone who practically have not given you any gift before. Those are signs to detect who places value for you.

Don't be manipulated by you did not ask syndrome! I am not saying you should End the relationship, but she has failed the Test and you can't promote her to the next stage. Since relationship is about mentoring and training them, you can start training and mentoring her giving and caring life - If she improves, then promote the relationship to the next level, if she doesn't, then do what you wish.

Don't always assume and conclude text with this your analogy.

Background is the first thing we check when issues like this arise.

Is that her first bf?

Was she jilted before coming into this relationship or what really happened?

Probably, she assisted with all he got with her ex and lost all. Here, she wants to be careful not be a victim again.

See, coming to a conclusion on text is not worth it at all. Ask questions. There you will find answers.

Op is testing her right? It's good but at the same, as he considered why she's not doing such hence, the need to ask.

Let him ask, she will bulge her mind and OP will realize why she's not doing what he wants. We are and can never be the same because we are wired differently with different life experiences.

Don't be judgemental if you don't ask questions to understand what the other party is going through.

You remind of something like this.

Myself and guys branched at a bar owned by a friend's mum. We spent 38K on drinks. We gave her 30K with a promise to pay up in 2days which is month end. The woman flared up and said, if our money is not complete, she won't take the 30K. We pleaded but still refused. We just crossed to the otherside, spent the 30K on drinks and dispersed.

Our friend's mum reported us to everyone on the street but thank God, we were given the opportunity to speak. If you see how this egbon adugbo rubbised the woman, we felt pity and hustled the money next day to settle the bills.

A bird at hand is worth billions in the sky. You really f.up. You returned money. If I was the woman, you will spend more than the money before I pay you.

kumbhuru:
Answers to this please

NO

Jewessgratitud3:
She said she wants to take them to be with her while he sends money for their upkeep and school fees. She also said she might have to involve social welfare to get this done.

Thanks.will remind her of this again if she insists on going with them

The ages and gender of the kids is a big factor, hence the question

Sure, she would have custody while the father would have access. School fees, upkeep and sundry payments will be discussed and both parties will sign an MOU

When she gets to the social welfare, she should just narrrate few points and tell the officer what she wants.

If it were to be my State, I would have done referral and my guy in Lag have Japa to UK.

First, how old are the kids and their gender?

Second, can she cater for three kids if the husband pays the school fees?

Third, is she ready to continue being a single mother and let the husband have access?

Fourth, she needs her mental sanity, hence, she needs to stay away from the man.

Social Welfare is the way forward

Best advise has been given. Nothing to add.

All the best bro..!

accordadoga25:
Go there with your two legs and probe the school.

What's stopping you?

You don't have to wait for FBI.

Omo ale

You should be ashamed of yourself.

This shouldn't be about partisanship, it should be more of morality & respect for your fellow humans. You can't carry guns doesn't deny you from asking critical questions.

Just imagine, someone says, you didn't attend the schools you claim you attend, I believe your lawyer will rush to court, seek for $1B as damages.

Can't the man do that if truly his certificates are genuine. No hard feelings. Just trying to let you know that, sometimes it is not about facts but your attitude towards tarnishing your image and that of your family.

moneymind:
I own GPTcore in king. Taken in 5 extensions now. The net and network extentions are in development stage, XYZ and CN are for sale. GPTcoreStudio.com is also being developed.

Do you think I should reduce price to help it get sold faster, maintain price or increase it. Opinions needed.

Reduce the price drastically if you want a quick but if you intend to hold for long, slam 3years renewal and leave till your get an offer.

No one made you believe their roads are plated gold. It is you and your cronies that snap and send roads on social media painted it in your minds.

They never told you it was better. It is just your assumption that made it so.

If that road and others like that make you believe developed nations are not good and better off, so be it. I don't think anyone was begged to apply or pay for non refundable visa fees.

Continue assuming o.

Jamescool2:
SH approved an unregistered name I submitted. I wanted to publish the name but I was told they had issues registering the name. Have you experienced this before

Two things

Probably it has been registered by another domain or SH has not registered the domain but approved. Chat support and let them know. If they send you who.is, it shows it has been registered by another domainer. If not, just relax, when SH register, it will be in your portfolio.

Had same issues severally

Hmmmm

dave0450:
I use my company letterhead as reference for uk student visa application. UKVI now send mail to them but they are refusing to reply the mail saying I didn't follow due process by informing the headquarter office before using the company letterhead for such things. Which I did not know because it was the branch office I use the letterhead from and I was thinking that they ukvi will contact the branch office bcoz the official email of the branch is on the letterhead. I have plead with the headquarter office but they are adamant that they will not reply the mail even to the extent that they want to sanction me. Please what can I do in this situation? I have spend a lot to get to this stage

You get mind o. You didn't even inform your immediate boss. That's not ethical at all. The solution lies in your hands through unreserved apology and serious apology to all concerned. Start from your branch. At least, Nigeria factor, man no man will go a long way.

Set him up with your phone and wipe him Oriamo cord afterwards

He was quickly checked because he would later be the cabal

Send the real pics of the laptop

Den play you Lagos. They were giving you close marking and used your weak point against you. In life, don't be desperate. You should have stopped repair especially when it got to a major repair.

You really fall men hand.

You have a good heart and I hope God reward you with a good car very soon.

woffie:
Pls has anyone been able to do police clearance report at Iyaganku in ibadan...I want to confirm if I can do it there...

Possap.gov.ng

Justice Chima Centus Nweze

They left this year and want to send millions back home this year

haba..Its a process nah. Whey they settle properly, the tales will be over.

They Admin reset the link every day I think.

Search for University on Bolton on telegram

Ask for the WhatsApp link, it will be dropped and join immediately. Incase you don't get, just drop meetme01 there, I would chat you privately and drop the Admins number.

Delete/ edit your emails here please

For real? COVID-19 Palliatives still in the store?

If this news is true, it will take another century for a better Nigeria. Greed at its peak

Like seriously? Let me search further to confirm this news.

Bukolab99:
What was the next step and have you gotten your cas?

Payment of deposit ( Form A uploaded)
Upload POF ( Just Started)
TB ( Scheduled for next week)
Passport [Done)
Birth Certificate ( Done.)

Lots of folks before me are waiting for CAS. Seems slow but dropping ( Bolton WhatsApp, 2023)

Bukolab99:
How long did it take you to get a response from them after accepting the conditional offer and uploading waec certificate please? Been over a week now nothing. Time is far spent

8 working days.

Mofolam:
Anyone also having difficulty with possap? Has things changed? I have not been able to go past the first page since Thursday. Help

Use a computer to sign up and later continue on the phone