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funshint:
Your writup is too disjointed. How can you lump Yahoo boy and kidnapper with a barrow pusher doing a legit work? It's like lumping an armed robber with someone doing security work. There's no relationship btw light and darkness.

I'm very intentional with what I say or write.
Do you agree Yahoo boys and every criminal out there is referred to as rich first before they are discredited for indulging in social vices?

Society will always pick rich criminals over decent men.
I do not support whatever they are doing, but in the context of women not wanting to build with broke men . They are all part of the larger community ( rich men/broke men)

I saw a thread where a lady was misleading Young women about not staying with a man who can't provide for her needs.

I have seen this mistake play out repeatedly and I'm surprised the average woman refuse to learn from it.
Firstly what do women mean by broke guy?
No personal house, cars, assets?
How many men in Nigeria owns the above? Does that mean they are unmarried.

Reality is different from emotions and woke ideologies.
Most okada riders, Keke, shop owners, small business owners, civil servants and below 50k salary earners are all married.

So who marries them , fellow men?

Only few men are rich -- which means few rich men and alot of broke men( feminist theory)
Very few women are rich and majority are broke ( fact)
So if few rich men decides to pick a wife, it means broke women will be left with broke men and they have to get married ( reasons a lot of 30plus women are stuck).

The truth is the average Nigerian woman by the virtue of the economy will marry what they refer to as broke while only a fraction of the few lucky ones will marry a rich man.

I don't understand why women keep deceiving and misleading themselves.
Dating and marriage is two different things.
You can have standards when it comes to dating and a guy with packaging ( broke in the real sense) will get any girl with such mindset laid with fake life, but when it comes to marriage men chose which means you are stuck with what you call broke.

My advice to ladies that would listen. Find a guy you like and build with.
It's rare to find a lazy Nigerian man that doesn't have plans to get rich( even though the economy is harsh on most of them).
Yahoos boys, kidnappers, barrow pushers, hawkers and every hustler is chasing money but some will be Richer than others ( facts).
Don't judge anyone especially if you have a brother who is also hustling to survive!!!

The society today is at it's lowest ebb morally, talks about external and internal forces are constant fallacious attempt to nullify accountability.

We are at loggerheads to what is responsible for the recent upturn in moral decline, narrowing them down to the most common factions bad parenting and peer pressure.

Peer pressure has taken alot of brunts and backlash for constituting to societal ills, thereby numbing the argument that humans are rationale with regards to decision making.

This has watered an unfounded theory that external influence clouds the average human mind, as against a clear knowledge of right and wrong.

If the above notion is upheld, it is safe to say humans are incapable of distinguishing between right and wrong when faced with a contradicting external influence. How laughable!!

Parenting is a core essence of every human representation. From birth a child is blank, which makes it easier to assimilate information without query nor disinterest . The onus is then on parenting to instill the needed mental discipline at the initial, amidst the fear of external influence.

The bitter truth is peer pressure is secondary to parenting hierarchical and otherwise, which makes it a seemingly biased comparison. Parents should be more accountable and held responsible for the decay in moral standards.

Arguably, parenting is on it's lapse although sentiment would state otherwise. Humans are generally conformed to blame and devoid of accountability.

See eh...
Until we start holding women accountable for their choices, nothing will change...

Accountability is not particular to any gender,
I was specific on how the average man disrespects the essence of masculinity over sex.
Except you've never witnessed men fight and degrade his fellow man over pussy, chase married women, chase underage girls, pay for sex , beg for sex and other stupid act!

If nobody buys from a particular shop/ store don't you think the business would fold?

The next option would be for the shop owner to either change what she sells or close the shop .

Women can b blamed for having shitty attitudes,
Single motherhood and whatever they should be held accountable for,
But in the current rise of hook up and prostitution men has the key to put a stop to it.

Each time I see read about men constantly nagging about what women have become and it pisses me off because men are actually the cause of this unending pandemic.

Forget the whole feminism/ gen z bullshit talk,
Women bow to authority and always listen to masculinity.

How do you explain a sane man buying women phones worth millions, flying them to different countries, paying exorbitant amounts for sex?
My God!!!!
Few years ago hook up was non existent, but what happened,
Instead of manning up to woo a woman, stupid men resorted to paying for sex hiding under the disguise of money can get me whatever girl.
Now we are faced with an high level of entitled women roaming the streets.


I only feel sorry for the genuine men out there that is left with trying to find a decent woman.

A girl dresses almost naked and seductive, you see grown up men writing " beautiful, hot, sexy, queen" under the post.

If men actually called out stupid acts with harsh words like" stop exposing your body, disgusting attitude for a beautiful girl, stop seeking attention with nudity"
Do you think such girl will post such again?

Then to those who already have a girlfriend and is trying to teach , love and respect her in a decent way.
Na still fellow man go tell the same girl your boyfriend is not man enough, how much does he give you, real men give their women money for everything. Dimwits!!

How do you explain a man chasing after a married man to justify what cause?

Imagine having a daughter, how do you train her in such a stupid and polluted environment.

Redpill that is meant for self awareness, stupid people turned it into a war zone!

Now women dress almost naked everyday and so many men still compliment such utter disdain.
I weep for the unborn boys of these generation, a charade of LovePeddler created by their fathers awaits them.

And to the hook up girls, as long as they keep paying don't stop charging them without remorse.
If only women have sense invest this unending free money into a business, imagine carrying phones worth thousands on a zero account!

I'm really pissed and angry.

I pondered and thought about this for a long time, it might come off insensitive writing on an anonymous forum seeking help from strangers who owes me nothing but I'm stuck at trying to raise 300k before 7pm today.

I'm an honest person who writes and works in in Benin

Not to bore you with my problems, my family got into a potential life threatening case with the police and it is on the verge of spilling over.

This is not scam please I would appreciate if anyone could drop me something no matter how little.

I'm sorry but like the saying goes begging in time of need doesn't make one a coward
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First bank.

I pondered and thought about this for a long time, it might come off insensitive writing on an anonymous forum seeking help from strangers who owes me nothing but I'm stuck at trying to raise 300k before 7pm today.

I'm an honest person who writes and works in in Benin

Not to bore you with my problems, my family got into a potential life threatening case with the police and it is on the verge of spilling over.

This is not scam please I would appreciate if anyone could drop me something no matter how little.

I'm sorry but like the saying goes begging in time of need doesn't make one a coward
3124741277
First bank.

Time and time again the cycle repeats, typical man/woman totally shattered because a supposed better half ruined an untold fallacy about sticking together.

I struggle to understand how difficult it is for two opposite sex out of millions to copulate devoid of hurt,drama, cheating and what have you. A conscious and intentional process led to an agreement to date, which technically means there was an acceptance out of probable options to be together.

Recent happenings always connotes safe pattern of early stage mushiness and lovey dovey until a party drifts or meets a perceived better person. So it is somewhat subconsciously established that the average human cannot be with a particular person for long.

Why is there still the need to date instead of having a mutual friendship which could be sexual depending on the scenario?

The trauma, hurt that an heartbroken person exhibit is baffling, sentiment wise maybe I have never truly been broken to exhibit pains, tears in extreme case suicide. Not to downplay how a broken person should express hurt, I find it very disgusting seeing someone wail n lose themselves over a particular person when it was semi obvious relationships do not last.

Permit my curiosity, I am totally lost as to how one human has enough power over another person to leave them broken.

It is now official, human life is equivalent to money in Nigeria. This barbaric disposition has the youths as forerunners ,which makes it very scary and threatening.

Ritual killings before now was pre-perceived to be a myth without substantial evidence to it's efficacy, it was seen as a weird fetish amongst certain group of person who thought it could hasten d quest for fame, money and sometimes sexual gratification. Fast forward, we are now facing an epidemic. Yes you heard me right!

The blame game has started, who and what is responsible for this gruesome act? It is quite rhetorical I guess. Bad parenting, peer pressure, government or social media?

Nothing is more disturbing waking up to stories where teenagers consciously kill and dismember a body in the quest for quick riches. Ah! Am lost for words.

It is a common knowledge that high profit business gets more patronage, which begets the inevitable, IS RITUAL KILLING PROFITABLE?

Now is the time to tackle this impending doom with all seriousness, rituals killings should be declared an act of terrorism. To before warned is before harmed. MONEY IS INDEED THE ROOT OF EVIL.

Rape as always been a very sensitive discuss, there by engaging alot of mumbled opinion. The average mindset tends to be enraged at the aftermath of rape incidents, sometimes failing or rather underemphasize the scenarios leading to the act proper.

Not to sound biased or lenient towards rape as it is totally inhumane and condemnable.

This article is focused on the assumptions of what the mindset of a potential rapist could entail technically.

Rape could be spontaneous or premeditated which makes a case for a potential rapist not to be in total control of his/her mindset preact.

Premeditated rape is an extreme form of rape where the mindset is largely in control and aims to harm due to unforeseen circumstances like revenge and lust.

Victims of premeditated rape most times have been watched, traced and studied so defence is always unlikely as the victim would be almost caught off-guard.

Spontaneous rape is probably the more dangerous, as the mindset is technically clear and unaware of a preact intentions. They are mostly triggered by seduction and sensing lack of defense from a potential victim.

A deeper look into the above shows that rape is a conscious act of violation triggered by indecisiveness in the subconscious, as it can be a calculated, stimulated or passive act.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
That's where the problem lies..I should be addressed personally not generalising..
If I can brag about mine I should be called a champion too..

Truly confident people have an atom of shamelessness to their persona, the moment you become proud of bin promiscuous people wud accept.....never mind d naysayers since it's a conscious choice

FERNANDEZISBACK:
But I always brag about mine.. why am I still called a h*or?

Try convincing other women to brag also.. A tree doesn't make a forest

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Lovely post but why is it that way..
A woman has sex with many men she's called a h*or but when a man does the same thing he's called a champion?

Any reason for that?

Simply because women don't brag and talk about sex openly due to shame or fear of being judged... The moment women begin self gratification amongst themselves... The universe somehow always accepts.. Secondly between a giver and a receiver who is seen as superior?

The fluidity in men’s libido makes sex a constant insatiability, as there seems to be a peculiar horniness to masculinity. Arguably, it would not be out of place to declare the average man sex starved.

The sexual market is tilted in favor of women having the option for preferences. Feminine power has grown with impeccable entitlements, room for sieving, above all a source of income.

I totally disagree with the unfounded notion that sees women as cheap with regards to the sexual market. An average looking girl need not show more than a little cleavage, she gets swarmed with all sorts of horniness induced compliments and attention.

On the cheap talk you have the answer!!

Men constant crave for sex subconsciously stimulates an inconsequential need to brag after a romp, as it signifies a win in the sexual market.

A man with numerous sexual partners is considered god amongst his peers not minding the occasional flake from women who Shames promiscuity.

There have been constant banters referring men as sexual braggarts (kiss and tell), which seems quite laughable. Sexual braggado by men is a subtle way to keep the fluidity of libido in check.

In the men's world a sexually starved man is considered weak and laughed at, little wonder men pay outrageous fees and acts to get laid.

Weird as it sounds, man's braggado to getting laid signifies an upturn in value especially when the sex is free.

Too sad how d world has morally decayed.. D same sex our forefathers held high. How is it even difficult to control ones hormones.. Dis sex sef nothing dey am... Somehow d world is gloryfing nonsense.... If fornication is really a criteria to make heaven, hell no go contain us....Mtcheew

Gone are the days where football was played for the fans. The business aspect is gradually ruining the fun and spectacle associated with the early 20s. Players like Ronaldinho, Okocha, Maradona, Ronaldo de Lima brought so much joy and entertainment to the fans.

The game has revolved and results is now a priority. Ugly scenes of fans booing their teams for boring performances is close to becoming a norm.

New generation coaches favors a more tactical approach to games. Players with flair no longer get the hype to massage their ego, defensive contribution are cheered and rewarded.

Skillful players are no longer protected by the referees, the likes of Neymar are jeered for been overly stylish and dramatic.

The game has evolved, expectations has changed,

One thing is paramount, only results is important no matter how it is achieved.

Where do we even start with the conversation?

Sex was designed by God for two major purpose. Firstly as a means for procreation, secondly for man and woman to share intimacy. Emphasis on man and woman (marriage).

The Bible is clearly against premarital sex, a part of our subconscious sees it as a wrong act.

My goodness! Food apart, sex is arguably the most sort after activity in the world,it is now an essential part of friendship, marital and otherwise.

All kinds of sex enhancers, libido boosters are sort after with reckless abandon. Unfortunately humans have overtime legalized fornication as a way to express love.

Before now virgins were celebrated, as they depict purity n morals. It's quite laughable how virgins are now seen as timid, naive and inxeperinced, thereby numbing the thought of chastity.

Unpopular opinion -if abstaining from fornication is a criteria to make heaven, are u safe?

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Internet fraud(cyber crime/yahoo yahoo) is fast becoming an household name in Nigeria. Its major attraction is the high standard of living associated with cyber crime, having gained relevance as a means to earn a living in the face of untold hardship and hope for survival.
Not trying to glorify fraud, but one could sympathize with these fraudsters as the cost of living in Nigeria is so high and almost unattainable for the average citizen.
Now to the issue, if cyber crime was an alternate to lack of job opportunities, where did the rush and craze for extravagant lifestyle emanate from?
The average yahoo boy has they are fondly called, tells you about sheer hardwork,persistence,consistency and above all grace.come to think of it, what is the rationale behind yahoo plus? It totally contradicts what the supposed struggle entails.
Fetish beliefs,cultism,kidnap,rituals,drugs and all forms of social vices are now associated with the self acclaimed hardworking youths. As against the backdrop of self employment, struggle to survive, better future. Cyber crime has triggered an higher cost of living, recklessness, inflation in market prices, money laundry, you name it
It is safe to say yahoo yahoo is now a major problem as the justifications are baseless and criminally inclined. The next generation has alot to deal with.

Indecent dressing as long been a subject of immense argument and counter argument, ranging from lack of moral uprightness, been an aphrodisiac to rapists, constituting nuisance, questioning parental care and so on. The peculiar nature of the female child has made them a forerunner in this unending cankerworm that has continually been overlooked or rather under stressed.
There is an almost conscious yes to women exposing a better part of the cleavage without been questioned. Somehow we the society have normalized complimenting such immoral decadence. Celebrities flaunt an almost naked body, tailors now make dresses that do not require wearing bras. IS THERE A DECLINE IN PARENTAL STANDARD or the pressure to follow trends? Arguments about the male child dressing indecently is a continual and subtle way to derail an obvious immoral rot. Not to sound like a misogynist, but hardly does a male dress in a way that exposes the pubic area, as at most it would be considered madness. There are scenarios where a greater part of the female laps are exposed despite putting on a dress. Mothers even buy these revealing clothes for the teenage ones!
Is this a case of craving sexual appeal?
The bitter truth is our moral standards has dropped and the world has found an hypocritical way of exuding immorality through indecent dressing as it appeals to the subconscious