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aribisala0:
Sharia law require children to stay with their mother till puberty and if female even thereafter whereas the males can CHOOSE.
This is if the mother does not remarry but the presumption is that they were married and are getting divorced.
In the case where they are not married the man has no clear rights in most countries/systems

And what if he decides to marry her and she refuses? Wouldn't that be stealing the kids by tricks? What kind of weird law are these for God's sakes that does not favor both parties equally??

jaxxy:
Its wrong to take the kids that way. For her to accept to bring the kids she has no issues with him bt u can take her kids away from her against her will. They belong to her also.

You don't seem to understand women!!! Women will only need child support and may want you to even be with your kid when they are tender (especially those without financial strength). But the moment the kids begin to become someone, you see them come for war!

Minjim:
They are minors.

In a divorce, there are three fundamental legal issues when it comes to children and their parents. Parents are responsible for custody, access and the children's upkeep. It is important to note that both parties cannot have custody, which means where one has custody the other has access.

Minors usually stay with the woman ( except in cases where the woman had demonstrated lack of parental care) and the man pays child supports and have access until the kids are old enough to decide who they wanna stay with

We have seen this weird law happen over and over again!!! At the end of the day, the kid(s) gets indoctrinated by their mum that father is a bad man. Most times they end up becoming nuisance in the society!!! Only 1 out of 10 goes back to their father! If the law wanted to be fair, the kids should stay with their mum till 10, then move to stay with their dad till 18! Finally they can get to judge which is better!!!

tegrianonigltd:
Find a woman who genuinely love you, na the journey I Dey too man, it’s rare, check their phone, them do pass us���

Even a woman that genuinely loves you will cheat if the conditions are right. Who told you a woman cannot cheat on you even if she loves you?

It may not be the girl's fault but that of her mother! Most problems between a man and woman stems from having bad inlaws! Especially if the girl's mum is not up to 50 years and above!

What is stopping Churchill from applying for child custody of this his son? Does he even know that if this boy grows into a nuisance that his name will be dragged to the mud? He had better apply for child custody as by nature, the boy is his son forever! Dads tend to raise sons better than Mums!!! Enough of this Westernization bulshit!

OdumegwuOjukwu:
Miracles are not happening frequently again cos most of the Aliens/ETs (Anunnakis, Reptilians, Pleiadians) responsible for performing those miracles have left the planet. Only very few are left to cater for exploded human population.

So too many humans to few Gods and their messengers has left an imbalance on the system. Reach for your Godlike nature and help yourself.

Guy I don laff tire

Gabcy:
This has been my greatest regret in life, my girlfriend abort my baby,after I pleaded with her to keep it , knowing well that am able financially and I love her with my heart, but due to her flexing life style, she abort the baby.
And am against abortion right from time.

This has confirmed my fears that women have the FINAL SAY in abortion! It is the woman who finally decides whether the baby in her womb stays or not!!!

MT:
Don't be afraid of what you know, in this instance the hypersonic missile. I can tell you the US military engineers are working to build interceptors for it. All destructive military weapons started this way and eventually interceptors were built.

However, be afraid of military capabilities that you don't know, you haven't seen, which existence had not dropped into your mind. This is the key and I can tell you these countries have the "unknown" in their arsenal. Any country that has the greater "unknowns" win the war. Fear the US, their military budgets can create many undisclosed military "unknowns".

In military doctrine, those 'unknowns' are called EOS (Elements of Surprise). The more EOS one has, the more he is likely to win a war with minimal loss and faster!!!

Besides, Russian soldiers are still selecting targets, they've not gone full scale brutal!

franchasng:
Only US will destroy Russia but they will pay a huge price of having millions of Americans killed in a nuclear weapon attack.


Aside Nuclear weapon, France will defeat Russia one on one because corruption is high in Russia and due to corruption in Russia which is more in their oil, gas and military sectors, Russia have been relying on the huge military arsenal they inherited from former USSR with little additions and improvements, mostly in area of nuclear warheads.



If you check their soldiers during this Ukraine invasion, they are under funded, poorly kitted and most of their military trucks and vehicles are old model trucks with bad tyres causing breakdowns here and there.


Due to old age too, some of their missiles aren't exploding because of failure of the fuses and sensors, these are all negative signs that Russia is not as militarily ahead as the world have been believing and take it from me, eyes are watching.



This is why Putin keeps reminding and warning EU and NATO nations not to interfere or else he would go nuclear. He knows that without the nuclear warheads, NATO will wipe off Russia in few days.

You don't understand War bro. We're you expecting Putin to weaken himself in Ukraine? His best weapons have not been deployed, his best Soldiers haven't been deployed. NATO his greater threat is still lurking behind! His greatest threat (enemies within) hasn't been fished out yet! I need to explain more war strategies to you bro.

XTHRONE:
Men have ego, again women can easily get sex more than men, mind you a woman can Bleep a single man her entire life and be satisfied, the same is not with men, a man having one sex partner gets bored with sex easily, that's why men Cheats alot. A man can have sex with any woman whether he loves her or not, women can only sex a man she loves except a prostitute that sex for money. Women enjoys sex more than men, you see, a female prostitute can sleep with a thousand men a day and feels cool, a man can never try that.

Women can also have sex with someone they do not love maybe for revenge!

emeviks:
A woman can stay 5 months, 5 years, 50 years without sex - and so can a man.

The gender of a person is irrelevant. Society boils sexual desire and drive to gender, but that is not true for everybody.

We need to be looking at people and their sex drives as individualized, rather than as a collective i.e. men like that, women like this, Indians like this, Nigerians like that, etc.

This obviously applies to other areas not just sex. We insist on generalizing, stereotyping, typecasting people to make sense of the world when we are as complex and as different as can be. If we can view people as individuals, the world will be a better place for it.

I see you bro. Been awhile. E be like say you don come back from work? But does postinor and sperm really make a woman fat? Does it (postinor) cause vaginal bleeding?

MARITAL SETTLEMENT.

In 2016 I impregnated a girl (Then 31 and jobless). Baby refused going out, and considering my age and also the fact that I graduated since 2010, I decided to take the bull by the horn. Initially I was confident I could work my way through as I had saved roughly 700k then. The problem was that I was jobless and she was barely 21; no experience or tertiary education. I forged ahead with a clear cut plan; I was going to start life with her, put her in school, help her get a job, then marry her as she graduated. I planned to have at least ONLY two kids with her until we became financially stable. Amidst MMM wahala and other ponzi schemes that took about 200k from my dwindling savings, my plans seemed to work accordingly. To slow down the rate at which my account dwindled, I got a job of 30k as a headmaster in 2017. By then she was already in year 1. Then my problems began trickling in. A particular lecturer took interest in her and even made her course rep, despite going to school with her almost one year baby!
Amidst all these, there was a particular problem I ignored or failed to see; she was a natural flirt, (mostly for attention). She would engage a guy and begin to flirt with them even when they seem uninterested!!! By 2020 she had given birth to our second baby (a boy). Then and again, her evil mum (which I never mentioned earlier) came for omugwo and things went from bad to worse!!!
By this time she had become very wild and bold in her flirting; even doing so in my presence! All these while I hadn't paid her dowry, ( a mistake I would come to regret). Fast forward to 2021, She is in her final year and is no longer with me for almost four months now but in her father's house with my kids. We had a problem bordering her flirting nature, and I slapped her and asked her to leave my house!
Now the parents are angry and have kept her and my kids in their house ostensibly to marry her properly if at all she would see any chance of coming back to me or even agreeing as we are no longer in talking terms now.

My major problem is getting cash to go settle her family and kinsmen so I can at least have rights to my children! And I need this cash on or before February next year! I still love her and have invested a lot. Somehow she still love me too ( Some of her belongings are still in my house). I got her a job as a teacher but she also barely makes enough, again my kids attend same school!

ahnie:
What of me that hasn't had sex close to a year?

That is why I don't believe people who try to tell the OP that his wife may be cheating outside.
The woman sex drive and that of the man is wired differently! Men tend to want to have sex at anytime (same in the animal kingdom) including when they are sick too! Seduce a man at any time and 98% of the time you will be bound to get him. It is a different story for the female folks. Women's sexual appeal is rather complicated! Women can stay up to a year without sex and still feel OK. Most of the times, husbands complaining here gets to meet their wives easily only when she is in her ovulation period.

Same thing can be said of flirting. Men flirts primarily for sex and without emotions attached to it. That is why a man can sleep with all the women in the world outside his home and still love his wife! But women? a different ball game altogether. Women mostly flirts for these reasons; attention, fun, desire to want something, making her husband jealous, with the least one as being tired of her marriage and sex!

As husbands, we tend to use our sexual nature to judge our wives. That is why sometimes I feel that polygamy was probably the only natural way of staying married.
Think of this; when you both started, you were having sex with her as much as you liked and she never stopped you. But the moment kids begin to come, sexual complaints from the husband begin to arise. What we husbands fail to understand is that a lot of changes coupled with boredom have set in and no matter how creative you become, she will still get tired or loose interest in you! It's a natural phenomenon. She only begins to get awakened the moment she notices or senses a competitor. But that will only make her to want to hurt you back later on by flirting openly to make you jealous. If she married you, knowing fully that you were polygamous, that would have been a different story! And for your information; whether polygamous or monogamous, they all have serious problems!!!

Zao19:
More than 70% of married men face this type of problem including my self, if u are yet to married pls stop talking rubbish, u are yet to experience such.

You dey mind them How long will you continue to be creative with your wife before you run out of ideas as if sex is what only matters to the husband?? I think it is a natural phenomenon for a woman to begin to behave that way after kids start showing up. Except you're the travelling type where she does not get to see you often. Boredom is inevitable in marriage as long as both of you see each other everyday. Wealthy men do not complain about this because their cash opens up other possibilities for them. The poor will learn to be patient or masturbate as a way out.

And this was 2008?

Always resist the urge to shalaye

I don laugh tire. Which kind country be this self

Chummynoni:
@all men. You wanna know if your wife cheats?. Get hold of her phone, and ask for her password if she use one. The interest is not about checking her phone, but in checking her countenance. I hope I solve your puzzle? Lol

What if she refuses to give you her password but instead demands that she unlocks it herself and gives the phone to you right away in your very presence?

KaptainAfrika:
1. Have you cheated on her ?

2. Do you feel that she could have married someone other than you e.g. she could have married someone you feel is better than you?

3. Did you marry her without any pressure? e.g. she got pregnant for you out of wedlock, you felt it was the time for you to get married etc.

4. Did one or both your parents cheat?

5. Are you cheating on her ?

I have same problem. I started with my wife in your number 3. HHave also done number 1 because of what I found out from her!!! Op wife they learn work where my wife own dey. She made me become a wife beater. Currently I drove her out for the intimate chat I discovered on her WhatsApp for calling someone bae. She even used a password different from the one I gave her just on the grounds her younger brother uses her mb without her consent. Now I am called the bad husband for lack of serious evidence!!! Cheating is cheating when it comes to lies and acting funny. The moment you do that to your spouse, you're cheating him or her emotionally and not necessarily having sex with someone else

What US weapon can match the Zircon missile?[/quote]What's with you guys and Zircon Missile self? There is something a lot of us do not understand about these Supthemwers; They know themselves so much that they will never engage in a direct confrontation. Speaking of Zircon missile self, do you think it is an advantage to the Russians in a real war

The Zircon missile was advertised aggressively because the Russians feared the US 'envelopment strategy' towards them. Firstly, the US has strategic bases all over the world pointing towards Russia. Next the US has a blue water navy that knows every nook and crany of the waters of the world facing Russia; not excluding their superior air force and 'Carriers'. Before you talk of Zircon missile, remember the US first developed the fastest aircraft in the world using the ramjet technology at the time no one understood it. This was in the 1970's. The Zircon missile, like every other faster-than-the-speed-of-sound craft has it's flaws. First they fly subsonic, then supersonic before going hypersonic. The missile can be taken out in the Subsonic stage or the later stage; to do this the Americans invested in two frontiers; they created what is today known as the space force to hit out the missile mechanically in the subsonic or supersonic stage using all their machinations in space. The space force was how they were able to see Iran fire missiles at the mistaken-for- American passenger jet carrying mostly Iranian citizens in Iranian airspace last year! Another area the US is developing serious countermeasures is in their recent upgrade in laser technology which is intended to fry out the honing missile strategically to render it useless.(Remember, nothing mechanical goes faster than the speed of light!). Let's leave these Superpowers, they know themselves better than we do! The Russians annexed Crimea and So What about the US and her allies that bombed Yugoslavia against the will of Russia? did anything happen The US is still the dominant Superpower, they developed virtually every important recent technology before every other country. The nuclear bomb was first done by them; every other nation played catch up. They developed the solar technology, semiconductor technology, smartphone, etc of recent. Do not take them for granted!!!

[quote author=Krismas post=104164061]And yet they Russia is the only one with a hypersonic missile fire power, first of its kind? Tested and ready to be deployed? USA can earmark billions as defense budget, wot exactly does that prove? In Afghanistan, at the peak of the war, they were spending one billion dollars per day, on supplies, ammunition, food, logistics, contractors, etc. in the end most of the money end up in the pocket of contractors like Dick Cheney and Bush family and the owners of firms like Black-water. How much of the said budget finally end up in research? To be police of the world does not make u a strong military. Russia military is ahead of the US, no be joke. Its d truth

What's with you guys and Zircon Missile self? There is something a lot of us do not understand about these Supthemwers; They know themselves so much that they will never engage in a direct confrontation. Speaking of Zircon missile self, do you think it is an advantage to the Russians in a real war

The Zircon missile was advertised aggressively because the Russians feared the US 'envelopment strategy' towards them. Firstly, the US has strategic bases all over the world pointing towards Russia. Next the US has a blue water navy that knows every nook and crany of the waters of the world facing Russia; not excluding their superior air force and 'Carriers'. Before you talk of Zircon missile, remember the US first developed the fastest aircraft in the world using the ramjet technology at the time no one understood it. This was in the 1970's. The Zircon missile, like every other faster-than-the-speed-of-sound craft has it's flaws. First they fly subsonic, then supersonic before going hypersonic. The missile can be taken out in the Subsonic stage or the later stage; to do this the Americans invested in two frontiers; they created what is today known as the space force to hit out the missile mechanically in the subsonic or supersonic stage using all their machinations in space. The space force was how they were able to see Iran fire missiles at the mistaken-for- American passenger jet carrying mostly Iranian citizens in Iranian airspace last year! Another area the US is developing serious countermeasures is in their recent upgrade in laser technology which is intended to fry out the honing missile strategically to render it useless.(Remember, nothing mechanical goes faster than the speed of light!). Let's leave these Superpowers, they know themselves better than we do! The Russians annexed Crimea and So What about the US and her allies that bombed Yugoslavia against the will of Russia? did anything happen The US is still the dominant Superpower, they developed virtually every important recent technology before every other country. The nuclear bomb was first done by them; every other nation played catch up. They developed the solar technology, semiconductor technology, smartphone, etc of recent. Do not take them for granted!!!

I was Joy's teacher during her secondary school days. It is painful to hear of this sad news!

Low budget Ahmed Musa

There is nothing wrong in washing your wife's panties or helping in washing plates or other house chores. The only problem be say na make the wife no forget herself for public come tell the husband, 'honey, you forgot to wash my pants today oo!'

This is bleeding serious!!!!

It is a blessing in disguise to OP that he and his wife are quarrelling and even fighting at the moment. I can bet my left balls that if he ever gets comfortable in this his present situation, he will impregnate his wife again which might bear another triplets or twins!!! Or possibly another child!

This is the point where OP is taught Sexual Education first before anything else! Some men would be taught to masturbate or visit brothels to blow off steam at the moment ( however ugly it may sound ), this is the main goal at the moment, before finding ways to increase income or working things to become stable!

bluefilm:
She must have a platinum pussy with another golden and silvery pussy as spare parts.

Hahahahahahahaha

Ifex4u:
Scored 88..believing God

pls do inform us when you're invited bro

Scored 80/100 Thank God

Horlamidel:
Pls when will they get back to the people that wrote the test?

This has been the problem with Dragnet from inception! They never give you feedback about the test invite you write with them! You will never know if you did well or not! You will not be communicated about your performance so you put more effort!

In fact I am beginning to doubt their method! With this method of theirs, it is easier to be robbed of your glory as someone can easily replace you and scale through!!!

Yinbanjonic:
Bro I was first asked to snap my picx then later asked to snap my ID card or upload it and later asked to use the webcam to scan my environment, which I did successfully. The Numerical aptitude was not what I expected too.

Someone was asking you you to do all these? Or it was preprogrammed??

For me, I only a saw a 1min video demo and an audio demo. Finally the test page opened!!! that was all!