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Politics › Re: Military Descends On Arepo Vandals Hideout In Operation Awathe by Melonny(m): 9:20am On Jul 29, 2016
dragonking2:
Ley me ask you one question. If some Opc don't do water stuff, how were they protecting the pipelines in riverine areas of Lagos when they were given the contract?
which contract?? A very confused fellow offered them millions for free..
Romance › Re: Can You Operate A Joint Account With Your Spouse? by Melonny(m): 5:29pm On Jul 28, 2016
A girl once told me "my money is our money and her money will be her money". joint acct isn't a bad idea. Aside having separate personal accts, a joint acct will take care of the speculative and precautionary need of money.
Romance › Re: Opinion Poll: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady With Tattoos All Over Her Body by Melonny(m): 10:16pm On Jul 25, 2016
it's a heresy but who cares about our forefathers bigotry these days? but really if I marry a girl with a tat, my parent won't come to my wedding..it's a no no.
Romance › Re: Some Things You Might Have Not Known And Need To Know !! by Melonny(m): 8:58pm On Jul 25, 2016
laudable
Romance › Re: My Anger Will Lead Me To Prison by Melonny(op): 9:17pm On Jul 24, 2016
armylord:
its really difficult controlling mine .. diagnosed with IED disorder..
i just checked the meaning on the internet. ied is a persistent 'reaction' to frustration with irritability, temper, tantrums and destructive behaviour. the 'reaction' implies that temper tantrums are just reaction to frustrating experience, rather than an illness..
you see,it's just a reaction not cancer. the above ways can help you or check https://www.recoveryranch.com/articles/mental-health-articles/intermittent-explosive-disorder/?_e_pi_=7%2CPAGE_ID10%2C8095430403
Romance › My Anger Will Lead Me To Prison by Melonny(op): 4:35pm On Jul 24, 2016
Sorry i didnt mean me but you. Your anger will send you to prison. It's no news that the ripples effect of your anger can lead you to being myopic,less productive,unsuccessful and deadly. Your anger isn't going to make anything change. it will only hang a cloud over everything you see or do. Sorry if someone annoyed you in the past and remind yourself that emotions change all the time and low moods will pass if you allow them to. let's learn a secret or two on how to control these emotions (Anger)--
(1)Feel your emotions physically- the next time you get angry,try observing the physical change(s) in your body.it can be varied as your stomach muscles tightening, your heart rate increasing, your breathing quickening or your mouth going dry. Now,think through all of these events in enough details and identify the changes in your body when you get angry. Does your heart beats faster than usual? Do you feel hotter or colder? The next time you get angry,try to feel and be aware of these changes and just ignore them.it is not easy though but you can place a bet that your heart won't beat faster than usual or your breathing won't quicken than normal. By doing this, you are ignoring the effects of your anger
(2) Know who and what pushes your button- we all have buttons-triggers that pushes us to getting sad,angry and they put us in bad mood.knowing who/what pushes your button and how they do it is critical to developing the ability to take control of your anger,maintain your piose and calm yourself down.
You need to pinpoint the specific people or situations that trigger your emotions. (Know that nairalander that always want to make you scream). Having a clear understanding of who and what pushes your button makes these people and situations a bit less difficult because they come less of a surprise.
Romance › Re: Resolved by Melonny(m): 9:18pm On Jul 23, 2016
Goldmaxx:
Thanks bro
u better report to an appropriate authority or be ready for jungle justice if the parent catch you.
Romance › Re: Resolved by Melonny(m): 8:54pm On Jul 23, 2016
Goldmaxx:
I opened a thread once about the age difference of the girl am sleeping with with,five years or more(won't call it dating).Yesterday she died while trying to remove a pregnancy,but i'm sure its not mine because she did'nt tell me .Please i am so scared to the bone marrow right now,she is from taraba state but we are schooling in UNN.Please what do i do? I have a baby girl from another girl at home at 18 yrs.
Cutehector Agarawu33 Naijaboiy tohpaz ivvy
shocked keep thanking God shes not igbo. u better report to the police.
Romance › Re: Who Really Is The PRIZE? by Melonny(op): 2:10pm On Jul 22, 2016
TrapQueen77:
grin


Men nowadays juz want babymamas sha.. As if they spread their genes like a virus but still will prefer to marry a virgin. tongue


Na lie?
Well not all men want baby mamas. some are still waiting for that cool girl. Who wants to marry a virgin these days?
Romance › Who Really Is The PRIZE? by Melonny(op): 12:08pm On Jul 22, 2016
Why do we see women as being a prize,as something special? Reflecting our way of life that places women as the power-holders in the dating game."if women are the prize" then that means women have power of selection, they get to decide which male get picked and which get left out of the dating pool.
The man are even more obsessed with proving themselves worthy(Whether it's Hugo boss suit or pumping out those few extra bicep). Soon, he feels lucky to have her or privileged to have been chosen. But the question still remain unanswered. Why is the woman a prize to be won?
Fast forward--(6 years later) the woman is frustrated "why wont he propose?"
Romance › Re: I Have An Opportunity To Pay Her Back Now by Melonny(m): 10:39am On Jul 22, 2016
Op..Good luck with that
Immature
Romance › Re: Whats Your Best Old School Love Song? by Melonny(m): 8:04am On Jul 21, 2016
It's your love- Tim and faith Hill
Romance › Re: 5 Ridiculous Ways Guys Embarrass Themselves In Front Of Women. by Melonny(m): 9:02pm On Jul 20, 2016
Love Machine:
Counter thread;Things women do to impress guyz.It vice versa.
1.They wear a hair that does not belong to them to look beautiful and get compliment from guyz.
2.They wear padded butts and boobs to look like the 2016 padded budget.
3.They wear fake nails.
4.They expose their olympus cleavages.
5.They always apply makeup each time the one they rub wipe-off so as not to reveal their ugly faces.
6.They always want to create a scene by loitering about with their bleach laps with green veins.
Add yours.
7. they are cry babies
Romance › Re: ###grammarians In The Ouse Oya Cum In Oo### by Melonny(m): 8:39am On Jul 20, 2016
placeofallure:
Yes, the answer is sells and sells.
On the contrary, "sells" is not a plural verb. In fact the letter "S" makes it very singular.
For nouns, we may add "s" to form the plural of some words E.g. book - books, table - tables etc, but for verbs it's the other way round i.e sell is plural while sells is singular.
The rule is: Singular noun, Singular verb; Plural noun, Plural verb.
so if it shd be plural noun plural verb, then sell is plural and oranges is plural...so the woman who sells apples also sell oranges.
Romance › Re: Get Free Airtime If U Answer Dis 3 Questions Correctly by Melonny(m): 9:08pm On Jul 19, 2016
1)coconut (2)sulplur (3) odd numbers
Romance › Re: ###grammarians In The Ouse Oya Cum In Oo### by Melonny(m): 7:53pm On Jul 19, 2016
rule 13 (verb)-(who,that,which). to determine the singular or plural verb to use after these words, look at the noun before these word first..so singular noun is singular verb. so the woman who sells apples also sell oranges.
Romance › Re: No Man Is Good Enough For Me by Melonny(m): 7:17pm On Jul 19, 2016
you should go and love yourself
Romance › Re: Hilarious Photo: Ladies Be Sincere, What Would You Do In This Situation??? by Melonny(m): 12:56pm On Jul 18, 2016
well I won't leave an ex that can give me this car as a gift for a guy with no car in the first place.
Romance › Re: At What Particular Age Should A Girl Or Boy Be Allowed To Be In A Relationship? by Melonny(m): 6:15pm On Jul 17, 2016
For me, A girl can start a relationship when she's mature enough to care of the results or consequence of the relationship. she shd be able to make smart decisions for her future if probably she gets pregnant or she get dumped(cos there are cry babies everywhere)
Romance › Re: I Still Love You Halfricanadian. by Melonny(m): 11:07pm On Jul 12, 2016
To hafricanadian.. I know u have made poor choices in the past,you are full of hurt, anger and resentment over past failures but love is a choice. it doesn't erase the past but it makes the future different.. He's truly sorry..#second chance
Romance › Re: I Still Love You Halfricanadian. by Melonny(m): 6:43pm On Jul 12, 2016
what was the title of the movie again?
Literature › Re: Why We Are What We Are by Melonny(op): 8:50am On Jul 06, 2016
yah..but I think going forward, it will be hard to preach to a fully grown man to be mentally strong and independent but we can target the future generations. we have to teach them to be mentally strong, we have to put more value in them.
Literature › Why We Are What We Are by Melonny(op): 6:29am On Jul 06, 2016
Have you ever sat alone and think about why you have to get tattoo on your body? Why you want your dark skin white? Why the white man tend to be progressive and black man retrogressive? Why you see a white man for the first time and you feel inferior to him? I am sure there are lot of why questions that seem unanswered. Read on and you may just find the answer to the questions on your mind.
A writer once said "when a black man comes close to a white man,his ego collapses,his self-esteem evaporates.He ceases to be a self-motivated person. The entire purpose of his behaviour is to emulate the white person, to become like them and thus hope to be accepted"-(F.fanoz) why does this happen?
1712, Williams lynch wrote a letter to the slave masters and prescribed a method for controlling their black slaves. He said,-By taking the meanest and restless black man,strip him naked in front on the remaining blacks then tie each leg to different horse in opposite directions, set him on fire and beat the both horse to pull him apart in front of the remaining blacks then bull whip the remaining blacks to the point of death all in female and infant's presence. Because the woman is dependent on the man for protection, if the above is done to her suppose protector, then she will be in a state of being left alone, unprotected, with the male image destroyed. The ordeal cause her to move from her dependent state to a frozen psychological independent state.
In this independent state, she will raise her male and female offspring in a role which she subsconscious fear for the young man's life thus psychologically train him to be mentally weak and dependent but physically strong-(body over mind). Now growing old, he sees the white man as not only superior but as god and satan.
This simple act made the slave a slave. The only and the main weakness of a black man was created by williams lynch. The black man is mentally weak and dependent. We never face problems, we just call on the masters to help, emulate them and we beg to be accepted as human. Why don't you think of a problem we are battling with as a nation, as a race and link it up with being mentally weak and dependent.
You may not accept the idea of being weak or being ready to be told what and how to do things but it high time we sat down and reflect on why lynch saw the men above age 30 as having no economic value and a threat? Used them as experiments and saw the younger generation as opportunity and strength.why dont we start teaching our future generation so that they will teach their offspring to be mentally strong and build infrastructure to be independent.
Are we free from the masters or are we just the civilised slaves? Why don't you get a copy of 'Making a slave a slave by Willie lynch'. Written by melonny.. Shout out to Joyce Onyemuwa coolFM
Fashion › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Grand Finale by Melonny(m): 12:19pm On Jun 25, 2016
I vote Refiner
cc Nljega
Romance › Re: I Just Met A Very Handsome And Intelligent Nairalander by Melonny(m): 6:03pm On Mar 18, 2016
Funny tho..u want to learn abt auditing..Is he ICAN OR ACCA audit and assurance exam?
Investment › Re: South African Lawmakers Worried About What Could Happen To Shoprite, Stanbic etc by Melonny(m): 12:57pm On Nov 05, 2015
That investor would be mad in his mind to come and risk his/her money into the zoo. Lets see who will come with buckets of cash to nigeria. The damage has been done already, to repear it it takes 5yrs to 8yrs. LOL........I DON'T THINK YOU KNOW THE FUNDAMENTALS OF INVESTMENTS. DUE TO SYSTEMATIC RISK like inflation, exchange risk and even boko haram. INVESTORS WILL NOT STOP THEIR INVESTMENTS BUT DEMAND FOR HIGHER RATE OF RETURN FOR THEIR INVESTMENTS. SO NA SOLDIER GO SOLDIER COME. Even when we reduce the current bribery, corruption and stuffs like what mtn did, there will be confidence that an investor can make a return of his money thus making the rate of return that might increase to fall.
Investment › Re: South African Lawmakers Worried About What Could Happen To Shoprite, Stanbic etc by Melonny(m): 9:54am On Nov 05, 2015
Who cares if they go or not. president Buhari once said if he emerges as the president, business in Nigeria will no longer be shit. "Will be based on rules". The management slept too long to realise there is new sheriff in town. This will send a positive message to potential investors that Nigeria is fast becoming Africa's Singapore. I am sure they will be willing to invest and a get return for their money.
Investment › Re: South African Lawmakers Worried About What Could Happen To Shoprite, Stanbic etc by Melonny(m): 9:53am On Nov 05, 2015
Who cares if they go or not. The president Buhari once said if he emerges as the president, business in Nigeria will no longer be shit. "Will be based on rules". The management slept too long to realise there is new sheriff in town. This will send a positive message to potential investors that Nigeria is fast becoming Africa's Singapore. I am sure they will be willing to invest and a get return for their money.

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