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missbronze:
udysweet my darling, hope your nite was great?
TGIF, abeg, where will it happen this weekend?
Make I bring my bag follow you.

ddshow:
When you want everything, you end up getting nothing...that's my present dilemma. Aside that I'm fine and thanks for the blandish....I rarely get to hear such.
I'm thinking we should have a soirée sometime next month in Lagos.

missbronze:
my darling, I am loyal. nice day for ya.

missbronze:
melsan love, I sight you oo.
Howdy?

ddshow:
Evening Melsan! Me dey kajad, hope you're good.

ddshow:
You have programmed fear into your nervous system and it's been working like an instinct. You need to change your mindset and be audacious in approaching women. Hence, the first major step is to overcome your psychological barriers.
Secondly, always abide by the 3 Second Rule.
At a point in my life when I was looking into the challenge of talking to someone new every day for 30 days, I read about something called the 3 second rule.
The 3 second rule happens to be the most powerful pickup tool a guy or lady could have and is often referred to in these terms, but it’s a great tool for meeting new people in any context. The rule requires that if you see someone you’re interested in talking to, you have 3 seconds to walk up to them and start a conversation. It’s very simple, but extremely effective.
The reason why it’s so effective is because if you wait any longer than 3 seconds, you’ll probably end up over-thinking it and never say anything at all. With only 3 seconds, you don’t have enough time to let anxiety get the best of you. If you see someone you want to talk to, you must immediately go over and talk to them.
Stop worrying about what to say. Anything is better than nothing.
Plus, you’d be surprised by how much people especially Nigerian women actually like being talked to. And if we go back to the anecdote of being in a room full of strangers, how do you feel when someone comes up to you and starts talking to you? You feel great, right? No one wants to be the person who’s standing alone.
If we look at it holistically, you’re actually doing them a favor by talking to them, because out of everyone you've seen, you specifically chose to talk to them. If anything, they’ll be grateful that you chose to talk to them, not weirded out.
And btw, no mature lady is hard to get...all you need is patience, perseverance and the right attitude.
I hope this will help a bit.
Cheers.

deeyor:
I'll be 33 next tomorrow, female and based in Kaduna. Loving this thread