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Ballzproblemm:
The white house set march 1st for the deadline for banks and central exchanges to resolve stable coin yields fiasco.

#clarityact.

Can you explain the implications of this? Thanks.

webizone:
I tried opening Binance but it doesn't seem to open. Is it geo-blocked in Nigeria or something?

Use the app

Have you been debited?

Educationalserv:
It seems the WHT on Treasury bill has been suspended quietly due to low subscription and FX outflow .

Guys

Abeg when is the next primary market.

Hello guys

I just came back to Nigeria and discovered that I could not log into my Binance account even though all other sites are ok meaning that it is not a network issue.

Is there any ban or limited access at the moment?

Misleading topic.

13 percent are cheating

77 percent of those cheating already are doing so due to x and y.

Very misleading topic.

13 percent of married women have cheated on their spouse according to the website.

77 percent of that 13 percent cheated due to .

dbabs500:
You didnt follow my posts well, when she cooled off after stumping off the house for 6 hours, she then sent her friends husband to beg me, I wanted to listen but i was at work and could not talk, told him i will call back. But it seemed she took it the other way round that I didnt want to accept apology is why i discharged his friends wife, so therefore if am not fighting for her or not reconciling at her own time it then means i dont love her so she want to relocate to another location cheaper for housing, but since she know sey i wont drop my reference for housing agency for us to collect the house, she decided to ask her male friend to form as partner to submit his details to get the house, but as we dun slowly resolve things, the plan faltered, but she told me after that she took that step, said wont be nice if i found out eventually and she didnt tell me. Life

Any adult male or female that understands marriage in the UK will tell you how this will most likely end.

What you have been describing (if you are truthful) is a failing toxic marriage.

Stay safe bro.

Update us in 6 months time.

dbabs500:
Its been a rollercoaster ride, the bottom line of her own point is that, when she tried to walked out, why didnt i stop her, fight for her not to stump out, that it shows that i dont love her and if i dont, why then are we still together, I just weak sey which kind old manipulation be this when the FM dun cast. She went as using her males friend information as her partner to book for a house in another town where she claimed she wanted to move to, now shes saying we should work things out, the rollercoaster continues, and winter has just started. It is just well.

Your story is beginning to sound unreal but I still believe you are telling the truth out of courtesy.

Your wife and her colleague rented another apartment in another town 🤣🤣🤣🤣

MOVE ON!!!!!!!

Nonexisting1:
When some of us here warned that men should not take their wives abroad, I'm sure you were among those that called us misogynists. Now it has happened to you and you're crying. My friend, carry your cross and I hope others like you will learn a lesson. Very soon, she will claim you are abusing her and the government will send you out of your own house and possibly back home too. It's not my prayer for you but the situation you are in now is heading that way so brace up.

The funny thing is that she is using a well known tactic that women have been using for years to set their partners up.

1. He always locks me out of the house and I have to go through the window atimes.

2. He abuses me all the time, belittles me, accuses me of cheating and always threatens to hit me. I have to go to my friends place atimes to feel safe ( Her friends will collaborate this story).

3. He is insecure, always call me to know where I am and if I do not pick immediately he shouts at me ( Any of her friends that have witnessed any of your calls will collaborate her story).

4. If she is really heartless she might add that you force yourself on her atimes which makes her feel worthless and suicidal and have to go to her friend's place to feel safe. ( Her friends will)

5. Your kids might have heard you people argue one of those days that you want her to acknowledge any of her bad behaviours. The question will be like this " Have daddy ever shouted at mummy". The answer will be yes.

6. Stay safe bro.

She has checked out of the marriage and their is a third party involved. A lot of marriages in the UK are like that. Negotiate or move on.

dokpanefe:
No update still, he's still in the hospital oo. The thing critical oo.

Hello Sir, is he still in coma? Have you accepted his new reality?

Hello house

Can one trade cryptocurrency with Binance in the United Kingdom?

dokpanefe:
Let me break it down for y'all that know nothing about this couple

Lucky was dating Lydia in while they were student in Auchi poly, later on they broke up after some while cox lucky was broke

After some years after school lucky was doing well for himself and he invited Lydia over for hangout and one thing led to another and Lydia got pregnant.

Lucky was already in his 30s and decided to get married to Lydia cox she was already pregnant.

Lyday gave birth and everything was going smoothly here in 9ja, I no go lie, I even envy their marriage, cox Lydia dey very welcoming and I never one day hear say them get fight.

Year 2022, lucky decided to send Lydia and his son Lucian to Canada, while processing the visa they discovered that Lydia was already pregnant again, hence they were advice to cancel Lucian visa processing. So only Lydia traveled alone.

Lydia was now staying with her family member In Canada, but lucky was sponsoring everything, after Lydia gave birth lucky applied for visa for him and his son and they got it.

Lucky told me, my bro you know say 9ja no too bam as before that's why I'm relocating for a better life for my family.

He sold his fine house, lands in warri and Auchi and 2 cars

Lucky arrived, hence he can't stay with his wife family so he rented a good apartment in a good location.

He got a job at a hotel and which I don call am several times when he dey work.. he said they normally pay 20-40 cad .. and he works sometimes 16 hours., Sometimes 10 hours

But ever since he came to Canada the wife changed, stop cooking, don't want him to touch him anymore.

Lucky was thinking he could handle the issues himself, although he reported to his sister's and mom, but the never told me or his brothers, that was his second mistake, cox na man fit calm man down. All men in this house can relate to this

Lucky bought a car, cox he carry better money enter Yankee.. but his wife go dey hide the car keys or even drive am go park for her Tunisian friend place, the wife don draw tattoos allover her body, she don belong to oyibo people.

Omo I don tire to type.
Una go see update from news soon, he's out of coma and he will speak for himself, all what you have been hearing was what the wife said in her Go fund me.

As we speak 2 police mount the hospital with lucky. Cox this matter pass Nollywood

We are still waiting for your update Sir.

Kobojunkie:
Basically, the same old plot we have all gotten used to at this point in time, right? Rejected by the woman in marriage, he decided to take revenge by offing her, only in this case, he ended up offing his mother-in-law instead. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Imagine this scenario

A beautiful 20 years old lady meets a handsome 25 years old struggling businessman. They kicked off a relationship filled with love, trust etc.

A year later the lady got pregnant and the guy begged her to abort since they were not ready yet. She agreed. The relationship continued and the guy's business kept improving.

When the lady got to 25yrs, she got pregnant again and begged her boyfriend that she really wanted to keep the pregnancy and do not want to have the child outside marriage.

The guy pleaded that he was not ready yet as he was about to have a business breakthrough that required extensive travelling. She then promised the lady that if she aborts, he must marry her within the next 2 yrs. She agreed.

She went for the process and had some complications. The doctor that managed the complications told her that she could still give birth but it will be difficult to conceive again.

2 months later, her boyfriend got a huge contract, executed it and became rich. At the 2 years mark he started dragging his feet, and kept saying that he was not ready.

They had an argument and he shouted that he cannot marry a barren woman and stomped out.

Silent treatment continued for a while only for her to hear that her boyfriend has a 2 years old twins with a woman in another town.

They had an argument only to her to realise that not only was it true but the other lady gave birth within the period that she had her last abortion.

Her boyfriend then openly declared his love for the other lady and his 2 kids. He kept telling everyone that his former girlfriend was a cheat who kept getting pregnant for an Alhaji and lost her womb because of her numerous abortions.

People snap because of the cruelty of their experience, the lies that follow and the unimaginable wickedness from the person you once loved.

Nnamdipapa:
And those are supposed to be his only two options right? What happened to walking away from the marriage?

Commit the crime, pay the price. You are outside the country and based on that I believe you have a good guess on what might have transpired.

She left the country first as a student and checked out of the marriage. Because she was pregnant at the time, she might not have worked. This placed a heavy financial burden on her husband.

He might have cleared her school fees, funded the whole relocation and kept sending upkeep allowance. He might have liquidated a lot of assets for that hoping to get them back once he settled in Canada.

He finally arrived in Canada and noticed he was used as a conduit to get their first son into the country.

The wife being the primary visa holder means she can simply remove him from her visa.

They got into arguments, one thing led to another and he lost his job. It might even be due to allegations of domestic abuse or poor concentration or incompetence.

He came to the conclusion that he might soon be on his way back to Nigeria with no money and no child.

More arguments.

Learns that his mother in law was aware of the above plot

Loses control

Jail.

dokpanefe:
Let me break it down for y'all that know nothing about this couple

Lucky was dating Lydia in while they were student in Auchi poly, later on they broke up after some while cox lucky was broke

After some years after school lucky was doing well for himself and he invited Lydia over for hangout and one thing led to another and Lydia got pregnant.

Lucky was already in his 30s and decided to get married to Lydia cox she was already pregnant.

Lyday gave birth and everything was going smoothly here in 9ja, I no go lie, I even envy their marriage, cox Lydia dey very welcoming and I never one day hear say them get fight.

Year 2022, lucky decided to send Lydia and his son Lucian to Canada, while processing the visa they discovered that Lydia was already pregnant again, hence they were advice to cancel Lucian visa processing. So only Lydia traveled alone.

Lydia was now staying with her family member In Canada, but lucky was sponsoring everything, after Lydia gave birth lucky applied for visa for him and his son and they got it.

Lucky told me, my bro you know say 9ja no too bam as before that's why I'm relocating for a better life for my family.

He sold his fine house, lands in warri and Auchi and 2 cars

Lucky arrived, hence he can't stay with his wife family so he rented a good apartment in a good location.

He got a job at a hotel and which I don call am several times when he dey work.. he said they normally pay 20-40 cad .. and he works sometimes 16 hours., Sometimes 10 hours

But ever since he came to Canada the wife changed, stop cooking, don't want him to touch him anymore.

Lucky was thinking he could handle the issues himself, although he reported to his sister's and mom, but the never told me or his brothers, that was his second mistake, cox na man fit calm man down. All men in this house can relate to this

Lucky bought a car, cox he carry better money enter Yankee.. but his wife go dey hide the car keys or even drive am go park for her Tunisian friend place, the wife don draw tattoos allover her body, she don belong to oyibo people.

Omo I don tire to type.
Una go see update from news soon, he's out of coma and he will speak for himself, all what you have been hearing was what the wife said in her Go fund me.

As we speak 2 police mount the hospital with lucky. Cox this matter pass Nollywood

In this life, you either learn from your mistake or someone else mistake.

The moment a woman you are married to tells you that she has lost interest and ACTS ON IT. The relationship is OVER.

Your prior investments?, whether she will change her mind?, what people will say? no longer matters.

All your energy should be invested in detaching yourself as fast as possible because no matter what anyone tells you, it will never end well.

labalaba321:
Bro. I’m actually in similar situation here in America (tho my wife has never called police on me b4).. however I’d have leave and run but the fear of wasted investment (got her conditional green card through me, paid her tuition and I’ve invested in this marriage to a point where it became crippling).. also, the fear of paying alimony and CS till like forever is also crippling but I’m not happy (still I’m tie to her and it’s like I’m slaving for her and her family). Bro I’m not happy and I’ve become a shadow of my former self. No one to talk these things with. I just pray I scale through these murky waters. People I talked to ask me to leave her while I’m still alive and forget about fear of wasted investment. I’m tired tbh

How is it wasted investment if she has kids for you?

Why will you pay alimony?

If you paid for her tuition then she should use it to get a job.

Sort out your finances and leave that clown.

Thank you op for this addendum. Marriage can be complicated atimes. You know your wife better than everyone here. Support her the best you can.

Do your wife find it difficult to make friends?

Do she find it difficult to communicate?

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BigIyanga:
Any news or police report to corroborate this story Dr IK held his ex and kids to a gun point ? Nothing is popping up.

The story came from the girl's dad who happened to be the same guy that published a list of 70 women he allegedly slept with in 2023.

No other source till now.

GloriousGbola:
let me break it down for you

the west is not Nigeria where you will lay hands on your wife and she will be told to take it
the west is not nigeria where you can seperate from your wife and refuse to cater to your children
the west is not nigeria where marriage is do or die and an achievement

an 'innocent argument' does not lead to a restraining order

if you are not ready to face this reality, then stay in nigeria - and if you are a man with money - marry a barely educated pauper who will be so in awe of her elevated status that she will take whatever you dish out

have you gone through the story on linda ikejis blog?

the longer you keep this up, the more the later ikenna erinnes reputation will be dragged through the mud
Francis Van-Lare has receipts and will not let some nigerian paupers project their wretched reality onto his daughter

the dad is posting court records and payment records and you are still calling it allegations
stop being emotional.
this is actually why i love electronic records.
anyone can fish out the court records of this matter

grow up and come to terms with the reality that the world is not nigeria where you can beat your wife and get away with it, or where you wife will be dependent on you

A woman can easily get a restraining order on her spouse in the USA, ask around.

I am not being emotional. These are TEMPORARY COURT HEARINGS. This meant that they were still allegations. He was not convicted so he was innocent until proven otherwise.

GloriousGbola:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/2/he-klled-himself-to-avoid-paying-1900-francis-van-lare-alleges-his-daughters-partner-who-took-his-life-was-a-dead-beat-dad-denies-report-of-15k-per-month-child-support.html

most of what i had said before has come out

a simple internet check will show the guys license is not revoked
the guy was not paying 15k but 1900k and he was not paying it on time or regularly
the lady did not collect alimony as she is fully self sufficient
the doctor was mandated to pay the money because one of the children is a special needs child
the doctor had a restraining order as far back as 2023 for domestic violence

google the lady suzette val-lere
she had an athletic scholarship
she has a medical degree


but some dirty paupers whose only reality as wretched Nigerian beta males is barely educated hungry urgent 2k transactional chicks who do not show after collecting 2k transport fare -
and they have projected that myopic backward jaundiced pauper view into a case of domestic violence

who remembers opeyemi mabawonku of PWC?
https://www.instagram.com/dailypostngr/reel/DBqSZzauxBT/

same energy. if this had happened abroad he too would likely have been in court for domestic abuse and slapped with a restraining order.

or are we waiting to see a video like this before it gets into their misogynist poverty stricken heads?

Let me break it down for you so you will understand what some people are trying to tell you.

Let's say you are a man, married with kids or have a baby mama in the USA. If you start having serious issues with your significant other, her friends might advice her on what to do to have an advantage in case of the future.

You might think you have having an innocent argument with her,she will record it and add salt and pepper

BOOM

Restraining order.

You will keep defending one false allegation to another.

He said, she said.

Like I type earlier, the women that end up understanding this are those that have sons that are victims.

It is deeply traumatizing.

[quote author=wendy120 post=133981628]Lol so women are deescalators? Men cannot deescalate? I have no RIp to waste for him. Of you move to western countries, remember there are laws there and there are consequences. You can't continue to behave like a Nigerian man who has been trained to violate a woman's right. If you want to be happy, it's in your hands. [/quot

One thing I have come to realise is that the women who eventually understand how some women can be evil and manipulative against their husbands abroad are women that have sons that became victims.

All over the internet, there are documentaries of how innocent men are framed up and destroyed in marriages and relationships and yet you keep typing this.

May God help us all.

GloriousGbola:
The man came after his wife and kids with a gun. That tells you he has anger management issues. In Nigeria women are taught to manage this. You will remember we saw a video of a pwc lawyer attacking his wife on camera. The whole matter has been died since then. So Nigerians are expected to tolerate domestic violence even to the point of death. Americans are not.

That is one example of cultural differences

To the people asking what happened - and be very careful what you wish for. Everything that led up to this point was documented. Anyone holding his wife and children at gunpoint already has a documented history of violence

You may find there were restraining orders.

"He came after his wife and kids with a gun and held them for 3 hrs" and this told you that he had anger management issues. So for 3 hours, the anger did not make him to shoot his wife

Any spouse that understands the system knows you can keep a trail of manufactured evidence for future purposes.

This is her husband for goodness sake. You are not even getting to my point.

Most modern wives have little or no clue the level of influence they have over their husbands. Just a smile, the right words or a good text message is enough to deescalate things.

GloriousGbola:
They are just a bunch of ignorant bums

Both the man and his wife's info is out there.

The narrative they are going for is she is a gold digger trophy wife whose plan was to marry the guy, have his kids and then stick him up for alimony and child support and live off this for the man for the rest of her life.

The guys friends and family are likely the ones who started this narrative and Nigerians ran with it.

In the end it's a sad story all around. There is a very wide cultural gap between American and Nigerian raised and it will take a lot of work from both parties

This is not an issue of cultural gap. They are both human beings and should have some level of empathy.

This guy went to medical school in USA. He was a cardiologist at 36yrs. He was your husband. You both have 2 kids.

WHAT HAPPENED??

That is the core question people are asking?

He was not a failed rapper from Brooklyn.

cococandy:
As a working PA, she’s not hurting for cash either. I wonder how they reached the $15k settlement.

That is the point some people have been trying to point out but people seems to ignore that. She was born in US. She knows her way around issues like this.

Tektronics12:
It Shows He is still very Primitive in his Mind. For you to loose your license, he must have committed Violence on his wife.

Some Nigerian Men still act like kids to be Honest. You can't eat your cake and Have it at the same time. Kids belong to Women in Western World.

The Law always protect the Vulnerable.
quote author=drstranged post=133968800]
https://punchng.com/us-based-nigerian-doctor-allegedly-kills-self-over-15000-child-support/

Your wife can easily frame you up for domestic violence in the USA. She can incite you to raise your voice so your kids can hear you guys arguing. She will then hit her head on the wall ( bleeding and swelling) and call the police that you pushed her. Your kids will tell the police when asked that they heard you shouting.

Only God and maybe a secret camera will save you from going to jail in this instance.

Fiscus105:
The trash you guys doing here, claiming Africa man, need to be cut into size over there.


If you behave like good man and caring husband over there, you won't have problem with ur wife.

I know several guys that married over there and still enjoying their marriages, those guys that often encounter marital problems are the one that doing shit, they known them for in Nigeria.

This is very far from the truth.

Vicky951:
He deserves it though. Everyone is just lashing out on the woman. Did you bother knowing the cause of the divorce. Or you think the US government is stupid? Before they will take it license, and limit access to his kids, something prompted him.

If you know you have a character flaw as a man, like aggressive cheating, verbal, physical or emotional abuse, better stay in Nigeria. Foreign countries had zero tolerance for these behaviors against women.

As someone who has been in the USA for over 6 years now, and know this family, the man deserves everything. I have zero empathy for me. If he were to be my brother, he still deserves it. Women are humans too and deserves to be treated right. The woman even gave him an option of going back to Nigeria for a while or getting another space so they see how to resolve the issue with time and he said instead of leaving for Nigeria, he’ll get a divorce. And he got it and even more! May his soul rest in peace.

Can you tell us why he lost his licence?

tishbite43:
Stupid man.
American cardiologist.
Nama.
You should have taken the next flight to Nigeria after all your license has been seized.
Make the yeye Jezebel come collect 15K dollars from your hand as you dey Naija.
All this yeye soft children.

A consultant at 36. His age mates are still in med school in Naija.

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