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Lightway:
Nobody falls in love.

Millions worldwide "fall in love" annually.

Meedon:
Bros why you Deh confuse yourself. No be u say, people no suppose fall in love say e no exist. Why you come the say wise guy the fall into. Bros stop confusing us and equally yourself


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All human relationships are transactional. Women realise this earlier than men.

By all, I mean 100%. Love does not exist.

Anyone you see that is deeply in love is either ignorant or insecure.

Wise and experienced people "fall in love" when they have established themselves in a relationship that will be beneficial in a meaningful way over a long period of time.

I strongly believe that we are all educated here.

When someone drops a message, make out time to go through it and understand the meaning within.

Someone wrote that love does not exist, then wrote "fall in love" in inverted comma. Is the message clearer now.

LOVE DOES NOT EXIST.

heartofcity12:
Redpill doesn’t endorse transactional relationship in the first place. Be wise. #trp

All human relationships are transactional. Women realise this earlier than men.

By all, I mean 100%. Love does not exist.

Anyone you see that is deeply in love is either ignorant or insecure.

Wise and experienced people "fall in love" when they have established themselves in a relationship that will be beneficial in a meaningful way over a long period of time.

Ugool:
No

Thank you.

Hello house.

When submitting your POF for Visa application, do the debit and credit sum matter.

Let s say you need to submit a POF of 20 million and within the 28 days window you withdrew 500,000 at once for personal needs, will it raise a red flag. Total balance was never below 20 million within the 28 days period.

One of the biggest lies told to men is that women are emotional and easily manipulated while men are logical. This feeds a man s ego giving him the impression that he is in control.

In reality, women are more logical than men when logic is needed to gain favour and more emotional than men when emotions are needed to avoid responsibilities.

A woman will deceive you to believe that you manipulated her into having sex with you whereas all she did was to extract as much resources from you to achieve what she has been longing for (sexual satisfaction).

To test a woman s logical reasoning, try to manipulate her to spend more money than you in your relationship with her, her logic side will shock you.

ThisisIkemefuna:
Makes no sense still. Your children are more likely to bond with the parent they are more emotionally attached with. Your wife is able to provide them their emotional needs that's why they dangling straight to her as confidant. Men need to start building relationships with their children and not just provide money.

Read to understand my message before you respond. There is a reason I attached " Patriarchy is dying" and is a reason why I emphasized " in this modern era"

Understand the concept of patriarchy and how it has helped men to maintain control over their families. That era is phasing out.

In a lot of European countries, you can bond with your child from toddler stage till he is 18, yet he will still leave the house to live in another part of the country and keep avoiding you for most part of his life.

Understand the message. Patriarchy is dying.

ThisisIkemefuna:
As a man be emotionally available for your children and no wife will be able to manipulate them against your reputation.

Read my message again.

In this modern era, there is increased probability of kids abandoning their parents at old age if they have little or no value to them at that point. By value I mean one or more of the following

1. Resources to maintain frame.

2. Wealth of experience to give quality advice.

3. Contacts and connections to help your kids grow.

4. Strong family and societal values to keep the kids in line.

Your wife is less likely to get the short end of the stick because of her better manipulative skills.

Build yourself. Have something to keep negotiating with. Patriarchy is dying.

There is a deep truth that most men are unaware of in this 21st CENTURY. When a lady accepts to marry you, her thought process goes like this

This man will take care of me, give me beautiful children who will continue to take care of me when he dies.

Note that none of her thought process involves taking care of the man. Men were lucky to be protected by PATRIARCHY for long but with the rise of feminism the sense of moral right to take care of the man is fading.

In this millennium, all the care you will get in this world as a man from your wife and children will be transactional. As you prepare for old age, build value because you will need it.

Your wife has an advantage because she will manipulate your kids (mother s love) from childhood to adulthood.

As a man at this age and time, if you cannot give value at any point in your life, briffault s law will set in. Keep building your value.

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Humans are primarily designed to seek the best for themselves in every situation. This quest and desire is limited by knowledge and exposure.

The more knowledgeable and exposed you are, the more you realize that love, feelings, family, sin and crime are all social constructs. They were simply created by humans to ensure survival and a better quality of life.

All human relationships are negotiated. Keep working on yourself, build yourself to always have what it takes to get what you want and what it takes to know the actual worth of what you are getting.

Herbsworks:
So something happened today and I am going to share later

Modified:
While I was in my apartment I got a call from my neighbor to please come to his flat. When I got there I saw wraps of MJ on the floor. According to him he saw the mj and risler in his girlfriend apartment So my neighbor has been dating this advanced lady that works as a top gun in one of the banks in Naija. According to him he met her in his church and she seemed like the church girl.

According to him she was a prayer machine. So he fell for her cos he has always wanted a spiritual woman even tho she wasn’t his spec physically. With time she pressured him to start visiting her apartment often. She showed him the spiritual side of her life not knowing this girl sleeps with top men in the banking sector, smokes MJ, party, a bisexual, and clubs.

He was shocked to see MJ and risler in her bag and room and also saw condoms. Even tho he said he wasn’t hurt I knew he was lying cos he was sweating inside AC. After he has narrated his ordeal I told him that the girl didn’t scam him, he was the one that let his guard down cos he saw her as a church girl So the woman showed him the part he wanted to see.

This buttresses what we have been saying here that a woman will only show you the side you want to see. If you want her slut side then it’s upto you as the man to bring it out otherwise you’d end up marrying her while she cheats with a guy that has her slutty side. But unfortunately over religious people will not learn.

Because you saw a girl in a church or she doesn’t wear jewelries, or she doesn’t use makeup, or she doesn’t like worldly songs or she prays as if God owes her doesn’t mean she’s different.

My neighbor feels scammed cos he felt she should have told him the truth. She also told my friend she’s 35 meanwhile he saw her document that has her real age 41. He also saw her previous marriage certificate even tho she never told him she was married. I also didn’t forget to tell him that he will be surprised to know that she has kids

I told him to thank his God he hasn’t wife her cos she would have been cheating on him with men that understands her slutty side while she pretends to be a mother in Israel at home

life is a logical space but unfortunately people always prefer to live in denial. One of the thing that comes with exposure is the knowledge that religions and traditions are man made and were created to serve personal interest.
An exposed logical human cannot be truly religious and will continually seek things that will give him or her pleasure. Modifications can be made intermittently to achieve specific objectives but the fundamentals remain the same.

Your wife has cheated on you, at least once since you guys got married. Anyone experienced with women and their sexuality will know that.

There is one blunt truth married people fail to come to terms with in their marital lives.

Once you marry someone( male or female) and the person has had more than one sexual partner or you happen to be the second sexual partner, the probability of your spouse cheating on you is 100% over the duration of the marriage unless he or she gets sick or dies.

One of the primary drive for infidelity is the desire for variety, a need, being exposed to multiple sexual partners activates and only few people can fight that battle and win. Till date I have not seen anyone that won.

As a side comment, if you do not want your spouse to cheat on you in marriage, make sure you marry a virgin( both gender), it reduces the probability. If you marry a non-virgin, the probability is actually 100% for both gender.

claremont:
Corruption, insecurity and the dearth of infrastructure (good roads, power supply, rail transport etc). He is doing his best to tackle this triad curse in my opinion. I don't think there is a magic wand that can be used to take away all of the problems of Nigeria overnight. It will take a few baby steps and a few good leaders to get to where we want to be. I may be wrong, but deep down, I think he is an incorruptible leader who means well, but is sadly, overwhelmed by the challenges of governing a country like Nigeria.

Nigeria is a complex country to govern; the abnormal is normalized, whilst the normal is perceived as abnormal.

Safeob27:
No please. You can’t bring in dependents on the 2 year post study visa. It would be better for all your dependents to come before you finish your masters program.

Thanks

Is there a deadline, like "Not later than 3 months to the end of your programme"

Good morning house.

If one is not ready to go with his family immediately for a year Masters. Can he bring them to the UK after Masters with his 2 years post study visa?

Hello guys, which banks are good in terms of response for FORM A?

truthCoder:
hnmmm.

first, stop reading blogs that define relationships.

lets go practical. I speak the truth and it might hurt.

your wife and you got married not because you are best of friends but because you both seem to meet certain societal requirements you both set for yourselves. You wanted a virgin and a church girl from a good home. She wants a good man with a good job who will love her.

This is where the problem starts. You and your wife might be married but you are not friends. She needs someone to be free with and currently you are not..the pastor is.

Here is what you should do.

First ball is you. Are you the kind of guy that is not easily approachable by the wife on petty things? If you are, you need to change. She must have access to you on everything. If she thinks about ABC, she must be able to gist about it with you. Be more open. As regards sex, she is a learner...teach her...Sex is not just the penetration. Learn about taking it sloowwwww....For the next few days, make love without penetrating her. make her relaxed, give her a good massage, help her clean her ear, arrange her hair, help her try on different clothes, just lie on the bed and gist, kiss and cuddle, give her head, cut her toenails, do everything that involves touching but no penetration. This will loosen her more.

Take the pastor's phone number. Call him and tell him you are XYZ's husband. Don't allow him to 'pastorize' you. Tell him you have seen the chats and you are disappointed. Tell him he should never contact your wife again or he is going to see hell on earth. Tell him you will come into the church during service to embarrass him if he doesn't stop contacting your wife. Tell him you will report him to Winners Headquarters in Ota and via social media then hang up the call.

Next ball park is your wife. Sit her down and have this conversation with her. Tel her the most important relationship she has is the one with you. Every other one is secondary. Tell her you would love her more if she can make you her friend. If she has any thing to discuss, She should be free to do so with you. Show her love. Show her that she matters. Gist with her.

You will win her back

Once you have a problem in life, ask yourself

What is the root cause? The above submission sounds good but in reality, it will not solve his problem.

1. You do not need to be best of friends to have a successful marriage. You need commitment, tolerance and sacrifice. 2 complete strangers can build a wonderful marriage.

2. Genuine interest cannot be negotiated. Once 2 adults are in a relationship, unless they are dumb, communication will flow naturally and can always be improved on. So long as no one is physically or emotionally cheating on each other, any level of communication should be appreciated.

3. If you have to work up a woman to have sex with you then she does not desire you. A man gets hard when he desires a woman and a woman gets wet when she desires a man. When your wife gets wet for you, you do not cut her toenail, you do the needful so genuine desire is the problem here.

4. Ask yourself why a pastor with a wife and children will be controlling your wife s emotion over the phone while you cannot even though you live in the same house with her. The answer is CONTROL. They are asking you to arrange her hair, massage her and cut her nails, was the pastor doing these things?

5. Calling the pastor and having any discussion with him will not solve your problem unless you want to learn how he is in control of your wife s emotional life.

6. As a man the moment you have to initiate, sit down and start having a heart to heart discussion with your wife and all that you are losing your respect. Woman value relationship more than men so it should be the other way round. You do not need to ask your wife to be your friend. You are the head of your home. You are friends already.

7. You need to start working on yourself. Keep improving yourself on all areas of your life. Build yourself to a point where most women will want to have you in their life and most men will admire you. Do the following

A. Work on your confidence level.
B. Keep improving your finances
C. Work out and have a great body.
D. Be social and keep both male and female friends.
E. Dress well
F. Smell nice
G. Accept more responsibilities especially those that have to do with leadership.
H. Have it at the back of your mind that marriage must not be successful but you have to do your best.

Your marriage will be restored within 3 months.

UcLloyd:
This is poo. What too many American romantic movies can cause. Clean her ears lol. The wife is stupid and disrespectful. U were caught, yet u continued. In this life, peace of mind is everything. If the Op stays with that lady, one day she will kill him with heart break and stress. If she can still go ahead and keep Unholy communication with her pastor after the husband asked her not to, she doesn't deserve that home. Divorce won't kill ur kid Op, but your wife can kill u with stress and heart break, Use your head

Adults should stop all these emotional blackmail and selfishness in marriage. No one is perfect and can give you all you need or want in marriage. Marriage involves sacrifices, manage what you have and build on it.

OP, so long as you provide for your family to the best of your ability, do not cheat on your wife and do not abuse her physically, you are not at fault here.

One truth most women will never tell men is that a woman cannot love a man. A woman can either fear, respect or despise a man. Women generally despise weak men so ask yourself

Do my wife fear me? If your wife was married to Pablo Escobar will she be chatting with her pastor? No one should get submission from anyone with fear so I do not subscribe to this type of relationship but I hope you get my point here.

Ask yourself, Do my wife respect me? the answer is NO, that leaves us with the third option, you are weak.

A man should always be in control of his home and relationships. Forget about all the things people tell you about fulfilling a woman s physical, emotional, physiological and financial needs. Once a woman is in a relationship with a man in control, she subconsciously aligns her needs to match up with the extent to which her man provides.

Let me tell you what to do

1. As a man, never get a third party invoked in your relationship with women except you are leaving the relationship and that decision should be absolute. Gather all your evidences and keep them to yourself. No one should know what is going on in your marriage, no in-laws, no pastors, no one.

2. Always develop yourself into a man other men admire and a man other women want to Bleep. For the first, work hard, accept more responsibilities, be confident, be social, be richer. For the second, be physically fit, smell nice, dress well, have a good sense of humour and keep female friends.

3. Be decisive in your home. Lead your wife.

4. On the issue of sex, no normal human being hates sex, they just desire a certain partner.

5. Start with all I listed above and I assure you in 3 months time, your wife will be pushing you to have sex with her in order not to lose you.

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[quote author=Ruben225571 post=105839808]Mass shut down

Approaching the September 24 deadline for foreign and local crypto exchanges to register as legal trading platforms with the authorities, almost 40 out of estimated 60 local operators are about to be shut down, the Financial Times reported, citing “industry insiders and regulators.”

According to the report, South Korean cryptocurrency traders are facing $2,6 billion losses as the deadline approaches.

“For VASPs that are unable to meet the requirements and are terminating their operation, the authorities advised them to take measures to minimize damages to service users by issuing advance notices about their business termination at least 7 days prior (until Sep. 17) to the expected termination date, informing users about the withdrawal procedures being available until at least 30 days after terminating services and discarding users’ personal information according to the relevant rules,” read the official press release, following the September 6 virtual meeting.

To be able to register with the authorities, South Korean operators must partner with local banks to open real-name bank accounts for customers, but, as the report pointed out, local lenders were reluctant to take that route, scared of being exposed to money laundering and other financial crimes.

“Huge investor losses are expected with trading suspended and assets frozen at many small exchanges as customer protection will not likely be the priority of those exchanges facing an imminent closure,” Cho Yeon-haeng, president of Korea Finance Consumer Federation told Financial Times.


They will find themselves suddenly poor. I wonder if regulators can handle the side-effects,” he added.

Following the US dollar and the euro, the Korean won ranks as the third most common currency used for crypto trading, according to the report, which reminded that the regulations will also affect foreign exchanges that run operations for Korean traders and offer won trading. !

Watch out—-

Not financial advice!!

Gurus in the house, how will this affect the market, this week.

emmanuelbrown26:
Oga we are talking about dynamogen. If u are science inclined or have taken dynamogen go ask dosage of dynamogen. Dynamogen is not something to be taken 3 times daily

Dynamogen can be taken 3 times a day.

Good evening all. My cousin applied for an 18 months masters programme in UK January 2022 intake and would like his wife to accompany him as a dependent. Her international passport will expire August 2022.

A Nigerian immigration officer advised him to get a new passport for his wife as no country will give her a visa beyond the duration of the validity of her passport. Pls is this true?

Can she get an 18 months visa on december 2021 when her passport will expire August 2022?

Good morning everyone. What happens if you get a good job with your BSC or any previous qualification while studying? Can one suspend his studies and switch his Visa type. How will his remaining school fees be sorted out?

Good evening everyone. What happens if you get a good job with your BSC or any previous qualification while studying? Can one suspend his studies and switch his Visa type. How will his remaining school fees be sorted out?

Good evening everyone, can someone help me with a list of UK Universities that offer full time MPH programme ( 2yrs) for international students. Thanks.

uau:
As the interview stage starts, I remember that I was like you in 2011 and as a commoner, I made it as EH in 2012.

Many will get in without knowing anyone.

Just be competent in whatever you are doing, dress well and be confident.

Market yourself very well when they ask you “May we meet you” and above all study your CV well and highlight all your achievements.

Your focus should not be on money but adding value to the corporation and by extension Nigeria and be patient.

NNPC is an employer of choice with human feelings.

For me, I am 100% dedicated to NNPC as the corporation has added value to me and my family.

I wish you all the best.

Sir, which CV will be used for EH during the oral interview? The ones that have been submitted already or the one we are to come along with?