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Gaming › Re: Do You Remember This Game?! by Merlissa(f): 4:41pm On Jul 10, 2015
yes
Jokes Etc › Re: When MTN Finally Employs An MFM Member by Merlissa(f): 4:39pm On Jul 10, 2015
You go fear thunder
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Who's Up For A Chat by Merlissa(op): 4:37pm On Jul 10, 2015
Abduletudaye:
Maybe i should have that for iftar cheesy
With all pleasure
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Who's Up For A Chat by Merlissa(op): 4:22pm On Jul 10, 2015
Abduletudaye:
So Merlissa, have you had lunch? angry
I ate moi moi and titus fish
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Who's Up For A Chat by Merlissa(op): 4:05pm On Jul 10, 2015
Abduletudaye:
Warristhis? undecided
Abeg no mind am..

Wannabe idiot
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Who's Up For A Chat by Merlissa(op): 4:05pm On Jul 10, 2015
hecha38:
i love bleeping girls called merlisa
So how does that affect mehuh

Am Merlissa not merlisa
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Who's Up For A Chat by Merlissa(op): 3:52pm On Jul 10, 2015
Abduletudaye:
Make eba on your wedding day and am not invited...tongue grin
I'd rather make semo intead grin grin

The fewer the better tongue tongue
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Who's Up For A Chat by Merlissa(op): 3:47pm On Jul 10, 2015
Abduletudaye:
What!? angry
Water angry
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Who's Up For A Chat by Merlissa(op): 3:43pm On Jul 10, 2015
Abduletudaye:
Fair Enoughgrin
A smile


Hallelujah
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Who's Up For A Chat by Merlissa(op): 3:41pm On Jul 10, 2015
Abduletudaye:
What type of garri? undecided
Ijebu
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Who's Up For A Chat by Merlissa(op): 3:36pm On Jul 10, 2015
Abduletudaye:
Thats good.. cheesy

Ok, bye angry
Safe Journey!

Bye garri ooo
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Who's Up For A Chat by Merlissa(op): 3:31pm On Jul 10, 2015
Abduletudaye:
Merlissa

How are you? lipsrsealed
Am blessed
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Who's Up For A Chat by Merlissa(op): 3:31pm On Jul 10, 2015
sammieblaize:
What are your likes?
i love blogging, swimming and cuddling
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Who's Up For A Chat by Merlissa(op): 3:15pm On Jul 10, 2015
chiMoni37:
....i hope u dnt sting ? like bees do...
I do if you break my heart angry
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Blackberry Pin Exchange (bb Pin) by Merlissa(f): 3:11pm On Jul 10, 2015
2BC24F19
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Who's Up For A Chat by Merlissa(op): 3:10pm On Jul 10, 2015
Cutehector:
Wats d meanin of merlissa
The name Melissa is a Greek baby name. Which means Bee.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Who's Up For A Chat by Merlissa(op): 3:04pm On Jul 10, 2015
If your up for a chat buzz in
Family › Re: Should I Allow My Wife To Leave Our 4 Month-Old-Baby And Start Work? by Merlissa(f): 2:44pm On Jul 10, 2015
As a nursing mother they should allow her to do half day..


BUT


As she just got the job NO company here in Nigeria would allow her do half day

Can you baby sit??
Celebrities › Re: Nigerian Beauty Queen, Chichi Mbagwu Bags 1st Class Honours From UK University by Merlissa(f): 4:44pm On Jul 09, 2015
BB



Beauty and Brains


Ladies PLS take note!!
Jokes Etc › I Must Use Selfie Stick By Force by Merlissa(op): 3:08pm On Jul 09, 2015
One word

Jokes Etc › Re: Kung Fu Gone Wrong (graphic Photo) by Merlissa(op): 3:07pm On Jul 09, 2015
may01:
Tear tear, patch patch omo baba shoemaker grin
Choi!

E don tey wey i hear that song!!
Jokes Etc › Re: Kung Fu Gone Wrong (graphic Photo) by Merlissa(op): 2:53pm On Jul 09, 2015
zyzxx:
sulhinfula u are getting corupt oo
*Covers face*
Jokes Etc › Re: Kung Fu Gone Wrong (graphic Photo) by Merlissa(op): 2:34pm On Jul 09, 2015
Dharniel:
wetin your eyes dey find reach dah side?
Abeg no vex
Jokes Etc › Kung Fu Gone Wrong (graphic Photo) by Merlissa(op): 2:27pm On Jul 09, 2015
One Word

Romance › Help.... Going To Visit My In-laws by Merlissa(op): 12:18pm On Jul 09, 2015
How igbo boys go when visiting their in-laws

Celebrities › Re: Davido Gets His Daughter A Customised OBO Blinded Out Neck (Photo) by Merlissa(f): 12:01pm On Jul 09, 2015
Daddy's little girl
Investment › Re: 5 Steps You Can Take To Become A GOLD-DIGGER by Merlissa(op): 11:09am On Jul 09, 2015
Aflowz:
Nice one merlissa
Thank You
Investment › 5 Steps You Can Take To Become A GOLD-DIGGER by Merlissa(op): 10:24am On Jul 09, 2015
What would you have accomplished in your life? Those who set goals accomplish more than those who do not set goals. Those who write their goals down accomplish significantly more than those who do not write their goals down.

Imagine driving. If you want to drive from A to B and you’ve never been there before, what do you do? Just drive around aimlessly hoping to wind up at your destination?

No. You make a plan. You map it out. Each turn you make gets you closer to your destination. You can even estimate about how long it will take you to arrive. It’s the same with goal setting …

Most people have just never been taught how to set goals and how important it is to write those goals down.
With the hope of helping others know what I wish I knew sooner, I wanted to offer a basic goal-setting how-to. You can find plenty of wordy advice online on the subject, but I want to try to keep this simple. By me keeping it simple, you will be more likely to use it.

These five steps will give you an idea of the basics: Start thinking about what you WANT in your life.
What do you want to accomplish? What do you want to have? Where do you want to go? If you don’t decide, life will decide for you … "Life is what happens to you when you’re busy making other plans.” -John Lennon

1. Choose just a few goals. Productivity studies show that you really can’t focus on more than 5–7 items at any one time.
This doesn’t mean including sections with several goals under each section. This will lead to loss of focus and accomplishing very little. Instead, focus on a handful of goals that you can almost memorize. They can include some long-term, and some short-term, and they aren’t set in stone. They can change, that’s okay.

2. Make your goals “SMART.” This is an acronym that I’ve heard interpreted different ways. I like this way: Goals must meet these five criteria.

• Specific—your goals must say exactly what you want to accomplish in as much specificity as you can. For example: Bad = write a book. Good = write a book proposal for Your Topic Here.

• Measurable—as the saying goes, “You can’t manage what you can’t measure.” If possible, try to quantify the result you want. That way, you will know whether or not you hit the goal. Example: Bad = earn more this year than last. Good = earn $5,000 more this year than last.

• Actionable—every goal should start with an action verb (“start,” “run,” “finish,” “write,” etc.) rather than a to-be verb (“am,” “be,” “have,” etc.). It’s best to state your goal in the positive instead of in the negative because you get more of what you focus on. If you say you want to get out of debt, you are focusing on the debt and you will get more of it. Instead, try stating your goals in a positive way. Maybe, “create a budget" ... that’s better! Example: Bad = be more consistent in blogging. Good = write two blog posts per week.

• Realistic—a good goal should stretch you but be reasonable. Go right up to the edge of your comfort zone and then step over it. (If you’re not out of your comfort zone, you’re not thinking big enough.) Example: Bad = qualify for the PGA tour. Good = lower my golf handicap by four strokes.

• Time-bound—every goal needs a date associated with it. When do you plan to meet your goal? Give your goal a date by which you want to complete it. “A goal without a date is just a dream.” Make sure that every goal ends with a by when date. Example: Bad = lose 20 pounds. Good = lose 20 pounds by September 15th.

3. Write them down. This part is critical. There is a huge power in writing your goals down even if you never plan or do anything else (not recommended). When you write down your goals, you are stating your intention and setting things in motion.

4. Review them frequently. While writing your goals down is a powerful exercise in itself, the real fun happens by reviewing them on a regular basis. This is what turns them into reality.

Take it up a notch and make a goal board that is visual with pictures. That is actually really fun. My family makes ours around New Years for the upcoming year.

We hang it in a place where we see it at least three times a day! Take a photo of it and put it on your phone.
Every time you make any decisions, start asking yourself this question, “Is this moving me closer to my goal?” Start to make decisions based on those answers.

5. Share them selectively. There are different opinions about going public with your goals. Some are all for it, while others believe that telling someone your goals makes them less likely to happen.

I don’t think you need to tell everyone. Don’t share them with anyone who is not committed to helping you achieve them. Share them with those who will support your goals (your mentor, spouse, coach, or business partner).

The practice of goal-setting is not just helpful; it is a prerequisite for happiness. Psychologists say that people who make consistent progress toward meaningful goals live happier, more satisfied lives than those who don’t. Remember, NO MATTER HOW LONG YOU’VE TRAVELED IN THE WRONG DIRECTION, YOU CAN ALWAYS TURN AROUND.

If you don’t have written goals now, it’s not too late to start. You can get a rough draft done in as little as an hour or two. Look at your goals three times a day; FEEL what it would feel like if you had them now.

I strongly encourage you to give this a try. It has changed my life.
You will be so amazed at how your life will start bringing you what you ask for. Teach your children to set goals at a young age. It will stay with them for life.

“Few things in life pay such rich dividends for such a modest investment.” The sooner you start, the sooner you’ll arrive at your destination.

Source: http://www.blogher.com/how-set-goals-5-simple-steps

Events › Re: See Wedding Photos Of A Bride & The Groom In A Portrait. by Merlissa(f): 8:51am On Jul 09, 2015
HOW DID THEY EXCHANGE THE RINGS??


HOW DID THEY KISS THE GROOM??


HOW DID THEY EAT THE CAKE??


HOW DID THEY DO THE COUPLE'S FIRST DANCE??


In conclusion

THE BRIDE JUST WANTS TO GET MARRIED BY THUNDER BY LIGHTING !!!
Car Talk › Re: Passenger Bus Falls Into Lagoon Along Ijebu Ode-ore Expressway (photos) by Merlissa(f): 4:22pm On Jul 07, 2015
What's going on??


If it's not bomb blast


It's road accident!!!


We need cleansing in this country!!


Please lets pray against all forces of evil
Romance › Re: I Hate You Daddy!!! by Merlissa(op): 12:59pm On Jul 07, 2015
gamaliel121:
I swear....no vex...kikikiki
Am not vexing

tongue tongue tongue
Romance › Re: I Hate You Daddy!!! by Merlissa(op): 12:44pm On Jul 07, 2015
gamaliel121:
I tot ur dad bleeped u..until I opened the link..

Mmmmmm
grin grin grin grin grin


Your mind don go far...

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