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Hey,
lovely Men of nairaland! What do u really expect of your woman inorder to have that perfect relationship you both aspire to have?
Please i need your take on this, ladies inclusive ur views are welcome!!!

cheers

HEY,

ladies, if your Man beats you up will you take it from him? Wat will you do/how will you react?

Gentlemen, would you beat your Woman up if she provkes the hell out of you?
If not what will u do and how will you react??

I need your views please.
Much love

Why so much fuss about ladies and money? ladies and their materialist nature? abi some ladies don suck u dry all of una wey dey post this knid thread.

Odikwa eguw

exotique:
I think it will be better to use a bleach so that their mentalities wil be as good as new.

lol

manmustwac:
due to the present economic situation of the country its not easy to find a a serious babe when theres no money

Not all, so plz dont generalize

blackmann:
Even though u say 95% of women go out for money as you claim, there are still some ladies out there that love their men genuinely, even if he does not have money. I have a friend who didn't get a job for almost two years, but still his baby stood beside him through his trying period. it was so bad that he couldn't even buy her the basic small gifts girls love. Even when the girl got a job that paid her a very good salary, she never left him. She stood beside him, and eventually he got a job in the national assembly last year. I tell you no one told him twice before he made that lady his wife.

Thank you for this. Some Men need their mentality about ladies to be wash with Ariel Enzymax so their views about ladies could change.

In order to find out how true is the man to his words. Men preach and never practise what they say, at times they need to learn from practical stunts(test) we have to pull so they can keep their mouths shut. They can be soo good at telling you how to act in particular situation meanwhile they are not capable of doing what they ask u too.

Bro, u re indirectly telling yourself you are a looser That you cant work on your own to make it in life. I no envy u at all

for slavery

tamai:
Instead of thinking up ways to do away with this and other such practices against womanhood,they were busy
putting up a law against indecent dressing.

lol My dear them no get work oh! no mind them its due to their lack of self control that has created a great lusting urge in them that is making them bring up laws on decent dressing. The fact is that they cant deny a girl looking really hot!!!!! When we have just soo much practises against woman hood na body hug and pencil jean de worry them!!!!

Be more patient, it could be just the usual Shakara and initial Gragra. And stop calling and going to see her, if she truely loves u very soon she go borrow 2 more legs from her mama add to her own waka come and see you   Bros dont worry or stress yourself up. Relax and move on with your daily activities it happens every where. She will come crawling.

Ladies and Gentlemen,

What will you do IF on your wedding day during the joining of the couples and your soon to be husband/wife is asked miss/mr so so so and so will u take him/her for your lawfully cherished wife/husband? to have and to hold? in sickness and in health? for richer and poorer? Till death do you part? And your about to be husband/wife now says NO I DO NOT WHAT WILL YOU DO

chukwudi06:
please can somebody help me before i do mistake of my life.
in my family we have this culture of marrying tall women, but there is this short girl in my life and for one year now.
I don't know how to tell her this or what to do. please i need your help.

Nothing do you!!!! na una ancestors say make una no marry short women?  

chukwudi06:
please can somebody help me before i do mistake of my life.
in my family we have this culture of marrying tall women, but there is this short girl in my life and for one year now.
I don't know how to tell her this or what to do. please i need your help.

Nothing do you!!!! na una ancestors say make una no marry short women?

If some ladies could realise that dignity and self worth are priceless no matter the situation they are in, they will not do runs or prostitute instead they will prefer to hawk tomatoes on the streets at least its more dignifing than sleeping with some Man for Money. You might sleep with a man, he gives you 20k for the night but you dont know what he has collected from you. CHICKS MAKE UNA USE POLISH SHINE UNA EYES OHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

1st Corinthians 13!!!

Bros how u take sabi say she dey cheat and doing runs? are u sure u are actually faithfull? All these suspicious behaviours only comes from our own seleves, when u dont trust yourself definately u wont trust your partner!!! Gbam

U CANT GIVE WHAT YOU DONT HAVE
D question is how do u know she is actually unfaithful to you??

WHY SHOULD I??

Hi,
well depending on what u can afford, the expensive hotels here in Jos are Crest Hotels, Lamonde, City lodge hotel. We have others, Hillstation hote, hotel mononia etc they are quite affordable cos Jos is a cheap town. I have lived my whole life here, but make sure to come come with your jackets its cold here.

Cheers

My dear it does matter oh! My cousin was engaged to this guy, they dated for four years but when they were ready for marriage they went for their genotype test and both of them were AS,AS. They had to break up, u ll only bring children to this world that will suffer. Someone said it's better to live with an Aids patient that to live with a child that is an SS

Andala:
Can you marry him despite his poverty

Poverty is a state of the mind! 4 the fact that a man doesnt have the resources/possession that does not necessarily mean he is poor. You marry the inner Man (i.e character) not resources, or possessions!!!! Even if he doesnt have all this and that. For me, i will consider the following: what is the work of his hand? is he hard working? Is he forward looking? Does he in the next 3 years see himself in the position he is in?

But if he just sits down there not doing anything then NO!!! i cant fit!!!!

dont understand what u re saying

Exstar:
Uhmmm! A house ? just because you want to marry their daughter? Na wa, o!

things dey happen oh! What of he groom to be serving 6/7 years of hard labour for his parents and the brides parent in order to show that he is well able to provide for his family?

So what will you now say, of the Tarouk people in Plateau State? the guy has to build a house for the brides father. I know of a lady who got married in 2003 (Tarouk by tribe) her father tried to relive the burden from the young man and just her brideprice was a N100,000.00 Meanwhile all other things were yet to be done!!!!

BridePrice is tradition and should be done. But on the other hand, Parents should not use that as an avenue to expliot their future inlaws, they should be considerate, including our Umunna,UmuAda, village heads, Igwe, extended family etc!!!!

CHEERS. THANKS FOR ALL YOUR CONTRIBUTIONS  

~Sauron~:
The groom's family should be spanked.
There's nuthing wrong with a woman negotiating with her parents to knock the brideprice down.

That's funny  :DSpanking he grooms family, should i get a koboko so u ll do it??  

stillwater:
What's wrong with that?

Nothing is wrong with it my dear, as she said for a family to feel that their daughter has properly gotten married, such an exorbitant brideprice has to be paid, so if such huge amount is not paid, the brides family will feel their daughter was not properly married and definately i dont think there is any family that will want to feel sooooo

tamai:
this exorbitant bride price is really crazy.in kalabari (rivers state),its
equally as high as that of the east, if not higher.but in this case they are categorised,in that the most expensive
is the most complete marriage,giving full ownership of the wife to the husband.when she dies she is not taken to her people, but buried in the husbands compound.

Then wahala go de gas for this kain situation oh!  in that the most expensive
is the most complete marriage ODIKWA EGWU

walttt:
soon parents ll start quarrelling over their inability to have female children n the dad ll be like:

darling, I've told u i need just one son n 9 female children, u know they r like investments in the London Stock Exchange

Thats really funny

Pennywise:
H.RHotness, sorry but you are going to be acquired real soon. Yes you are facing acquisition without knowing it.

U wont be only facing acquisition but merging

@ Ujujoan,

Chick, u are right, i have a friend who is the 1st male child of the family and the first child also, he was the one to give his younger sister away, his family told him that no matter the amount his future inlaw brings, he should collect it, take only N10 and give them the remaining. They re same Igbos you all are complaining that they collect outrageous amounts.