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I don't know what is wrong with Iyabo Ojo, things does not av to work in her way all because she thinks she has a lawyer or because she wants to be noticed, princess own self no reach this level, she needs to be careful, she needs to mind her business and face her daughter's life, she is going too far what's exactly is her gain, is it dt Baba Ijesha has offended her sometimes and she sees this as a pay back show, i don't get, I understand Fabiyi's stand there was no evidence to prove dt d girl was raped by Ijesha and because of dt d police needs time to investigate d matter nd not just rush just because some people said he needs to be prosecuted, Princess on d other hand needs to be arrested so as to understand d full story, a crime was committed 7 years ago and u never know, when baba Ijesha was inside with d girl, who else was with, nobody dt is because three of d children who were boys av gone to play, she had a visitor and she took two of dem with her to lock d door, d story no pure and for dt 7 years Ijesha never came to d house and yet she was helping him thru school, people needs to be careful in rushing to judgement, I don't support Ijesha act but Princess is not saying d truth dt is y dey want a quick judgement alongside Iyabo ojo nd others because dey dont want d whole truth to be out so her name will not be dragged into d whole mess, she isn't worthy to be in custody of those children.

I don't know what is wrong with It and Iyabo Ojo, things does not av to work on a way all because she thinks she lawyer or because she wants to be noticed, princess own self no reach this level, she needs to be careful, she needs to mind her business and face her daughter's life, she is going too far what's exactly is her gain, is it dt Baba Ijesha has offended her sometimes and she sees this as a pay back show, i don't get, I understand Fabiyi's stand there was no evidence to prove dt d girl was raped by Ijesha and because of dt d police needs time to investigate d matter nd not just rush just because some people said he needs to be prosecuted, Princess on d other hand needs to be arrested so as to understand d full story, a crime was committed 7 years ago and u never know, when baba Ijesha was inside with d girl, who else was with, nobody dt is because three of d children who were boys av gone to play, she had a visitor and she took two of dem with her to lock d door, d story no pure and for dt 7 years Ijesha never came to d house and yet she was helping him thru school, people needs to be careful in rushing to judgement, I don't support Ijesha act but Princess is not saying d truth dt is y dey want a quick judgement alongside Iyabo ojo nd others because dey dont want d whole truth to be out so her name will not be dragged into d whole mess, she isn't worthy to be in custody of those children.

I am just speechless, this Country is just something else

This is pathetic,i really feel for her,may God console her all d time and be her strength.money money money.

Reasons those marriages don't last to d best of my abilities are : 1. Respect: when spouse don't respect each other, there is gonna be problem which leads to fight and quarrel cos as husband and wife u need to respect each other at home and in public,u dont talk anyhow to each other not all human can stand it.
2. Lack of understanding: when spouse refuses to understand each others mood, know when to talk and when not to ,when to play and when not too.
3. Neglect of duties: couples should understand dt dey av their own roles to play at home and even to each other d moment one refuses to do his or her oen part, then d beginning of the end is near
4. Parent influence: couples parent should stay away from their children's marriage, no husband will want his -in-law to run his home likewise d wife too,so dey should learn to stay away allow dem handle their differences themselves so as to understand each other beta.
4. Communication: couples should learn how to relate well with each other,no secret, nothing like I want to be left alone,share ur worries and pains,share ur happiness.
Our grandparents were mindful of all things like dis so their marriage lasted till old age.
Also i can like to mention endurance but I won't hammer on dt cos a man dt abuse his wife physically u can't preach endurance to such, d way men of nowadays treats their wives is not in any way close to our grandparents.

This man is a demon,two storey building,he should be charged for attempted murder,because that is what he wants to do, God just saved d lady, her body will never be d same again. People and wickedness

Out govt are very funny, dey keep producing figures everyday, I don't know where they are getting it from, with d way things are happening in dis Country,its so obvious dt there is nothing like Covid- 19,dey say we should register for NIN d kind of crowd dt are available at d centre shows Covid is just a scam, its a way of looting our Country's money, if MTN will discontinue my line,dey had beta start doing it. Our Country is in a mess with d leaders we av, I doubt dis Country coming out soon.

Happy birthday to my birthday mate,wish her many more years to come

[quote author=crackhaus post=97425415]Some elements of your story OP are not tying up properly for me...


1. Your niece is bold enough to invite her boyfriend over to your house without prior notice.
2. She's also bold enough to introduce him as her boyfriend to your face.
3. And then the ultimate display of boldness was to lead him to her bedroom where they spent three hours.

How? Why?

Na wah oo...
It feels as if you're the visitor in that house and she's the owner, because that's the only way any of this will make sense.

Okay let's go with it for a minute and assume this is all for real, why is your wife stopping you from talking?
You have a right to be upset, you have a right to lash out... this is not something you should be afraid to step on toes for.

As a matter of fact, it is YOUR duty to call your niece to order... NOT your wife's duty.
The girl is your niece, your own relative...
Whatever you do to reprimand her will be taken more lightly since you're her uncle by blood. Don't even let your wife be the one to chook mouth because the niece can go report her and twist it to make your wife appear like the bad person.

Just imagine, she say she want to counsel her gently... Lol
Pikin wey nor get respect for her host family.
You should drag her ears well well sef, I'm sure her parents will thank you for it.
I don't think dis is a good idea,ur wife has taken it upon herself to talk to her,i believe dt is good, I'm sure she will deal with properly,if u get angry and talk at dt moment u will not only be an idiot in d presence of ur niece but a nonentity in d presence of d guy,its beta to talk like an educated person.

Dis Amotekun people are not in any way different from SARS, just because dey want to justify d killing dey tag it as robbery and cultism,mah God just help us in dis Country. May d boy soul rest in peace and may God grant d family d heart to bear d loss.

I don't want to know what happened, who started d fight, first when u were to marry her,u should av told her parent dt u were gonna beat her if she misbehave, secondly y do men always belief dt when u talk a woman shouldn't talk back anf when she does u r to slap her because u married,can she slap u when u insult her first, guys should learn dt once u r married ur wife becomes part of u and as long as u can't beat urself y beating ur wife, I will take d child away because dt scene won't leave his or her head,then let me not deceive u dey will too beat dt man but he no go die nor faint

I don't seems to understand,how can a senior officer tell a junior officer to stop and refuses,is there no law, is there no rules,d senior officer can't slap the junior abi,after shooting he collected d gun,u can imagine,itd only God dt can heal our Land,dey all just wasted d life of a harmless, peaceful, obedient citizen,may his soul rest in peace and may God be with d wife and console her

It was fun back then,i enjoy every bit of my primary school life, when it comes to break, we r always eager to ride merry go round, swing dt is d one dt has plank sit,it will take u up front and back up. I doubt if those things r still in existence now in Schools, even in d schools we attend back then. Civilization na wa oo

I don't seems to understand those who support dis man's opinion, in d first place men need to understand dt before u say u want to marry,it means u r okay and u can take care of at least extra two mouth, since u know u r not up to it y go for it, secondly, y will u be asking ur wife to be what responsibility she will carry when u guys marry, y asking her dt kind of question, as a lady she knows what she will in d house,y making it look as if u av to share responsibility in d house dt means u r not man enough, someone said a woman u married, u provide food for, u take care of, guys mentality, u shouldn't take care of her because when u met her she was not well taken care of, I don't get,if u continue with d mindset of my wife must take responsibility in d house, I can assure u, u will av to remain single, whatever u invest in ur wife, don't expect to collect anything in return,dts ur responsibility, if it wasn't d right thing ur mother won't support talkless of ur father. Mr. If u want to av a home u had beta stop dt attitude of sharing responsibility I'm d house, I tell u if u do, u won't av any say because she will remind u, I take responsibility in d house so u can't order me around, because we ladies we r funny, we will lambast u on top ur money,na so God tey create us. So, my dear, take ur responsibility,act like a man so dt u can av control of ur home.

Is this to seal a contract deal or what, na wa oo

Chai! This Country is gone, who approved all this money and besides why r they probing them now since 2015, this SERAP self.

Eh yah! Mother virginity, I don't know what her problem is, she has landed herself into trouble over matter wey no concern ham,even her children she dare not do dt, cos dt is an abuse, it's a lesson and I'm sure she go learn where she dey go

I think to some extent I understand and get dis msg clearly and I can say it dis woman is right, involving one's mother into one's marital home either of d spouse is not too good especially when d mother is on d side of her child, its not healthy for marriage, but one can inform dem but not to take sides.