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Why they want give them sleepless night na? Imagine sack letter coupled with this pandemic?

tfelicityk:
Besides, you mentioned that she told she is getting married to someone soon... Why she is betting with you? It seems both of you are inconsistent... Here is my question - can you managed her for who is she for the rest of your life?

Sure, I can

greggng:
You stil have unfinished business with her. She was right to say you don't know what you want....because you have been flirting with other girls around. She might be of the opinion that you are not taking her feeling for you seriously by extention taking her love seriously . A lady use to love me back then. One day she wrote me a letter and gave it to her younger brother to deliver to me .unfortunately one of my friends receive the letter on my behalf ....they brother met my absence and gave it to my friend. The mumu read it and spread the news like corona viruse. When her love letter became the talk of the town, she hijacked me on my way back home and break my head with her shoe...I was rushed to the hospital ...why the nurse was treating the wound I heard her saying ....This will teach me never to joke with a woman's love. I won't be surprise if your head is broken someday for joking with a woman's love. If you want to hear the rest of my story then .you have to pay me handsomely .cos you no follow me enjoy the pain then .

Hahaha! Thanks bro

Rejoice5000:
That ur babe is single like A is for one apple,if u really Love her for something serious push a little further.and she is in love with u.seems u flirt around with ladies much in dat ur organization?

I doubt if she truly have a relationship as she claims because after she broke the sad news to me, she later called if I have reached him and I told her it's none of her business.

Moreover, the following day, she came close to my cubicle asking me if she can drink out of my bottle water and showing me how beautiful one park close to her house is

quentin06:
ignore her rant, flirt all you like, let her know that she s not the only broadd with breast.

dont reduce your standards or she will know how to manipulate you.

Ok! Noted and thank you

vivalavida:
So u just dey chase all the girls for Ur work place?

You will soon lose every atom of respect u have there.

It didn't work out for both of u. U switched to another female colleague.
You lots are even childish. Discussing relationships with fellow colleagues and placing bets that this one will leave this one for that one.

I'm not a womanizer okay?
Truth be told, I know how dangerous it is to have a relationship in the same office and that was why I never took her serious in the first place.

gideonuche:
this is a private something which should be disscused with a rightful professionals like psychologist or philandropist to counsel on this matter. it shouldn't be made public like. i dont know how some people reason.
my brother my advice for u is meet a pschologist or phylandropist to counsel u on this this matter

Meeting professional body for relationship advice? That's too far na. Well, I think the best idea is to MOVE ON for now

worworbabe:
You were always fighting and people said you are compatible. How reasonable is that?
So you will end up together and continue fighting over little things?
Think about it. You in particular sound immature and that girl can never respect you.

Just continue to move on as you have already started.

Thank you very much

ceeceeuwa:
Must you always go after the ladies in your place of work? I pity the owner of that establishment! You guys want to run the establishment down...

It's a federal government establishment

eni4real:
Is she related to Tinubu??

She's from a wealthy family

baralatie:
advice:
Run away from toxic relationships. they look like love but they are toxic to your health when the toxins enter your blood stream.
beware

Thanks bro

Wolgrace:
Confirm!! Chop knuckle jare.

Bye-bye to sisi-ness and welcome to men's crib. Leave the ball in her court and gently flow with your new girl with your front and back eyes open...

What drink can I offer you? Let's toast... Lolz

Origin Bitters

Wolgrace:
She wants to see your seriousness the more in the same fold you flock together?

I remember reading a story of a guy of how he and other successful employee selected for bank job were taken round the prison before commencing work so as to make them "more serious in a serious" bank business.

Is she serious with a serious guy like you after going round about each other? Discern that first. If NOT, she wants you not but to be her sisi pet for attention to feed her feminine structure.

She has a man right? Let her eat the fruit of her word peacefully because it's her weapon to haunt you tomorrow "IF". She might remind you in the nearest future that "no be you i for marry, i regret leaving him for you."

Noted! That you very much. No matter what happened, I'm not gonna do the chasing anymore

Wolgrace:
Wetin you thought as much? Or you just created a thread to scan through posts to see one that will validates your sisi reasoning? You are drunk!

It is a general knowledge that females loves attention as males are designed to approach and females to get the attention. So, their motives behind their cravings for the approach/attention is what you should discern like a man, not with your sisi-ness.

She wants your continuous attention back as she is posed to be bossy towards you as a colleague. If she wants you, she will be humbled and plan to move closer to the alter call with you if possible.

Brother, ladies have extra eyes that guys don't. It's a fact! She might have scanned and spot your sisi-ful characters as her baits and rope for drawing your attention like a dog. Dog is so friendly but full of sisi characters, lolzz.

You dey learn for where cunning and deceptive girls dey!

Wow! I agree with you to some extent.
I think she really want to see the seriousness in me because her best friend have talked to me about her. That if I'm really serious that I will have her. But that's killing me...what kind of seriousness again...I have tried

HMarshal:
Wait,why is she so sure u cuming back? Hope Say.... Either let ur ego in & Neva go back to her,or call her & ask her wat she really wants

Hmmm! Thanks

Austineperez:
Just wait a little longer she will come for you

I thought as much

Nwodosis:
Anyways it goes, the company/firm suffers lack of concentration to work from both of you!
I see one of you or both getting sacked .

Federal Government job

KevinDein:
Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl


Because even if she's not interested (which she really isn't, so the sooner you realise that the better for you) you are still useful to her as a beta orbiter. She needs you around to serve a wide variety of purposes; you get to do boyfriend duties without getting any girl friend benefits from her.

Of course I'd be pissed too if I were a girl and a beta orbiter wants to move on to another girl.

Thanks

Don't complicate your life and risk getting sacked (I can't state the connection between this and your job, but I know there is), or being in the news for the wrong reasons. She has a fiancé, let her be. You love her, but a man can't always have what he wants, a man's gotta do what he gotta do. She's toying with your emotions, don't give her that attention.

Thanks bro

I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

Fabolousibk1:
So you have stop masturbation just for a month and giving testimony!? My brother wait till about 6months or a year before you can share testimony oooo..
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Masturbation is a very strong addition oo
Is not easy to break through from it
Wish you Good luck BRO

Bible says We shall overcome by the Blood of the Lamb and the word of our testimony...since he has testified. So shall it be IJN

usoroh4luv:
ahhh, u get mind oooo. u want am to commit suicide?

LOL

Starz825:
That's one thing Abt ladies that I don't like...they are very very proud...as in all things being equal that nigga might not be better than you...
Ladies are too full of themselves thats why most of them miss out....

Well, she was never yours and there wasn't serious connection... because if connection don dey she no go fit commot go see another nigga like that...she go really want make u change and live a good Life....

Thanks ok!

Kevsmart88:
Exactly broda....be purpose driven, focused and well groomed,U see them drooling over U but to keep them u gotta be one hell of a pro in bed ..

Thanks a lot

Pure101:
What advice do you require after the ship has sailed?

Its not over until it is

Hypnotise:
See bashings. OP Just take it as a lesson but don't make the same mistake again

Never

daddytime:
Very immature and foolish boy you are.

A lot of growing up you need to do...

THANKS

daewoorazer:
[color=#995500]Your problem which no one is never gonna tell you is:

You are d BETA male while the other guy visiting is the ALPHA male...

The guy come play away for your unit and fvkced you over

Sorry that’s the law of natural selection
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HMMMM

DesignPoint:
Yeahhhhhh.

This might sound inconsiderate but they are plenty.

Give yourself the opportunity to connect with at least 2 different girls a day and you'll see it.

Them rush her no mean say make u kee yaself.
She was never yours.

U have done ya part by telling her how u feel so.
Drops mic

THANKS OK

chiommy123:
Op is really a confused human being and women don't like that. Know what you want and go for it

Yeah...SHE TOLD ME THAT.

I recently gained employment in one of the Federal Government Agency, met this pretty lady in my unit we were compatible, most of our unit members knew there's connection between us.

Most female colleagues in our unit encouraged us to get married and if we agreed, one of us will make a transfer to another branch of the agency in the same town. The most frustrating thing about the issue is that I keep telling them that there's nothing going between us. Truth be told, not that I don't like her but my biggest fear was starting a relationship in the same unit and organisation...that made me to be nonchalant towards the whole thing.

Long story short, there's another guy from other unit in the same agency that was more serious than I. Each time the guy comes to visit her in my unit I get pissed off but i wasn't showing her...there was a time that I even made a girl pay me a visit at my place of work just to show off that i have a girlfriend but deep down within me it was she I want.

One elderly man in our unit keep reminding me about how disappointed he is regarding my not being serious towards her and now I have loss her, that she would have be my wife if I was serious.

Deep down within me i know i the fault was from me... I have so many bad traits which she doesn't like, she knows I like women a lot, the habit of drinking and coming to work at times and things I say at times were weird and rude.

The summary of the whole thing is, I have bad reputation in my unit. Nevertheless, I listen to her advice and have been really working on myself lately and she's noticing some changes. She's planning on getting married to the other guy next year.

I recently i called her that we needed to see but she told me that what's it that i cant tell in the office but I insisted so she invited me over to her house and we talked deeply...that was when she opened up to me that she's not interested in me that I should find someone that loves me and she even asked me about the girl i brought to our work then.

Please, i need your advice...should i continue or i should let the sleeping dog lie?

The best strategy is to buy jamb past questions paper and the required necessary text books on the subjects that you want to write.

Forget all these extra moral lessons or Jamb classes that most schools undertake. Believe you me I wrote jamb four times and attended the jamb extra moral lessons but believe you me...while I was attending the lessons I wasn't focusing on their teaching but behaving like I was on Campus already.

The best is past questions papers make sure you go through it thoroughly and mark yourself...compare the answers be doing it repeatedly. Eventually I was even correcting some of the answers with the help of the text books because their answers is not 100% all correct.