Romance › Re: Habits That Produce Extraordinary Relationships by mideeniafe(f): 2:38am On Jun 28, 2013 |
kilmix: Happy one year on Nairaland today 28th. LOL Lol......  . Thanks jare  . |
Romance › Re: Habits That Produce Extraordinary Relationships by mideeniafe(f): 11:03pm On Jun 26, 2013 |
Nice Tips  . An extraordinary relationship is one of the things I crave for. Although, I don't agree with the making love part (against pre-marital s-ex). |
Romance › Re: An Apology Letter From Men To Women by mideeniafe(f): 3:17pm On Jun 26, 2013 |
Mobsync: We're not guys, we're men. Besides, we don't remember writing this. Ahh!! Sorry sir....  |
Romance › Re: An Apology Letter From Men To Women by mideeniafe(f): 10:21pm On Jun 25, 2013 |
Would love to know what 'em guys feel 'bout this? |
Romance › Re: Kissing Or Sex Which Shows More Intimatcy by mideeniafe(f): 7:03pm On Jun 25, 2013 |
SniperInADiaper: You can kiss somebody you dont love too  Like really?  I'll just puke in his mouth. |
Romance › Re: Man Proposes To Girlfriend On Stage At The AY Live Show. by mideeniafe(f): 7:24am On Jun 24, 2013 |
ogugua88: I opened the link thinking it was a Nigerian man. I was about to rejoice and scream, "YAY! Our boys are getting there!"
https://www.mememaker.net/static/images/templates/15721.jpg
*yawns*
Well, it happened in Naija. Surely, single men were there to witness. Congrats to the couple. Lmao!! Where did you get this pic?  . Gosh, my tummy hurts already  |
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Romance › Re: I Now Believe In Love At First Sight by mideeniafe(f): 8:21am On Jun 19, 2013 |
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Romance › Re: New Study Finds That Men Are The Cause Of Menopause!!! by mideeniafe(f): 12:24pm On Jun 18, 2013 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Today Is My Birthday! by mideeniafe(f): 12:16pm On Jun 18, 2013 |
Happy Birthday Girl!!! LLNP. Have fun.  |
Romance › Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Do House Chore For Her Boyfriend During Courtship by mideeniafe(f): 7:11am On Jun 17, 2013 |
I can help him out with that if he's ill or when I feel like being that nice. It's not obligatory and I'm not his wife. |
Romance › Re: What,age,did U Become Romantically Interested In Opposite Gender???? by mideeniafe(f): 7:07am On Jun 17, 2013 |
Hmmm......I really can't remember but I had my first crush when I was in pry 3. |
Romance › Re: The Kind Of Girl Good Guys Need by mideeniafe(f): 6:59am On Jun 17, 2013 |
Awww.  Just keep your fingers crossed. |
Romance › Re: Ask The Last Poster A Romantic Question!!! by mideeniafe(f): 6:51am On Jun 17, 2013 |
Kirinwa: Can we be friends?Get to know each other better? That's fine.  |
Christianity Etc › Re: A Touching Story About Jehovah Witnesses And Blood Transfusion by mideeniafe(f): 6:45am On Jun 17, 2013 |
bizmahn: Why tell anybody to sign in the first place before the transfusion.Once you know they are Jehovah's witnesses then here's the trick;take them out for a sumptous lunch and while they are at it administer blood transfusion to save the life of the dying patient.I stand to be corrected if I'm wrong. So who'll pay the bills? Besides, you'll be surprised that the blood recepient would be the one to sue you for transfusing blood without permission.  Those peeps are very funny. |
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Romance › Re: Ask The Last Poster A Romantic Question!!! by mideeniafe(f): 5:00pm On Jun 16, 2013 |
REALITY101: Can we have sex before first date? Nope |
Romance › Re: Ask The Last Poster A Romantic Question!!! by mideeniafe(f): 10:08pm On Jun 15, 2013 |
^^What's the most romantic thing a guy has ever said to you? |
Romance › Re: Are You Scared Of Marriage? by mideeniafe(f): 9:41pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
Nahhh!!! I'm actually looking forward to it. Dear God, please let me have a successful marriage and make me a faithful wife. Amen. @slide waxie......Haba! That's too harsh.  |
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Music/Radio › Re: What Can I Sing For Mtn Project Fame Auditioning? by mideeniafe(f): 9:03pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
[quote author=akinzy_akin]fabx bros!!...workn on it[/quote]Bros?  . I'm a lady.  |
Fashion › Re: Protect Your Skin With Sunblock Moisturisers by mideeniafe(f): 11:48am On Jun 14, 2013 |
Are you for real?  . I've always thought sunscreen was good enough. Thanks for the info. Now that you've recommended Neutrogena helioplex range sunblock, how much does it cost? |
Christianity Etc › Re: A Touching Story About Jehovah Witnesses And Blood Transfusion by mideeniafe(f): 11:21am On Jun 14, 2013 |
I heard a similar story some years back. The man (a Jehovah witness member) also refused to approve of blood transfusion for his wife who had lost a lot of blood during delivery saying that 'Jehovah would give her blood'. The woman gave up the ghost at the end.
It's not bad to have faith. Faith does wonders. That's true. But, what this people fail to understand is that God won't come down from heaven and help you do what you can do for yourself. Do what you're meant to do and leave the rest for God to handle. |
Music/Radio › Re: What Can I Sing For Mtn Project Fame Auditioning? by mideeniafe(f): 11:03am On Jun 14, 2013 |
Bruno Mars - When I Was Your Man or Robin Thicke - Lost without you or any nice song from Frank Ocean. It depends on your voice though. GOODLUCK!!!!  |
Romance › Re: Heartbreaking! Read Bollywood Actress Jiah Khan's Suicide Letter by mideeniafe(f): 10:43am On Jun 12, 2013 |
Disadvantages of falling in love with the wrong person.  This beautiful princess just wasted her life for nothing. #so sad# R.I.P |
Family › Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by mideeniafe(f): 10:15pm On May 30, 2013 |
Ihedinobi: Lol. No, I'm a man.  Lol....I know you're a man. There are male gyneacologists. With the way you explained the whole deflowering process to the OP, I thought you'd be one.  |
Family › Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by mideeniafe(f): 9:05pm On May 30, 2013 |
Ihedinobi: Ok, @op, I do get you and I'm really sorry you're having this experience. I wonder though, did you, like, chat with your mom, experienced sisters or aunts before coming online? It might have been better to do so unless they were unavailable or unable to help.
Um, I don't think you have any problems. I think what inhibitions you have now are natural to virgins. I don't think you're too afraid to have sexx for the first time, I think that the contraction that makes you too tight is normal to first-timers.
I don't know if you guys have tried this: slow and very gentle penetration. It's actually so slow that it's a while before you realize that he's inside you. It's a very little depth at a time and at each depth he does very slow thrusting motions waiting for your vagginal muscles to relax. As they do, he slowly increases depth of penetration.
Another way is to tease your muscles with a shallow penetration and as soon as they relax, he pushes in completely. But, believe me, that can hurt far more than you expect, and you should probably not try it the first few times you successfully have sexx. However, if and when you do, once he is in, he should pause and wait for your muscles to relax before thrusting slowly. Soon, the pain should turn into a lot more pleasure and a lot more lubrication.
The first way won't hurt as much as the second, it'll hurt a bit and then the pleasure will take over and then hurt a bit again after which the pleasure will take over and so on as he gently increases depth of penetration and continues to thrust slowly at each depth. The key though is that the depth is increased in stages and he must read the contractions and relaxations of your vagginal muscles as well as your facial expressions properly and ask you at all times when it is too painful. Whenever it is, he should pull back a bit and continue making back-and-forth motions at that depth until you're comfortable enough for him to go in deeper.
The second option is actually smarter because the first can bore the both of you. So, there should be a smart combination of the two in such a way that he surprises you when he pushes in fully. That way, the pain will be sharp and short.
Hope I've helped a bit. Let me know if you've already tried this or you want something in the above explained a bit more clearly. Are you a gyneacologist?  |
Celebrities › Re: Ini Edo With Jonathan And Her Husband (Pictures) by mideeniafe(f): 4:07pm On May 30, 2013 |
Ernest ejiro: honestly, is not hard to know dat u are a pervert. Or maybe because u grew up not having a father so therefore u are lacking in fatherly love and upbringing dat results in ur moral deficiency towards the elderly. Geez! How does this make me a pervert?  You're as senseless as all the comments you've made since you joined NL. |
Celebrities › Re: Ini Edo With Jonathan And Her Husband (Pictures) by mideeniafe(f): 9:45am On May 30, 2013 |
stankezzy: to call me a fool is to praise me,i am less than a fool.all my kindred to 4th generation will never be able to achieve what GEJ achieved. |
Celebrities › Re: Ini Edo With Jonathan And Her Husband (Pictures) by mideeniafe(f): 9:39am On May 30, 2013 |
[quote author=Itoroetti ]What does my father look like?a physically challenged slowpoke.[/quote] |
Celebrities › Re: Ini Edo With Jonathan And Her Husband (Pictures) by mideeniafe(f): 3:50pm On May 29, 2013 |
redbottles: You are such an hypocrite  Are you sure you know what the word hypocrite means? |
Celebrities › Re: Ini Edo With Jonathan And Her Husband (Pictures) by mideeniafe(f): 1:33pm On May 29, 2013 |
Benspoon: lwkm if na u d take pics wit am u 4 d smile 4rm pillar 2 post. .,.. Well.........  |